A little background: I used to feel like I had it figured out. After “retiring” from game and settling down, my girlfriend of 5 years cheated on me in my own house. I think that shook me to my core because since then I’ve lost a lot of the confidence I once had.

I’ve been spending the last year working on self-improvement. Lifting weights and shrinking my waist-line has contributed to an increase in my confidence. But what has surprisingly been fun has been the “approaches” I do when I’m delivering for Uber Eats for some extra cash.

It provides plenty of options for being social. I shamelessly flirt with restaurant staff. I have conversations with people I deliver to. Sometimes people initiate with me. It’s great fun and helps keep me in a looser state.