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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Men that want to be “dominant”But how else will the world know??? No need to be humble ya see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Men that want to be “dominant”Oh yeah! Sounds just like a LVM! Love the double triple quadruple standards here! A "dominant" manly man who wants you to be paying for everything and having a "dominant" role in the relationship while he's being "dominant" in bed! Sure dude... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:33 PM |
| 2 | LVM don’t know where babies come from.Lol! 🤣🤣🤣 It's already taken off I see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Judge Judy putting a male in his placeThe truth and nothing but the truth ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveYes...he's unsuccessfully using appeals to reason and emotion and engages in cognitive distortions, too 🤷♀️ It's about appearances, getting approval and validation and humble bragging if you read between the lines! | /r/askFDS | 10/04/20 09:58 AM |
| 4 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveWe're in agreement! And I can't believe the comments agreeing with him, even partially, and encouraging such problematic attitude and mentality! | /r/askFDS | 10/04/20 09:51 AM |
| 40 | HVMs won't ever tell you to shut up <3Yes! People in love or those caring about their partners tend to love listening to their voice, too. LVMs can't be bothered with you in general and your voice is annoying or boring to them. For the most part they're not even listening to you any way as you're seen as an object they use for their entertainment or interest on a need-basis only! Your presence, personality and unique traits are all inconvenient for him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 11:26 PM |
| 5 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveAlso...I think I scared him! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveBack to the mental and physical load, you'll love the examples here! https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy/comments/fs80ht/feminist_resources_series_part_1_the_mental_load/ Do they really think we're stupid??? 🤣🤣🤣🤯🤯🤯🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspective🤣🤣🤣 👏👏👏 Good one sis! Look at the title where he says "I'm at the point of combining finances with a girl"! Just a girl...like saying a random person! 🤯🤯🤯 | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 9 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveWhere did you dig this up sis? I didn't bother going through his account to be honest! Their life experience gap is very concerning and problematic here as she's in a different life stage at the moment. Plus her being a student and it being a 1 year long distance (is it online???) relationship makes this even worse. The chore division and mental labour gap are real and much like the age and pay gap can be detrimental to women who quite often get worked to the bone as a result? From what I can se… | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveI know sis, I know! Stories like that are pretty common unfortunately. Yet they screech about divorce rape 24/7! He's also pretending safety risks don't exist for women! He's never seen divorces as a lawyer either! Or as a "Financial Advisor"! I called him out on the dv and abuse training both professions receive...ya know, pleading ignorance and all! | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveDid you read my comments and his reply? All of a sudden proposing different things and justifying his original post with excuses about legal lingo etc? That "he would never do that"? Yeah...mental labour and household chores and contribution are grossly underestimated for women and overestimated when it comes to men. In other news, water is wet these days! I called him out on his housekeeping illiteracy and argued that she's worked for her cooking skills and expertise same as you for your pre-me… | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 05:21 PM |
| 7 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveExactly! And the mental gymnastics to rephrase his whole post 😫 | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveThat's exactly what is happening here sis! Why are you being downvoted??? For being right??? They've been full on at me for speaking the truth! I commented extensively on him to ensure other women see through the polished writing style and "lib" mental tricks. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveI'll link you this https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fxmymu/my_girlfriend_is_currently_relatively_financially/ so you can read more about what I mean in other convos. I'm sorry that you went through this but I'm glad you're working on it and you're making progress sis! Being a lawyer you have knowledge of similar stories and coupled with your own experience, I guess it's a true eye opener! Thank you for sharing your story! I sometimes feel I'm perceived as too harsh or unrea… | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 03:34 PM |
| 11 | My girlfriend is currently relatively financially illiterate so for now I imagine she'll largely defer to me... THIS DUDE is so ahead of the curve!!! 👏👏👏Have you read my comments there? So as to not become repetitive regarding his wording, saying he'll combine finances with "a girl" instead of "my partner/ girlfriend or significant other", his inability to comprehend the female risks and experience and the need for separate savings and a fuck off account as you explained? For a lawyer I'm not convinced he's used to legal lingo and thus wrote hastily etc considering that lawyers are rather eloquent and have great command of language. I'm therefor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 7 | Casual sex and hookup culture is one of the greatest evils against womenwAy 2 gO LuV! 👏👏👏 i'm tOtaLLy WitH u oN DiZ oNe! 💪 tHaTs a mAn's dReAm u kNoW! 🤩 a NiCe fREe GirL LiKe u tO dO FreEdOm tHiNgS💋❤🧦🍆🍩👢🌵📹🎬📱🚬 WiTh...4 fReE 💵tHiNkiNg 💭 fReELy iT wAs hEr fReE cHoiCe ⛓🔗🗝 aS a FrEe wOmYn fRoM a FrEe CuLtUrE! 🕊🕊🕊 im fReeLy sEeiNg 4 mOrE fReE wOmYn nOw bUt fOr a fEmdOm FreEdom FiGhtEr LaDy LikE u i cOuLd FiT u 2 iNbEtWeeN 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:50 PM |
| 20 | Casual sex and hookup culture is one of the greatest evils against womenThis naming and shaming mentality and societal or familiar pressure is indeed rather indicative of the normalisation of the hookup culture! It's a herd mentality thing really, wherein they all support the mentality and each other in participating in it blindly and those who don't are shunned! You have sisters here who won't try to engage in such risky, unhealthy and unproductive behaviour 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 35 | Casual sex and hookup culture is one of the greatest evils against womenThere's nothing worse than that and anything that comes with the liberal feminism and the sex positive culture of our times unfortunately! It's amazing that the OP, like the rest of us, has to defend her position as "extreme" to begin with! We're in other words at a point in time where common sense and basic human rights, the very minimum and baseline of human behaviour and expectations from a man as a sexual partner are both labelled and condemned as extreme by others and defended as such by as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:27 PM |
| 17 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspective👏👏👏 I mean, look at the title calling her a girl! Not his partner or girlfriend! What else is there to say really??? | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 11:52 AM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is currently relatively financially illiterate so for now I imagine she'll largely defer to me... THIS DUDE is so ahead of the curve!!! 👏👏👏What do you mean by answered well? Did you read the arguments made against combining finances? He titled the post as I am considering combining finances with "a girl"! Not a partner or girlfriend but a girl! And why girl and not "woman"? At the end of the day what is a man like him (money, power, position) doing with "a girl"? And financially illiterate at that? If by "he answered well you mean" he was polite and decent in his communication and didn't go on a sCroTe RaGe mode or anything, yes, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 11:49 AM |
| 16 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveReally sis? How so? This is not the FDS or financially independent woman way. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 08:17 AM |
| 21 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveI made similar points but he's approaching the matter as a lawyer! Even the post's title "I am at the point of combining finances with A GIRL for the first time" is quite telling! You simply don't combine anything with "a girl" or anyone else unless they're "my partner/girlfriend"! 🤔 | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 08:03 AM |
| 8 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveThanks for your reply! In my opinion, that's too many words for "I'm a lawyer and it shows"! You're merely providing further arguments and justifications in defence of your original position. As a lawyer you know these things...not to mention that being part of the system offers you a disproportionate advantage of her in terms of experience in how interpersonal relationships and financial entanglement works! I'm concerned to hear that an Authorised Financial Advisor would hold such views pertain… | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 07:57 AM |
| 11 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveMy thoughts exactly! I was quite thorough but he replied providing excuses and justifications to defend his post! | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 06:50 AM |
| 36 | 70 Women Ages 5 to 75 Answer: What Advice Do You Have For Men?Great video OP! :-) I'm keeping: "Be nice to girls, your wifes and girlfriends!" "Grow up!" "Say what you mean and do what you say!" "Check your privilege!" "Stop taking your penis out in public!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:07 AM |
