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Wow…she looks ready for an episode of Botched. Not a fan of this OLTR shit. IMO it’s a cop out when you can’t make your marriage work. Tighten up your game in your marriage and there shouldn’t be any need to open it. The grass isn’t greener elsewhere….just another body with another set of problems. If things are that bad, just split and start over.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 03:10 AM
12

FWIW, she’s only 10-15 years away from being a dried-up has-been that you won’t want to fuck. She already went through her ho phase. She’s not going to recreate it for you. She was ready for a provider and she settled on you. Instead of being a bitch about her past, you could just deal with it and make sure she is pleasing you now and don’t try to compete with her twenty something past. If she can’t please you, then say goodbye and move on to someone more compatible. I had women with whom I did …
/r/askMRP30/07/21 10:50 PM
70

Just don’t take them seriously. Don’t put them on a pedestal and use them to your advantage. If you are prepared to walk when they step out of line, it will be easier to deal with them.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 01:17 AM
1

You do you. If you don’t want that, don’t accept it. It’s not good if it makes you unhappy. Just be careful that you don’t end up with a slob....that’s worse.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:12 AM
6

IMO this is more of a compatibility thing. Personally, I can’t stand having dirty dishes linger. Why would you want to wake up to a sink full of shit in the morning? It wouldn’t bother me to have someone who wants to clean up….it’s better than having a slob as a LTR.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:49 AM
1

If I haven’t nutted long before 50 minutes, I am bored and tired. Have your fun and let her have her fun. Don’t make a big deal of her peeing.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:48 PM
26

LTR should be her idea, not yours. If she doesn’t bring it up, you should only continue to do what you’ve been doing.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:59 PM
4

Many lefties infiltrated the universities in the 1960s when Vietnam was raging and college deferments provided a way out. They promoted their own and wormed their way up the food chain. But make no mistake...the movement was accelerated by a bunch of cowards who didn’t want to get drafted.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:21 AM
8

My impression is that the guys do it for increasing their clout after the show ends. Not my cup of tea,but if it gives them more money and more ass afterwards, good for them.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 01:47 AM
1

They have a template. They bring on trashy women that validate their theories. It’s boring and predictable. Girls who do porn and have OnlyFans? Why do I care what they have to say? They are strictly for pump and dump.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:30 AM
5

If you just understand that all women are thots, then you won’t worry about their past. If they behave and please you when you are with them, then enjoy. When they stop behaving, cut them loose. Some of the best lays I’ve had came from women with experience. I don’t ask and I don’t care what they did before. Sometimes they volunteer it, but I don’t care. No STDs and that they are fun is all I care about.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:26 AM
1

You don’t need to bring anything other than your cock.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:55 PM
2

She doesn’t know that she was a plate and thinks you’re her boyfriend. What you do about it depends on what you want from her or for your life.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:51 PM
1

I had some guys who were dicks to me in high school try to buddy up years later after I leveled up. I was diplomatic but I still remembered how they were.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:25 PM
2

In a bar setting? Take the L and move on. If she was really attracted to you, she would have made it easy for you.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:06 AM
1

If you do have NPD, you might just be idealizing your ex now that she had enough and ended it. If she stayed or came back, there’s a good chance that you would fall back into the same pattern as before. Probably better for you to keep working on yourself for your next relationship, because you may never really appreciate the one you’re with until she leaves.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:25 PM
15

This is at work? Just don’t.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:16 AM
4

Married twice. I’m a slow learner. Don’t do it.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:09 AM
30

These guys are try-hards with blueballs. Don’t sweat them ever. They’re nothing. The worst thing you can do is let them get under your skin.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:07 AM
0

I was in your position once, but lucked out with a miscarriage. You have to be responsible for what comes out of you...not her. This is an amoral sub, but I had another scare with another partner and was dreading the possibility of an abortion. She ended up being in the clear and I stopped relying on the woman for BC....wrapped up every time after.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 01:03 AM
1

True...the dude lived with his father and would bring home randoms...after he banged them out, he’d send them to his father 🤪
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:33 PM
1

I know a guy your age who was doing that and giving the girls to his father when he was done. Kind of crazy, but he didn’t care at all.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:24 PM
1

I had a really attractive girl try to get me to join in...unprotected. No f’n way.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 10:02 PM
5

Yes. It’s disheartening at first but it will make you stronger in future relationships.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:05 AM
26

Just pull back and stop caring so much. If she’s interested in you, she will pursue. If not, she won’t and you can move on. Don’t beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 03:02 AM
3

You have strong facial features. Some girls will like, but others won’t. Your best bet is to work on your confidence and put everyone around you at ease. Be self-assured. Females will open up to you if you’re comfortable in your own skin and make them feel comfortable as well. Don’t be a try hard, or you’ll repel women. As was mentioned above, hit the gym and build your physique.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:39 AM
5

You’re a regular there...of course you will get smiles and friendly service. If you run into her off the clock somewhere else, you can better gauge her reaction to you. If you like eating there, I would game women elsewhere and not be labeled as the creepy guy who hits on the help.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 10:54 PM
1

What are they going to tell your family or friends? Fuck ‘em. Tell your family and friends that she’s just a crazy bitch and leave it at that. Don’t be fearful of any part of your life, as these females can sniff it out and exploit it.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 02:01 AM
6

I wouldn’t have a Bi GF....plate only. You could blow it all up or you could get lucky. Once you sleep with the friend, you can’t walk it back. Chances are it will come out. Most women can’t keep their mouths shut. But do you want to be a slave to your gf’s business leads forever?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:50 PM
8

Enjoy your hangover. I’m not interested in rescheduling.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 03:38 AM
15

Keep it in perspective....even the women who keep the weight off will hit the wall by 35-40. Don’t tie yourself down to a diminishing asset. Either wrinkles or fat will take them down. Women who struggle with weight will give up the fight once they have a baby...then you’ll have to find a way to be aroused by a fat-bellied chick who will never go back her shape at 21.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 02:48 AM
3

Because fapping to a hot female is easy and requires no effort. IRL, gaming attractive women is more difficult. If you are getting annoyed by their BS in order to get sex, maybe you need to look for hotter females IRL. Maybe your plates aren’t attractive enough for you.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 12:12 AM
2

There are many stories on the internet, and also from people I know, that became traders. What you are experiencing is no different than what they have gone through, because trading is high risk and requires constant attention. Many have become isolated and addicted to the risk-reward nature of trading. A huge number, if not most, small traders have blown up their accounts as they “pay the tuition” of learning and take foolish risks. Some bounce back and others abandon trading altogether. As lon…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:01 AM
3

Look...in the age of SM validation and OF, women feel free to whore it up. There is no shame any longer. They crave attention, even if it’s negative attention. Your best bet is to stop paying attention to someone like this.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:44 AM
3

The older you get, the less you will care. I have been with virgins, and it wasn’t so great. I have much more enjoyed women who knew what they were doing. Who they were with before isn’t my concern.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 11:29 PM
2

This sucks, but you will have more success when you really do not care about the outcome. You can play the push-pull game and not worry about the consequences. The problems come when you care about the outcome. She will sense your neediness and will back off.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:23 AM
2

Women live for the moment and don’t look ahead. Your opportunity was that night. She maybe would have flaked on you either way. You have to do what you want in the moment and not worry about tomorrow. If she flakes after you’ve done the deed, you got what you wanted. If you didn’t get what you wanted, you get left with blue balls and wondering what went wrong.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 03:17 AM
2

Keep telling yourself that.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:33 AM
1

Strike a balance between cardio and overall strength. Muscle mass is secondary. If you are fit and are stronger, the mass isn’t so important. Drop the fat, though. Size doesn’t mean much if you’re a fatty.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 02:26 AM
8

You’ve seen that women thrive on emotional turmoil. But the shit you did can get you thrown in jail. Sex like that can be intense, but relationships like this usually end badly. You should never argue with a woman, but maybe the sex session has you addicted to her drama.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 11:50 PM
1

I think that they are wearing out the hot, self-centered girls with OnlyFans accounts format in many of their shows....the girls’ responses and attitudes are predictable. I can take the shorter clips, but not the full-length broadcasts.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:19 PM
3

Weren’t you just on here last week asking about choosing between a LTR that you’re currently in and an arranged marriage forced by your parents?
/r/askTRP02/05/21 03:35 AM
3

Work on your self esteem so that you can get a woman later on your own merits. Use the escort for practice. You’ll need the experience.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:37 AM
3

You will live your life and have other women. As you gain more experience, you will look back on this and laugh at how you cared about stupid things. I realize that it’s important to you now, but you will see that this won’t matter to you at all in a few years.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:35 AM
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It sounds as if you’re still pretty young. Forget about her past. You aren’t going to marry her. Enjoy your time with her until it’s over and don’t worry about silly shit. When you are older, you will realize that you can’t worry about this now.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:12 AM
0

No...don’t waste the money. When I was a teen, I was about 6”. Now, I am at about 8” at full attention...I have no idea why or how it grew, but I found that there are enough women that are uncomfortable with that size and I can’t do full thrusts. Get good with what you have and don’t worry about your size.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 02:06 AM
2

Protect your assets from any female first. If your LTR knows about your money, she will try her best to seal the deal and get the bag. Remember that her great body will be not so great in a few years and you will want better.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:54 AM
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You will realize that you have mostly acquaintances and buddies, not real friends. You will move on with your life and make new acquaintances and a few friendships. You shared a common experience with the other college guys and you will have good memories. But life moves on and people move on.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:51 AM
8

Sounds as if she was using sex to pull you in.....mission accomplished and now she doesn’t need to bait you with sex. You fell into her frame.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:14 PM
5

I assume that you are young....fat gets fatter. You are getting her best right now.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:19 AM
6

No need to go to HR for this. Play it cool and if he propositions you, you can tell him that you’re straight. I’ve had gay guys hit on me and I learned to let it go. Much of my aversion used to be because I didn’t want to be labeled as gay. Now, I understand better and don’t worry about it. It isn’t a threat to my sexuality.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:38 PM
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They are texting multiple dudes and searching for their best option. They don’t necessarily get off on stringing you along, but it’s all part of their inflated egos. They keep you around as an option if their other options fall through. Move on from the flakes and understand that dating apps suck for guys.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 10:18 PM
1

If you want to see real examples of female nature, watch Kevin Samuels. Woman after woman goes on there and states her delusional standards for men. Kevin shuts them down like a boss.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:17 PM
2

Ok. You choices sounded like Indian culture....bad choices. I wouldn’t marry either one or you will be miserable in the long term.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:17 AM
2

Are you in India? If so, it seems that marriage is a very bad deal for men there. You cannot just choose neither option?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:14 AM
1

Education? Training for a skilled position? A desire to succeed? Your body will get you shit other than low-hanging fruit. Find a marketable skill and use it to your advantage. Have passion for what you do or you won’t have the drive to succeed. You won’t succeed in life without some hard work.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:08 AM
1

Wait...is the autism what you are describing as a mental illness, or is there something else? If it’s only autism, i would consider that differently than BPD or bipolar.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:43 AM
18

Agreed. Have enough self-confidence to say ok to the last day and just observe. If you don’t like what you see, cut her loose. Your indifference is your best leverage.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 12:39 AM
1

Looking at the work situation only, you are being stupid AF. You are willing to jeopardize your position and career for some strange? Keep work and play separate. You’re playing with fire and are naive if you think that you are secure in your employment with a credible sexual harassment complaint against you.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 12:53 AM
8

What on earth is happening to this sub?
/r/askTRP16/04/21 11:16 PM
2

Maybe you’re caught up in the thrill of the hunt and the validation when you get them. Let’s face it...most of them feel the same when you’re doing the deed and it’s a bit of a letdown. Maybe someone will show up who blows your socks off and maybe not. Eventually you will get to the age where the sex won’t be so important and you can focus on other things that will satisfy you.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:26 PM
8

Agreed. Too much BS. Meet at a public place and play 20 questions in person. You don’t want to? Bye.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 11:02 PM
19

I wouldn’t care how traditional your family is....go solo if there is nobody in your life worth bringing. You want to keep frame? Start by keeping frame with your family.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:38 PM
5

This cannot be real. You win the prize for the dumbest post I have ever read here. I lost brain cells just reading it.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:58 PM
6

