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| 1 | Why the Fuck Are You Still Playing Video Games?I do fine with women and I’m fucking jacked. I’m also in school and will make a decent living. I actually agree with a lot of what you just said, and that’s why it’s only a side hobby of mine. I still argue that it has some benefits but I agree that there isn’t much real world value to it. For me it’s how I stay social with some of my best friends who don’t live where I do. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why the Fuck Are You Still Playing Video Games?where failure is not punishing I’ll use CoD Zombies for an example. When you die, your game is over and you just wasted a bunch of time. If your goal is round 100 and you make it to 96 and it took you 14 hours, I’d consider that punishing. That would probably make a 14 y/o cry. you always win Warzone you almost never win. Unless you’re very good. Yes, you still rank up guns and get XP. the skill required in real life activities has no quantitative ceiling Really? Last time I checked every human … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Considering going atheistEver heard the parable about the foot steps in the sand? I’m not particularly into religion anymore but I was raised a catholic. Just because your life has “gone to shit” for one year doesn’t mean it won’t: make you more resilient work harder for success swallow your pride be grateful for everything you do have Life is hard. Nobody here disagrees with that. Believing in God isn’t just for people who have really successful lives. God has (arguably) gotten people through really hard times. Whether… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Having a quick first date (<1h) with flirt but not necessarily kiss or sex : does that make sense or not?You’re making this out to be a huge deal. You shouldn’t have to be this technical about planning dates, Jesus. Your planning out your life too much. You make sex such a step by step objective.. maybe just meet girls and see where it goes? Pretty simple. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Why the Fuck Are You Still Playing Video Games?There are many benefits to videogames if you play them in moderation. socializing/playing with friends developing and implementing strategies improved fine motor skills and reaction time improved problem solving skills stress relief Just to name a few. Am I saying you should spend 3+ hours a day gaming? Hell no. But in times like covid it’s a great outlet to spend time with your bros and compete a bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be in healthy and attractive shape at 40?You get ID’d but you don’t drink alcohol? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be in healthy and attractive shape at 40?Look at Layne Norton. He’s 37, probably strongest he’s ever been and fucking ripped. If you don’t know who he is, he held a squat WR in his weight class. Huge on the other two lifts as well. It’s all about creating a foundation for the future. It’s easier to build muscle and maintain it and testosterone than turn around from being overweight for years then all of a sudden at 40 decide you want to be ripped. Both are possible, one is more ideal and realistic. It comes down to lifestyle choices. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | New girl after breakup ghosted me after cant get hardThe dating game is brutal and unforgiving. My prolactin levels were through the roof because of a med which caused ED (out of my control) for a while. I gave up on meeting women because they all ghosted after I couldn’t dick them. Always remember how conditional their feelings for you are. Sort out your ED. Stop porn. Lift heavy. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 03:49 PM |
| 22 | Girl flaked on me 2 weeks ago now blaming me for not initiating.Ignore and next. She’s a disrespectful one. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you take a rest day after heavy legs?Do you squat and deadlift? You can work your quads one day and hamstrings the next. As far as squatting goes I wouldn’t squat more than twice a week, one day being heavy. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 05:12 PM |
| 4 | How to get better at come backs to insults?If it’s banter, laugh it off and throw something back their way. If it’s a serious attack on you you can... ignore and look unbothered agree and amplify in a serious voice “excuse me?!” | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I become emotionally independent?For me it was the trauma of a bad breakup. Ultra independence is a trauma response. But I think if you actually have abundance and spin 2-3 plates at one time you won’t become attached. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 2 | GF won’t do analMaybe she tried it one time and had a negative experience? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 6 | Soap operas?Just when I thought I had seen it all on AskTRP.. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with LTR andFun fact: after the first week your matches will drop off significantly. The best these apps will ever be for you are right now. In addition, the amount of girls who actually agree to meet up is much smaller. I had tinder, bumble, hinge all for over a year. Several hundred matches. Only met and closed on a few. And I texted for logistics. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 17 | What does a young womans ideal man look like?“What do women want?” “Who cares?” answers Roger Sterling, “Smoke Gets in Your Eyes”. He continues, “Jesus, you know what they want? Everything. Especially, if the other girls have it.” 1st episode of Mad Men | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Did our grandfathers know how to lay pipe?Work on glutes, not core. It’s all in the hips. Also the better cardiovascular shape you’re in the faster you finish.. so take that info and do with it what you must. As for your post, eh. We’re way less active now than men were in the past. We’re couch potatoes, our diet sucks, and our testosterone is lower. However, I agree that standards have changed. Girls can ride the Cock Carousel and quickly figure out who is worthwhile in bed, instead of being tied down quickly to one man her whole life.… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here hit rock bottom and recovered?The important thing to do here is stop having pity for yourself (not saying you do, but if you do). You’re not a victim. Maybe some of it is unlucky circumstances... but you’ve certainly made choices that put you here. But just like those choices you can make new ones to dig yourself out of this rut. You’re not rock bottom but you recognize a change has to be made if your life is going to improve. And that’s awesome! It starts with small steps. Do one thing at a time. Start with your addictions … | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Have yall watched 90 day fiance?It’s cringe and scripted. Sometimes I watch it for the laughs, but it’s certainly not something you’ll learn anything productive from about dating. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth the effort to create semi controlled environment for LTR?Netflix out, TV out, radio out, pop music out Are you not suggesting restrictions to what your girl can and can’t do? I have made zero attacks to your personality. I’m just trying to help you. Edit: if you used sentences it’d be easier to understand the question you’re trying to ask | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Getting deleted or blocked because I don't respond that much?I had a girl once complain that I didn’t snap her enough when I literally had a full time job and couldn’t be on my phone. You can’t please everybody. But in your case, maybe give a little more of a shit if you want to get laid? Obviously DGAF mentality is good but you took it to the extreme and it’s clearly a turn off | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth the effort to create semi controlled environment for LTR?Trying to change people is a bad mentality to have. If you’re looking for an LTR find one that already has redeeming qualities. I know rollo talks about training your woman but I don’t think that means cutting her off from the outside world. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth the effort to create semi controlled environment for LTR?Good freaking luck finding a girl who’s going to give all of that up for you. AWALT. Doesn’t matter how perfect you make your environment- she can still lose interest in you. This is kind of a pathetic thought, man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Veterans of TRP: Ever get reminded how much you still have to learn/practice?Tbh it took me quite a while to recognize shit tests. And responding timely and witty took some practice. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting approached by low quality womenJust to add to this: cross your arms | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 10:05 PM |