| 16 | Am at the point of combining finances with a girl for the first time - would appreciate a female perspectiveHow very magnanimous of you to have taken on such a burden from her sensitive, fragile and uneducated feminine shoulders! 😊 I'm so relieved right now and excited about her! 🤗 You Look like a man with a van plan!!!🚛 Any woman would be so lucky to be with a guy like you! Ya know, having sorted out her financial options and future to such a degree and all! She's currently relatively financially illiterate, so I'm hoping with time she can also learn about this important part of financial stability, … | /r/askFDS | 09/04/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | If lying to women is normal to you there’s something seriously wrong with you. If you brag about tricking women, you’re a disgusting excuse for a ‘man.’ You males need a life outside of porn and penis (LOPP).They lie their way through everything in life unfortunately! And get away with it for the most part! And then they call us shallow, boring and selfish while they are merely a (not always) carefully crafted persona wearing a mask! The mental gymnastics, projections and rationalisations involved alone are scary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Men are co-opting FDS principles and it's concerningJust report Scrott sis! Just report him! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:27 PM |
| 48 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointYep! Internalised misogyny, maladaptive coping strategies and survival mechanisms (due to the nature of their work) and liberal feminism and its "sex positivuty" movement! Whether it was their choice or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:15 PM |
| 59 | This Woman is Doing The Lord’s Work by Refusing to help her friend breed with a LVM.I can't unread this... I just want to bleach my eyes! I'm so happy she called him out for everything and for being the LVM that he is! Her family and friends are disgusting and enablers that are a big part of the LVM pandemic! 👎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy lies to women about aging - and everything reallyHey! :-) Sorry for the late reply! I've had so many notifications that I've lost track! I'm familiar with the site. A resource page would be great for everyone to have. Message me when you can to talk about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | I Love Men: An Open LetternO LuV aLL gOoD jUsT bEeN bUsY! hArD bEiNg a LVM DiZ dAyS 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:44 PM |
| 3 | I Love Men: An Open LetterBeyond the pale really! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivE💦💦💦 sOrRy bEaUtiFuL! i cOuLdn'T sToP iT ☺️☺️☺️ sArDiNe OiL u sAy???🐟🐟🐟 jUsT mY tYpE oF GirL 👍👍👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I Love Men: An Open LetterbEhAvE yOuRseLf WoMyN!!! hAvE u aPpLiEd 4 tHe pOziTiOn??? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:29 PM |
| 183 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointAnd in general avoid any pornsick, pornified, sexualised, deprived or objectifying mentality and behaviour from a man! Men that engage in such behaviours will say or do anything to get laid! So, vet them thoroughly, ruthlessly and unapologetically! Put your safety and your physical and mental health and wellbeing first and over his "comfort" or "privacy" issues! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:01 PM |
| 9 | Men thinking they’re wokeYou have to laugh at the double triple quadruple standards for women though! They need to balance work and childcare and housework and and and everything else! The "not ready (yet)" means "not ready for you"! It's a lie and an excuse used by men to avoid responsibility and basic human decency! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:40 AM |
| 40 | Boys after you treat them how they treat yousO tRuE! 😔 uS bOyZ sO bUtThurT wHeN wOmYn bAd 🤕 🤧 😢 wHy u sO iNsEsiTivE??? 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:30 AM |
| 29 | Men are co-opting FDS principles and it's concerning🤣🤣🤣 Sure sis, I'll do my best! Although a couple of other people have complained! aS a KiNg i hAvE 2 DiZaGrEe WiTh u OP mY LaDy qUeEn! 😔 mEn DiZ dAyS sUfFeR sO vErA mUcH yA kNoW! i'Ve bEeN CaLLeD a ShRiMp siMp mEseLf iN dA pAsT fOr mY SiZe 😢 (2,37 iF u MuSt KnOw) aNd iT wAz bAd! i TrEaT dA LaDiEz LikE qUeEnz aNd mY bRoZ nO TaLk 2 Me No mOre! sO i LuRk hErE iN FDS hOpiNg 2 FiNd mE a GoOd ViCtiM 🧛♂️ ViRgiN 👰 ViRtUaL 👩💻 wOmyN ☺️☺️☺️😭😭😭 pLeAz dOnT bE sO mEaN OP! gOoD mEn aRe DiVoRcE rApEd dAiLy! 🤕… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 10:26 AM |
| 5 | ULTIMATE PICKME SPOTTED: Woman not only settles for a lifer in prison, but also spends several years of her lifespan trying to set him free.🤔 What does a "local con artist" like you need this information for??? 🤣🤣🤣 Oh sis, you killed me with your username! And then the comment...🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 08:59 AM |
| 19 | Men thinking they’re wokeI only read "a lot of men" and "in fear" 👍👍👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 08:11 AM |
| 67 | Men are co-opting FDS principles and it's concerningPretends to be socked by male behaviour 😱 They have always adopted, adapted and appropriated anything related to women and the female experience! They even claim they are oppressed!!! 🤯 They are the ones who invented the game at the end of the day! Let them try! 🤷♀️🤣 This is a man's world! 🛴🤹♂️ Edit: to add the illustrations 🤣 as I felt the 🛴🤹♂️ were particularly important in making this point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 07:15 AM |
| -1 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)I just saw it. It wasn't showing as I'm only seeing the notifications for our conversation. I am not sure what to reply to this. You're saying your oponion is justified and thus you are standing by it because she confirmed it by a statement? Which was in turn confirmed by what you said? Exhibiting confirmation bias when we were just talking about cognitive distortions and fallacies? Wha tt about circular logic? Anyway, we could turn this into a debate but I do not see the point here. I can decon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:47 AM |
| -1 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)Well seeing that she commented “that’s exactly how I felt”, I stand by what I said but recognize your intentions might have been different. Where is that comment? It wasn't part of our conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:14 AM |
| 0 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)I was going to reply on the whole comment but I read your point on When I first read her reply it appeared like you were bullying OP into taking back what she‘d originally said. and wanted to know more about your perspective and how you see things now. Meaning, now that you've read it more than once and we've also talked about it more and explained our positions. How does it appear now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | I was looking for videos about FDS to improve myself, instead of i found this...huge pick me vibesHey! :-) I'm not sure if you've deleted your post yet! But do have a look at "toxic positivity" and the dangers of it. We tend to only know about toxic negativity and focus on that. There are pros and cons to both. One of the basic premises of the sub is "knowing thy self AND thy enemy/other". I can't know what the post is/was about but these are some additional points to remember. I understand what you're saying, but a lot or some women could find it beneficial as they can relate to it. Also, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:29 AM |
| -1 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)Putting losers down is both unproductive, unnecessary and can reflect poorly on our character. Each to their own I guess! It's all there for people to read and use their critical thinking skills. But I think it’s good to keep in mind there’s got to be a balance of having awareness that these people exist and what they do is wrong, and straight ruminating on negativity. The former is beneficial, the latter can keep people from moving forward. What is "rumination" here? Are you referring to the ps… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 12:16 AM |
| 17 | This flip flopping is giving me whiplash 🙄 a prime example of gaslighting here.I love you, too, OP! ❤ (Minus the gaslighting! 😉) Stay strong sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 153 | My online dating experience in IsraelYes and No! :-) Depends on the person and whether they are secure in themselves or have low self-esteem. And if you're up to their games and manipulation tactics! It's complex! Definition of "negging" from Wikipedia: "Negging" is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and increase their need of the manipulator's approval." So, it is done in purpose, with motive and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 488 | My online dating experience in IsraelClassic negging example from LVM! He even did the "You should smile more" backwards expecting to get brownie points! At least you're perfect OP! NOT like other girls! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:37 PM |
| 59 | She screwed this dusty troll and he complains! This is the reality of LVM. They’re never happy because they’re deeply inadequate. DISGUSTING! Most of these women sadly find out most of those men barely scraped plane ticket money to get there!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're killing me here sis! "Must have a neck"! Hahahaha!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:20 PM |
| 20 | Parasite Males Gonna ParasiteCold hard truth! 🦠🦠🦠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:10 PM |
| 12 | Or buttfished.iF nOt hErZ cAn wE TaLk aBoUt yOuRz LuV?😏 🤣 A LVM will find a way! Where there is will, there is a way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 10 | Rape by deception is any consent gained via deception. This idiot rapist asked Twitter if he was a rapist.Dear world, AITA for being an Asshole??? (p.S. sEriOuS rEpLieS ONLY!) In other news, water is wet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:03 PM |
| 28 | She screwed this dusty troll and he complains! This is the reality of LVM. They’re never happy because they’re deeply inadequate. DISGUSTING! Most of these women sadly find out most of those men barely scraped plane ticket money to get there!i aGrEe LuV! i gEt sO iNsPiReD As a mAn 😏 fRoM tHiS sHoW! dUdEz tHerE aRe sO bAseD! 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:01 PM |
