I am becoming 20 in the next couple months,and all of my life I got laid due to my appearance. Pretty social guy, athletic as fuck,tall etc. But when it comes to gaming,I think I am pretty weak. Well the biggest problem is escalating .Having a hard time escalating the convo from casual to sexual. I find it pretty easy to open almost everyone and give a good impression, but the only cases I remember doing something, was once in a club while dancing with a girl I started touching her around and then we made up and had a ons. Besides that I don't remember any other circumstance that required anything else, except me being super bold and going in for the kiss. Actually could someone even escalate on a coffee date, or does this mostly happen at night/noon when you go with her for drinks/beer? I usually talk with her for interests and FORD, but in the end UNLESS I felt a vibe, I usually say ok cool to meet you and kiss goodbye. If I feel a vibe, then I go for the kiss later. Maybe I feel like my game is bad because I expect something else or have something else in my mind.