The girls were no threat to her, so she talked to them. You and the other thirsty dudes wanted something from her and she wasn’t into it. Sometimes people just want to be left alone.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 02:45 AM
2

Nothing wrong with your looks. Just work on being comfortable in your own skin and being self-assured. Frame and self-confidence will do more for you than trimming your hair or beard.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:42 AM
3

If the sex was that important to her, she will circle back for more. If she doesn’t, you learned a good lesson. Good sex doesn’t trump a woman’s emotions...sounds like she is still hung up on her last FWB, meaning he was more than a FWB to her.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:57 AM
3

Unless she is motivated to lose weight, she will only get fatter. You can’t change her. If you can’t accept her appearance now and the fact that she will likely get heavier, the best thing for you is to leave without an ultimatum.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:35 AM
2

How old is she? Age usually adds more weight, so her appearance is likely to degrade more over time. IMO, you’ve encouraged and asked her enough and now it’s time for you to dip. It doesn’t have to be a fight. She just doesn’t want what you want.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:21 AM
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Unless it’s casual, her kids will always be an issue. They will be her priority and there may be a BD that’s in the picture. Losing interest is a natural, and probably smart, reaction to what is likely to be a shitty situation for you.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 11:02 AM
7

This has to be bette.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 01:40 AM
1

If you do it, keep your mouth shut. No guarantee that she will keep quiet.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:48 AM
7

Yes...it is centered around customer service. There is no money in customer service or retail. That’s why you are offered shit pay. You either have to go on the corporate sales or consultant side or find a business niche in which you can flourish. FWIW, my sons all bailed out of white collar shit corporate jobs after college and are working for electric utilities and are making 3x - 4x what you are being offered.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:22 AM
3

There is no upside to revealing that. Do you want to be seen as a provider? All she needs to know is that you’re secure in how you handle your finances and your life.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:25 AM
3

Online dating
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:11 AM
7

Are you looking for an explanation? Forget it. OLD has turned women into narcissists. Turn the page.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 01:07 AM
7

This. You can bet that she’s not thinking about this as much as you are.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:25 PM
1

I think about when the roles are reversed. I have been with women who were great lays but I dumped them anyway. Other things got on my nerves worse than the sex. I also dated a woman who was getting railed more by another guy than I was able to, yet she walked away from him. Good sex helps, but it’s no guarantee.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:32 AM
1

Not sure. He seems to be in the US. Isn’t Bette in Australia?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:23 AM
3

Just take the “L” and move on. She’s not worth the energy to figure out her female reasoning, Don’t try to invest in them.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:38 PM
7

If you really want to see how delusional women can be, watch Kevin Samuels. This will scare you away from the idea of a LTR with most women.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:52 PM
10

This person is a psychologist? It sounds as if she should be seeing one herself. How does she schedule seeing her patients? If she were motivated to meet, she would give you a date. I’d run away from this nut.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:39 AM
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If you are going to stick around despite her relationship patterns and insane brothers, IMO you shouldn’t commit to anything other than dating for at least another year. You have to give it time for the crazy and/or her hidden problems to appear.
/r/askMRP20/03/21 12:55 PM
25

Her past behavior is a good predictor of her future behavior. You didn’t say how long you have been seeing her. Everyone can look great despite the red flags for a few months. And you have some big red flags here.
/r/askMRP20/03/21 12:48 PM
1

Well, the LTR aspect really depends on what you want in life. There is no right or wrong answer there, only whether you want to be tied down by a relationship. Your focus will be divided between her and your personal goals in life. If you’re going in too many different directions at once, you may find it difficult to achieve more than a couple of your goals. I know too many who have had big dreams which went unfulfilled because they didn’t take charge of their lives. But getting into shape shoul…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:16 AM
-1

My point is that you need to change your mindset. Find a way to become independent and move forward. If you are out of shape, I bet you’re fat. If you played college-level athletics, then you should know the difference. I certainly did at a Big 10 school. If you don’t take charge of your life, you will be 40 and still spinning your wheels. You’re not 22 and just out of college anymore. You may not like the wake-up call, but potential means nothing if you aren’t willing to put in the work. How ma…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:35 AM
1

You are 30 years old and still live with your parents? Sorry, but you are a loser. Get off your ass and become an adult. You are not overly ambitious because you haven’t done shit. You are lucky that a girl from a wealthy family actually wants you. Stop making excuses and get your fat ass to a gym. I am a different generation I guess. I bought my first house at 24 and started a family. My 3 sons are 31, 28, and 26 and they all own multi family properties to supplement their incomes. If you are l…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:20 AM
2

If your looks are on point, you can type a nursery rhyme and the girls will respond. If they aren’t, you can be the next Shakespeare and get ghosted.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 09:27 PM
1

I just think that weed can make you lose your motivation...different than a glass of wine would. The gym will improve your body and help clear your mind. Add goals to your life that don’t involve women. Women should add to your life, not be the focus of your life. When you find other passions, you will naturally start to care less about women.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:10 PM
2

It has been a week. You need patience and time. I’m not a fan of weed, as I think it’s for pussies who cannot handle life. Get your shit together and stop worrying what a female thinks. If you are happy with your progress, nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:42 AM
1

Some of it is natural and some of it takes time. There are natural alphas who will take the lead and there is nothing you can do about it. Just keep your cool and your time will come. You cannot LARP this.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:35 AM
5

By not giving a fuck. If you’re unflappable, she’ll try to win you over. You can’t react to whatever she does. And you have to look for other women. You are hyperfocused on this one and it’s making you weak.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:40 PM
5

The answer is in your OP. When you held frame, you held the power. Once you slipped and got weak, she had the power. You should be indifferent to whatever she does....this is where you have power. You need to pull back emotionally because she’s got you now. You care too much.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:33 PM
1

IMO she’s not a plate if you’ve only fucked once. If she gave you a date to reschedule, then continue. If not, move on.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:16 AM
1

FWIW, one of my sons also sells real estate on the side and has been making a killing. He has been doing 2-3 closings per week for the last few months.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 01:13 AM
4

My three sons all graduated college and two have nearly finished their Master’s. All have left their white collar jobs and have become electrical linemen making at least twice what they were before. They are now buying multifamily properties and making all sorts of money. Most importantly, they enjoy what they do now. I wish they discovered this sooner, as it would have saved me 100k in college tuition.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 12:50 AM
10

Leave. Why are you tolerating this? Menopause will be the next excuse.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:44 PM
4

IMO it’s a minefield. They can start out “bi” before eventually deciding that they’re lesbian. I’ve been through it. I recommend someone who is satisfied with you and doesn’t need to explore.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:42 PM
1

I have had good bj’s and bad. Many women do not know how to do it right. I guarantee you that if you get one who knows what she’s doing, she will have your knees sagging within a few minutes. You probably have never had a good bj.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:23 AM
1

Just let it go and and continue to smash. Don’t be expecting Mother Teresa and don’t LTR.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:50 AM
6

This is the truth. You may have the best of intentions, but you can get pulled down more easily than you can pull them up.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:30 AM
14

It means that you should hit up her friend.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 05:54 PM
3

Do you really need to ask this? What the hell is your dignity worth?
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:52 AM
22

Keep your issues to yourself. I don’t understand why you would tell her. Anyway, you shouldn’t be fucking females at your work. It’s a recipe for trouble. Everyone thinks that they can handle it until they bust a nut and things go sideways. Just stay away from her and game girls you don’t work with.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:43 AM
1

What? No! If she’s being disagreeable or argumentative, you address the behavior. You never tell her to submit. And don’t give an ultimatum. Just say that you’re not cool with that. Then you just leave.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:43 PM
1

It’s not a demand...it’s merely a declaration. If she lets him walk, she wasn’t worth his trouble.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:19 PM
7

Divorce isn’t on the horizon unless she gets caught. She’s spinning a story to justify her fucking around. Her husband is probably home taking care of the kids while she’s out fucking around. Your choice but I’d ditch that bitch.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:12 PM
1

Why don’t you tell her to get in line or you’re kicking her ass to the curb? Then you walk. If she doesn’t submit and you stay, you’re cucked and she holds the control.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 11:04 PM
1

First, you need to give it time. Four days? Relax. However, you are getting a crash course on why it’s not a good idea to live together or get married. This can be a common trajectory of sex in many relationships. You can act out, beg, or otherwise be pathetic and you may get some obligatory sex. Maybe you are screwing up in other ways and her attraction level for you is dropping. Give it time and stay in your frame.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 12:41 PM
8

I don’t know that telling your friends is a good idea. If you really want no one to know, tell no one.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:34 PM
13

You have to show a little interest or they’ll think that you’re not interested. Being standoffish works if you are a top-tier Chad, but not for mere mortals.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:38 AM
26

I am 57 and in the best shape I’ve been in since my 20s. Hitting the gym hard is a must. Check my avatar...I’m not young but don’t look like an old man. My libido isn’t what it was 30 years ago, but I have help if I need it to go 2 hours...that’s enough for me and there is no shame in keeping something handy to perform...it’s mostly to shorten refractory time. I have been dating a 27 year old for 3 years....part of it is stability, resources and maturity. TBH, I wouldn’t normally seek out someon…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:33 AM
12

Maybe get tested to see if it’s HSV1 or HSV2. HSV1 is very common and the initial breakout tends to be the worst. Typical cold sores. HSV2 is the genital variety that you should disclose.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:11 AM
16

We all have low points in life. Character is built on the decisions you now make. Do the opposite of what you wrote above...get off porn, go monk mode, hit the gym hard, and finish your Master’s. It’s hard work, but you will be much happier in life with some accomplishments. There is no such thing as being content. If you aren’t moving forward, you’re sliding backwards.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 12:38 AM
3

You have to look at the context of his topic. If you lose a woman’s respect and she walks, but later wants back in, you set the return price. If she declines, you haven’t lost a thing. If she accepts, you have strengthened your position and get what you want. This is a matter of having an abundance mindset with some self respect and making her comply. If you continue to be a weak bitch with her, it won’t work.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:35 PM
1

I don’t carry much because I trust my eyes and ears to watch for trouble. In my second career, I have to go into low income, high crime areas, including some rough housing projects. I plan when and how I will go in and leave, and keep aware of who’s around when I do. Sometimes, having a gun will help. Most of the time, you can do ok with some common sense and awareness.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 04:18 AM
2

Your example is a double-edged sword. You may keep from being punched by showing a weapon, but you can find yourself in jail for threatening someone with the weapon. It is always better to deescalate by talking or removing yourself from the situation than brandishing a firearm. In a fight, someone can forcibly take it from you and shoot or just run off with it. State laws vary, and prosecutors vary. Look at the couple in St. Louis who had been charged after brandishing weapons to protect their h…
/r/askTRP25/02/21 03:18 AM
4

Before you buy, go get some training and learn to shoot. You can get a chance to shoot different calibers and makes of pistols. They all feel and operate a little differently. You do not want to be carrying a firearm if you aren’t proficient with the handling, drawing, and firing it. Don’t half-ass this step. Also, you always must be cognizant of your backstop before you fire. Who or what is behind what you are trying to shoot? If you hit an innocent bystander, you could wind up in jail. FWIW I …
/r/askTRP25/02/21 02:42 AM
1

The other Slavic languages would be fairly easy for you to pick up. IMO the idea is to pair your language ability with another skill so that you would be more than an interpreter, guide, or teacher. Companies that do business in the countries that speak these languages would be logical, provided you can bring more to the table. I studied Russian, Italian, Spanish, French, Latin, and German. The Romance languages are similar to one another, while I found German to be quite a bit different.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:00 PM
5

You sound like Morrie in Goodfellas. He wanted his money also. He didn’t get it.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:36 AM
5

I speak Italian, Spanish, Russian, and so-so French. I was a language major in college. She could get a female to partner up on the languages.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:35 PM
1

My face gets too gaunt when I get my abs really chiseled. I prefer to be a little heavier with some abs than to have them pop but the rest of me is too skinny.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 02:52 PM
6

He just won’t give up. Bette male.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 01:00 PM
2

Duolingo is a thing. Perhaps she should have downloaded it if she wanted to learn Spanish.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:29 PM
2

I think so, although I replied. Keeps coming back. Again. So many alts.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 03:24 AM
3

Yeah....you’ll have post-nut clarity and wish that you didn’t do it. If you keep it friendly, you can leave her on the back burner. She may be an option after you leave the job, especially if she can’t get you. But now, you’ll be much happier with yourself if you just give it a pass and don’t try to smash.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 02:44 AM
2