| 15 | Or buttfished.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Talking about high (butt) standards here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Narcissistic Lovebombing vs Genuine Romantic InterestWhat an odd thing to say sister! Thank you for letting me know about your associations and for providing information on multilevel marketing "huns" that you find offputting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :):-) It's great actually! Do go over and go through the posts! There are many interesting topics and everyone is always helping each other with resources and tips! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:59 PM |
| 13 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)There is no "One size fits all" approach to this really! We all find different things helpful in different stages of our journey! As you said, even if a single woman is helped and wakes up by seeing a similar experience to her and relating, that's more than enough for me! And those posts shouldn't stop! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)The Level Up sub is great for such discussions! I know what you mean! :-) I try to contribute my more serious stuff there and leave the funny or Scrott-related ones here. But the Level Up definitely has a different mentality and is a more relaxed and quiet space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)Thanks for clarifying it is your personal opinion and nothing else. You've mislabelled your post as "Strategy"! Perhaps change that to "Discussion" or "Rant" as this is definitely not FDS Strategy! I responded to your post based on your flair; hence I could not kindly disregard it. It is imperative to provide feedback when necessary in order to level up as you must know, since that's the point you were trying to make. It's good of you to acknowledge the issues with your post; please do add some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)Exactly! These kinds of posts aren't helpful at all! Except for showing what not to do of course! Enough with the gatekeeping! She's probably never heard of the other sub anyway r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy/ 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Something I came up with after much thought. Hope some of you girls appreciate :)Why the gatekeeping sis? 🤷♀️ What happened to each to their own and freedom of speech? I get what you mean, but not everyone is at the same stage of their journey and/or recovery and thus different people find different things appropriate at different points in time! One size doesn't fit all! Putting losers down is both unproductive, unnecessary and can reflect poorly on our character. This was completely unnecessary! No need to shame women! And surely it is not a poor reflection on our behalf … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 14 | What a tempting offer.Where do we sign up??? Dude's obviously a pro!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Shame on him for excluding Women of The Wall 20-40 though!!! Not cool bro! NOT cool! 👎👎👎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:34 PM |
| 45 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 God, I CAN'T breath!!! OP you're killing me!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:31 PM |
| 27 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.Can't even pretend to be socked 😱 by male depravity any more...Grabbed my 🍿🍟🍦and enjoyed the 🎬 though! Guy's got talent 🤹♂️ for sure 🎠🎡🎢💈🎪 Kudos Scrott, kudos! Thanks for the laughs!👏👏👏 🤣🤣🤣 OP! Thanks for the entertainment! That was quite the story there! 🤣🤣🤣 That poor thing! To "survive" such a horrid accident only to become a pariah and socially and emotionally rejected! 🤣🤣🤣 At least the nudes help! 💦💦💦 With emotional security and providing a safe space for him to becumcome whole again! What … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEHeLLo BEaUtiFuL 😉 WeLcOmE 🧛♂️ wYd? 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:07 AM |
| 8 | Ezra MillerIt's ok sis! Just click on my account for more laughs! 🤣🤣🤣 https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fra82d/looking_4_a_ltr_with_one_or_more_of_you_sexy/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:18 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, validation needed!OMG!!!😱😱😱 I'm so sorry you went through this sis! You are definitely in the right! He's abusive and has anger management and emotional regulation issues at the very least! Who knows what else!!! You did the right thing to break up with him! I hope he stays out of your life for good! I'm concerned about your safety to be honest with you as these are huge red flags!!!🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 07:08 AM |
| 30 | Finally met the HVM who will listen to me talk without interrupting!This dude is both cute AND based!😉 🐶❤🐶❤🐶❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:48 AM |
| 36 | Ezra MillerNo way! 😱😱😱 The guy's sO bAsEd aNd qUeEr 🤠🤠🤠 sister! Besides, double standards against women were invented for a reason! I thought it was obvious! I mean, men are suffering the world over and opinions like yours oppress them further! wHaT aBoUt eQuaLiTy??? dA sExiSm aLonE 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 06:41 AM |
| 7 | Narcissistic Lovebombing vs Genuine Romantic InterestdEfiNitELy gEnUinE LuV! ❤❤❤ gUyS aRe sO sEnsiTivE aFteR all aNd sUfFeR fRoM fEmALe ReJexiOn! 😢😢😢😞😞😞 LeT mE GiVe u sOmE iNdiSpuTabLe tRuth oN MaLe sEnSitIViTy 💦💦💦😱😱😱☺️☺️☺️😭😭😭 https://highlysensitiverefuge.com/highly-sensitive-man-whammy/ Edit: To add said link from a blog piece given to me by a Scrott in one of our convos as EVIDENCE on male sensitivity and female rejection and a defense to men being tough and not showing emotion!!! No kidding ladies!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I had to go and make a post about it! S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:49 AM |
| 37 | Cringei aLwAyZ kNeW u wErE nOt LiKe dA oDeR oNeZ 🥰🥰🥰 u mAkE mE cUm LiKe nO oThEr wOmyN 💦💦💦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:56 AM |
| 27 | Cringe(No, no sis! I'm the guy here! You play the blushing flattered pickme maid!) wHaT u sAyinG wOmYn??? u ToOk aWaY mY OnLy dAtE iDeA??? 😱😢😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:53 AM |
| 27 | CringebUttTtt bUttT mUhhh DiCk DiDn'T wOrk???? 🤔🤔🤔😞😞😞😢😢😢 RIP Greenteaapplepie69 mY LuV!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:50 AM |
| 59 | CringenAhHhh jUsT jEaLouS oF mY BiG DiCk eNerGy 🍆💪🤹♂️ 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:34 AM |
| 27 | Cringe😱😱😱 mE aNd mY pEaNuT DeNniS PeNiS WiLL bRiNg u bAcK 2 LiFe LuV!!! 💪💪💪 LemMiE gEt iT oUt!!! 🍆🍆🍆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:32 AM |
| 34 | CringeoHhHh....aNodA LaDy fUn fAn!!! 🤗🤗🤗 hOw u dOiNg bEaUtiFuL??? 😏😏😏 (🤣🤣🤣 Thanks sis!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:28 AM |
| 51 | Cringe(🤣🤣🤣) aS a mAn i aGrEe! sAmE 4 cOrN! fRoZen 4 LiFe! Edit to add: scrotes are so mad we're downvoted to oblivion sis! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:25 AM |
| 64 | CringewHy LuV??? wHaTz wRonG WiTh gRiLLeD cHeeSe??? 😢😢😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:22 AM |
| 76 | CringeiT wAs iN dA sPiCe i'm TeLLinG yA gUyZ! 😏😏😏 iTs aLwAyZ dA sPicE WiTh dA LaDiEz! 😎😎😎 pLuS i mAkE qUiTe dA gRiLLeD cHeeSe aNd sAusAgE iF u KnOw wHaT i mEaN 😉😉😉 oH aNd i LikE mE wOmYn DoWn 2 EaRtH, 🌍HuMbLe aNd LaW LoW eFfoRt mAinTeNaNcE! 🤓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Found some HVM in r/LifeProTips and it gave me a little hope.hOw dArE u sHaRe yOuR OpiNioN??? 😱 oN mEn oF aLL tHiNgS??? bUrN dA WiTcH!!! 🔥 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:09 AM |
| 16 | I hate how pervasive porn has become.ORIGINAL POST CAN BE FOUND HERE: It blows my mind how it seems like every guy I know watches it. Porn stars are romanticized, celebrated, and worshipped by men who will never even meet them, let alone get the chance to sleep with them. Men commiserate over their favorites stars like celebrities. Many do this right in front of girlfriends, wives, etc. and no one bats an eye. It's become so pervasive, so commonplace, so mainstream that it look at it with a critical eye feels prudish. I know that, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:54 AM |
| 78 | I Love Men: An Open LetterHVM hEre LuV!!! 😏😏😏 rARe DiaMonD mE SeLf 💎 jUsT LiKe u sAiD! sOrRy u wEnT tHrOuGh aLL DiS! 😞 WiSh a WOmYn LikE u wHerE SiNgLe 😢 u No LikE oThEr GirLz u KnOw! UnLesS yOuR bF DoEzN'T MiNd????🤠🤠🤠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:46 AM |
| 49 | Why shouldn't you get what you give?Entitled and Butthurt Men throwing testerical mantrums🍼🛴👶 have entered the chat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:40 AM |
| 25 | Pandemic and old dates coming out of the wood workHeLLo LuV!!! 😏😏😏 iT's mE JiM fRoM KiNdeRgaRteN!!! 👶🍼🧸🧩🛴 wYd??? 🤣🤣🤣 On a serious note, as I've said before, I usually go by: 🔕 NO RESPONSE IS THE BEST RESPONSE ❌ AUTO COCK-BLOCK AND DELETE OR "WHO IS THIS?"/ "WHO DIS?" (the only appropriate response if you do want to reply 😉 and only after 3 days or something 🤣) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:22 AM |
| 26 | Like many I reactivated OLD to see if this crisis has shifted the results. I’ve thought that just like women learn to level up because of hard circumstances that men could become better. Had zero expectations and am not being disappointed. Don’t see my experiment lasting much longer and it’s day 3.Pretends to be socked by male behaviour... 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:19 AM |
| 206 | What mixed signals really are.Amazing how these mixed signals all tend to send a very clear message! 🤷♀️ All you have to do is listen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:22 PM |
| 52 | FactsOr fuck our way...or netflix and chill our way...or cool girl our way or you-name-it earn our way into men's respect! Cause ya know...obviously we can't be afforded basic human rights like dignity and respect! Those are solely reserved for fellow men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 28 | Use this time to assess actions, not words.Sis, with the flair you mean... TreatHimLikeAVirus2020 This pandemic is going to reveal their true colours! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:13 PM |
| 16 | Signs You're Dating A LoserPART F Stage 3 - Follow-up Protection "The Loser" never sees their responsibility or involvement in the difficulties in the relationship. From a psychological standpoint, "The Loser" has lived and behaved in this manner most of their life, clearly all of their adult life. As they really don't see themselves at fault or as an individual with a problem, "The Loser" tends to think that the girlfriend or boyfriend is simply going through a phase - their partner (victim) might be temporarily mixed up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:47 AM |
