Met girl at bar, exchanged IG. Logistics only and Had date planned for upcoming weekend.

I did not speak to her after confirmation until the day of when I said, hey, here’s my number, see you at __ at 9

She replies “sounds good!”

(Her and I have not talked in person or any way besides minimal IG interaction this whole time)

730 I get a call, “hey omg I can’t believe this but <sup>lame</sup> excuse<sup>.</sup> Something came up but I wanted to call you and tell you and I hope this isn’t too offputting.”

She calls because she said that would be better than messaging me... but she offers no alternative date etc...

I mean she clearly had better plans come up and shelved me but why call, why not just text if she didn’t give a shit?