How to execute the nervousness during intercourse with my girlfriend

TooMuchToDoo · 2016-04-03T18:12:46+00:00

I had the same problem before, man. Mine was from some subconscious anxiety that I had about sex and intercourse in general. Let me tell you my story. First off, let me say that condoms suck. They cut off circulation and they kill the mood when you have to stop and put it on. I recommend getting the super-thin condoms to increase feeling down there. All that aside, they are a necessary evil.

When my gf and I tried having sex for the first time, I was hard for the entire duration leading up to it. But for some odd reason, once she started asking for the D, my erection just went away like a wisp of smoke. it was only after the second time that I was able to keep it hard long enough to put a condom on and get it in. That was my first time having sex. This trend of intermittent hardness and flaccidness kept going for a couple months until she was ready to go bare-back. She's on birth control, so there's a window of time during each month that if you happen to cum inside of her, enough time will elapse for the sperm to die before the next ovulation cycle. Anyway, the time came to go without a condom, and it felt AWESOME. She could tell that I was enjoying it as much as her too because of how much harder I was. After a couple of times going bare-back, the anxiety that I had melted away and now I'm hard pretty much whenever she's in my vicinity. Best of luck to you, brother.

crescent2612 · 2016-04-03T18:59:34+00:00

I cant tell if this is a bad joke or not. Listen man, she will leave you without sex. You need to re-evaluate your mentalities and what you want.

What I get from this post is your either gay, extremely low-libido or suffer from massive anxiety. First, why does she think your experienced when you arent? I'm gonna assume you lied to impress her.

If so thats a stupid move. You need to accept yourself. Focus less on external validation and more on internal acceptance. 2 Beers will more than likely make it harder for you stay erect, and thats a horrible idea to begin with. If you cant have sex without compromising your sobriety, than you cant have a successful relationship, or even fuck buddy. Do you not like vaginal intercourse because you dont like vagina? Or is it because you dont feel comfortable with her? Or what?

Condoms are a bitch. But they are necessary. Do you suffer from ED? Anxiety? Depression? Low self esteem?

Title	How to execute the nervousness during intercourse with my girlfriend
Author	george_bluth1
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Date	April 3, 2016 4:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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