| 12 | LTR wants me to wear condomBro this is so dumb. She’s had to take plan B twice and has been taking pregnancy tests/had pregnancy scares. Ofc she’s going to want him to wear a condom. This has nothing to do with the possibility of her cheating. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 243 | Need help processing this. Why would she show me these videos? Was this some sort of tactic to win me over with sick humor?Hard next. Ratchet af | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 2 | How often you guys reply and how fast?What you should do is go for hours without responding but then when you do, be active and involved for 15-20 minutes. Then repeat- go another hour or two without contact. Make it look like you’re busy and have better things to do than text. But when you’re using your phone you’re responsive and quick. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Found out babymama is slutting around, what to do ?Can’t judge others for using tinder when you’re on it. Lol. As was said, she was a hoe, is a hoe, and always will be. Let it go | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Married (and LTR) guys, what is "too far" when it comes to other women?Most men here spin plates and think LTRs are for chumps. And maybe they’re right | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 9 | Married (and LTR) guys, what is "too far" when it comes to other women?This sub is amoral. TheRedPill is merely a toolbox. Use the knowledge you’ve learned here how you want. Ask your friends and family where they stand on morality. Not strangers on the internet validating your impulses to cheat. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | is there scientific evidence shittests are real? could they be just normal deterrents for physically "inferior" males?To put it simply, girls shit test to determine whether or not you’re an alpha or beta. A beta is reactionary and emotional. An alpha is stoic and doesn’t take it seriously. Would you want to fuck a crybaby emotional guy if you were a girl? Women mate with strong men, men with frame. If he can’t pass a shit test, how could he go to war or protect his woman? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 2 | is there scientific evidence shittests are real? could they be just normal deterrents for physically "inferior" males?This is deterring from your question of whether or not they exist. Your theory is pretty flawed, it’s not that simple. For example I fucked my girl several times with no shit tests. But as a woman gets comfortable she starts to. More and more. Doesn’t matter your status, resources, appearance. What you don’t realize is that the stronger your frame is, the less they’ll shit test you. They’ll test you once or twice, you’ll pass, then they’ll fuck off for a while. If you’re failing, they’ll bombard… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | is there scientific evidence shittests are real? could they be just normal deterrents for physically "inferior" males?You’ve been hanging around incels and what are you observing? I’ve read the entire sidebar and then some. I’ve been redpilled for 3 years and fucked 10 girls in that time. I’ve had 3 LTRs and all of them shit tested me. Agreeing and Amplifying is like second nature to me now. Believe me, shit tests are real. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | is there scientific evidence shittests are real? could they be just normal deterrents for physically "inferior" males?They’re used on all men. Not just physically unattractive men. Some girls do it more than others. Sometimes if they’re really attracted to you they won’t at all (at first). My easiest lays involved zero shit tests. With that being said, shit tests are used to determine if a man has strong frame. All women will test you at some point. They’re wired that way. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Guys from Eastern Europe, is cold approach harder for you due to cultural differences?Here’s a simple life philosophy: if you don’t like doing it, don’t. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | is there scientific evidence shittests are real? could they be just normal deterrents for physically "inferior" males?Shit tests are deterrents for inferior males... and yes they’re real. I’ve received tons. You probably have too, you just don’t recognize it and react emotionally | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Gf with low sex driveExperienced #2 myself. Don’t let it get to that. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it ever OK to belittle someone?I think when beta males get disrespectful it’s more than acceptable to put them in their place. Talking shit on a regular basis is pathetic and unhealthy though. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 12:43 AM |
| 7 | What do you think of the Ex red pill sub?Lmfao | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Post the main thing you learnt from TRP in one sentenceTake ownership of your life | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 2 | What RP activity impacted your life the most?Approaching/socializing with women. Going out of my comfort zone. Teasing girls I barely know. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Got into Harvard - want to reach out to my ex-LTR to re-igniteMan, you will find better women at Harvard. And hopefully you vet one who respects you. Women of your caliber. Stop thinking about all of the things you love about your ex and start thinking about all the reasons you broke up with her. Remember how she made you feel. Ask anyone here who went through the trash how things turned out for them. Girl returned to her typical behavior, and quickly. I diagnose oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Should you rub one off before a first date?If anything I would say try to workout/exercise/lift to get your heart rate up beforehand. It’ll improve your circulation and wake you up a bit. It always puts me in a good mood too. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What partner count do you consider to high for a relationship?There’s a clear linear regression. Highly associated. Most of the time women initiate divorce, but you have a point. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 13 | What partner count do you consider to high for a relationship?Look at divorce rates by sexual partners and you’ll have your answer. You want unreasonably low. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be a high value male if you're bald? I'm doubtful.Alright buddy, wallow in your self pity. Your life is so hard oh no I’m going bald!! It’s the end of my life I’ll never get puussss ccc!!!1 if you think being bald is so bad make up for it in different areas and girls will not give a fuck | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | someone can help me out it's urgentYou really showed her.., | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | During a group call, my girlfriend said she wanted to go to hawaii and this woman replied “so that you can get a break from him?”, with 10 people listening. Why did she do that? Shit testing me?She’s probably projecting her wishes to get away from her man. Or she was trying to just be funny but it was clearly rude and inappropriate. Should’ve AAed as mentioned previously | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR Reasons?Alright, agreed. Thanks for clarifying | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | LTR Reasons?This is not redpill advice at all. Women want commitment, and when you give them it right away it shows that you are low value. Vetting women takes time. You’d be surprised how differently women will act once they get comfortable. Now I agree you shouldn’t string them along if your goal is marriage. But I’m waiting a good 3 years at least before I propose. And having lived with the girl for 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible to be a high value male if you're bald? I'm doubtful.I know a bald bouncer who’s jacked, pulls chicks all of the time. Joe fucking Rogan, need I say more? There are some serious badasses who are bald. Focus on what you can change. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there is an agenda to emasculate men in the west?Did grizzly adams have a beard? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there is an agenda to emasculate men in the west?That’s a big question man. There’s definitely not one answer. It could be out of our own stupidity and ignorance. We pushed for women’s equality and now they’re demanding more. Give them an inch kind of deal. It could be because news sources only focus on extremes and follow narratives. It could be external forces like other countries pushing for our downfall (divided we fall). Just to name a few. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there is an agenda to emasculate men in the west?Feminism 3.0 do be working on that. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | My ltr brought her ex bf something for Valentine’s Day what do I do?it’s just gifts - I don’t know what else to tell you. Your head is too far up your ass for you to see that what she is doing is a deal breaker for any relationship. Valentine’s Day is a holiday for lovers. Not friends. Their exchange wasn’t friendly. If they haven’t been having sex, they will be soon. Time to move on. I’m trying to help you. She’s making a fool out of you. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | total loser(in my opinion, in need of advice)https://www.bodybuilding.com/content/weight-lifting-for-children-and-teens.html “No studies have ever been shown that lifting weights stunts or inhibits growth.” https://www.healthline.com/health/does-lifting-weights-stunt-growth#Why-do-people-believe-that-lifting-weights-stunts-growth? “The myth that kids will stop growing if they lift weights too young is not supported by any scientific evidence or research.” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17119361/ “Experimental resistance training programs … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 15 | Why is the flake rate so high when i talk about hooking up/fwb before meeting her for the first timeIf she knows you’re expecting her to put out, there’s a lot more pressure. You’re a complete stranger. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | My ltr brought her ex bf something for Valentine’s Day what do I do?How is it not cheating? It’s Valentine’s Day and they’re exchanging gifts. And I’m not just talking about the ones you know about. You seriously think it’s acceptable for her to buy things for her EX while you’re with her? You need to dump her it’s so freaking obvious | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | How would you reach out to a girl you know from awhile ago on a dating appYou do you. You know more context than I do. You did ask for advice tho... | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:26 AM |
| 3 | My ltr brought her ex bf something for Valentine’s Day what do I do?You caught her cheating. The end. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How would you reach out to a girl you know from awhile ago on a dating app“Hey how’ve you been” or “remember me?” Could backfire really bad if she forgot about you. Most girls pretend they don’t know you when it’s been that long. Approach like you would any girl you don’t know on a dating app | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend flake with a twistI wouldn’t ignore a call. That’s confrontation on her part which takes more guts than a text apology. If she starts talking about other stuff like nothing happened after you texted her that, then consider hanging up? That’s a tough one. Very situation based. Just try to ignore her until she makes plans to see you outright apologizes, explaining what she did wrong | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend flake with a twistGiven what you just told me, I would be pissed off too. The way you deal with that anger is what’s important. Don’t ask for an apology. Soft next. She’ll either respond to it by asking to hang out or actually apologizing. Wait it out. It could take days. You have to punish bad behavior, not ask for apologies. That way you’re correcting the behavior so it doesn’t happen again. She wasted your time, now it’s time for her to understand that she fucked up. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend flake with a twistI can’t believe I just read that whole thing. Let it go dude, you shouldn’t have gone after she said she was with her friends. And once you arrived and knew she wasn’t there you should’ve left and maybe soft nexted if you were so upset. Instead you acted like a beta, waited around for her, demanded apologies and threw a fit. You have no frame. She shouldn’t have kept telling you she was coming, so I understand why you feel disrespected. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | total loser(in my opinion, in need of advice)The strongest lifters started in their teens. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | total loser(in my opinion, in need of advice)15 is NOT too young to lift. Once you’re a teen you have the muscle mind connection for it. And highest testosterone you’ll ever have. I started lifting at 14ish for sports and I’m 5’11” and yeah your comment has been debunked. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Don't feel bad if you can't get a 9/10 super hot girlfriendNice question | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Anyone help me figure out where I might have gone wrong in this Tinder conversation? I know it's a dumb post, but I'll explain why I'm asking in the body text.LoooL you’re pathetic. I don’t need to prove to you that I’m not commenting on two accounts. Believe me, you are NOT worth that effort. Take constructive criticism and build from it instead of getting butthurt and trying to explain your rationale for every last thing you did in the conversation. You came here for advice and you got it. Swallow your pride and make a change instead of being disrespectful and disagreeing with information that is quite literally in the sidebar. You’re not even suppo… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How do I deal with jealous friends?In addition to what has already been said, what the hell does their word mean anyway? They’re losers and low life’s. Them talking shit shouldn’t mean anything to you because they haven’t found success like you have. With that being said, they’re still currently your friends so I can understand the frustration. You need to cut communication and stop giving them your time of day. Hard to be friends with people you can’t relate to. Don’t force it anymore. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Female friend attempted to be wing woman last night and embarrassed tf out of me. How should I have responded?My best wingman was my cousin (male) in a field party full of women he knew but I didn’t. Made out with a few girls within minutes of talking. Good times. Honestly have no idea what he said lmao | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Female friend attempted to be wing woman last night and embarrassed tf out of me. How should I have responded?This is sad and hilarious, but not surprising. Goes to show girls have no sexual strategy because they don’t need it! Dick comes easy when they want it. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 10 | What does a woman with feminine energy look like?High agreeableness submissive little to no shit tests gives you the puppy eyes | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 46 | Can you just be your own authentic self to get women? Or do you have to be alpha all the time?Being alpha is being authentic. You shouldn’t ever act alpha. Forcing it never works and people around you pick up on it. In social settings enjoy yourself, laugh, don’t take things too seriously, pass shit tests etc. You’re over complicating the idea of being alpha. Lead. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Having muscles, but still come across as a beta?Too many “jUsT bE cOnFiDeNt” vices in this thread. •be bold •develop frame - getting emotional gets you no where •don’t get triggered/offended, ever •ignore or make jokes out of disrespect (AA) •never second guess what you say •Know you’re steps ahead with RP knowledge •DARE | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to Tinder girl?Your window has likely come and gone | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Why society protect them hoes?Just be grateful you see through your own lens and not theirs. You see through their bullshit. It’s all about protecting and benefiting women to fuck freely and not worry about any repercussions. NEWSFLASH guys don’t want an alpha widow or a girl with 50 notches | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Should I tell her that "I won't be a second choice"...?Test drive before you buy... girls who make you wait are never worth it. Why? Idk ask ROLLO | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 0 | Which rollo tomassi book to read?“Just be yourself” wow you’re new here | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Which rollo tomassi book to read?The rational male is literally the sidebar. Gtfo | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 21 | "YoUr gUrL's nOt HoT brO!!!" --- Pick your PreferenceThe problem is your obvious contradiction. You told us what you like then immediately bash a different preference. Side note- people are allowed to think your preference of women suck. It’s clearly bothering you considering you wrote up this post. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | I get moody with plates / gf aroundWeak frame. Lift and focus on your mission. Not women. See what happens | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 07:32 PM |
| 13 | LTR says she wants a break and I suddenly lose all my friends over it. Feeling completely isolated and depressed.Goes to show you need abundance everywhere. Including friendships. Your only friends shouldn’t be your girlfriend’s friends. Also, those weren’t quality friends. So now is your opportunity to make new ones. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 12 | How long do you talk to a girl you know before asking her out?Not sure about someone you know, but a friend told me on tinder that you should ask a girl on a date within the first 7 messages. After that she loses interest or is probably talking to someone new. Text for logistics. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Messaging girls you don’t know on Facebook.That’s wild lmao | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Status is a huge and important factor in seduction, especially as a minority.You don’t need Instagram to get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/21 05:25 AM |