| 14 | Signs You're Dating A LoserPART E Guidelines for Detachment Separating from "The Loser" often involves three stages: The Detachment, Ending the Relationship, and the Follow-up Protection. Stage 1 - The Detachment During this part of separating from "The Loser", you recognize what you must do and create an Exit Plan. Many individuals fail in attempts to detach from "The Loser" because they leave suddenly and impulsively, without proper planning, and without resources. In many cases, "The Loser" has isolated their partner f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:44 AM |
| 16 | Signs You're Dating A LoserPART D 18. Walking on Eggshells As a relationship with "The Loser" continues, you will gradually be exposed to verbal intimidation, temper tantrums, lengthy interrogations about trivial matters, violence/threats directed at others but witnessed by you, paranoid preoccupation with your activities, and a variety of put-downs on your character. You will quickly find yourself "walking on eggshells" in their presence - fearful to bring up topics, fearful to mention that you spoke to or saw a friend, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:40 AM |
| 19 | Signs You're Dating A LoserPART C 10. Paranoid Control "The Loser" will check up on you and keep track of where you are and who you are with. If you speak to a member of the opposite sex, you receive twenty questions about how you know them. If you don't answer their phone call, you are ask where you were, what were you doing, who you were talking to, etc. They will notice the type of mud on your car, question why you shop certain places, and question why you called a friend, why the friend called you, and so forth. Some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:37 AM |
| 14 | Signs You're Dating A LoserIt's a good one! Don't worry! :-) I'm posting it in parts to make it more user-friendly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:35 AM |
| 29 | Signs You're Dating A LoserPART B The Signs 1. Rough Treatment "The Loser" will hurt you on purpose. If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property EVEN ONCE, drop them. Male losers often begin with behaviors that move you physically or hit the wall. Female losers often slap, kick and even punch their male partners when upset. 2. Quick Attachment and Expression "The Loser" has very shallow emotions and connections with others. One of the things that might a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:32 AM |
| 38 | Signs You're Dating A LoserGreat resource OP! :-) PART A: "The Loser" Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D., Psychologist Comment (September 27, 2003) This article was published to the Internet several years ago and was originally written to help identify "Losers" in relationships. The e-mail feedback I have received on the article has been tremendous. It's clear the article is a way of identifying not only "losers" but controlling, abusive, and manipulating individuals. It's also obvious these warni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Woman risks her life to work as a CNA during COVID and this is the thanks she gets from her “partner”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know, right??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:43 AM |
| 85 | Woman risks her life to work as a CNA during COVID and this is the thanks she gets from her “partner”I cringed so bad at the 💪part!!! Why, he surely sounds like a real gem! Entitled bro much??? Everything has to be about them and them alone! I hope she finds herself stronger, wiser and alone at the end of this pandemic and global crisis! Any woman deserves better than that, but she's currently risking her life daily while he's living the dream! TreatThemLikeAVirus2020 AtLeast1,5milesAwayFromU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 05:54 AM |
| 29 | SEE MALE LURKERS, this spider knows his placeMost animals put in more work than most men in order to get a female! Ya know, talking about nature and male imperatives and all! But for most men today it's mostly about investing in 🚘🛏🍟🛵🎠🧸♦️🎰🍺⚽️🍔🍆🦹♂️👯♂️🚲🥓🎮😭🍩🚵♂️🍭🎭🤧🧗♂️🎽🥅🎣🃏🏕😭🍼🎡🏈🍕🕹🎯🧩🛴🎉🎫🔮🥫🎡🏀🌭🎲🏖🏦🎢🚤🎧📱🧮🏹⛓🔫🚬🥪 instead of women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 04:39 AM |
| 90 | LVM needing to be bribed with favors to do basic chores, and he still finds a way to abuse it.. ALWAYS REMEMBER ✅ You are his Significant Other NOT his Significant Mother 🧸 🍼 ✅ You are NOT here to raise someone else's son! 👶 🍭 🤱 ✅ You CAN'T help someone who can't or won't help themselves! 😭 🤧 ✅ DON'T take up someone else's problems or projects! 👷♀️ 👩🍳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 04:14 AM |
| 57 | “hE’s A sImP”Agreed! This "simptuation" is getting out of control! Too much insecurity and projections! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 72 | Y’all. I have no words. Guys who are into hurting women during sex are automatically LVM 🤮I want to be put in place panties and be chained up to the wall blindfolded and attacked by multiple men fucking my ass OK mate! Kudos man! 👏👏👏 You want to be raped! We got it! And then you want to similarly rape your girlfriend! Anal she won't let me do and keeps fighting me on THAT'S CALLED RAPE! Or during a blow job. She can't just let spit get sloppy. She always has to take a break and spit in the garbage. THAT'S CALLED RAPE, TOO! ...but with consent obviously. Oh, thank God mate! You had us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Men will sleep with absolutely anyoneNah sis! I'm talking about the "why" and "how", not about the "if" they are! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:45 AM |
| 13 | Men will sleep with absolutely anyoneHence the water is wet! I'm explaining why it's getting worse and out of control now and what the contemporary conditions contributing to that are. They didn't have or think they had hundreds or thousands potential partners at the tip of their fingers historically. That they can spin, plate, use, abuse and discard! That's not how the market or society worked. It changed with technological advances and the advent of internet and internet dating. Men didn't have that much access to women before. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 30 | Men will sleep with absolutely anyone😯 On other news, water is wet! 😯 You're right, this is common experience or rationale provided by men to some extent or the other! Because they will do anything to get laid! And you'll get it straight from the horse's mouth like you did! Tech advances and apps have distorted their perceptions of the sexual market, making them believe there's increased supply and demand! False perceptions and artificial increases and phenomena in other words, which when coupled with overestimating their own attra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/4/2020I'm sorry you're going through this right now! Please know that it is not your fault and that you tried your best! It's not you, it's him! The isolation is a difficult period for everyone and when it comes to abuse, things tend to get worse as people are essentially "trapped" with each other for weeks or months on end. I'd strongly advice against telling him about a divorce right now! Prepare on your own and do as much research as possible secretly! I'm glad you are taking the right steps! :-) S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 09:17 AM |
| 11 | Husband didn’t get me anything. Am I overreactingLVMs deserve a taste of their own medicine sometimes! Not for them! But in the hopes that someone else will read the conversation and wake up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 08:04 AM |
| 50 | Be the plate that smashed👆 THIS attitude! 👆 THIS woman knows the game! Respect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 08:01 AM |
| 13 | 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Kudos to the great-grandfather, aged 89, and whose eldest daughter is 65, for becoming a father again with his 3rd wife, who is 43, only 22 years younger than his daughter! Congrats LVM!!! 🥳🥳🥳 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮I know! It's disgusting and it sets such a terrible precedent for everyone! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:50 AM |
| 16 | A day in the life of a LVM and their delusional, distorted and irrational thinking! Or...The lies men tell themselves to justify their behaviour!A girl has to do what a girl has to do! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:49 AM |
| 20 | Husband didn’t get me anything. Am I overreactingHey OP! :-)))) LVM Police here I just took care of the rational alpha male in the other sub for you! Here's my reply in case it gets deleted over there! RATIONAL ALPHA MALE: Aureliuseses1h So, I gotta say, I don’t really know what you’re looking for here. You call him selfish for doing a few things you agreed to do, you have the agency to say no...have you ever done that. Said, “no, I’m not going to do that”? Honestly, it sounds like he bankrolls you, gives you all his money, moved for a job tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:43 AM |
| 43 | 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Kudos to the great-grandfather, aged 89, and whose eldest daughter is 65, for becoming a father again with his 3rd wife, who is 43, only 22 years younger than his daughter! Congrats LVM!!! 🥳🥳🥳 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮They don't understand or pretend not to understand the implications for the child! I've heard cases with big age differences justifying having a child so that the woman "will have some company once he's gone" and for him "to have a chance/second chance to fatherhood" and that "he'll definitely feel better and younger now and therefore live longer"! The mental gymnastics involved! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:55 AM |
