Had sex with a girl and we were making out a lot beforehand the next morning i saw a slight bump on my lip but didn’t think much of it. Now about 5 days later its clear its herpes and the cold sore is more visible now. So my question is how do i handle this am i supposed to let every girl know before we kiss that i have herpes? Does it really transfer that easy im just freaking out a little maybe overreacting but idk who is gonna do something with the guy thats got a herpes bump on his lip and i feel like its going to be awkward telling girls i got herpes so kiss me at your own risk lmao. And is there any basic rule of thumb thing i can do to reduce future breakouts, any advice is appreciated.