So I met this girl at a smaller date-site and we will meet tomorrow. She is really interested in me, asks questions, offered to drive to a town between our locations so we could half the distance. And now she invited me in to a restaurant. However I took initiative in writing to her and setting the date.

I don't know what to think of it. Can she be that submissive? Is she just "nice"? Or is she actually trying to dominate? Also my impulse is to deny and pay for myself. Should I?