There’s no fixing them. You need to be strong enough to walk away.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 02:25 AM
18

Sounds like she may have BPD....the push-pull is like a drug and how they hook you. Best to ghost, block, and move on.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 01:06 AM
3

She is low quality. Low quality! Get the hell out of there. Single mom and texting past (?) fucks....how many more red flags do you need? The Jerry Springer Show has ended. Otherwise, you would be lining up for an appearance.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 11:08 PM
3

Typically, whatever sex you’re getting now will decrease as time goes on in a marriage. I know that there exceptions, but someone who isn’t really DTF whenever you want now won’t magically start doing so when you’re married to her.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:05 PM
2

If they’re Cluster B, run. They don’t get better. I realize that nowadays there seems to be more of them than ever.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 09:01 PM
4

There are people whose religion is politics and there is no reasoning with them. I wouldn’t bother telling the boss. If he tries to deal with the activists, they will likely go over his head to complain and get your boss in trouble. It’s best to keep your mouth shut and don’t rock the boat. With the current cancel culture, you could find yourself out of work for purely political reasons. It’s not being weak....it is being smart. Flaming out by yourself won’t accomplish anything other than making…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 12:36 PM
1

As a scientist, if you can create and patent something useful, you can make really good money. I know a few people who have done this and made millions.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:07 PM
1

No....get in the right mindset. A LTR is there to benefit you. Your value will benefit her by being yourself, so just keep improving and increasing your value. You can’t worry about making her happy. She will be happy with you as a high value man. If not, you don’t need or want her.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:13 AM
11

Start sharing your emotions with them....then you will experience what comes after spinning plates, because you probably won’t have any more plates.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 01:04 AM
13

No. If you are happy and can see women on your terms when you want, there is no need for a LTR. The idea of a LTR is usually better than the reality of a LTR.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:35 AM
2

You have plenty of time. Don’t worry too much. Your equipment will work when you want. If it doesn’t, it’s usually due to nerves.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:04 AM
30

They are banking everything on their appearance now. They are not thinking that their looks will fade and their options will be limited. There are so many narcissists in this generation that they will never acknowledge that they squandered their opportunities. You will see lots of fat, wrinkly women with too many tats who are angry at the world.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:44 AM
3

Did you not say that you can barely get hard if you watch porn? Quit being a dumbass and just let things happen. FYI I am 57 and have kids as old as 31. I have been around the block. Your libido is all in your head, and porn messes with your head. Just enjoy these girls and let everything flow naturally.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:33 AM
2

There is good advice here. Improve yourself to the best you can be, then be comfortable in your own skin. Work out hard and get strong. Your confidence will grow. The right people will be attracted to you. Don’t feel sorry for yourself...that dries up pussy quickly.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:29 AM
6

Stop watching porn. It will mess you up with real life girls. Some guys get away with doing it, but many can’t.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:13 AM
2

I don’t care how hot they are. If you put them on a pedestal, you will fail. Just be yourself and let it happen. Like another poster said, look at her mother...this hotness is short-lived. The wall is looming and you are investing in a diminishing asset.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 11:48 PM
1

For her to be LTR material, you should have already vetted her for these things. Assuming that she wasn’t doing these things before you promoted her, what did you do to cause the change in behavior? Either you have shown weakness or you agreed to LTR prematurely. If you need to worry about this in a LTR, you’ve already lost and need to move on to a woman who will treat you with respect. A woman with high interest in you will not do this. You shouldn’t be in a LTR with someone who doesn’t have hi…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:37 PM
7

Therapy? Already has a kid? Low self-esteem? How many red flags do you need?
/r/askTRP24/01/21 01:21 PM
1

If the roles were reversed, do you think she wouldn’t hook up with some guys? If you decide to hook up, don’t be stupid. And make sure that none of these girls is the crazy type who will blow up your SM if things don’t go the way they want.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 01:24 PM
7

Ignore it. They’re jealous. I saw your pics. You look good...natural and not on gear. They just wish that they could gain like you. The worst thing you can is let them get under your skin, so just be cool with the haters and the fanboys.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:58 AM
1

Go watch AMS on Levels of Attraction. BJs are higher on the attraction scale than sex. Simple answer.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:15 PM
0

With the cougars, they flat-out lie about their age. I have seen some old bags on there who claimed that they were late 40s but looked in their 60s. I know that the wall can be harsh, but some of these women are delusional.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 12:45 AM
2

Only Fans = Flash Gash for Cash There is no more stigma for being a whore, so they are taking the easiest and laziest way to make money. And many simps are too lazy or socially awkward to get out and meet women IRL, so they pay for material with which to beat their meat.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 01:08 PM
4

It’s fucking ridiculous. Thirsty young guys are chasing low-value narcissists.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 12:11 AM
25

You are conditioning your brain to what is a quick dopamine hit...not good for IRL sex. It’s like anything else that become addictive....you will think you’re ok until you’re not. Try to stay away from porn and get your thrills from real women.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 02:28 AM
2

Why play these stupid games? If she’s into you, she’ll chase. If you make an offer and she declines, either she’s busy or not interested. You make her an offer and move on. Worrying about being left on read isn’t going to make a difference. You’re talking about low interest women who are usually a waste of time.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 01:39 AM
1

Why even have the talk if she isn’t bringing it up? I’ve been married twice and the subject of a LTR never came up...it just happened. We just saw each other. Marriage talk came later, both times from the women.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:03 PM
3

You are 19. You aren’t ready to be locked down yet. The relationship wasn’t working for you, so it was time to move on. But you will do both of you a favor by not communicating with him anymore. It’s not your job to fix him. He’s your ex. What you want now at 19 probably won’t be what you want at 25, hence the reason for not getting locked down into a LTR.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:29 AM
98

I’m sorry for your loss. No son should ever have to experience something like that. A few months is not enough time. It will likely take you years to heal from the trauma and loss, and the hurt won’t ever completely go away. But you learn to live with it. Don’t run away from the grief. You have to experience it and go through it all to move forward. Life isn’t fair and can deal you some bad shit. But when it’s time, you must move forward and strive to improve yourself. Make your Dad proud.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:23 AM
13

Just take your time and don’t do anything stupid because you can’t deal with her n-count. There is no rush for you to have kids, so don’t let that mess with your mind. Disney princesses are a myth. Be her Chad and keep her in line. Being worried about past guys isn’t worth your time. Just watch how it goes. I have been married twice to low n-count women, and the n-count didn’t mean a thing when it came time to split. FWIW, i have 4 kids...3 are your age or older. I would advise that you just slo…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:00 PM
20

How long has this been an LTR? Personally, I don’t ask or care about a woman’s n-count. I just observe her behavior. But you want kids? You are rolling the dice regardless of n-count. If a woman decides she wants out after you have kids, you’re screwed. Everyone wants a beautiful girl who’s a saint. Good luck with that. It’s one reason that an LTR isn’t advisable. It’s a minefield and the odds are stacked against you if you decide to get married.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:33 PM
1

Fuck? Yes, but guys don’t want them for a LTR.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:35 PM
7

You were probably a little too eager with her on the date. She may have flaked on you no matter how you acted. Don’t get so invested early on and it won’t bother you as much when they do what they do.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 04:03 AM
4

No. You get her best in the beginning, then it fades. You can care, but don’t go overboard. That’s what gets guys in trouble. All women face the wall.....once they’re into their 30s, their best years are behind them. Hundreds of thirsty dudes may want them in their late teens and 20s, but that fades away. No matter how hot they are now, they will go downhill faster than a man who takes care of himself.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 03:24 AM
2

If she denies something that she did right in front of you, she will never admit to falling on another guy’s cock when you’re not around. To me, it’s not so much the flashing but the denial. Some say dump, but you could demote to FB and look for replacements.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 08:27 PM
2

No. Plumbing, electrician, etc. Maybe get into a lineman apprentice program and get a job with an electric utility. Good pay and benefits.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:18 PM
5

Your parents should not be depending on you for income. You are 23....are they even 50? If they’re disabled, they should seeking other assistance. If they are able-bodied, they need to step up. You are trapped in a bad situation and it won’t change until you do something about it. The quickest way out is to join the military. It will get you out of the house and you can get some training and discipline. Learning a trade is good but you will still be with your parents and will need time to take c…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 02:02 PM
5

Don’t try to hook up with the females.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 01:37 AM
1

You lost her interest and she’s moved onto greener pastures. Let your ego heal and forget her. You had a good time for a month and it ended. It hurt worse the second time around. You don’t want a third time. She will do it to you again and you will be worse off. Toughen up and don’t let any woman get to you like that again.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 07:52 PM
15

No good deed goes unpunished. Tread carefully. If it isn’t your business, stay out of it.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 07:34 PM
2

You overreacted. Take it in stride. Now you know how she feels about you.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:41 AM
5

Exercise hard....good for the body and mind. Learn another language or a musical instrument. Most of all, be grateful that she broke up with you before getting married. She was the wrong one for you.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 02:56 PM
5

There are plenty of cop groupies. But being a cop now sucks for other reasons.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:30 PM
3

Like a dog who craps on the rug every day.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:27 PM
1

Woman can sense your thirst. That’s a big turnoff. As others have said, get busy improving yourself and find a purpose for your life...not women as your purpose. If you aren’t moving forward, you’re sliding backwards. When you don’t care about pussy and just let it happen, you will be relaxed and have some success. You’re 23 and have your whole life ahead of you. Your pension is a good base, but it isn’t enough money to live a high value life. In 10 years, 50k + COLA will have even less buying p…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 01:24 PM
1

Maybe she needs to do more...more movement, different angle. Maybe you’re not super attracted to her. I have had one that I was able bust one time, but then I’d go for another hour and get fucking tired. It may sound fun, but it becomes more of a workout trying to finish. I don’t have time anymore for sex marathons. What if she sucks you off so you can finish? If she is someone who actually knows how to give a BJ, you switch to that.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 02:45 AM
7

I see u/betteclaussen is back with yet another alt. Keeps posting the same question day after day looking for attention, not solutions.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:20 AM
1

I don’t know anyone who has one, but I suppose that it isn’t something that gets talked about.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:40 PM
1

Try lying in bed next to a woman that you married and feeling like you’re in prison. No matter who you’re with, eventually you’ll get tired of her shit. The honeymoon period of a new relationship is the best you will get out of a female. Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking that being alone is a bad thing. Find companionship when you need it and retreat to your safe haven when you’ve had enough.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 12:47 AM
4

Holy shit. Like Old Faithful...keeps bubbling up.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:40 AM
31

You really should have a TL;DR. It’s a bit much to take in at once.
/r/askMRP27/12/20 02:37 AM
3

AMS was savage AF in those early videos. He was spitting cold facts.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:58 AM
8

She is stringing you along. I wouldn’t bother trying to schedule anything with her. She had three chances.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:44 AM
11

Three times? Cut her off. She doesn’t want you and you need to accept it. She is wasting your time. Perfect example of why you need to watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP26/12/20 12:25 AM
14

I don’t ask about n-counts and I don’t care. As long she’s clean. I watch behavior. High n-counts for females usually mean other emotional problems which will come out sooner or later. You just have to be ready to cut it off if she’s not benefiting you.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 02:16 PM
1

Are you just trolling this sub? People are trying to help here but I don’t think you’re looking for help.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:24 PM
1

You can develop your frame and personality. Become the guy that people can respect and appreciate. Don’t lead with your wallet. Lift, dress well, and carry yourself well. Showing off wealth will only attract the worst kind of person.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:19 PM
7

You lowered your SMV by getting fat. Because of this, women aren’t attracted to you. Don’t blame women for this. This is on you.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:53 PM
5

Your first paragraph made it obvious that there was another dick in the picture. You can’t help that, but you made a mistake by taking her out to dinner after her branch swing failed.....also by telling her that she did nothing wrong. Don’t be giving her comfort. It was her choice and she fucked up. You should have invited her to come over and hang out at your place. Don’t invest in her because she will do it to you again.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 05:44 PM
3

If your gf misses you enough, she’ll reach out. If she drifts away, you know that she lost interest. Start filling your bench with prospects.
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:46 AM
3

Be good looking in your photos. That is all.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 04:04 AM
8