| 35 | Girl asked me to rate herYou made several mistakes. First being that you rated her. You should’ve shut that shit down. Can’t win with that. Your second mistake was DEERing. Backpedaling/backtracking trying to appease her. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | 22, never kissed/fucked a girl, want that to change ASAP before I graduate this summer. What should my plan be?Are you on a lifting program? Are you hitting the big 3 lifts? Are your bicep veins visible? Visible abs? Are you eating 1g/lb body weight in protein daily? What I’m getting at - how bad do you want it? How hard are you really working? Do you just go to the gym and hit whatever you feel like? Or do you hit the gym hard every day with a system and a mission then go home and eat healthy.... | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How do I grow my Instagram?I’ll try to give some advice though... follow everyone you know (at first, unfollow later) post things you’re good at post pictures with friends post fun and exciting things post traveling pics generally avoid shirtless selfies unless you’re really shredded avoid lifting vids people don’t care join clubs/orgs and NETWORK join a fraternity display value be funny/resourceful/inspiring | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I grow my Instagram?I don’t think your goal is realistic at all. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend likes asking me "What's on your mind"She probably just notices you’re quiet at times or maybe you look bothered by something. I guess I should ask, does it seem concerned when she asks? Or is it more of an open ended “let’s talk about whatever” | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | GF and I won't be able to have sex for 4-6 weeks. Advice on how to fill this gap of non-intimacy to keep the mutual attraction from dying down?People are quick to next here... but some questions to consider... -Can you find a good replacement in 4-6 weeks? -Will that replacement have a high sex drive like your current partner? -Can you do other sexual shit in the mean time? Oral... anal? IMO a month is not that long. But to some guys that’s several lays with multiple women. Hope whatever you decide is in your best interest. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 01:39 AM |
| 9 | Am I the only one who just wants one decent girlfriend?A man who is desired by many women but chooses one is admirable. TRP is here for you to understand female sexual strategy. It is amoral and aims at nothing more than your success with women. You can do whatever you want with this information but your post reeks of scarcity mindset. Do you want to be the guy she fucks on the first date or makes wait? I think if you jumped into a relationship right now you’d probably catch oneitis. Fucking many women increases your abundance and sex, as a result, … | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 32 | Am I the only one who just wants one decent girlfriend?You’re right. You’re like an alien compared to us guys who have actual experience with women. You’ve never experienced heartbreak, cheating, branch swinging, constant shit tests, actually boring vanilla sex, getting denied sex, the impact of real dread and how it improves your sex life, etc. You’re a virgin. That’s the reason you have all these sad sad feelings and ideas about sex and love. Your perfect fantasy about falling in love with one perfect girl forever is some blue pill fantasy. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 11:21 PM |
| 7 | Messaging girls you don’t know on Facebook.You need some serious social proof to pick chicks up from Facebook. I’m talking profile pic 150+ likes and great photogenic pictures all over your page. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Nofap and scarcity?Interesting.. I didn’t know that. Also you’re not looking at one video when you do it. You’re looking at at least a few before getting off and you scroll to the good parts every time. This makes getting off with a real girl much harder. I also believe you’re cucking yourself by watching a well endowed cock go to town on some hottie. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Becoming a dating coach as a side hustleAh, a glorified expert on women shortly after discovering TRP. One year of experience? Oh way more than enough. I’d pay up the ass to hear what this 17 y/o has to say. I bet he’s had tons of sex with many women! Swallow your pride dude. Nobody is going to pay you for advice. Even if it’s good red pill advice. This is one of those things that people have to find on their own. No one will trust your thoughts unless you’re regularly clapping 9s. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 20 | Nofap and scarcity?Nofap is an extreme, but so is beating it several times a day. Try masterbating (getting laid is better) 2 nights a week. Spread them out every 2-3 days. It keeps you energized and less desperate to get laid. I think it’s the perfect energy balance for the gym as well. Everyone is different, but don’t fall into the extremes IMO. Edit: if you’re going to masterbate, do it without porn. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 5 | What is your experience with a narcissistic women?Big oof. Do better Bette | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 6 | What is your experience with a narcissistic women?No he’s not. He posts almost every day about the same girl. There’s something seriously wrong with him. Pretty sure he’s on account number 10 at least | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 05:01 PM |
| 7 | I got left on delivered for 2 hoursMan, I wish I found TRP at 15. I think a good read for you would be “The Rational Male”. You have to learn a great deal to conceptualize how to behave with women. There’s a great deal of quality materials at your finger tips in the side bar. You shouldn’t need to be on AskTRP to find out every next move with a girl. Eventually it should come naturally. I’ll cut ya some slack cuz you’re young and new here. Best thing you can do is read what I suggested, go through the sidebar, and read top posts … | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 03:33 AM |
| 14 | I got left on delivered for 2 hoursYou sound petty and pathetic. All that resentment for a girl you haven’t even fucked. You have no frame. You get upset when she hasn’t responded in a few hours? Jesus dude how desperate are you for this girl’s attention? Do not voice your frustration. Read the sidebar. Stop overthinking shit like this which doesn’t matter. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 03:19 AM |
| 2 | GF texting some dude from across the country that she's never met or even seen a picture of. Should I do anything?So many guys coming here with their dishonest shady girlfriend behaviors and actually don’t know what to do. Take The Red Pill. Learn some self respect. Dump this bitch. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Can you get muscles with push ups only?I’m sure everyone around you appreciates the smell. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Can you get muscles with push ups only?Let me answer this in terms of my experience. At one point I could do 56 push-ups without stopping. Now this isn’t crazy but it’s better than most. I was doing push ups regularly. My chest and muscle mass overall was small. I was fairly strong but could improve. I started doing the compound movements. Squat, bench, deadlift. I perfected bench press form with retracted scapulas and shoulders back, mild arch. I put on size extremely quickly. I benched 3 days a week and my reps were never more than… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 12:00 AM |
| 24 | Girls blaming me for letting them walk awayPressure flip: “you’re the one who walked away... you tell me who doesn’t love the other person enough.” You could also say “it sounded like you made up your mind. I don’t want to be with someone who isn’t 100% in this.” This shows them your value and lack of desperation for them. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How do I become a male gold digger sexpat?“This will sound fucked up” Uuuuhhh... yep you got that right. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Will posting a girl on your IG story turn other females off?If you’re not a photographer and doing regular photoshoots it would be kinda weird. People would wonder. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Ltr flipped out I didn’t bring her a Valentine’s Day present last nightBest answer here ^ | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Ltr flipped out I didn’t bring her a Valentine’s Day present last night“Expectation is the root of all heartache.” - William Shakespeare | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Will posting a girl on your IG story turn other females off?Overt dread (this) is too much. They will think you’re dating and flake more than likely. Preselection is important but you look like a bitch posting pictures of/with a girl you aren’t even dating | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 3 | TRT in your 20s?Testosterone from a needle | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 11:29 PM |
