When I say I had a bad divorce, my ex-wife got herself entangled in a kidnapping to the point of having a nice long conversation with the local homicide department, and answering the door to bounty hunters after she skipped town. Not needing to go into details, that would be the tip of the iceberg. The point is it has been just over a decade now and I have processed most of this. It is usually when I am going to sleep I still find myself in a flashback and physically start yelling at her, of course with no one really there. Ideas?