WTF
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:41 AM
3

Hahahahaha this is absolutely crazy. Melbourne, hide your hoes!
/r/askTRP16/12/20 12:35 AM
9

Does anyone wonder why women are afraid of potential stalkers? Most incels cry and complain about their lack of success with women; others resign themselves to beating their meat to porn. And then there are a small number who become obsessed and cannot move on.....maybe posting pathetic threads every day looking for answers that can only come from a mental health facility.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 12:47 PM
5

Freaking sub polluter.....multiple times a day. Same shit, yet people are drawn in to try and help. There’s no helping this.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:18 AM
3

How many times have you read here not to stick your dick in crazy? Yet you still want to. Set your sights higher than acting like a soyboy to get some nasty, angry SJW.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:35 PM
1

It looks as if your turn is over and her interest is gone. Try to DGAF and let her go. IMO you are thinking about her way too much. Focus on other women and chalk her up to the past.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 03:12 PM
4

+1. This dude has polluted this sub with pathetic threads that are fixated on whores. E.g. “She’s a whore, but I love her.” “I can’t get over my ex who is a whore.” Same shit, over and over and over.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 01:08 PM
1

No problem. You realize that you need to do something about it, so that’s good. Many live in denial for years.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:44 AM
1

Alcohol has a way of sneaking up on you until you are nearly powerless to stop. This is the time that you should be improving yourself and building your future. Drinking will not help you get there. You may get drunken low quality pussy now, but you are not increasing your SMV nor are you setting yourself up for future success. You don’t want to hit rock bottom before quitting, but many alcoholics do just that. If you are spending half of a week recovering from your weekend binges, then you’ve g…
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:37 AM
9

Yeah, you don’t want someone who uses sex to get a commitment, money, or other things out of you. That probably covers most women, because so many try to seal the deal with sex and then slack off.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:55 PM
3

Why do you keep posting this BS? Aren’t you the one who was crying just a few days ago about your ho GF who dumped you and you can’t get over? You are wasting everyone’s time with this drivel.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 12:38 PM
18

She shoots you down and then you will deal with awkward entrances from then on. Game elsewhere.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:22 PM
2

No, you won’t be a jerk. It is better that you be honest with yourself and your fiancée now than standing at the altar to marry a woman that you are settling for. My brother did that and now has two kids....he is miserable and trapped with a wife who is chronically sick. Sex life is non-existent for him. You can have kids even 10 or more years from now. Keep yourself in shape and you will have the energy for kids even if you are older.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:33 PM
6

Well, you have to weigh all of the pros and cons. The fact that you have significant doubts now should be a red flag. Once you get saddled down with a wife and kids, you won’t be able to bail without paying a much heavier price.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:33 PM
10

Don’t do it. If she’s showing belly fat now, just wait until she has a couple of kids. You will be looking at her saggy belly, maybe with stretch marks, and you’ll start asking her to turn off the lights before sex as you think about someone hotter. Those face wrinkles will only grow deeper with time. You have already experienced life with her at her best....best appearance, best sex, and best attitude. There is nowhere to go but down. If you have significant doubts now, listen to your gut and b…
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:59 PM
1

Not unless you want to be a subservient cuck. There are exceptions, but there are so many miserable men in their 40s and 50s pushing the cart at the supermarket as their bitchy wives walk ahead of them and decide what he will buy. The look of resignation and despair on the men’s faces is pretty universal.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 03:01 PM
2

If you have plates, why bother posting this? If she is disrespecting you, dump or downgrade. Why not look bored if you are bored? To be polite? Your GF should be looking out for you in these situations. If she isn’t, leave her.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:17 PM
22

It means that when the phone doesn’t ring, you’ll know it’s her. She isn’t interested.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 10:00 PM
1

You’ve got her on a pedestal. You should never be the one asking for a relationship. What will a “relationship” get you that you don’t already have? Exclusivity? If she wants you enough, she will be loyal. Try to find someone as good or better...always look for an upgrade.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 03:21 PM
6

Time to cut out porn. Seriously. There are guys who slip into findom or sissyboy porn...that crap messes with your mind and there is no bottom.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 02:02 AM
-3

I suppose you could do the same thing back. Call and hang up before she picks up...leave no message. This is only for amusement and to make her wonder. Otherwise, ignore.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:21 PM
1

Yes. She’s an attention whore. 7 times? Delete her.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 01:28 PM
3

She has low interest....why bother with her again? The sex may have been good for you, but it obviously didn’t impress her enough to want more. I would move on and forget about her.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:47 PM
1

Too much thinking IMO. If you feel like talking to her, reach out. If not, don’t. If she doesn’t like the frequency, then she isn’t a good match for you. You do you and let the chips fall where they will.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 01:22 PM
2

Work harder on your fitness. IMO kickboxing alone will not get you where you need to be. Lift and build muscle. Work hard for the physique you want and your mindset will improve. Then revisit your life goals with an improved attitude. Maybe you can do world travel when this COVID thing subsides. Study languages. There are all sorts of options.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:47 PM
9

My sons all graduated college, went into their fields, and left to become linemen at the electric utility. They went through the lineman apprentice program, got their CDLs, and now make 6 figures, great benefits, and union protection. I wish they decided this before I had to pay for three bachelors degrees.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:31 PM
3

I don’t understand it. Low hanging fruit. Someone else already got to her and she’s got a kid.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 11:28 PM
3

This. Your power is now. Don’t accept this or it will get worse....3 weeks will become 3 months...or more.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 02:07 AM
8

Pussy should only be a benefit of having your life together, not the goal. Otherwise, you will burn out IMO. Find other ways to improve your life and be productive.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 02:52 AM
2

6x per week and I hit every body part 3x per week. It works for me, as I think that I would be too drained from doing my legs to do full body workouts. Also, I like to be in there for an hour a day and not spend hours there.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:51 PM
1

True....OP, your lifts are terrible. You need to put some serious time in the gym and get stronger. Your confidence will improve with your strength and put you in a better frame of mind for dealing with your wife. Improve in every area and don’t accept mediocrity in any area of your life.
/r/askMRP29/10/20 11:15 PM
29

No. Being alone does not suck worse than being in a miserable marriage. Kids are great for 20-25 years, then they live their own lives. If you build a satisfying and productive life for yourself, being on your own at 40+ is fine.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 12:36 PM
39

I don’t know what you can do. He has made some major non-alpha mistakes already.....starts a relationship with a post-wall woman who moves in for short money, or trading sex for a room....keeps her around when she likely was stepping out...then unprotected sex after this, with his assets? This sounds like classic beta bucks. He’s dug a deep hole for himself. You can’t save him from himself.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:10 PM
19

Maybe this is a lesson not to act like a dipshit. What goes around, comes around. Now you have to humble yourself to get your property back. Just be yourself and don’t act like a douche in the future unless you don’t care if you leave behind things of value.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 01:39 AM
7

Your strength comes from NGAF. When you show insecurity and weakness, her attraction for you will drop. It seems counterintuitive, but enough of us have been through similar things to understand that you cannot get butthurt about this crap. If she gets out of line, you dump her.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:43 PM
2

Pervy AF. All it takes is a couple of unwanted advances before word about you spreads like wildfire.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 11:58 AM
10

Take all the BJs you can. If you ever get weak and get married, those BJs will be a distant memory.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:33 PM
8

Forget any of the China girls. They’re all scams. They can put their location anywhere and use the same photos of cute Asians with round eyes. Also the ones with gmail addresses that want you to use a code word...scam. Avoid. If they have their IG handles....waste of time. Go check them out on IG...mostly attention whores or “nuru” masseuses. You will probably get a lot of likes in the beginning, but they will decrease unless you pay for the extra BS.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 02:13 AM
3

Times have changed. I am older, and there used to be more pressure to get out on your own as soon as possible and not be branded a loser. Now, staying at home with parents is more commonplace. I bought my first house at 24 and was out of the house immediately after college at 22. Buckle down on earning money and don’t be extravagant. Become independent and successful so that women are a want, not a need. Live cheaply as possible and forget the safety net...it will motivate you to work harder. Yo…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:23 AM
20

You’re lucky that she didn’t have someone come in and beat you to a pulp. It has happened around here a few times, once with the john running naked into the hotel parking lot after getting beat up.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:50 AM
15

If you decided to walk, walk. One last go with her will only complicate things and possibly weaken your resolve. She may work hard to try to change your mind in bed, so I wouldn’t even consider messing with her again.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:25 AM
8

You must get your mind in a place where attention from other dudes doesn’t matter. She is with you. These other guys are just pudknockers who are no different than simps at a strip club. If you are with a hot woman, she is going to get the attention of other guys. You need to have the IDGAF attitude that you are the prize and anyone else is not competition. If act insecure, you will push her away from you. If you don’t feel that way, fake it ‘til you make it. If she leaves, fuck her because she …
/r/askTRP05/10/20 11:42 PM
26

If she is making your life better and it doesn’t bother you, who cares? Do what makes you happy. Just keep aware that you’re not being used or played. You have money to go places and you want her to accompany you, why not? IMO this isn’t being a simp.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:44 PM
1

You have already crossed the line. Chances are this will fall apart soon....especially if you were a longtime orbiter. This wasn’t a friendship. You pretended to be friends because you wanted to fuck her. She got weak and you got your chance. No guy keeps a female around as a true friend. Don’t kid yourself. Move on and don’t take the wimpy pretend friend route with women that you’re attracted to.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 01:19 AM
2

“I’m in the family business. In five years, the Corleone family will be completely legitimate.”
/r/askTRP29/09/20 10:20 PM
6

I don’t seek out women that young, as most don’t have the maturity or life experience that would interest me. In my case, the age was just coincidental. I meet in person, usually just by chance. I don’t go looking for them and don’t bother with the apps.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 12:51 PM
20

In my 50s, yes. With women in their 20s. I am in the gym 6x per week and am lean. You have to put the work in...in the gym and professionally.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 02:26 AM
1

You can do both. I went to Michigan and took Roy Tarpley with me to the gym to increase his upper body strength. I do a ton of high intensity cardio as well, but you need to up the weight and get tougher on the marriage situation.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 12:25 AM
1

Agree and amplify. That’s it. This is not a big deal.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:37 PM
2

How old are you? Because your lifts suck. I am 56 and 6’3” and 170. I do multiple sets of 8 reps with more than your max lifts on any of those...and I am a skinny guy. You need to buckle down and get serious with your lifts and everything else. You are an attorney, so you should have a basic understanding of divorce law in your state. Too bad that you have young kids, but you need to make a decision. Bite the bullet, pay the price, and divorce her and do what you can for your kids or suck it up …
/r/askMRP27/09/20 11:29 PM
2

You’re 36. Either she’ll be loyal to you or no....nothing that you can do to stop her. It’s time to not GAF what she does and go do what you want. You cannot worry about what she’s up to. You’ll likely never know and drive yourself crazy trying to find out.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:05 PM
0

Trump is more alpha than most of the try-hards posting. The guy does what he wants, when he wants. And he has made a lot of money before getting into politics, unlike most of the shitbag politicians we have endured. I was around for Reagan and voted for him, and before COVID, the economy was booming like it was during the Reagan years. I don’t know if guys are virtue signaling by saying they don’t like Trump in order to please their wives, but it sounds pretty beta to me.
/r/askMRP27/09/20 10:53 PM
1

Don’t do it. Just get rid of her.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 01:03 AM
5

You need to improve for yourself and not for anyone else. Seek bigger goals. Don’t do it for female validation. Work on being the best person you can be and it won’t suck.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 12:39 AM
2

These women will hit the wall. Every one of them. Go look at pics of former sex symbols who hit the wall and lost their appeal. No different than a hot new car. It’s great in the beginning and everyone wants it. Eventually it starts to show its age and newer, hotter models are available. Keep that in mind with all of these women. They are appealing for a short time and then fade. They aren’t shit and you shouldn’t feel any different when you deal with them. Don’t let your mind or your balls fool…
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:53 AM
3

I don’t know....maybe you are eyeing these women like a thirsty dude and they are sensing this. Maybe you aren’t relaxed and are trying too hard when you interact with them. But these things are big turnoffs.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 01:25 AM
9

Maybe they’re sensing your desperation. Stop trying so hard...especially at the gym.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 12:02 AM
7