| 7 | What are some manipulation tactics women use on men that we should always look out for?Can confirm she fucked me, Chad, on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | LegsLunges, Bulgarian split squats, goblet squats.. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Is it ok to ignore red flags if I want a girlfriend?Replace dog with girl you’re involved with | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 3 | What is a good advice to a friend who got dumped and seeks revenge.In addition to everything else said, tell him he’s making a fool out of himself. The best, and only, revenge in my mind is personal success. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 6 | How To Deal With CockblockAsk the girl to join you at “x”. Basically just ask her/tell her to get up and talk with you elsewhere. If she’s interested she will gladly join you. Completely avoid getting upset over the douche bag. Ignore his presence if you can. Don’t let him boss/push you around and make you look weak. Don’t be afraid to go nuclear and tell him to fuck off. I’ve given the cockblock scenario a great deal of thought. I had an opportunity with a highly desired girl which all was ruined by a guy purposefully c… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Discussion - What to tackle first as a 20 year old - sex life or wealth/business?Think about what you do during a week. The time that you waste playing videogames, on your phone, whatever it be... dedicate some of that time to working on yourself. I don’t know your exact situation but you should be socializing. You should be lifting. Go out of your comfort zone. You might just enjoy yourself. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Discussion - What to tackle first as a 20 year old - sex life or wealth/business?Don’t put all of your eggs in one basket. You need experience with women to be better with women. Start dating now. If you don’t become a millionaire (good chance you won’t) you’ll be full of regret in your love life. There’s no reason why you can’t spin a plate or two while building your wealth. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Upgraded plate to LTR yesterday and found out TODAY shes been lying about contact w/ her exHard next | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Upgraded plate to LTR yesterday and found out TODAY shes been lying about contact w/ her exNo brainer. It’s over dude. You can’t trust her. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How to bag girls who are genuinely smartWhy not a private chef? 100 MILLION?? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Lifting plateauThanks! Yeah I have good ab genetics so they pop a little bit. Definitely need to cut down to 12% to really see them | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Lifting plateauJeff Nippard has great programs. Most are under 50$. Programming is key to continuous progress. Also if you’re bodybuilding focused maybe consider doing the strength rep range for a while. It’s a common misconception that 3-5 reps don’t build muscle. It’s simply not true. It’s builds just as much muscle as the so called hypertrophy zone 8-12. (Science backed) I’ve always followed powerlifting programs while doing accessory movements to finish my workouts. Credentials: 405 squat 425 deadlift 285 … | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to fuck this girl?Will people find out? I would only worry about your reputation with other women. If you can be discrete about it then go for it | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Should I confront my LTR for cheating on me behind my back or just cut her out completely without a word?There’s a website that delivers piles of shit from exotic animals. I’d be hitting them up. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | LMR from GFThe cold hard truth is that, more likely than a power play, she was probably bored of sex with you. Your hamster is spinning. She no longer gets aroused at the thought of fucking you. This is exactly why TRP wants guys to spin plates. LTRs almost always end in sexless marriages. Genuine desire fades. Alpha fucks beta bucks | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | LMR from GFRed flag. It’s probably going to get worse. Especially given you’ve only been together for 4 months. At the end of my relationship with my ex I literally felt guilty for wanting to have sex. That’s not healthy or natural. Sex should not be a chore for her. If it continues to get worse just end it. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Has having lots of sex with lots of different women made you dumber?That could definitely impact your productivity and ability to think about more important things thoroughly. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 8 | Has having lots of sex with lots of different women made you dumber?Are you serious? IQ is something you’re born with. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Girl who I hungout with once texted me and said she started dating someone else, as to reason why we couldn’t hangout. Confused and hurt, what to do?You hung out once. Wupty do. You know how many failed dates I’ve had? Tons. Get out there. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and instead better yourself | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Break up sex?Keep current dynamic as long as possible. You hit the lottery | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 9 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends featureGood job on not mate guarding/seeming insecure. What she said could be true. She could also be lying and just telling you what you want to hear. This sub is notorious for responses like “demote” or “dump her”. I think this is worthy of a soft next. Don’t end things over something you can’t confirm (cheating). | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 08:05 PM |
| 10 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends featureI’m just curious if she’s trying to hide the fact that she’s in a relationship to talk to other guys. How long ago was the post with you in it? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 2 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends featureDoes she post couple pictures on her insta? Or is it all thirst traps? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 79 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends feature“I forgot to add you back” - riiiiiight... and my dick accidentally slipped and fell into some other girl’s vagina. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 6 | General consensus on cheating ?If you’re going to be miserable and guilty for doing it, simply don’t do it. Cheating on an LTR is shitty. Spinning plates is guilt free. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the most underrated thing that can help one ace a corporate job interview?Most people don’t overdo confidence in an interview, but yeah arrogance is not good | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 10 | [Serious] What is the most underrated thing that can help one ace a corporate job interview?Anything but nervous. Go in with an attitude like you’re more than qualified and they’ll be lucky to have you. Another place where abundance mentality is key. Shouldn’t be desperate for this one job. Should be qualified for many. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 02:33 AM |
| 2 | How to get a tinder girl to come to your house?You need high SMV to get girls to meet up from dating apps. Or be a lot less picky. There are guides in TRP forum. Just search “tinder”. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Was supposed to hangout with girl but she hasn’t been to school in a monthDon’t flatter yourself. It’s unlikely she hasn’t been at school because of her emotional trauma of breaking up with you. Her not being at school is a serious red flag. It probably means serious mental health issues. She is also your ex. Don’t go sifting through the trash. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Feasibility of a car date?If it’s not too cold, go for a walk. Gets the blood pumping. I think it promotes better conversation. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 01:49 AM |
