I wanted to say this sub is great, I'm learning a lot about perspective and outlook from a female point of view and it's definitely make me question what some of the building blocks of my foundation are.

It definitely seems this sub is focused on creating as many long lasting relationships as possible and giving women the gameplan to do that and to have the leverage to creating relationships with someone who will treat them properly. I respect all of that.

For people who are not interested in long term relationships, what is the advice there? Are relationships without commitment a complete no go for FDS, I'd assume so. And without commitment the relations become more transactional, devolving into a pay to play styled situation which overall doesn't benefit women?

Isn't it in a woman's best interest, as an owner of someone with a valuable resource, to extract as much resources with that if she does not wish to have a long term relationship or have children?

Life seems to all be about leverage, does it not? I think this subreddit is saying, "Hey, you have more leverage than you think, use it to your advantage!" I feel like a lot of MGTOW points emphasize this same logic. It seems like both sides feel like they are powerless and need to wake up and realize their power and use it towards their advantage instead of being taken advantage of.

I'm trying to get into this headspace to understand things from the other side, but it's like a different language. I'm glad the sub exists and I'm glad it's been largely kept male free to allow women their own space to create.

I read some of the FAQs and if you were to write a FAQ for men and what their dating strategy, what would it be? The FAQ here seems to focus on being taken seriously, dating people who will treat you with respect as well as people who are commitment focused while also making sure that the man brings adequate resources to the table.

I'd like to understand the resource point a bit more. Is a man who makes the current average median wage appropriate? Or do you expect someone who makes more than the regular amount? I didn't see any restrictions on height and opening yourself up to dating other races seem all very fair. I guess I'd like to understand what expectations men should have for women would be what I'm interested in understanding because I've come to notice sites that are very pro men or pro female have very good, reasonable expectations for the opposite, but when asked what they should provide, it's like they assume their natural state is fine. So I'm constantly searching for the hypocrisy and trying to weed it out to further my world view. Thank you for your time ladies and I look forward to understanding your points of view much further :)