You had to have read here not to stick your dick in crazy. You did. And she’s a neighbor. Watch out for boiled bunnies in the kitchen. This was never going to work, and the fact that she’s a neighbor will make this difficult as it ends. You will soon see why you shouldn’t do these things.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 08:56 PM
1

Why are you communicating with this nutcase? Block her on everything.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 02:14 AM
3

I don’t think that i’d rock the boat. You have a good thing going. Trying to do this may blow up on you. If it doesn’t matter, then have fun trying to make it work.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:06 AM
1

I’d be tempted to call her bluff and tell her that you have nothing to hide. Does she? I’d be ready to bounce if she didn’t stop, as she either is a paranoid nut or is cheating.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 11:56 PM
5

You loved who you thought she was, not who she actually was. She dumped you and it hurts your ego, but you should never long for someone who doesn’t want you. Did she care about your feelings? No! Forget her.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:30 AM
1

Yes, the ultimate validation seeking.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 12:49 AM
1

And if she does, toss her aside. She isn’t worth the trouble. It is hard to do at first if you caught feelings, but you will be happier if you can walk away from them when necessary.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:28 PM
3

If she wanted you, she would eagerly pursue you. Slow texts = low interest
/r/askTRP14/09/20 07:24 PM
3

I don’t think you should worry about this or show her that you’re concerned about this at all. I know plenty of very attractive women that I wouldn’t be interested in messing with. You have to be confident, because being weak and jealous is very unattractive. If you’re dating good looking women, they will always have guys chasing or are attracted to them. You must be in the IDGAF mindset.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:27 PM
6

You have to keep pressing forward. Others have had an easier time, but this wasn’t your lot in life. If you have graduated from an Ivy League university, you are off to a great start. Giving up and quitting life is not an option. So much is influenced by having a positive mental attitude. Seek out those who are high achievers and continue to seek to improve yourself. Let go of the ‘woe is me’ mindset because it will only pull you down. Try to make a positive influence on those around you. Attitu…
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:23 AM
7

No, society cannot function without men. It can stumble on for a period, and then it will fail. What have women produced in this world which has advanced civilization? Nothing major. Weak men will eventually fall by the wayside as those of us who are stronger will step on their backs and push them out of the way. A major war will cull the soyboys.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:45 AM
5

Do you think that it will have the same appeal to you in 10 years? If you will be happy with it, do it. But you will be looking at it for a long time unless you decide to have it removed.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 09:32 PM
7

The best advice is to read the sidebar so that you don’t oversimplify things. All of this is covered. You need to raise her attraction, but by doing things which will improve yourself whether or not she comes around.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 02:22 AM
7

You are chasing her approval, and trying to do so much that it’s a big turnoff. The more you do and say these things, the less they mean. You are looking for her validation, but all you’re doing is drying up her pussy. Work on your self-esteem so you aren’t dependent on her for your happiness.
/r/askMRP05/09/20 02:16 AM
1

Be relaxed, it’s not a job interview. Talk about what interests you and ask her about things that interest her. If I run out of things to talk about, I will start people watching if we’re out in public. Then I can sit back and comment when I feel like it. If you’re completely out of ideas, suggest that you get out of there and go someplace else...not necessarily your place, but another venue. Just to keep things moving.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 08:41 PM
1

Take the L and move on. Don’t try to be a dancing monkey in an attempt to raise her interest. She didn’t counter offer another day. It wasn’t because of your moves...her attraction level was low and it doesn’t sound as if this is worth investing more of your time and effort. Leave it to her to reach out. Maybe she’ll hit you up, but not likely.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 01:31 AM
7

I used to hang onto things, but after being divorced and having boxes of things that I hadn’t looked at in 20 years, it was time to let go of things that no longer serve me. Baggage from the past IMO.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:20 PM
10

Toss. Unless it’s something useful for the present, i toss it.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 08:15 PM
3

Yes, living with 19 year olds will be rough. At my dorm, I couldn’t fall asleep before 1:30 am on any night due to the noise level. Some dorms are quieter than others. We had dorms that none of us freshmen wanted because they were too quiet, but a place like that would be good for you. Although it sounds as if your choice will be limited or non-existent, you could ask/search for intel on the different dorms in case you have the option to choose.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:43 PM
1

Then I suggest that you consult a family law attorney in your state to discuss the repercussions before you do anything. Anything less is guessing.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:43 AM
1

If you have kids together, you are taking a chance of getting screwed in court. A lawyer can ask foe anything and you must answer it. No kids and you have an easier time of it.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:08 AM
1

The best known one is the Lee Marvin “Palimony” case.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:49 PM
3

A lawyer will argue that you were essentially married and produce anything to make it stand up. Many judges lean toward women. I have personally seen judges swayed by nicely dressed attractive women. All bets are of when you go to court. Even if you win you will have shelled out the retainer for your attorney.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:54 PM
1

It sounds as if you answered your own question. You make a decision and live with the consequences. It isn’t always an easy choice, but you can guarantee that you are seeing the best version of her right now, both in behavior and appearance. It is a lot like buying a car....the salesman will be your best friend as he tries to close the deal. Once you sign the papers, the guy won’t remember you.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:45 PM
2

You didn’t close the first night. Move on if she isn’t interested...not worth investing more of your time.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:32 AM
3

Get off the porn for you, not for her. Porn is a dead end.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 08:17 PM
24

Don’t get married! I got married the first time at 24. Big mistake. The second wasn’t much better. Listen to the men on this sub and the sidebar. Do not get married.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:50 AM
2

If you are 21 and talking about sex with a woman, as opposed to jacking off to porn, you should be able to go 3x - 5x in a day.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:50 PM
3

Cut her loose. Either she will straighten up or she’ll go her own way. You win either way.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:36 PM
29

Don’t wife up a ho. Keep your standards and you will find an appropriate woman. Many are out whoring around now. You don’t want one of them. You must vet before ever going for a LTR. If there are red flags, cut them loose. They will only cause more heartache if you keep them around.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:33 PM
18

Don’t do it if you don’t want to. I had a guy who wanted me to father a child with his wife, as he was having difficulty. His wife was beautiful. I didn’t want to deal with the baggage, so I politely declined. It was a serious request. I still have no regrets turning down the offer.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:41 PM
2

Invest in yourself to increase your SMV. Don’t lead with your wallet. Acquire wealth to accomplish more in your own life. You can expand your goals...maybe buy rental properties to have multiple income streams and something else to keep your interest. Women will come as a by-product of your passions and goals and shouldn’t be the goal itself. They are a depreciating asset. They are desirable in their 20s and decline rapidly thereafter. Not much different than a car. Very few women add to a man’s…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:37 PM
69

Nope. Just be honest and don’t be a jerk.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:06 PM
152

You tell her that you value her friendship but don’t want more than that.....basically what a girl tells you when she puts you in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:03 PM
6

Agreed. She’s trash, so use her to up your sex game. Then you can move on to others. But absolutely stop calling her your LTR. She is your FB and no more.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 01:44 AM
30

The only way I would let her on the sailboat is if she earned it first. And I would tell her that. If she balks, tell her to piss off.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:15 AM
6

Use her to up your game in the bedroom. Maybe she will be loyal to you if you do well enough. If not, you will be better prepared for the next woman in your life. Don’t compare yourself. Do you and that’s all.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 11:34 PM
2

Do it on Sunday then. If she flakes, move on. It’s not as if you have invested much in her yet.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 02:49 AM
1

She may be just fine in the short-term, but she will lose in the end. She may be doing this because she’s a ho, which means you are better off without her. She could be using this to get over you. In any event, she doesn’t sound like a quality partner.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:08 PM
18

You can just let her know that you are there for her and then fall back. The last thing she needs now is you pressuring her for attention. WTF would you look to spin plates now? You are in a LTR and it would be pretty shitty to fuck around while she’s grieving family losses. Wait it out if you want the LTR.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 12:25 AM
2

Fried is no good. Baked is what you want. Rotisserie worked for me. Now, I will do chicken breast, fish, or steak but don’t eat garbage.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:49 AM
2

64 pounds. I went from 232 to 168. I am 6’ 3”.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:46 AM
2

Water is good. Oatmeal is the old fashioned Quaker Oats...I will mix in blueberries or other fruit. Dinner would be a rotisserie chicken from the grocery store and a bag of lettuce plus tomatoes and cucumber. I would save half of the chicken for the next day. It wasn’t easy but it was worth it. My before and after pics are a big difference.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:38 AM
2

Listen to your body. If you keep up your protein, you can do it....but I wouldn’t do it forever. It worked for me.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:35 AM
4

A bowl of oatmeal for breakfast and black coffee...no sugar. i skipped lunch and for dinner, I would eat a salad with cut-up rotisserie chicken. No flour or sugar. After 8 weeks, I needed more calories because I lost energy mid-day. My waist went from 38 to 33 in 4 months. It has stayed at 33 since June 2018.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:25 AM
3

You need to be more disciplined. I went from 232 to 168 in 4 months over 2 years ago. I ate 1000 calories per day for 8 weeks and do 6 days per week in the gym. I upped my calories after 8 weeks but maintain an intense workout regimen and have 6 pack abs now. There is no reason to spend another year to reach your target. If you want it badly enough, you will do it.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:08 AM
1

I don’t want females posting about me on that stupid social media crap. If I end a relationship, it’s easier to move on without a bunch of stories and photos posted that will surface later. Maybe this is a warning that you’re becoming too attached to this girl. If she’s dicking around with other guys, there’s not much you can do other than bail if it bothers you.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 01:00 PM
5

It seems to me that women don’t realize that they are approaching the wall until after they have smashed through it....and even then, many live in denial. You need to vet any of these women for crazy. I would go younger unless you want a woman with baby rabies.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 10:13 PM
11

Stupid ass shit. Get her in the mood on your own. IMO it’s a bad way to go.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 12:40 AM
1

What do you expect to gain from your admission?
/r/askTRP07/08/20 12:36 AM
3

Hard next. Do you really want this drama in your life? You will experience more problems with her, her ex, and the kid—guaranteed.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 08:51 PM
5

Better to be your own man than to fall under the influence of a woman on Tinder. Be yourself and don’t simp. If they ignore you, they are doing you a favor.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:52 PM
1

I would tell her that IG doesn’t mean shit to me and she needs to show me her value with something tangible, not internet bullshit. If she wants an Instagram simp, get stepping.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 11:49 PM
3

Stay away from day trading....most people over trade and lose their ass. Plus you need at least 25k to avoid the 3 day wash rule.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 01:06 AM
8

You said your piece and leave it at that. I would go cold on her for a while and watch her response. If she continues to misbehave, kick her ass to the curb and tell her to get with that guy.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 08:49 PM
18

Misery loves company. Don’t listen to that guy.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:51 PM
6

By not getting married. There is nothing in marriage for a man, and big downsides. BTW, a divorce will make 6000 look like nothing.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 01:57 AM
6

You are playing the long game with a LTR.....you can’t worry about every moment with a female.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:12 AM
3

They’re unbalanced and non-compliant with societal norms. That points to psychological problems that you don’t need to deal with.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:59 PM
3

No need to figure it out. It’s nature’s way of warning you to stay away, like a poisonous snake or plant.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:56 PM
12

You have to let her do what she’s going to do. If she cheats, send her packing because she’s not worth keeping. If she values you, she won’t cheat. You can’t keep someone from doing what they want to do. Jealousy and insecurity are attraction killers.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 10:50 PM
2

She is a milf? Meaning she has at least one kid? Demote. Not high quality.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 11:06 PM
1

Yes and no. You will always be looking over your shoulder. I wouldn’t do it again. My relationship ended for other reasons. Since you were on break, maybe it’s better to come clean but don’t be pathetic. You do not want to worry about someone telling her later.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:36 PM
2

Yeah, once. I told no one. I dealt with my regret silently and didn’t do it again in that relationship.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:09 PM
5

You have to keep everything in perspective. You are 17. This is going to be a waste of time no matter how you slice it. Try not to take any of this seriously and have fun during your teen years. If she is too much work, move onto someone else. You aren’t looking for a wife.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 11:40 PM
5

I have been down this road with an ex. The act of kindness doesn’t mean much if you initially resist or act put out. Women will sense the hesitation and it will be a problem...at least with some women. If you are going to be in a LTR, you either just say no if you don’t want to do it or say yes without the hesitation.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 06:10 PM
1