| 13 | Patriarchy lies to women about aging - and everything reallyThat's a great reminder regarding the myths developed and perpetuate by the patriarchy surrounding women, womanhood and their roles within the patriarchical system! I'm reposting some resources on further information and books on porn both from a professional and personal/ lived experience perspective for those who might need them. RESOURCES FOR SEX/AROUSAL ADDICTION . Gary Wilson, The Great Porn Experiment https://youtu.be/wSF82AwSDiU Maria Ahlin, Let's Talk Porn https://youtu.be/DBTb71UzPmY ht… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an example☺️☺️☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an exampleim RigHt hErE mY LuV! 🥰🥰🥰 jUsT bUzY dOiNg LVM sTuFf aNd tRyiNg 2 sPrEaD tHe CoRoNa LoVe! ❤❤❤ yEs, pLeAsE dO bE a DoOrmAt 4 mE mY pReCiOuS! tHaT wOuLd mEaN dE wOrLd 2 mE, mY mOtHeR aNd 3 KiDz! wE nEed sUpPoRt RiGhT nOw! 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Here's your daily reality checktHanK u LuV! 😏😏😏 ❤❤❤ (When I'm not serious I like joking with LVM stuff 🤣🤣🤣) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:40 AM |
| 4 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”Thank you for responding and engaging in this conversation! It did not come out wrong, it was wrong! It is good for you to acknowledge it and be respectful about it. You have correctly identified that you are still processing things and that you know you are resentful and wondering about other women. Which is part of processing, healing and recovery! Be careful however about your thoughts regarding other women as well as generalisations, making assumptions, minimising, etc in terms of unhelpful … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 3 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”Ahhh...The benefits of: ❌ Cock Ghost - Block - Delete Completely and totally rendering them irrelevant to you and moving on with your life is completely underrated as an option! I'm glad you took this root sister! "Closure" is complex and they usually find a way to manipulate reality and refute your arguments and so on and so forth! You got the best closure possible! I don't want to think what he could have done given his volatile and abusing behaviour! As they say "Indifference is the opposite … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:37 AM |
| 81 | Saw this on Instagram thought y’all might appreciate✔ Straight from the horse's mouth ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:17 AM |
| 9 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”Because I know he knew I had a low self esteem so I was easy to manipulate just by showing affection to take it away and make me chase it. But my self esteem isn’t low enough to let him sit there and berate me all the time. I had enough confidence to tell him to shut the fuck up that I’m done with dealing with his shit because I don’t deserve to be treated like that. Thanks for explaining further, but that is not what I asked or meant. I said he’ll find the perfect girl who has an even lower sel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 02:10 AM |
| 7 | I have bird standards👏👏👏 Bird up guys, bird up!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 12 | Wives can refuse sexual advances from husbands during coronavirus quarantine, says top Saudi cleric. It apparently takes a pandemic to give women the right to body autonomy.Male Magnanimity and Generosity have entered the chat... Women the world over are Now Saved and left the chat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/4/2020Let's remember to take extra care of our physical and mental health and wellbeing during this self-isolation and crisis period! Some resources can be found here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fnwa7q/resources_how_to_go_about_surviving_the/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 48 | Apparently you can be banned from r/relationship_advice for “pornshaming”. Not liking porn is apparently a slippery slope to “bigotry” according to the mods.When all things go wrong...TRUST Relationship Advice to "show" you the way! They know best! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 11:04 PM |
| 18 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”I said he’ll find the perfect girl who has an even lower self esteem that can make him happy. I was wondering why you felt the need to say this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 10:41 PM |
| 52 | 99% sure there'll be a double standardMale Rational Thought and Entitlement have entered the chat... Humanity and Reason left the chat immediately... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 10:28 PM |
| 29 | Here's your daily reality checkMale Depravity, Male Rational Thought and Male Hygiene have entered the chat... Common Sense, Dignity and even Covid19 itself run for their lives... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an example(Hahahaha!!!!!! I love the context note!) LuV, tHeY WiLL nEveR gEt a LuV LiKe oUrS! tHeY SiMpLy jEaLoUs u KnOw! nO, nO u nO gUy! u hAvE TiTtS! bEsiDeS LesBiAniSm iZ nOt rEaL! sEnD mE a PiC!!! iTs UrGenT!!! 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an exampleYou have no idea sis! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:58 PM |
| 15 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an exampleHeLLo LuV! MiSSed mE??? 😏😏😏 Iz tHaT 🍆 fOr mE??? 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an examplePlease tell me you agree with the "rational" man part at least! I don't get the mocking in this sub! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 39 | Women, patriarchy and aging. Being over 25 doesn't make you worthless. Life doesn't end, it gets better. We get better.Glad you're self-aware sis! That's the first step for ANY woman since we're irrational and shouldn't have been voting! Kudos to you for removing yourself from the competition altogether! I'm sorry you're an oldfart spinster but I'm sure the guy's charitable and magnanimous enough to at least let you join them from time to time! Don't despair! My thoughts and prayers are with you! 🙏🙏🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:28 PM |
| 73 | Why FDS is the best way to approach dating/relationships using prestigious companies as an example🤔🤔🤔 I'm not convinced sis! 😛 You see Apple owes it to people to use its products for free! Just because! Wouldn't want all those people to die from depression and neglect and not having access to Apple products! That's how revolutions start you know! Men need their Apple! Who does Apple think it is? Doesn't it know it's in men's nature to have Apple prods? Their DNA? Apple is gonna die alone, a spinster, with a cat and a couple of buyers left if it's not more reasonable in its pricing! Just sayi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:23 PM |
| 12 | Women, patriarchy and aging. Being over 25 doesn't make you worthless. Life doesn't end, it gets better. We get better.Isn't laughing all we do these days when it comes to them? 🤔 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 62 | Women, patriarchy and aging. Being over 25 doesn't make you worthless. Life doesn't end, it gets better. We get better."Men that age like fine wine and can reproduce with virgin teenagers until their 90s due to male imperative" have entered the chat... 🏋️♂️🏋️♂️🏋️♂️ Even the chat itself left the chat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:06 PM |
| 60 | This medieval French story has me in tears lol 😂The famous expression "A tale as old as time itself..." is based on true stories! Men have historically behaved abominably as a collective! History is full of such examples and tales! They choose to deny it and pretend otherwise! 😇 They try to hide their true nature! 🦠 🐥 🐍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:02 PM |
| 168 | Katie from PornHub is really gunning for that PickMeisha of The Year Award. Katie follows child rape victims around various social media platforms to call them a liar.Katie is a "cool" girl! Katie deserves a prize! Here you go Katie! 🖕🖕🖕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:46 AM |
| 69 | If you have to ask "who is this?", you aren't going to like the answer. Don't reply to anonymous texts.True! It's always a LVM behind this kind of texts wanting to do a "cumback" in your life! Nothing more nothing less than wanting to use their usual "use, abuse, discard" tactics! PRO TIPS: NEVER reply "Who is this?" when you can say "Who dis?" 🤣🤣🤣 Then Cock Block and Delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:32 AM |
| 161 | A woman for our times👏👏👏 She dropped this on the way 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 35 | He’s special. He’s a nice guy.bUt hOw eLse cAn i mAniPuLaTe mY ViCtiMz 🧛♂️ iF nOt bY ViRtUe SiGnaLiNg aNd FOMO LuV??? 🤔 a nArCisSisTiC MaN 😏 hAs 2 gEt HiZ sUppLy sOmEhOw iF u KnOw wHaT i mEaN! 😉 nO BiGgiE rEaLLy 🤷♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 28 | Proven Science - Women are genetically superior at all stages of life and in all circumstances. The incomplete Y chromosome does not confer the same benefits as two X'sSupreme Alpha Males and Masters of the Universe have entered the chat... "As a man"... 🦚 🐣 🐸 Women Laughing Out Loud couldn't be bothered and left the chat... 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:36 PM |
| 53 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!🥰🥰🥰 cAn i pUt MUuhh 🍆 iN yOuR 🍩 mE LaDy??? 😏😏😏 i pRoMiSe iLL bE gEntLe🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:00 PM |
| 4 | I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month markLeave your comment as a dude then and laugh with the rest of us! Just be a bro wOmyN for! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:03 PM |
| 18 | I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month markNah sis! I put all my art in ASM! It's serious stuff! 🤣🤣🤣 https://www.reddit.com/r/ActualStraightMen/comments/fqgg0v/men_down_under_have_it_worse/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 113 | Men just want a servant that always says yesMale Rational Thought and Entitlement have entered the chat... Funny how they only want the "good-for-them" aspect of the good old' times without any of the responsibilities of a "traditional" relationship or marriage! No double standards here found at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:34 AM |
| 36 | This sub keeps being tagged for “hate speech”Yes, Scrott...she is talking about you dear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:24 AM |
| 53 | There’s no excuse.bUtttt mUhhh DiCk????? 😭😭😭 nOt fAiR wOmyN, nOt fAiR! 😡😡😡 It's high time women got rid of the notion of excusing and forgiving any and all behaviours from men! Or thinking that men have it hard and society oppresses them and doesn't allow them to show their emotions and that's why they go nuts at people! Because they bottle up etc! Everybody goes through stuff in their lives yet not everyone behaves that way or expects or feels entitled to special treatment, coddling and other people's mental lab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:19 AM |