| 8 | Beta bait?Breaks are not a healthy part of a relationship. Acknowledge this. When my ex asked for a break I immediately dumped her. Was yours really mutual? One of two things happen when you agree to meet up. She breaks up with you She decides it was a huge mistake Will your next fight cause another break? Will she fuck some other dude when she’s mad at you? Questions to ponder. Breaks aren’t healthy and I’m guessing you are operating under her frame. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Is 29 too late for a real change in dating life?It’s too late when you’re dead | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Clean or dirty bulkI misunderstood. Obviously you should “eat clean”. I was simply stating that you can still get fat while eating healthy food and he shouldn’t dirty bulk. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How do tall people with very small frames lift 300+ for squat and deadlift?Genetics play a role, especially at the elite level. More fast twitch muscle fibers and higher natural T. Focus on what you can control... following a training program hitting adequate volume / progressive overload solid nutritious diet sleep form That’s pretty much it. And how hard you’re willing to push yourself. An RPE 8 for an advanced lifter feels like a 10 for a noob. I for example put on muscle crazy fast, but my strength is a slow progress. My friend who squats 550 told me he’s jealous o… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How do tall people with very small frames lift 300+ for squat and deadlift?You should compete with those numbers | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Clean or dirty bulk“but most of it was fat” - all you need to know OP. Don’t stretch your stomach and raise your blood pressure to put on an extra pound or two of muscle. Eat at least .7g/lb body weight in protein. Gain on a reasonable surplus. It takes a considerable amount of time to put on lots of muscle naturally. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Rage and ageI suffer from bipolar disorder as well. I rarely have extreme mood swings. The things I do... Lift heavy ass weights Sleep on the same schedule: 8 hours every night Eat high protein, low sugar diet Take on responsibility Absolutely no alcohol or drugs Meds every day at the same time I have bipolar 1 which is typically a bit more manageable with meds than 2. Don’t let your mental illness stop you from finding success and developing frame. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Rage and ageGood post. Only thing is you have negative/positive reinforcement all wrong. Positive reinforcement does not mean something positive. It’s means adding a stimulus. Negative reinforcement is taking away a stimulus. So in your example, watching videos would actually be positive reinforcement. It sounds counterintuitive but that’s the way it is. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 3 | “Too early for date” shit test. Next or pass shit test ?Have some abundance and stop talking to her. Imagine the hoops she’ll make you jump through for sex!! | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Plate found out I’m seeing other girlsShow no guilt. Hide nothing. Invite her to hang again in a few days. You might be surprised what happens. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Ltr asked me why I didn’t fuck herNot wanting sex does NOT make you weak. If anything her hamster will spin and she’ll wonder if she’s good enough for you anymore. Or if you’re bored of her. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Maintaining 12% body fat is easy when you quit sugarMost professional bodybuilders actually decrease their protein intake and increase their carbs when they are cutting for competition. That way they have sufficient energy for their workout. That being said, they aren’t eating simple sugars. They’re eating oats, potatoes, rice, and veggies. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/21 04:03 PM |
| 4 | So we just let them ghost and come back whenever they want? Nah F thatIf she ghosts you and you hit her up again you look like you need her, more than if you just leave it be. That’s what you fail to understand. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How to break up with cluster B LTR of 7 weeks?This is much more intelligent than ghosting. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Effortlessness - Should I make it sound completely like I've never touched a gym etc?Being serious about the gym makes friends and enemies. The enemies you make are betas and not worth being friends with any way. Why would you be dishonest? You think it’s uncool to train hard and smart? You worked for your appearance. Be proud of yourself. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What bad habits did you give up?Alcohol. Not getting enough sleep and sleeping too much. Not eating enough meat and veggies. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 7 | Turning EX LTR to Plate7 | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 7 | Why would she call to flake instead of text?I think she actually felt guilty for flaking (wow that’s a first). Calling is better than texting. That being said she offered no time to reschedule so this one sounds like it’s over and finished. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Help with a unicorn.It takes more than 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Help with a unicorn.First of all you’re absolutely full of shit. 300? If you read the sidebar you’d understand that her wiring isn’t any different from every other girl. Alpha fucks and beta bucks. Maybe she lied about n count? Maybe she’s more selective so she’s had less partners? Maybe she doesn’t care when you ghost her because she’s not that interested or desperate for you. Or maybe she’s the one This doesn’t mean she won’t get bored of you and divorce rape the fuck out of you 10 years down the road. Everything… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with negative emotionsLift consistently Sleep 8 hours a night keeping circadian rhythm Eat at least 0.7g/lb of body weight in protein daily Meditate Put time aside for hobbies Minimize caffeine intake | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Help with a unicorn.Didn’t read. She’s not a unicorn. Stop putting girls on pedestals. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | PointHey man. I’m only 23, but I had a drinking problem for a while. I binge drank every weekend of college. It slowly developed into me drinking a little every day. A few beers every day then binge drinking 3 nights a week for about 3 months. It sucked. It became such a habit and I was in such a low place. It was like the only thing to lift up my spirits was the booze. I became quiet and antisocial until I had a few drinks. My memory got worse. It got to the point where so many negatives stacked aga… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to make your SMV appear as high as possible online.Well dressed and groomed. Bright white smile. Good looking friends, male and female. If we’re talking tinder - get your profile verified. There’s also no shame in doing a photo shoot. Just limit the shirtless pics. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 3 | 42M. Chatting w/F via Kik. She asked for pics. I didn't reply and now she's teasing me. How to respond?If she hasn’t seen your face it’s not a shit test... | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Should I ghost her?“We can date after covid” yeah I would ghost right there. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 01:54 AM |
| 5 | "Someone would be so lucky to have you"•Lift seriously, not casually. Follow a program.. build strength and size •Pass shit tests. You clearly don’t. •Tease the FUCK out of women. • Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take ownership. • “Girls would be lucky to have you.” Betabucks aka I’m not interested in you | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 5 | What is your favorite movie quote?Opening scene to “Pain and Gain”. Lifting motivation. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Can you use small youtube fame to pick up chicks?My past gf’s all thought it was cool that I had a small following on YouTube (2k) for a video game. It’s not something to bring up on the first date as a flex lmao. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 5 | What does TRP think of women who chop their hair off?You may as well ask us what color is the sky? You know the answer. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 11:29 PM |
