Nofap and scarcity?

AnonChadThunder · 2021-02-17T17:15:53+00:00

Nofap is an extreme, but so is beating it several times a day. Try masterbating (getting laid is better) 2 nights a week. Spread them out every 2-3 days. It keeps you energized and less desperate to get laid. I think it’s the perfect energy balance for the gym as well. Everyone is different, but don’t fall into the extremes IMO.

Edit: if you’re going to masterbate, do it without porn.

Neo_Natal · 2021-02-17T18:25:41+00:00

Dude do you have other shit going on in your life? You sound obsessed with this Nofap bullshit. Like somehow not cumming is going to make you King, give you a castle, and a harem of ho’s.

Don’t you think there’s something wrong with this obsession? Yes having self control is a good quality to have. But I’d be willing to wager the source of your problem is you putting women on a pedestal. You’re thinking about girls too much because you overvalue them and undervalue yourself.

Your solution in life isn’t to strictly monitor your masturbation habits. Your solution is to look at yourself in a better perspective.

alikebabay · 2021-02-17T18:06:44+00:00

Nofap is a keystone of abundance. You have to master it and become truly free from desire for a woman. Then you will stop caring realy whether you have a girl at your disposal, have a date, etcetera. While getting rejected you would think: what did I do wrong and not: waaaa, Iam not getting sex.

Also superpowers. When I don't bust a nut, my mind becomes really witty. It is like: oh, you have to message this and that girl, swipe tinder some more, also there is a hottie walking down the street, go approach, also you need to go over there or get that picture for your tinder, insta. Nofap makes you hungry to work on your game.

Ofcourse you would get obsessed with a particular and what is important, unattainable woman. Rel abundance - other woman, helps a lot. But if you don't have that, try imagining having sex with her without touching your dick. Imagine the whole process beginning till the end. Emulate it in your brain. Then try to look at her with "post nut eyes". You were going to bust a nut anyways, why not try that? It works for me.

Most of sexual desire originates in the higher areas of brain because of our exposure to porn. To put it simply, imagine if your sexual desire was a bycicle. So our porn damaged brain builds a whole truck over it. So your real level of sexual desire is muuuch muuch lower than it really is. Ofcourse it is all a bro science, but naturally men do not think about sex so much in their daily lives, it is mostly a social conditioning.

bluewahle1900 · 2021-02-17T17:19:04+00:00

You aren’t alone. I have this same feeling and will not masterbate. But I think you and I are living a lie. For me I used to jerk off way to much and decided to go cold turkey. I convinced myself that now that I no longer jerk off im a better person and it will de clutter my mind from porn and constantly thinking about woman. I also had this fantasy thought process that people some how know I don’t jerk off and that makes them more attracted to me. In reality though... I think jerking off is a fantastic tool when used correctly and only when needed. That feeling of scarcity is only in my mind and I have to remind myself I really am living the abundance mindset even if I do masterbate

jdotw9 · 2021-02-17T17:53:29+00:00

i just masturbate on the weekends thats it, you can masturbate and still get girls

kabir_543 · 2021-02-17T16:52:55+00:00

I don't get it.....scarcity of what? What scarcity are u seeing

ethansight · 2021-02-17T21:07:28+00:00

I read this book that convinced me I don't enjoy PMO. Instead I was addicted to the massive dopamine flush that comes with a session. Worth your time to go over a few chapters.

MarryUglyGirls · 2021-02-18T07:09:23+00:00

Oh the dumbledore cult again, yeah you will be a wizard in no time without fapping. Wait until you reach day 1000 without sex and fapping, you will harness the power from the universe, until then warrior !

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ModsCantBanMe2020 · 2021-02-17T17:19:32+00:00

Don't you have fucking nofap subreddits where you can ask that shit? Why do you have to bring your weird ideology to a red pill forum? Nobody here cares about how often you choke your snake, dude.

New_Guard · 2021-02-17T23:20:38+00:00

I don't get you guys - this whole nofap sub-community is steeped in doublethink. "Master nofap to truly free yourself from women." "Once you master it, you become hungrier to game women."

My sexual desires are what they are. The woman or two I have in my life at any point satisfies my needs up to a certain point. Maybe their drives match mine and I'm truly satisfied. Usually my needs are more than theirs, in which case masturbating takes care of my excess needs so I'm not begging them for more and losing frame.

Yes, I could juggle 15 extra women so there's never a time I don't have 5 ready and waiting women at any given moment, but I have other things I value in life, and each plate, even if you don't see them that often, wastes a little of your energy that could be spent on better things.

But sure, enjoy fetishizing your ability to not touch your dick and imagining all of the physical superpowers it gives you.

RIchardjCranium · 2021-02-18T00:06:38+00:00

This whole NoFap thing is ridiculous. It's something your body is supposed to do. You might as well start NoPiss or NoSnot. I know you guys might find it hard to believe but a lot of guys go long periods of time between sexual encounters. What are you supposed to do just not ejaculate for 3 years?

throwaway8884204 · 2021-02-18T00:47:44+00:00

Check out the sub Semen Retention.

Ever since I started retaining, women have started approaching me. I can't explain it. The old traditions of all religions have been talking about retention. There is something to it.

Title	Nofap and scarcity?
Author	KoolAidmaan
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Date	February 17, 2021 4:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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