| 61 | I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month markiSn'T iT oBviOuS mY LoVe? 😏 hE iZ aNoTheR mAn gEtTiNg dA TiTTieS 🍼 fRom dA mAn! cOmPeTiSiOn aNd aLL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 56 | I thought this one was a little ridiculous. Some women aren't even healed at the two month markaS a MaN i cAn OnLy aGrEe WiTh u mY bRotHeR! 👏👏👏 RIP 2 dAt 🍆 oF yOuRs! mAy iT rEsT iN PiEcEs peace! ⚰ u ShOuLd dEfiNiTeLy TaLk sOmE sEnSe 2 dAt LiTtLe cOcK bLoCkEr oF YOuRs! 😠 yOuNg KiDz DiZ dAyz hAvE nO rEsPeCt! tHen aGaiN hE iZ a sOn! WhAt DiD u ExpEcT??? 🤔 sHoW HiM u aLphA MaLe 🔫 aNd mEaN bUsiNeZ WiTh HiZ mOmMa aSaP! DoZ TiTTieS 🍼 aRe yOuRs mAn! gO gEt tHeM! 😝 u cAn dO DiZ mUhhh KiNg 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:49 AM |
| 13 | Ya burntI'm confused about what exactly you are confused to be honest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:30 AM |
| 10 | What one comment will get ya 🤣So long as you checker her activity for being in FDS Scrott you'll be fine! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 05:17 AM |
| 29 | Why is this something you would be proud of, or want to share publicly?🤮i mEan SuRe! tHe dUdE iZ bAsEd 👏 aNd a KiNg oBviOusLy! 👑 DoNt bE a KiLLjOy wOmYn! 😤 pOrNsTaRiNg iZ a LiFe gOaL fOr uS mEn! 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:49 AM |
| 8 | Ya burntMore like...He is the this April's Fool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:29 AM |
| 192 | Ya burnt👆 THIS response and rationale! Depending on the mood, I always go by: 🔕 NO RESPONSE IS THE BEST RESPONSE ❌ AUTO COCK-BLOCK AND DELETE OR "WHO IS THIS?" (the only appropriate response if you do want to reply 😉 and only after 3 days or something 🤣) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:10 AM |
| 119 | Proof that giving any attention to LVM, even "telling them off", is always detrimental to your wellbeing and advantageous for their ego🔕 NO RESPONSE IS THE BEST RESPONSE ❌ AUTO COCK-BLOCK AND DELETE Oh, and " Who is this? 🤔 around 3 days after you get their message or call, usually gets the point across! Once they engage, then leave them on read and block-delete! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:05 AM |
| 21 | Porn users are often very similar to rapists in that with lying manipulation and gaslighting they remove the partners ability to consent and cross their boundary of not wanting a relationship that includes porn. A rapist does similar removal of consent and boundary crossing.dUdE FiNaLLy sOmEoNe wHo gEts iT! 👏👏👏 hOw cAn DiZ wOmyN aCtUaLLy cLaiM dEy aRe fEmiNisTs??? 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ wHaT hApPeNed 2 iDeaLs? MoRaLiTy? sEx pOsiTiviTy aNd EnLigHteNmEnt??? 🤔🤔🤔 iZ DiZ dE dArK aGez mY mAn??? 🤯🤯🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:00 AM |
| 30 | Another day, another victim to the naivety of giving LVM the ‘benefit of the doubt’ and ‘seeing how it goes’ aka being led off the plank into the sunken city of clowntopia. This scrotes the reddest of red on the Dulux chart . Don’t be this friend.(I know! 🤣🤣🤣) LuV, wHaT aRe u TaLkiNg aBoUt??? 🤔 mY OnLy iNtEnTiOn hErE wAs tO gAsLigHt, mAniPuLaTe n sTriNg u aLoNg! 😉 i MigHt bE a wOmAniSeR bUt i Ain'T nO cRiMiNaL 😤 u FrEe bY aNy cHanCe??? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Are men that doesn't make a move LVM?The mental gymnastics he used here sis! 🤯 My reply to the "Are men that doesn't make a move LVM?" post would be: "A man doesn't (singular) vs men don't (plurar)" While whispering..."Get a dictionary..."Get a dictionary..."" "Do you even have to ask?" 🤨 "You seem to be speaking from experience!"🤔 "Is this a failed attempt at a philosophical question?" "Did you come up with the question yourself or had help? I don't know, it looks more like a group effort mate!" Message to Scrott: GET A LIFE! and … | /r/askFDS | 02/04/20 01:15 AM |
| 59 | Porn users are often very similar to rapists in that with lying manipulation and gaslighting they remove the partners ability to consent and cross their boundary of not wanting a relationship that includes porn. A rapist does similar removal of consent and boundary crossing.hOw cOuLd u SaY tHaT???? 😱😱😱 DiDn'T u KnOw iT iS a mAn's nAtUrE 2 bE LikE tHat??? tHat tHerE iS nOtHinG wE cAn dO aBoUt iT??? 🤠🤠🤠 wOmYn tHeSe dAyZ!!! i'm vErA DisApPoiNteD iN u KarEn!!! 😤😤😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:03 PM |
| 14 | Krystal Ball takes apart Liberal feminist smears of Joe Biden accuser. More evidence that LibFems are just left wing pickmeishas who are feminist when convenient.Selective amnesia and building allies are key factors here! As with most individuals in a position of power, authority and/or visibility or even those having the prospect of such a position, the position comes first and they will use anything to maintain their privilege over other individuals and collectives. With sexual abusers and predators you'll find that it's not uncommon for them to have a reputation of harassment that has been historically dismissed or excused by others! Then a huge scand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:48 PM |
| 22 | Krystal Ball takes apart Liberal feminist smears of Joe Biden accuser. More evidence that LibFems are just left wing pickmeishas who are feminist when convenient.👏👏👏 Someone dropped this! 👑 The double standards used and the mental gymnastics some people have to resort to in order to impose their agenda truly know no limits! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:16 PM |
| 7 | A healthy mind cannot exist in an unhealthy body.I got you sis 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:18 AM |
| 54 | A healthy mind cannot exist in an unhealthy body.A great reminder OP! As the ancient Greeks would say "νους υγιής εν σώματι υγιεί" or "Mens sana in corpore sano" in Latin. It means "A sound/healthy mind in a sound/healthy body". In essense, it advocates the ideal of versatility wherein a person has to be both intellectually and physically occupied throughout their life in order to be considered healthy and whole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 08:28 AM |
| 99 | Rachael don’t care at all👏👏👏 Racheal you dropped this dear 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:29 AM |
| 67 | This is why we block and don’t look back.bUt mUhhh DiCkkkk 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:08 PM |
| 65 | Pornhub hosts rape of toddler. Yes you read that right.Male Depravity and Perversion have entered the chat... Humanity and Hope have fled the chat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Theory: A HVM has the capacity and interest to improve his looksnO u Don'T 🤣 CArAmeLiTa aNd i hAvE sOmEthiNg sPeCiaL! (OP, this is not about your friend's husband! :-) Let me link you something https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fra82d/looking_4_a_ltr_with_one_or_more_of_you_sexy/ Regarding your friends, my other comment still stands! He knows how it works!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 19 | Liberal Feminists created a world where we can literally witness a woman being choked or slapped and we now have to second guess whether it’s abuse and she wants it instead of being immediately alarmed🤡Internalised Misogyny and Patriarchy have entered the post... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:18 AM |
| 8 | Theory: A HVM has the capacity and interest to improve his lookstHaTs RiGhT LuV! i LiFt EveRydAy 🛌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 10:47 AM |
| 12 | Theory: A HVM has the capacity and interest to improve his looks🤔 This 👆 guy is into something! ✍ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 10:38 AM |
| 10 | Because "choose not to pay rent" and "can't afford to pay rent" are indistinguishable to some people even though it's such an obvious distinction? Oh, they know, they're just trying to discredit women's choices and make them "prove themselves".Indisputable Rational Male Thought has entered the chat... 🧻o (Rollo) Tomassi has joined the chat in assistance... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 07:48 AM |
| 37 | The audacity this landlord has!aS a mAn i DoN't sEe aNytHinG wRonG oR iLLegAL hErE! 🤷♂️ iT wOuLd dEfiNiTeLy HeLp wOmyN aNd sEx wOrKerS! tHiNk aBoUt iT! aLsO, cAn oNe oF u sExY LaDiEs gEt mE iN tOuCh WiTh tHiS bRotHer? i nEEd mOrE HeLp! aSkiNg 4 a fRiEnD aNd aLL 😉😉😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Updates on on KickHimOut2020?Ohhhhh nO!!! tHosE pOoR mEn! 😱 cOmE oN WomYn dOn'T bE hEaRtLeSs! 😢 uS MeN sUfER sO mUcH tHeSe dAys! 😭 DiD u cOmmUniCaTe WiTh HiM??? GiVe HiM aNotHer cHanCe aT LeaSt! bE FaiR! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 24 | Gross guy on snapchat thinks he reckons he has a "good chance" with me for being the complete bare minimum of what a human should besOrRy u hAd 2 gO tHrOugH tHiS LuV! 😢 i fEeL 4 u sO mUcH RiGhT nOw mY LaDy! tHaT's nO wAy 2 TrEat a LaDy!😡 i'm a NiCe gUy mYseLf! 😎 i cAn dEfiNiTeLy tAkE u 2 a CoFFeE dAtE! 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:30 PM |
| 31 | Housework and the likesi hOneStLy dOn'T uNdeRstAnD hOw wOmyN LiKe u eXpEcT aLphAs LiKe uS 2 cHanGe jUsT bEcAuSe eQuaLiTy aNd sHiT! u ArE aBuSiVe aNd cOnTroLLinG tOwArDs YoUr hUsBand! i wOuLd gEt a DiVorCe iF i wErE HiM! oR aT LeaSt GeT a 3sOmE oUt oF iT! a mAn LoOkiNg aFteR HiZ oWn cHiLd??? uNheArD oF im TeLLinG u! 🤣🤣🤣 On a more serious note, now... Men have been coddled and enabled their whole lives! They have historically gotten away with murder and they continue to get away either through direct abuse or indirectly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:14 PM |
| 5 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEgUiLty aS cHarGed ma'Am gUiLty aS cHarGed 😏 DiD u aT LeaSt FaLL 4 iT wOmYn?😢 Just click on my account and go through the comments and what I was replying to! It's like 50-50 serious and crazy funny stuff. Someone has to do the hard work of the party clown sometimes! We need a laugh these days! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 4 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivE🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thanks sis! Funny stuff is what I live for! Thanks for role-playing along! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:16 PM |