| 16 | How to deal with female bullshit?Don’t let it bother you so much. Let it be a test to your frame. Ignore relentlessly. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | If you could impersonate a fictional character, who it would be?Don Draper | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Ex threatening to kill herself or visit my city unannounced *continued from previous posts*She hasn’t been your Gf for a while. Cut communication. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Ex threatening to kill herself or visit my city unannounced *continued from previous posts*The ego and selfishness of this bitch is infuriating. You dated her for 10 months and saw her two days because she couldn’t prioritize you? All of a sudden you have the power and she can’t stand that. It was a mistake ... well now you’ll learn not to do that girl. If I were you I would not answer any more calls or texts. Let her down slow and easy if you absolutely have to. I know police shouldn’t get involved but threatening suicide is seriously inappropriate. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Going out soberThere was no specific date where I was like wow I’m different! It took some time. Maybe 2-3 months? I quit because I was binge drinking 3 nights a week and would have a few the other 4. I quit right at the start of covid which was convenient. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 12 | Going out soberAlcohol used to be a crutch of mine. I’ve always been introverted and quiet. I thought alcohol brought me out of my shell. It got to the point where I needed it if I was going to be social. I am now 9 months sober. My social skills have never been better. I’m comfortable in my own skin and I truly know what it feels like to have frame. In conclusion, you do not need alcohol to have fun and enjoy yourself. Take some time away from it and you will quickly agree. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Is frame actually counterproductive long term?My frame ———-now > prior to RP; My relationships now > prior to RP | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Why is it so important to L I F T?I’m saving this. Damn. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 4 | how to smash this boring girl in my car rnIncredible. Why didn’t I think of that... | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | how to smash this boring girl in my car rnDon’t just whip out your dick. Wtf. Start with kissing jfc | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | how to smash this boring girl in my car rnAll of your resources are in the sidebar. There is no quick life hack to getting laid. You really think you’re going to get your answer in 5 minutes from some paragraph on Reddit? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Redpill cartoon characters.Yep. When you think about it, almost every father figure in cartoons is an absolute bafoon and doofus. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Potential LTRGood shit. Being disrespected sucks, but it sucks a lot worse when you don’t stand up for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | If you do not spend atleast half an hour to work out in a day, you deserve to be unfit and unattractive.It’s not. Look it up. Lifting weights is like 200-300cals an hour. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Potential LTRIf she reacts tell her how I feel Don’t tell her how you feel . Tell her what she did wrong and how she disrespects your wishes. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why tattoos are a red flag?Poor impulse control and long term planning. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 24 | If you do not spend atleast half an hour to work out in a day, you deserve to be unfit and unattractive.Sure, exercise is important. I’ve been a competitive powerlifter so I prioritize it more than most. But you can’t out exercise a bad diet. Losing weight is all about calories consumed. An hour at the gym is like 200 calories burned unless you’re doing cardio. Over the course of a day most people consume 3000 calories. See how little that 200 calories is? It’s all diet. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | I stopped liftingGoal setting, Noticing you look better (lost weight/put on muscle), Endorphins make you happy, Testosterone ⬆️ , Eating healthier, Sex drive ⬆️, Better sleep | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 14 | I lost my frame for one moment and it cost me big time. Don't lose your frame.Agreed. Probably nothing to do with frame | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | I keep getting friendzoned, what am I missing?Live and learn. You’re proactive so you’ll figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | I keep getting friendzoned, what am I missing?The “what are we?” Shit test is for girls. You don’t ask that. Especially on the first date. This is super basic stuff. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Gf broke up, will not let it go or honour no contact *Continuation of previous post*Gotcha. Yeah sounds about right. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Gf broke up, will not let it go or honour no contact *Continuation of previous post*Just out of curiosity, why not? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What was the catalyst in your life that made you Red Pilled?Red Knighted. A good friend of mine trickled in RP truths for me as my relationship of one year was dying. I was billy beta.. controlling and mateguarding. She had options. If I had more self respect I would’ve ended things sooner when she disrespected me and almost branch swung. My relationship failed textbook redpill. She stopped having sex with me and dried up. Started going out more and hanging out with me less. When I finally dumped her she forgot about me instantly. After dumping her my fr… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Plate rating my SMV in excel spreadsheetDrop her immediately. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Ending things with S/O because of her past relationshipFirst of all, you don’t know that he’s a scum bag. That’s other people’s opinions of him. You don’t know him. Second, your mindset is beta af. You are so bothered by your girlfriend’s past. If you had abundance it wouldn’t matter. Would you really not expect her to date a celebrity when she had the chance? Does that really make her a bad person? You also left out important details. Is she alpha widowed? How long did they date? How often does she bring him up? I think you’re insecure about the Ch… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 04:30 AM |
| 7 | RP Christian sub is full of Simps, I can't go there with the following questionsYou’re blaming Christianity for modern day norms which have nothing to do with religion. Christianity’s goal has always been to have women wait until marriage to have sex. No where in the Bible does it say she should follow her lust in her twenties and fuck 10 chads before settling down. Put your blame on human nature. Not religion. Also I’m not even religious. You’re just wrong. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Building muscle?Nw. It’s easy to forget that it’s another person on the other end of of a forum thread. Lol | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 12:22 PM |
| 56 | Did I do the right thing or did I overreact??What you know: She knew that what she was doing was wrong - and did it anyway. She was remorseful because she got caught. Not because it happened. I think you did the right thing. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Explicitly tell girl I’m not looking for a relationship? Or no?“I don’t date just anybody.” “I’m not sure what I’m looking for.” “Let’s take this one day at a time.” | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Am I the asshole for refusing exclusivity after my FWB went above and beyond taking care of me after nearly dying and going through a debilitating surgery recovery?Yeah I agree. If he gave better details it’d be easier to give an answer | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 3 | [22m] Please help boys! Should I end my LTR?When I went to college I was in a relationship. She followed me. She wasn’t very attractive and was my 1st gf, whatever. I noticed I was getting lots of attention from other girls. I broke up with her a month into school. I partied, hooked up with chicks... then hella upgraded to a hotter gf who lifts. I don’t regret what I did one bit. Will you score the same luck? Maybe... maybe not. I’ve fucked 10 great looking girls (not a crazy number, I know) and I am more confident and have a much stronge… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 10 | RP Christian sub is full of Simps, I can't go there with the following questionsDo you honestly think every Christian girl is getting her high value male? Simply put, monogamy benefits society because more men have women and are overall more satisfied with life and productive. Our society is increasingly moving away from this so less and less men are satisfied while a small minority of hyper successful men fuck tons of women. You’ve got it all wrong. Women settle in marriage. Christianity benefits the 80% (or more) of males who aren’t getting picked. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 12 | Am I the asshole for refusing exclusivity after my FWB went above and beyond taking care of me after nearly dying and going through a debilitating surgery recovery?If she’s LTR material in your eyes I think the safe and smart thing to do is start dating her now. Who knows if she’ll continue to help you with your recovery if you seem ungrateful and won’t make her your gf. That being said, do it on your terms. Don’t fall into her frame out of guilt that she’s helped you. But you may lose her if you don’t make things official. And it doesn’t sound like you have anyone else to help you. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 28 | Am I the asshole for refusing exclusivity after my FWB went above and beyond taking care of me after nearly dying and going through a debilitating surgery recovery?At the end of the day it’s your decision if you want to have an LTR or not. That’s incredible what she did for you. In my mind I’d LTR her in a heartbeat but man you do you and don’t feel guilty about whatever lifestyle you want to have. Keep in mind most women, especially a FWB, would bail in her shoes. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Building muscle?Posted | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Building muscle?You didn’t answer my question. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Building muscle?I will upload the video for you to see if you really want. High frequency is the way to go for strength training. My chest blew up when I went from benching 2 times to 3x a week | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Building muscle?Okay buddy, if you’re such an expert how often do you bench? And have you seen ANY progress? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Building muscle?I bench 3x a week and bench 315 @ 200lb body weight. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Building muscle?You can, but 160lbs at 6’3” your goal should be building muscle. You can only build so much muscle on a cut. And 1200 cals a day is for like a 4’11 old lady who isn’t active. You’re probably losing weight quickly and don’t have much energy to work out if you’re truly only eating that much. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 6 | Building muscle?1200 will not fuel your body. You should be trying to gain weight. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Building muscle?3 days a week isn’t enough. Make sure you’re doing progressive overload. Slowly increasing volume (weight x reps). Master your form on the 3 compound lifts. Squat twice a week, deadlift once a week, and bench 2-3 times per week. If you do this you WILL see results. Also track your macros. You should be eating 150-200g protein daily. Eggs, chicken, whey, ground beef. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Legitimate ways to get a more defined jaw line/cheekbones?Skinnyfat is not skinny. BF% has to be low. 12% or less and you will have a jawline | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?They’re prime for reproduction. They’re fertile. It’s in their genetic wiring to get fucked by the most alpha guy they can get their hands on. You should NEVER be upfront with a girl about wanting sex. It comes across as desperate and ruins the sexual tension. Read the sidebar please. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 3 | What is genuine desire?TRP would probably consider lust and desire as the same thing. How badly does she want to fuck you based on your game, looks, and status (in no particular order)? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | (UK) what are the best ways to improve my social skills?Sometimes the best way to learn is by doing. Practice. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time but couldn’t cumNormal. You have to get comfortable with sex. And not be drunk. Also, your brain is used to porn. It’s a bit of an adjustment. My first gf who I lost my virginity to I did not finish the first few times. Also consider that you may be tossing a hot dog down a hallway... | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 9 | How do we navigate this extremely political world, and how do you get women with extreme political views?A true creative genius. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 5 | How do we navigate this extremely political world, and how do you get women with extreme political views?I find that the higher value I am, the less they bother me about my political takes. I dated a girl with vastly different opinions on everything political. Politely agree to disagree and make sure if you’re going to state a belief you do a damn good job of rationalizing your thought. If you’re looking for a life partner (yack) they should have very similar values to you. Keep that in mind. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm a guy with a low-energy/depressive personality. Can I still be successful with women?Ah. I have bipolar disorder so I’ve experienced the spectrum. The worst is when you lack interest in doing literally everything. Nothing excites you. Best thing for depression/low energy is exercise. I weight train 5-6 days a week and go on long walks. I rarely feel depressed. High protein breakfasts are also known to help along with a very regular sleep schedule. Hope this is helpful! | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | I'm a guy with a low-energy/depressive personality. Can I still be successful with women?Depression is not attractive. It’s a large part of why people leave their spouse. Hard times do not make stronger relationships. With that being said- Unless you can’t get out of bed and do things or you’re having calls to the void, you’re not depressed. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 20 | Girlfriend asks me to go jerk off in the bathroom and take a video. Have any of you ever done this?She’ll be pulling out the strap on in no time | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 10 | Is it worth asking a plate about an orbiter?This. And you think she’ll give an honest answer if she is fucking him? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 04:35 AM |
| 12 | How to get over my gf's past?“the girl I love so much” Dude get a fucking grip. You haven’t even been with her for 3 months, let alone put your dick in her. You have a major case of oneitis. Read the sidebar or be a cuck forever. Your choice. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 4 | TinderHad a bad experience with a girl who I basically had to push out the door after I invited her straight over. Schedule a date. Meet somewhere public where you can leave, if need be. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 12 | If "nothing lasts forever" and "love" is just a temporary thing, then what's the point of pursuing relationships when it's all just illusion?Why bother living if you’re going to die anyway? That’s what your logic sounds like. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 09:34 PM |
| 4 | Girl I hooked up with lied about having a BF, why do I care so much?You’re disgusted because you can put yourself in the shoes of the other man in the picture. You feel disgusted that she would be in love with a different man (you) whom she hardly even knows. Welcome to TRP. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 7 | Turning oneitis into plateBasic sidebar shit. Abundance. Fuck other women. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Dont want to lose herScarcity right here folks. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | I act like a girlYour ancestors have been eating rice and potatoes for thousands of years. In fact, the people who live the longest consume 90% carbs. Do as you please, but every nutritionist I follow does not advocate for keto. Hey, if you think it works for you, by all means continue. You probably eat healthier than 80-90% of people by actually following a diet. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I act like a girl“Carbs are the enemy” is pseudo intellectual. Complex carbs are obviously the ideal carbs. Balanced macros above all else. .8-1.2g protein per pound of body weight daily. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | I act like a girlhttps://inbodyusa.com/blogs/inbodyblog/why-you-need-carbs-to-build-muscle/ | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I act like a girlLike what? Keto isn’t some magic shit that cures mental illness. I’ve read studies that say it increases remission times but there’s no cure for schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. And I’m telling you for a FACT you need carbohydrates to build muscle. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:26 PM |
| 0 | I act like a girlI have bipolar disorder and I tried keto. Made me depressed af. Even on meds. Low carbs is good. No carbs is stupid. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I act like a girlLack of carbs is not good for mental health, though I do agree eat meat and vegetables primarily. In addition, keto is good for maintaining muscle, not building it. Do some research and you’ll come to this same conclusion. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | 20M my girlfriend keeps disrespecting meI am literally doing everything I can to keep her happy Wrong mindset. Read the sidebar. And she’s not wearing revealing clothes to upset you. She’s in the process of branch swinging. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | What is the real reason ex hates me?I’m genuinely happy to hear that. The best revenge is personal success. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:37 AM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with using emojis like: 😍😘 ?First mistake: commenting on girls insta posts. Here’s an emoji for ya- 🤮 | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 5 | What is the real reason ex hates me?Every girl hates their ex and thinks about all of the things they didn’t like about them to get over them. Stop thinking about her. She’s gone. In the past. Get over her. I didn’t read your novel, and I doubt anyone in this sub will. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Why would she lie and make up other guys to make me jealousShe copied your behavior because it worked on her. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 05:50 AM |
| 14 | Chick hit me with the “we just started talking!”Next | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 05:47 AM |
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