Agreed. I need the heavy weight resistance for my chest. I was doing sets of 80 - 100 pushups and my chest continued to shrink.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:32 PM
8

Study. If you put in the work now, you will have far more options in life.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:52 PM
1

I lost some muscle tone and gained 4 pounds. I am battling back, but I strained an abdominal muscle from trying to go too heavy, too soon.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:27 AM
10

Our gyms opened over 3 weeks ago. I lost big on the bench, squats, and weighted ab crunches. Cardio, arms, shoulders, and back did not take much of a hit. I was doing pushups, situps, curls, and extensions at home during the closings.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:14 AM
2

Are you kidding? She will come back to you because she is emotionally down. Once she’s back on her feet again, she will kick you to the curb.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:30 AM
2

I had my first at 25 and my last at 38. Big difference in my energy level between them. I did plenty with the older ones and coached their baseball and soccer teams. With my youngest, I wasn’t up for doing all of the activities as I did when I was younger. I was better off financially with my youngest, so everything is a trade-off.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 12:15 AM
5

The alpha guy you mention is a selfish prick. Holding a door for someone is common decency. You can have the DGAF attitude without being a jerk in general.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:34 PM
2

No need to worry. The wall will come for her and with her riding the CC for so long, she will likely be a candidate for a hysterectomy down the road. Rides like this eventually wear out and break down....especially with booze and drugs added to the mix. Your best revenge and way for you to heal is to ignore her completely.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 12:08 AM
2

Google narcissists and love bombing. It’s what she has been doing to you.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 12:01 AM
3

I’ve matched up with mid 20s black women on Tinder and almost every one was looking for a SB/SD arrangement. I don’t know why this is, but it has made me really think twice before I pursue a match now. I would date but not doing the SD thing.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:53 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:38 PM
9

Don’t settle! I am 56 and have been dating a 26 yo for 2 years. The women that are near my age have hit the wall hard. I would rather be alone than with those hags. I work out hard and am in top shape. Do the same and only date women who make you excited. Some post-wall woman with a p-sleeve won’t do it for you.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:51 AM
8

Keep this in mind in case you ever become blue pilled enough to get a fiancee.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:54 AM
2

You’re 19. You have many years to go to keep improving yourself and experiencing success. No girls your age are ready for anything other than a hookup or a fairly short-term relationship. Don’t give your heart to these hoes. When you are 25 you will look back and realize that you didn’t need to waste energy on this. It could be worse....how would like like to have a gf who was looking to suck other guys’ dicks? Just understand female nature and lower your expectations of them.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 01:39 AM
3

Sam Kinison had a funny bit about a woman like this....after he was done and spent, she was asking him to plug in her vibrator on his way out. Do your best and if that isn’t enough for her, forget it. You can’t be worrying about a woman who is insatiable.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:35 AM
1

Probably just anxiety. Cialis or viagra will get it working. TriMix would turn you into a porn star. Once you have some success, then you can ease up on the meds and do it on your own. Or you find the right woman who will work on your member until it’s ready to go.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 01:12 AM
1

I did that once with a woman who could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. It was fucking gross....not a peck on the lips, but a full open-mouth kiss. No matter how good the BJ, I won’t ever do it again.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 11:36 PM
5

If you were back with either one, you would remember all the bad shit as soon as you bust. Time causes you to forget all the bad things.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:02 AM
7

Obviously you haven’t spent time in South America. Try Colombia. Your ratios are so far off that it’s laughable.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:11 AM
1

Why don’t you just apply for the Maury show? This is his bread and butter.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 12:34 PM
1

Fix yourself. By your own admission, you had personal problems when you were with her. This isn’t about her—it is about you. Stop using her as an excuse and do something with your life.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:55 AM
1

Sounds pretty blue pill to me. It ignores female nature and sounds like countless guys with oneitis before they came here to post how they were burned by a woman. There is no “the one.”
/r/askTRP20/06/20 01:25 AM
1

Never hold onto someone else’s negative energy. Let it pass on by.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 12:37 PM
0

Maybe up your sex game with her? Communicate and have her tell you how she likes it. A lot of women aren’t crazy about jackhammer sex. And don’t ask about dick sizes. There’s always someone bigger.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:11 AM
1

There are some nuggets of wisdom about women in Proverbs, but you need to work through and understand that toxic religion can mess you up with guilt and shame. Try to find a way to make peace with it and live your best life.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:03 AM
3

Many of the coaches on YT emphasize that the game never ends. This has been my experience also through relationships and marriage.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 11:59 AM
4

I don’t know that I would characterize a 27 year old woman with an n-count of 13 as a slut. That is not very many over the years. It sounds as if you need to work on your insecurities first or you will be paranoid with her and probably with any other woman that you want to get serious.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 03:17 AM
1

Listen to everyone who tells you to keep your mouth shut. Don’t tell anyone.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:47 PM
1

Big red flag, whatever your plans other than a plate. It means she can’t lower herself to learn to do something that’s basically paint by numbers.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:55 AM
1

?? If you mean that you want to lock her down, no. If she can’t be bothered to learn how to cook, forget her. My ex couldn’t cook worth a shit and I did all the cooking. After the pussy dries up, what are they good for?
/r/askTRP09/06/20 01:53 AM
5

Check the shoulder. She’d be good if I was choosing a shoulder roast, but not for a date.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 03:06 AM
1

She was 19.....there are so many changes between late teens- early 20s and mid twenties. A lot of maturing occurs and they can change. If you are looking for longer term, you should focus on mid-twenties and older.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:13 AM
2

Forget her. If she dumped you once, she will do it again. You built an emotional attachment to her. You need to unplug from her and be open to connecting with someone else. You can’t just swap another body in and have it be the same. Women go through this shit constantly and run back to their ex. Give it time.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:02 AM
2

If she is a quality girl, after 3 years, and she truly loves you, she’ll be back. If she doesn’t come back then she no longer loves you and you need to wipe her from your memory. What you had no longer exists and you deserve to have someone that truly wants you.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:53 PM
3

It depends who is insulting you and whether it will be an ongoing situation. If you continue to accept this long-term, than you have no self respect and are a beta. A passing encounter doesn’t matter. Let those go.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:50 PM
9

It sounds as if you have idealized your ex. If she isn’t crazy in love with you, why do you want her? It will only lead to heartbreak. She may have some new dick in the picture and that’s why she became distant. You shouldn’t want anyone who doesn’t want you. Your ego can fuck with you and make you long for someone who won’t be good for you long-term.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:35 PM
1

Yeah, that’s what I was trying to say. When I was younger, I had cougars who would be more straightforward. But I didn’t want them, so IMO they didn’t really count.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:27 PM
4

I have had women do it more indirectly, like complimenting a tank top I was wearing. Or I have gotten off an elevator with a couple of women who started talking about how hot I was before the doors closed. It seems more that they open the door for you, but you have to make a move. Unless you’re someone famous or incredibly attractive, most women won’t directly approach like a guy. They just get into your orbit.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:38 PM
1

People are too young to remember, but in the Detroit riots of 1967 (I was there, but I was a kid), the 82nd Airborne was sent in to restore order.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:56 PM
3

Truth.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:52 PM
3

It would be a stupid move. Why would you want to do this? If you knock out a guy and he dies from hitting his head on the ground, guess who gets charged with manslaughter?
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:40 PM
18

Just because you can get girls doesn’t mean that you must get them. I had periods in college where I was on top of a woman thinking that I would have a better time drinking beer with my friends. Take a break and only go for the girls that really interest you.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:20 AM
1

ASD....give her two or maybe three chances. After that, you’re done.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:52 AM
1

Forex is a sucker’s game. Don’t do it. You don’t have enough to really trade. You need 25k minimum to day trade or you get hit with the 3 day wash rule. Just put in index funds for now, but even now is dicey. The market is going up on nothing other than FOMO.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 09:35 PM
1

He posted his photos in a rateme sub. I don’t even know where to start without being a dick. And the flab was there over a year ago.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:12 PM
5

Sounds like you don’t understand divorce law. Don’t make good money and don’t get married. Then you won’t divorce raped. Getting married was my mistake and I posted it as an example of what can happen to make things difficult. If you make shit money, you won’t pay this amount in a divorce.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:36 AM
7

A devil’s threesome? Not many guys can deal with that.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:32 AM
8

Just pull back and measure her interest. You don’t have to lay your cards on the table. Watch how she responds. If she wants these guys, send her on her way. No need to waste time on someone whose attention is elsewhere.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:30 AM
6

Pull back. Easy. If she asks you why, just say you’re busy and don’t have time for games. Either she gets closer to you or she bails. If she wants to entertain other guys, let her and just move on.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:24 AM
4

Good luck. Stay in the gym and work your ass off and women will gravitate toward you. Kids are great but they are a big sacrifice and you must deal with their mother even if you’d rather not. If you want plates, treat them like you don’t give a shit if they stay or go. Feed them enough to keep them around, but remain detached.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:18 AM
-2

You aren’t doing shit right now. I am paying for my home as well as that of my ex to the tune of 5k per month (for her, not me). You need to toughen up and understand that life is hard and never gets easier. Don’t be a pussy.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:01 AM
30

The obvious answer is not to bring them around your brother. Just don’t do it.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:58 AM
2

At least you will have clarity. Either you’ll be hooking up or you will be free to find someone better.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:51 AM
10

Let me tell you something... I have been married twice and have four kids. 3 are grown and into careers and the fourth is going to college. Kids are great when you are young, then they grow up and have their own lives....you are not as connected. I would say now to date and have fun. Forget marriage. The best you will get out of a relationship comes before you are married because the woman is auditioning for the part. After you marry, you are fucked. Sex goes way down and you are stuck with the …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:42 AM
1

Well, if you find a good looking girl in a small town, she has probably been run through a bunch. If you can handle it, then just have fun. You won’t have the selection available in a big city.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:30 AM
2

Tell her point blank that you want to see her or you’re out. You don’t have time for bullshit.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:18 AM
1

I don’t know about this.... cops can be dogs when it comes to women. Hard to say whether he is doing it out of the goodness of his heart or is looking to score. Send her off emotionally upset and she may seek comfort from him. Then things can “just happen.” And she is a cop groupie? Not good. Either dump her or be indifferent to the situation and let things calm down.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:04 PM
2

You must develop emotional control first. Manage your emotions on your own before dealing with women. Probably best to remain on your own until you are strong enough to not lose your shit in front of a woman. No woman wants to be your Mom.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:57 PM
38

Sometimes I miss being married. Then I send the alimony check and the feeling goes away. The past always looks better than it actually was. Find someone better.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:21 PM
2

<<I agree that I need to work on the stability, hence the therapy. What happened as soon as I committed to therapy in the past winter, when I committed to myself that this would be my last "bad" winter? Absolute betrayal. I became weak and vulnerable as part of the therapeutic process, and it absolutely destroyed any attraction.>> If you understand that you cannot show weakness to a female, it will go better for you. Know the rule and don’t fool yourself into thinking that you can break it. It i…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:10 PM
2

They say that they want to be included, but you know what happens when you go that route. Women will tell you that they want all sorts of things and when they get it, the attraction drops. It is better to remain a mystery and tell them that this is something that you need to do on your own. Women are not the problem here. Until you can get on an even keel, this is going to repeat itself. You cannot do the wife, kids, and house thing until you are emotionally stable. Otherwise you will have a big…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:50 PM
2

Have you tried not allowing the women in your life to take you to the VA and be your hand-holder? Get an Uber or a buddy to bring you there. It seems the mistake you are making is in thinking that the woman is there to be your emotional support when you are at your worst....as you have already seen, they will get tired of that shit fast and leave. It’s female nature. Don’t let these females see your struggles or their attraction to you will drop. I wouldn’t knock the motorcycle option...riding c…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:44 AM
2

There are many people who are upset about what happened and just want their voices heard. Protests can be coopted by those with other agendas, whether they are anarchists or criminals using the opportunity to loot. Evaluate the actions of those accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:51 PM
-1

Just shut up and let it go. What’s past is past and dredging it up will only create problems.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 10:57 PM
1

This kind of thing usually doesn’t get better with time. I was in a similar situation in a relationship years ago and ended up hooking up with another woman and it was a night and day difference. My relationship ended some time later and we are still friends, but the sex spark wasn’t there with her. Find a woman who will rock your world sexually and don’t settle for less.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:46 PM
1

