I'm 20 in the US, so the nightlife/bar scene is still a ways away for me. Therefore, I'm learning day game until I am of age. Unfortunately, many field reports on TRP revolve around the former sort of setting, which is already fairly sexually charged, so it can be a bit awkward to calibrate it to my playing field.

Therefore, I was wondering if some more experienced individuals could give me some pointers. My goals at the moment are generally to get a number or instadate (coffee) within 3-5 minutes of the initial approach. If they decline I just say goodbye and move on.

However, when they DO say yes, I'm a bit shaky when it comes to escalation. I still feel stiff and awkward. Should I just be going off instincts or is there some gameplan I should be aware of to have more success? If she doesn't reciprocate my advances 2 or 3 times should I just close the date and move on? Kind of flailing around in the dark here. Thanks for any input.