A girl I went out with a few times probably has dated about 200 different guys by my estimation and has had Sex 0 times but has had 9-10 LTR's of about 4 months. She has given 40-60 different guys hand jobs or oral.

Is this a high "N" count?

I told her that her N count was super high and that she is a Ho regardless of whether she has had actual sex (obviously I didn't directly called her a ho I just implied a hookup is similar to sex)

Is a girl pure just because she doesn't use her Vag?