Watch Alpha Male Strategies, “You Don’t Understand Women.” He talks about this specifically.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:40 AM
1

By your own judgment she is a HB7. All of this worrying over a 7 that you haven’t been with? You are way too invested.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:35 AM
2

Keep it moving. She’s 20. Nothing more needs to be said.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:58 PM
1

There are lots of women who have a thing for cops. In fact, pussy is one of the biggest reasons guys get in trouble on the job. Work some bar overtime details and you’ll find out quickly. You just have a different target audience than you did in college.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:46 AM
3

Women can be really sneaky if they want to cheat. Just watch her behavior....girls nights out or large amounts of time where she disappears. I think your ego took a hit because you dropped your plates first. IMO the phone check is a last resort when you strongly suspect cheating and you are ready to leave her. Being secure and indifferent is the best defense against a female’s nonsense.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:18 PM
2

You can evaluate her behavior without snooping. Going through her phone reeks of insecurity. If you are suspicious enough of her that you felt the need to check her phone, just break up with her. If your LTR was ok before checking her phone, you just messed up a relationship. It sounds like she just took a little longer than you to go exclusive with you.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 10:04 PM
-1

If are you so insecure that you need to go through her phone, then you deserve to find whatever is in there. I can’t see any good that can come from snooping. If she wants to cheat, she’ll cheat.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 09:56 PM
2

Demote her and get other women. Why torture yourself over this? Keep her around for sex and then cut her loose later. Don’t put her or any woman on a pedestal. They are trash or have the potential to be trash under the right circumstances. You resent her because you care too much. Care about yourself more and how she or any woman might improve your life. If she isn’t a net positive, throw her ass out.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 02:53 AM
0

You probably have to walk away. The ones that give you mind-blowing sex can be hard to leave. Been there and done that. I found that I could only dump them after I was completely fucked out. If I was the least bit horny, I would go right back there.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:10 PM
1

Truth. I went to a Big 10 university and the football players had status. Most of them were jacked and all of them were excellent athletes. This combination squashes the typical frat boy’s SMV.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:13 PM
10

She has lost attraction to you. You need to game her as you did when you first dated or you can keep begging for pity/starfish sex. If you win a bet.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:58 AM
1

Calories in, calories out. It’s as simple as that. In my case, I ate 1000 calories per day for 8 weeks and trained hard. I lost 60 pounds in 4 months and i have maintained the loss for 2 years. If you don’t eat too much and work out hard, the weight will come off. If the weight doesn’t come off, you are eating too much.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 01:16 AM
1

At 21, your growth plates are done. Just work on being the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:40 PM
122

This.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 10:52 AM
2

Sometimes it’s better to let it go. It won’t change anything of significance. You are talking to a friend and not changing the world by this discussion.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:24 AM
1

You can have a discussion, but an argument means that you have lost control of your emotions. Always maintain control of your emotions and don’t get heated.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:08 AM
4

Yes. Never argue. If the other person is acting like an ass, let him. If you engage, then you become another ass. A spectator will remember “look at those two assholes arguing.” Doesn’t matter if you are right or the other person is right. You will come out looking like shit.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 01:03 AM
2

Sorry about your Dad. Mine died suddenly several years ago and my wife at the time was of no help. I learned that you must take your emotions elsewhere. There may be women out there who are more supportive but you will lower their attraction to you by being emotionally weak. It sucks but it’s reality and better to know up front and not be disappointed. Don’t look to any woman to be your emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:09 AM
1

As soon as the gyms open here, I am going. It’s not even a question for me.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:07 PM
3

If you’re not high value to begin with, not chasing them will make them forget you even more quickly. You have to establish a connection first or you are wasting your time.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:43 PM
2

Watch Alpha Male Strategies on “You Don’t Understand Women.” He will give you the answers you’re looking for.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:08 PM
5

Say you close with her....then what? Do you think you will go back to being roommates? Sex has a way of complicating things. Before you smash, all you can think of his scoring and not what comes after. Nobody thinks about the repercussions until after the deed is done and you have a mess on your hands.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:25 PM
6

“Do I need a reason?”
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:39 PM
2

Depends if she is invested in you yet and if you give her the tingles. If the answer is no, then your pullback may not mean much.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 07:34 PM
2

Either this other dude’s the father or he is a loser. Who else would go for a woman who is 8 months pregnant with another man’s baby?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:50 PM
5

You are looking at it all wrong. Women have guys throwing dicks at them constantly, so there is no real work for them to get laid. It’s not their fault—it’s nature. It doesn’t work the same way for guys. Up your game and get the women or give up and be a bitter and frustrated guy.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:22 PM
11

I cannot quit them.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:08 PM
27

Been through this multiple times. Block, unblock. Latinas feel strong emotions in the moment.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:06 PM
1

You can’t worry about this crap. If she’s going to get with him, she will get with him. Use this as practice to train yourself so you don’t become jealous and insecure. Any hot woman is going to have guys throwing their dicks at her. If she dumped her ex, she is probably done with him. Detach and get some options for yourself. The less you care, the more power you’ll have.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 10:00 PM
33

She shouldn’t be more than a FB. Don’t even entertain the idea of a LTR. You can always hit it some more and walk away with a nice experience. There’s a saying that some girls belong to the streets. You cannot get hung up on this type of woman.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 11:45 PM
2

If you tolerate being yelled at, you will get more of it. You have to be willing to walk over tolerating that nonsense.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:20 PM
2

It’s obvious that she is trying to get a reaction out of you. Probably wants you back. Either get over it and ignore or get back with her. And drop the enemies nonsense. It won’t do you any good in life.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:25 PM
3

Don’t fall for it. You can have all the fun and closeness you want without getting married. It doesn’t get better after saying “I do.”
/r/askTRP26/04/20 08:51 PM
9

Exactly. If he DGAF, she has no leverage over him. If she wants to smash another dude, he can just let her go. If she’s into her BF, she won’t fuck around on him. Nothing any guy can do to stop them.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:26 PM
1

When I was a teenager, I was friends with some slightly older hot women from my work. I had no chance at them and they had boyfriends. If the boyfriends were insecure because of me, then it unmasked their weakness because I wasn’t sleeping with them and wasn’t going to. I say ignore the orbiters and go about your business. They have no chance with her. If you act jealous, it will only diminish you in her eyes.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:33 AM
2

You are too damned young to be thinking this way. Get off porn and get your mind right.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:24 PM
12

If it bothers you now, it will only bother you more later.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:05 PM
2

I have seen this too many times. Just because you make her cum doesn’t mean that she will be attached to you. Maybe you could be her maintenance man after she bags a provider. At some point, almost every woman will look for a provider. If you cannot provide, she will move on to someone who can. It doesn’t really matter, as all of them will hit the wall and they won’t be worth anything before long.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 11:14 PM
0

Stay off her phone. That’s insecure BS. If she treats you well now, don’t worry about the past. We all have a past. If you keep obsessing about this, you are going to fuck this up. Then you will be looking for another woman who doesn’t have a past. Almost all of them have pasts.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 10:32 PM
6

If you are having sex with women you’re not attracted to, then it is a function not much different than going to the bathroom. Aim higher. Quality trumps quantity.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 10:59 PM
9

I don’t know why you don’t tell her to fuck off and go get Mr. horse cock if that’s what she wants.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:35 PM
40

You have got to get out of there. If you have enough to get a place of your own if you don’t support her, do it. Even if it means having roommates. Or join the military. You won’t be able to recover if you continue to live in a toxic hellhole. My situation wasn’t as severe as yours, but I got out on my own as soon as I was able. It was worth it.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:03 PM
1

Just lower your body fat. My forearms are like a roadmap of veins and it is due to lowering body fat. I train arms but don’t do anything specifically for my forearms.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:47 AM
2

If she’s an LTR, then you did a good job vetting her first, right? And you are panicking because she is rightfully worried about infecting you or her family? There are medical professionals around here who are sequestering themselves from their children because of the virus. If you cannot handle doing calls and FaceTime until this clears up, you shouldn’t be in an LTR. I have been seeing someone who lives out of town and I can’t fly there again until this is done. Either things will work out or …
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:14 AM
6

You are human. You also have a job to do. Let your guard down when it’s appropriate. Then recharge and do what you must do. As long as you are not breaking down when you should be doing your job, you will be ok. Thank you for what you are doing.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:24 PM
1

Get off the porn first. Porn is a drug.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:58 PM
9

Just realize that their nature is to be a ho. You can accept it and quit worrying. They will do what they’re going to do, and there’s not a thing you can do to stop it. Be the best version of yourself and don’t sweat it.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:53 AM
1

Gym? Absolutely not. What’s the point? The gym is something you might do after you know each other well and actually want to exercise. If you are looking to talk with her there, then you are just tying up equipment for the rest of us.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:15 PM
1

You want overall fitness...lift, cardio, and diet. These things done correctly will bring the BF down to a good level. Look at bodyfat photos on the internet for an idea of what to expect. Going from 15 to 10 will be hard work, so get to 15 and decide if you want more muscular bulk or a leaner look.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 02:16 PM
5

Honestly, you shouldn’t even worry about this until you get to 15% or so. Get rid of the lard first and then figure out what else to aim for.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 02:11 PM
6

Tell her flat out that you will date her but won’t give her shit. Maybe she says no, but who cares?
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:21 AM
1

Why block? Just back off and DGAF. Blocking is for oneitis.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 01:22 AM
8

AMS did a video on this called the Availability Test.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:55 PM
16

Why is he even in your head? The dude’s a waiter and you’re a customer. What is there to gain in this scenario?
/r/askTRP21/02/20 01:03 PM
9

I’m sorry. This is the worst that can happen in life. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Don’t run away from your grief.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 12:26 PM
9

It sounds as if your staring at him triggered him, making it a “What are you looking at?” situation. Better to keep it moving and MYOB. It is almost never worth getting into a fight like that now.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 04:15 AM
1

Why not just do the tea and gauge her interest? It not expensive. You can try to escalate when the time is right. If she denies you, bounce and ghost. It may be a waste of time, but unless you have big list of backup women, it wouldn’t hurt to practice on her.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:56 PM
1

Maybe she’s so conditioned by the toys and desensitized by porn that there wasn’t much you could do to get her going. Maybe she needs to run a train to get excited. Sam Kinison did a great comedy bit about being with a girl like that. I wouldn’t worry about it and find someone better.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 03:46 AM
4

Your Dad is a wise man.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:32 AM
1

Since you are looking for marriage and are in the same profession, it may be easier to avoid potential divorce rape in the future. Compatibility trumps how many kids you can have IMO, especially if you go ahead and marry someone.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 02:12 PM
1

Do you really want someone with drinking problem? What if you start slacking off and she gets drunk again and falls on a dick? FB maybe, but LTR? No.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:46 PM
1

Nonsense. If you buy 20-25% at a time, you have some protection from price fluctuations. I have accounts at TDA and Vanguard and the commissions are cheap. 10k to invest? Transaction fees are peanuts.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:26 PM
1

Any stock or fund you buy, you should layer in. Don’t buy everything at once. Prices fluctuate and layering can give you some protection. Stocks can fluctuate more than mutual funds, so tread carefully. Stay away from ETNs which offer the allure of big gains quickly...they can clean you out quickly. (UVXY, UGAZ/DGAZ, etc.).
/r/askTRP30/01/20 01:01 AM
2

It’s not easy to make a decent living in a band nowadays, so I wouldn’t criticize him for that.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:25 PM
5

You’re in a fraternity, so still in college? Way too soon to be talking this way.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:37 PM
1

Yes, and that’s why I’m telling you now. Hopefully it will save you from falling into the same trap that I did.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:00 AM
1

Yes. Remarried to a much more attractive woman, but she was a bitch....again, she only checked different boxes but not all. I left after 16 years. Now I am seeing someone who finally does check all of the boxes. Much better connection and wish that I had waited for a compatible person 30 years ago.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:15 AM
2

Because I’ve lived it. Tried it, but didn’t work out. Married almost 10 years before the divorce became final. If she doesn’t check all of the boxes for you, your should move on now.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:07 AM
2

You won’t be more happy if you stay. She isn’t doing it for you physically. You’ll likely try to fill the void with another woman on the side later. If you weren’t in doubt, you wouldn’t have posted this thread.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:02 AM
2

