From talking to other red-pilled men on and off this site I have deduced that trying to be Alpha can stem massively from people pleasing. From my observations this is a major problem with TRP. People who have no self-confidence come here and design their self-improvement around winning the validation of women. This will always put them in a position of submission/betaness to the opposite sex no matter how far they push themselves in life. This is of course highly undesirable for men from both an evolutionary and historical standpoint.

By keeping women as the center subject it seems that a lot the beta males on here are simultaneously trying to obtain the very thing that they despise. The only purpose of such a lifestyle is hedonism and ego fulfillment. Such a life style would incredibly hollow and destructive to society. Does this all sound familiar?

All of the self-improvement on this site will indeed get women to have sex with formerly plugged-in men. However no amount of aesthetics and pick-up artistry will win them the genuine respect and honor of a strong male tribe or society. Hyper-focusing on aesthetics and game might be an effective mating strategy in today's safe world but such effeminate vanity would lead to murder or enslavement in a heavily male-dominated environment [See military, law-enforcement, prison, gangs, tribes].

I am extremely grateful for TRP's existence and everything that it has done for me but I strongly hope we aren't creating the very same narcissistic and socially unaware people that we seem to complain about so often.

Mods please have mercy, I mean to help and not harm.