| 4 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEnOw nOw u cArAmeLiTa u Re a FeiSty oNe aRen'T u??? i LoVe mE a sTroNg wOmYn 😏😏😏 u tHiNk u GirLz cAn FigHt 4 mE wHiLe i LoOk 4 aNotHer SiDe KicK??? wOmYn sEeM 2 bE iNtO mE LaTeLy 🧛♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:02 PM |
| 3 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEtHatS mY GirL! bE sMaRt bOuT iT! u nEvEr kNoW...u cOuLd bE SiSteR WiVez LaTeR oN! iT WiLL pAy oFf 2 gEt aLoNg nOw! 😎😎😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:59 PM |
| 6 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivELaDiEz...LaDiEz plZ! u cAn ALL haVe mE! LeT's bE LogiCaL aBoUt iT! tHiS wAs a PoSiTiOn aDd aNyWay! aNyOnE cAn aPpLy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEA girl has to do what a girl has to do dear! 🤣🤣🤣 We know them too well! How are we supposed to take them seriously? Click on my post/thread history and read about "Men Down Under Have it Worse" if you REALLY wanna die! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:54 PM |
| 6 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEwOmyN mE aNd mY sEnSiTiviTy bOtH tHanK u 4 tAkiNg mY SiDe wHiLe I wAs aWay! i hAve bEeN LoOkiN 4 a BaSed GirL LiKe u mY wHoLe LiFe! wHy, i dArE sAy u jUsT gAvE mE a bOnEr! u TeAseR fEmaLe WiTh yOuR PicKs! tHe LiNkS aRe nOt wOrKin bUt i sEe wHat u DiD tHeRe! 😉😉😉 tHaNk u 4 yOuR KiNd wOrDs cUtiE PiE! gOd kNowS i nEedEd tHem aS a sCroTe 4 VaLidAtiOn aNd 2 enLarGe mY aLreAdY iNfLatEd eGo! u sUreLy kNow hOw 2 TreAt a MaN!!! ❤❤❤ wOw neTfLix AND cHiLL!!!???!!! yOu dEfiNiTeLy StoLe mY OnLy iDeA 4 a DaTe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:52 PM |
| 12 | I need help, I'm porn addictedHey OP! Thanks for opening up and reaching out for help! It takes a lot of courage and strength! I'm happy you have reached a stage in your life where you are aware of your problem and are actively looking for help! :-) I'm adding here some books on this issue both from a professional and personal/ lived experience perspective from people who have been affected by porn. Porn exposure from an early age is related to childhood trauma and abuse and should be treated with that in mind. RESOURCES FOR… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:12 PM |
| 18 | LoOkiNg 4 a LTR WiTh oNe oR mOrE oF yOu sExY LaDiEs 😏😏😏 sEe pOsT 4 mOrE iNfo! P.S. i dO nOt dRivEi'm hErE LuV! A mAn iZ bUzY sOmEtimEs dArLinG! i wAkE uP aFtEr 4pm EveRydAy aS a mAn sHouLd! 😏 dOn'T u cRy! nO gOoD 4 yOuR eYeS! 🤧 i LoVeD yOuR PiCtuRe! wHat a BoDy OMG! aNd Doz TitTs!!! 😋😋😋 nOt a NuDe-NuDe tHouGh bUt wE cAn wOrK oN iT! TeLL Me mOrE aBoUt u LuV! aNy tRauMa i sHouLd kNoW 2 tAkE aDvaNtaGe oF? 😈 aNy iNheRitaNcE mAybE? 🤑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | A message to our strong, beautiful ladiesYou dropped your 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:34 PM |
| 35 | "If you don't cook for your husband you might as well NOT get married"uR mOtHer kNoWs aNd iS bAsEd! tHe pHraSe "eMpTy nUtS aNd FuLL sTomaCh" cOmEs fRom GoD HimSeLf!!! iS sHe FrEe bY aNy cHanCe??? 😏😏😏 aSkiNg 4 a FriEnD... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 12 | Made another one! Men during coronavirus be like:LeT dA mAn bE SiSteRzzz!!! FFS aLL hE aSkEd 4 wAs a cUddLe aNd bLowJob 👌🥒✊🍆🌽🥖🍌🥕🌭🍡!!! 😏😏😏 hAve mErCy!!! 😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:21 PM |
| 9 | Made another one! Men during coronavirus be like:HeLLo LuV!!! ❤ cAn'T LiVe WiThOuT mE i sEe 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 17 | Did not hang about to see if he was joking 🤢 how disgusting.i LoVe LiVinG iN dAnGer!!! 🛶🛶🛶 🔫🔫🔫 CaLL mE sCrOte...jAmEs sCrOtE LuV 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 145 | At No Point In Recorded Human History Has it Been Normal for Girls Younger than 15 to Marry.bUt wOmyN HiT dA WaLL bY 20!!!!!!!!!! 😤😤😤MuSt gEt pReggO aNd LeaVe sChOoL eArLy!!!! 😱😱😱 😡😡😡 iTs tHe dOnE tHinG SiNcE aNciEnT TiMez!!!! ⏳⏳⏳ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:13 PM |
| 32 | Messages from my narc ex who threatened and coerced (including violently) me into an abortion. He just got out of prison and is now living about 15 mins away from me... yayI'm so sorry about your loss and what you went through with that bastard! I'm glad you survived and are here with us and lost those 200lb of dead weight sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:15 PM |
| 8 | All guys on R4R subs / dating sites right now. Please give me attention!!! 🙏🙄. My inner man child 🧒 needs it.u sAd LuV? i mAkE iT gO aWaY 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:27 PM |
| 23 | All guys on R4R subs / dating sites right now. Please give me attention!!! 🙏🙄. My inner man child 🧒 needs it.u FrEe sExY LaDy??? i gEt oFf mY mAcDoNaLdz sHift iN 30'! u PiCk mE uP LuV??? 😏😏😏 we cAn aLsO hAvE sEx iN yOuR cAr!!! i hAvEn'T cUm iN dAyz 🥴🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:24 PM |
| 28 | "At least he's not abusive..."Do u GiVe HiM a bLowJoB 2 HeLp HiM ReLax??? mEn nEed sEx mOrE tHan wE dO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:20 PM |
| 33 | "At least he's not abusive..."🤣🤣🤣 U aRe dEfLecTinG i sEe... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 03:01 PM |
| 58 | "At least he's not abusive..."Well Ms Tilly...They do have a point! I mean, do you have proof??? Are you sure it wasn't a misunderstanding??? He wasn't stressed??? You aren't overreacting??? And so on and so forth... Ya know...false accusations and all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 31 | LVM going through their phone/social media/yearbook during quarantine.dtf LuV??? i'm FrEe tOniTe! u uP 4 mCchiCkEn aNd cUddLeS??? 😏😏😏 yOuR tReaT oF cOuRce 🥰🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:43 PM |
| 199 | Never again, mom, I promise!aS a mAn im oFFenDed! u re nOt eVen wOrTh mY coFFeE dAtE wOmYn! u LaUgH aT mEn's pLighTs! 🥺🥺🥺 hAvE sOmE ResPeCt ffs 😡😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:34 PM |
| 23 | Low self esteem is dangerous, as evidenced in Tiger KingWhat you and OP call "scorn and judgement" is in actuality nothing but the hard truth and the cold facts! I'd avoid shaming other women and generalising a whole sub due to one's projections! Cognitive distortions are rather harmful and unproductive! No one is forgeting the root of the problem but our gender doesn't absolve us from responsibility or accountability either! We strongly advocate against learned helplessness, encourage change and pro-social behaviour and provide resources to assist w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 02:13 PM |
| 83 | FDS has ruined most of TV for me....Most of everything media or entertainment related is not worth your while anyway! From TV to shows to movies to radio shows to books to magazines to newspapers to social media and so on and so forth! Made by men for men with the aim to perpetuate the male narrative and the patriarchical order! A script reinforcing and ingraining misogyny, toxic masculinity, male entitlemen, privilege and gaze to the masses! A male and phallic-centric view of the world that doesn't include the female perspective … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:40 AM |
| 73 | Is marriage worth it anymore?It depends on the kind of marriage and the kind of person you get married to! You need a "Only HVM Need Apply" and "Serious Applications Only" mentality! Marriage was never really "worth" it for women historically! It has always been transactional in nature. So, the "anymore" part of your question is not relevant :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:23 AM |
| 114 | Why do men seem to get upset when they see an overweight woman having confidence?Why do men get upset when they see ANY woman having confidence??? 🤔🤔🤔 Probably because not even "fat" women will give them the time of day! Just like any other woman! "Fat" or "skinny", "ugly" or "pretty" is just them objectifying and trying to control, shame and shape women the world over! A tale as old as time itself! There's no shame with anyone being confident! It's just petty men being petty and projecting their insecurities and inadequacies on us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Would you date Damaged guy ?I agree! I personally oppose the institution and support the women! We're saying the same thing about the system and that it doesn't occur in a vacuum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Would you date Damaged guy ?Ok...you keep changing your comment and then also adding stuff in the edit section as it suits you instead of replying to the answers given to you! I'm not here to play games or waste my time! That's not how conversation is done! We all replied to her in good faith given the context of her post and nothing more! I saw no signs of escorting, sugar babying or prostitution here! Are you judging and shaming her past or present if she had or has any??? I've given my answer to OP and I stand by it as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:46 AM |
| 7 | Would you date Damaged guy ?Nothing from her post so far indicates anything of the sorts! She's raising her concerns and seeking advice given the behaviour the guy is exhibiting! Let her explain herself! And not make assumptions on her behalf! Plus, no one here said or adviced her or anyone else to sugar babe, so why the fuss for the sub and say we're like MGTOW and use men for material gain and then judge them??? We judge them for their behaviour!!! Edit: reply part 1 as you keep changing your comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Would you date Damaged guy ?I know, right??? Wait until you see her other replies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:28 AM |
| 3 | Would you date Damaged guy ?You seem to be all over the place! I've already replied to your post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Would you date Damaged guy ?I'm wondering what makes you say that? Because, from the extremely limited information we have from OP nothing indicates sugar babying so far! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:26 AM |
| 14 | Would you date Damaged guy ?Did we all read the same thing??? Please stop projecting here!!! This is not a triggering post! Nothing to do with damaged people! And certainly not sexual assault! It's about manipulation, power and control! This is a guy trying to demonise his ex, victim blame her for his issues and trying to set the OP straight from the beginning! Stop shaming women that don't fit your perception of reality! We are nothing like TRP here! Leave the mental health professionals be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:24 AM |