If she isn’t everything you want now, IMO you are making a mistake to stay with her.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:33 PM
1

Then why in the hell are you settling? The looks won’t improve as she ages.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 10:47 PM
1

Well, counseling won’t improve things.. Stand up for what you want now or you will be that pathetic miserable dude pushing the shopping cart while your wife walks ahead and chooses what you will buy.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 12:47 AM
3

Fuck.....You need to be ready to walk and tell you SO that you will happier on your own. I had one that constantly ran me down for years until I told her that I was done...then her whole attitude changed and she tried everything to make it better. Unfortunately for her, I checked out already and moved on. I am now with someone 30 years younger who doesn’t give me half the drama as my ex, If you stayed there, held hostage, you will be miserable. If you show that you will walk, she may straighten …
/r/askMRP04/01/20 12:31 AM
3

There is no problem in acknowledging that some other guy is good looking. I could tell my LTR that a woman is good looking, but that doesn’t mean that I want to be with her. Be cool with it and don’t let it move you off-center. The worst thing you can do is feel threatened by her comment.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 02:39 AM
7

Haha...that’s nothing to worry about. I am 55 and have been with a 25 yo for the past year. Get over your insecurities. Red flag? Depends on what it is you’re looking for in a woman.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 11:09 PM
7

Don’t ask, don’t tell is the best policy. You may get an answer that you would rather not know. I just assume that they all have high body counts and don’t worry about it.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:22 AM
2

Agree and amplify....this isn’t difficult. Tell the person to go be the hero for you.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:55 PM
0

I would go and not be a pussy, if for no other reason than to listen to what her hamstering has concocted. She’s done, so don’t hold out hope. I would use it as an opportunity to learn and move on. Whatever you do, don’t beg her to stay. Encourage her...”sure, go ride the CC and have fun!”
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:40 PM
4

Ignore them. I am dealing with a larger gap than you. I don’t care. Do what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:29 PM
3

If you bring it up, you will likely fuck up your FWB arrangement. Let her bring it up.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:05 PM
15

Raise your standards. Sorority girls aren’t all that. Game what you can pull in bars and let go of the sorority girl fantasy, as the reality won’t live up to your imagination.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:02 PM
6

Why? Excitement. Also, easier access to drugs.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 12:23 PM
5

It is done. Sorry. Been there and done that. Work on yourself and forget about her or any other women until you feel good about yourself. But absolutely forget about trying to reconcile with your wife. At best, you will delay the inevitable and will be harder later.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 02:58 AM
17

Why aren’t you vetting them as plates before promoting to LTR? If it bothers you, you shouldn’t make them a LTR.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 08:50 PM
3

If you are trying to improve yourself, do an after action report. You are fully capable of assessing what worked and what didn’t with this girl. You will will not get objective feedback from the female, particularly considering that her feelings then and now will not be the same....they can change by the minute and be completely irrational.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 12:25 PM
1

It’s common. I know some who will take a contract to work at a place somewhere in the country for 3 to 6 months, but sometimes longer.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:43 PM
11

I’d say stay off the crap. Why use something that will degrade your critical thinking and make you lazy? You need to get off your ass and do something meaningful. There is nothing meaningful to sitting around and smoking weed.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 03:18 AM
1

I wouldn’t have gotten married. Either time.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:45 PM
471

That’s the standard excuse...almost like she tripped and landed on a cock.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 04:59 PM
11

If you want to stop banging, you could always get married.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:38 AM
2

If you want to do things without getting into a mess, have fun. But I have no interest in having to clean myself from that red mess. Did it a number of times when I was younger....now, not worth the hassle to me. That’s why I said that you will see after you get older.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 09:09 AM
2

I mean that you will get rejected and hurt a number of times before you finally accept reality and not get too excited with any prospective female. Just live life and take the losses. Then you won’t get hung up on one woman as easily ever again.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:41 PM
2

You need to get beaten down enough so that you really don’t give a shit what she does. Then you will have the right mindset to deal. If she isn’t reaching out, then her interest level isn’t high enough.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:31 PM
8

I don’t know..l just can’t relate. If it makes you happy, so be it.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:27 PM
1

Wait until she’s off her period. You will see when you are older. Better to wait a few days.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:21 PM
11

There’s a difference between not giving a fuck and being autistic. If you are reasonably friendly and acknowledge people around without giving a fuck, then you are not acting autistic. Watch politicians...they smile and shake hands and act like they care, but they couldn’t care less about you. Gladhand people and don’t worry if they reject you...then you will be in the right mindset.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:12 PM
3

2 to 3 times per week seems like a lot for a plate. If you are also spinning other plates, that doesn’t leave a lot of time for other pursuits.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:52 PM
1

These plus the personality traits...ENTJ, etc. basically saying that they want to wear the pants in a relationship. Give them a good leaving alone.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 10:53 PM
1

Get different dates. Keep moving.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:29 PM
1

Because you aren’t thirsty when you are sick/tired. Just remember how you are when you feel that way and slow down your responses when you are healthy and thirsty.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 10:27 PM
6

You are dreaming...in my single days, I was railing a woman who was keeping her man satisfied the night before. If she wants to step out, there is nothing you can do. She would tell me about doing it multiple times with her man, but she still came to me.
/r/askMRP03/10/19 10:20 PM
27

Knee him in the balls hard, and then pummel while he is incapacitated. You need to surprise him with something he can’t shake off quickly. A buddy of mine was being stalked at a bar by his date’s ex-bf. The dude was much bigger. My buddy took a heavy ashtray from a table and tied it into the sleeve in his jacket. As my buddy left the bar, the stalker confronted him. My buddy let loose with the jacket sleeve and knocked the dude flat on his ass. The stalker tried to press charges, but it was toss…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:06 PM
1

She’s on antidepressants...I wouldn’t want to deal with that if she’s only a FWB...hell, I wouldn’t want to deal with that in a LTR.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:32 AM
8

Find a purpose for your life and pursue it. Hopefully, you can find something that you can be passionate about and put your energy into it. Chasing tail should not be the focus of your life or you will be become bored.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 10:28 AM
5

I’m 55 with 4 kids. Married twice (slow learner). No more. I have been dating a 25 y.o. for some time. When I split from the last marriage, I hit the gym hard and lost over 60 pounds. I am very fit and lean now, and it is much easier to game younger women. Getting fit and a flat stomach will help a lot to get their attention. The rest is your confidence and frame. Realize that many guys in their mid 20s are still living at home and don’t have their act together.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:24 PM
3

No, she wasn’t talking flirtatiously. She was complimenting you. Forget it. I have been dating a Colombiana for over a year in Colombia and the culture is different. Sex isn’t so taboo to talk about.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:15 AM
4

You need to watch Alpha Male Strategies pronto. Sell them a dream....tell them you might settle down with the right person, but don’t fall for their nonsense.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:40 AM
3

I think part of your answer is in your post. You were “super annoyed” because she didn’t talk to you for a while? You are caring too much and it probably shows to these women. Then you get thrown into the thirsty pile with the rest of these guys or end up as a friend.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:57 AM
6

I get tons of likes from women who are apparently financially well off (doctors, lawyers) but don’t cut it in the looks department. Sorry...no way for me. I don’t need to be a SB. I’d be looking for a side chick within a couple of weeks. I can’t fake sexual attraction. I would rather stay single than be with someone I am not attracted to.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:57 AM
1

Plenty of sex before marriage with every indication that it would increase after marriage. It dried up. Took me 17 years before I had the balls to move out. Always be ready to walk if you aren’t getting any. I am glad I finally got out. No sense in getting married. Just smash and enjoy yourself until you don’t...then move on.
/r/askMRP09/07/19 01:26 AM
6

I just watched a guy get shot down at the gym last week. If you’re ok with being around her after a possible rejection, why not? Otherwise it might be better to pass. Try to establish a rapport first and feel it out before coming right out and asking her.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 11:55 PM
2

The hardest thing to learn, but the most effective, is to not give a shit. You can shift to getting a drink, but if she still doesn’t show interest, move on. If she’s bluffing, she will send you indicators of interest. If she isn’t, nothing more will happen and you can move on. Caring too much about someone who isn’t interested in you sucks and makes you act like her dancing monkey.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 11:43 PM
1

Get her a webcam and she can do it from home. At least she wouldn’t be grinding on a guy in person. However, it takes a special guy to be in a relationship with one of these girls. Been there, done that, don’t recommend it.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 08:49 PM
2

Either you need to pick better times to initiate and improve your seduction, or GTFO and find someone more willing. If you give up, you might as well end it now. Harsh, but I’ve been through it and found that things improved greatly once I walked.
/r/askMRP29/04/19 12:23 PM
2

Forget your small town...I am in Italy only as a tourist each year and spend part of my time in a village and the rest in the cities. I would make a beeline to Roma and meet women there. I couldn’t imagine trying to deal with the small town environment where everyone knows what you’re doing. Don’t limit yourself to Italian girls. There are a lot of American university girls in Perugia, but they tend to stick together and don’t speak very much Italian. You seem to have a good command of English, …
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:37 AM
15

Stop thinking that she’s out of your league and just go with it. Anytime that you think that she is better, you will screw it up.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:28 AM
8

Just be friendly and leave it at that. Not kidding....very difficult to go from friend to lover. It doesn’t work that way.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:31 PM
0

Just have sex with them first and then become very needy. and validate them constantly. That should do it. Instant friend zone. Easy to go from lover to friend but hard to go from friend to lover.
/r/seduction23/03/19 09:12 PM
2

Don’t get married.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:32 PM
23

No good deed goes unpunished. You should have stayed out of it. There was no upside for you and a big downside....you end up becoming a target. Unless it’s your brother, don’t say shit about what you hear.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 03:04 PM
3

It means that they might let you pay for them to travel to exotic places....with you, if you interest them. They are trolling for free travel.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:24 PM
2

They are good for taking care of cats after they realize that their looks can no longer attract men. She should be thanking her lucky stars that a 27 year old guy is interested in her. The fact that you haven’t scored after three dates should tell you to GTFO now and not invest another dime in her.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:38 AM
1

I can’t say definitely no sex drive, but you are playing against the odds. Three dates and no sex? Ghost her and see if she pursues you. Your time would be better spent on a younger woman who will likely give you a good time in bed. Menopause makes many of the older women useless for a good sexual relationship.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:29 AM
1

I don’t know why you want a woman so old. Women don’t age as well as men, and their sex drive goes way down. I look at the women who are my age and they are wrinkled, fat, or both. Even the hot ones are nothing like they were in their 20s or 30s. I think that you would be much happier with a pre-menopausal woman in her 30s who still has a sex drive, rather than a woman who is about to start collecting cats.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:24 AM
2

Dude, she’s 18. Hit it if you can, but forget about a future with her. She will mature and change as she gets older, and you probably won’t be part of her future. At 18, she is probably at her peak attractiveness now. It will go downhill from here.
/r/seduction08/03/19 03:16 AM
3

Drop her immediately. I am 55 and wouldn’t even consider dating a 57 year old hag. I am in good shape and am dating a 25 year old. Why do you want some post-menopausal 50+ year old with a dried out wizard sleeve? If you want an older woman, go for a thirty something. These 50+ women are a dime a dozen. I have hundreds of them liking me on the dating apps, and 90 per cent aren’t worth a second look.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:08 AM
1

Don’t be surprised when she flakes.
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:40 PM
6

AMS - Alpha Male Strategies. Watch them all. Nothing but hard truth. All of the others are runners up. You started with the best IMO.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:27 AM
1

The hamster at work. Most of them will end up with cats or a guy who is well below their SMV when they were at their peak.
/r/seduction18/02/19 10:51 PM
1

I have it and it has been worth it to see who is swiping right on me. You should put your photos up on photofeeler.com to make sure that they are good enough. I have had a lot of likes....probably 1400 in the last 6 weeks. It depends on your location. I travel a lot and got a bunch in Atlanta and Miami. For me, it helped to see what level of quality I was getting attention from. I won’t lie....at least 70% of them I could not swipe left fast enough.
/r/seduction30/12/18 12:42 AM
1

I don’t see how staying with her and tying down with investment property would be more desirable than GTFO and then do what you want, other than the asset/liability balance sheet. If you are thinking divorce now, life won’t get better by staying.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 10:27 PM
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