i am 21 M and i have been well with girls mostly. i get dms in insta as i post some video and i get girls too but it’s more likely to be because of my appearance they see me in insta and we decide we should get laid and then we meet. i don’t feel good anymore doing that i want to go out in a pub,club, party talk to a girl and then after that i wanna end up getting laid but i can’t so what are the things that i should work on and how ?