| 66 | Would you date Damaged guy ?Is he burned or "burned" sister??? Sounds more like Answer B! Next him! He's feeding you a script, framing the story as he sees fit, "warning" you and setting his very high boundaries for you to have very low expectations from him! He says or implies "humble" while he means low or no maintenance/self-respect and self-esteem woman! He's projecting his insecurities and low value/income/career/ potential on you! He's setting the tune of any future relationship! While victim blaming and demonising h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 7 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.a FeLLoW mAn!!! 😁😁😁 FiNaLLy!!! 🤠🤠🤠weLcOmE mAtE!!!🥳🥳🥳 bRoS 4 eVa!!! ✊✊✊ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 10:38 PM |
| 4 | The red flags keeps piling up!wHaT's wRoNg WiTh tHaT??? 🤔🤔🤔 i LikE 'eM yOunG aNd fReSh 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 3 | My standards and no-gos... (And you're welcome to share yours):-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:19 PM |
| 20 | My standards and no-gos... (And you're welcome to share yours)No! Don't edit! No need! :-) Let others reply to you based on your original comment! This way you'll see others' opinion on the matter, too! I am definitely right on this! 8 years is a generational gap when you're 18! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 50 | My standards and no-gos... (And you're welcome to share yours)Good points OP! It's good to have standards and know what you are looking for from early o :-) Except for the age! When you're 18 you shouldn't be with anyone who's 26! That's 8 years older than you and a HUGE age difference for a teenager out of school! "Your age" should be your age! A couple of years difference at that stage as you want to be in the same developmental and life stage! A man 8 years older at that age should be nowhere near a school girl! Full stop!!! Look for something older, if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | The red flags keeps piling up!i'm aLwAyS hErE 2 LiStEn 2 wOmYn'S pRobLemS LuV! 😏 DOn'T LisTen 2 tHeM! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:05 PM |
| 3 | The red flags keeps piling up!yEsssss!!! bASed!!! tHaT's mOrE LiKe iT!!! gO GirL!!! 👏👏👏 ✊✊✊🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | The red flags keeps piling up!aGrEe WiTh diS fEmaLe! nUdEs aNd cAm sTuFf aRe dA sAmE 4 mE! pLuS nO nEEd 2 sHowEr diS wAy! WiN Win 4 mE! 🤑🤑🤑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:01 PM |
| 5 | The red flags keeps piling up!oH LuV...mY bDaY iS cOmiNg uP sOOn, tOo! 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:58 PM |
| 9 | The red flags keeps piling up!yEs cUddLiNg aNd sEx cAn bE iN a FriEndLy wAy! wHat dO u eVeN MeAn? 🤔🤔🤔 aS a mAn hE's aLLowEd 2 wEt iT! 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:57 PM |
| 7 | The red flags keeps piling up!mE aNd mUhhh DiCk rEsPecTfuLLy DiSaGreE mAam! 🤔🤔🤔 LeT dA LittLe wOmYn hAve sOmE fUn! dOn'T bE a PrUdE cOcKbLockEr! 😎😎😎 i'm SuRe iT's A MiSunDerStaNdiNg! oR he wAs AiMinG 4 a 3SOme aNd DiDn'T KnOw hOw 2 gO aBoUt iT! 😏😏😏 ShE cOuLd hAve hAndLeD iT bEttEr! i hOpe sHe aT LeaSt sEnDs sOme nUdEs! wHaT aRe fRiEndS fOr???? 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ u Don'T nEEd a ReLatioNsHip 4 tHaT!!! bY tHe wAy u SiNgLe????? 🤓🤓🤓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 08:53 PM |
| 14 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.I KnOw LuV, i kNoW 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ sCaRy sTuFf aRe sO rOmaNtiC 🏚🏚🏚 tHe oThEr LaDies aRe bUsY atm, aRe u FrEe bY aNy cHanCe? tHis cOrOnA iS KiLLinG iT 4 mE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 11:58 AM |
| 91 | Leave dirty men immediately. Don't waste your time with nasty-nessI'm SO glad you're out sis and far away from that filthy vampire ex of yours! You deserve so much better! I get the chills everytime I think of the amount of social and familial pressure, conditioning and brainwashing us women are born and raised into! The crazy making and the victim blaming! The monopolising of our time, effort, energy, money and resources! The "raise and build a man from the ground" mentality! The "ride or die" they feed us! The "a true woman takes care of her man"! The "if yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 11:44 AM |
| 13 | Smh it was only a matter of time 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm rolling over here! What a post sis, what a post! OHHHHH the LVMs! I can't even begin to describe what my eyes have seen the past few weeks! I'm gonna have to bleach them for sure! Of course you're selfish if you don't let them rape you anally! He needs to do it at least once in his life to be a "real" man! You're ruining it for him! Shame on you! 🤣🤣🤣 There's nothing slick about them! They're SO delusional 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤯🤯🤯🥴🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 11:27 AM |
| 28 | Smh it was only a matter of time 🙄tHesE dUdEs hAve nOtHiNg oN mE MeDuSa! NOTHING! u iNsuLt mE! 😡😡😡 tHiS iS hOw iT's dOnE!!! heLLo LuV! ❤ rEmEmBeR mE? iT's JiM fRoM KiNdeRgaRteN! 👶👶👶 wAnnA cAm sEx WiTh mE tOniTe? i'm FeeLinG sO dEpRessEd! 😭😭😭 u LooK sO hOt! cAn i oFFer u a cUcUmBer 2 CooL dOwN? 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ u LooK LikE u cOuLd uSe sOmE mEaT...i hAvE jUsT tHe RigHt sAusAge 4 u! 😏😏😏 hEy, u wAnnA sPenD tHe iSoLatiOn tOgeTher? u, mE aNd DicK??? 😎😎😎 mY pLacE oR yOurS? i'm oUt oF tOiLet pApEr tHoUgh sO dEf yOuRs! 😔😔😔 LeT's sPeNd tHe eN… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 11:18 AM |
| 8 | For Abused Women, a Pandemic Lockdown Holds Dangers of Its Own. “He said if I started coughing, he was throwing me out in the street”DV and Homeless centres have been hit hard everywhere unfortunately! I haven't seen any governments doing anything! I mean, there are still those downplaying the pandemic in spite of the harsh realities and cold hard truth so there's that... I keep thinking about the Coranamath! The aftermath of the Corona! The increase in violence, women worked to their bones, driven to desperation, the imtensified crazy making, the increase in depression and suicide rates, the spikes in "accidental" anal rapes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:56 AM |
| 3 | For Abused Women, a Pandemic Lockdown Holds Dangers of Its Own. “He said if I started coughing, he was throwing me out in the street”It's a pandemic really! You can go out for a run and never return home! https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2019/07/15/europe/american-scientist-suzanne-eaton-murder-greece-crete-intl/index.html Edit: to fix the link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:45 AM |
| 52 | Perfect example of a “50/50” relationshipaS a mAn i DiSaGree! fEmALeS aRe OnLy gOOd 4 sEx aNd cOOkiNg! 😡😡😡 hE dEsErVes rEspEcT aNd oBeDiEncE aFtEr HaVinG a LoNg dAy aT wOrK cReAtiNg a bEttEr LifE 4 hEr!!!! sHoW sOmE ReSpEcT ffs!!! wHat AbOuT mUuhh DicK?????? 🥺🥺🥺 iT hUrTs iF i dOn'T cUm! hOw cAn u bE sO iNseSiTivE tO mEn's iSSuEs??? 😭😭😭 aLso: i'm nOt aLoNe iN tHisss! mE bRothErs aGreE!!!! https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/fpcst4/that_phone_you_cant_live_without_made_by_man/ aRe u FrEe tOniTe bY aNy cHanCe???? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 11 | How to figure out if a guy watches porn or not?I just copied and pasted part of it here, too! And gave the link for those interested in reading more or saving it! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:06 AM |
| 23 | How to figure out if a guy watches porn or not?You can Google search, or use the search engine here for more but give me a second to send you some resources! I have included some support information and books on this issue both from a professional and personal/ lived experience perspective. RESOURCES FOR SEX/AROUSAL ADDICTION . Gary Wilson, The Great Porn Experiment https://youtu.be/wSF82AwSDiU Maria Ahlin, Let's Talk Porn https://youtu.be/DBTb71UzPmY https://fightthenewdrug.org/porn-objectifies-women-men/ https://sanon.org/newcomers/is-s-an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 75 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.mY KiNd oF wOmyN! sO u FrEe cUpcAkeS??? 😏😏😏 yOuR dAddY a pAstRy cHef btw??? sAw yOur uSerNamE aNd aLL...aSkiNg 4 a fRiEnD 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:49 AM |
| 176 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.iF sHe gOt wEt sHe LiKeD iT sO idk 🤷♀️ aNyWaY wE dOn'T aCCepT uSeD gOOdS hErE! tHat'S 4 bEtAs OnLy u kNoW! u SiNgLe btw??? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:38 AM |
| 365 | “Put down like a dog” I hope these men are never blessed by anything a woman gives ever again,even casual kindness ever again.Humanity and Hope have left the chat... Rational Male Thought and Depravity have entered the chat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 49 | He quits porn because of my naggingYou know the answer to this! You tried and failed! People don't change and don't get personality transplants! Don't count on him changing! In spite of his declarations, he's most probably still consuming pornographic material! He's just telling you want you want to hear! Trust his actions, not his words! The fact that he doesn't care about women's suffering and you're a woman is highly conserning! Stop wasting your time and breath on him! It's not worth it! Move on and focus on yourself! You're … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 5 | How have you guys gotten over being dumped?On top of that, she was also asking here on FDS recently how everyone feels about sugar daddies!!! 🚩🚩🚩 I'm not wasting my breath on this one! She needs professional help or stop trolling or both! Always report posts and comments like this! They have no place here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:49 AM |
| 2 | If your boyfriend/husband is uncomfortable with one of your guy friends because he "knows their intentions," 90% of the time your husband/boyfriend has those same intentions toward someone else, and that's why he's suspicious of your male friends.Just did! Thanks! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 126 | Reminder NOT to send nudes. also read the comments, most of these women don't even get a reaction back after bothering to take a picture. LVM truly are an epidemic.Nudes fall under the category "Anything you say or do can and will be used against you"! It's important therefore to not give men ammunition to use against us! Men who ask or insist for nudes do so for their own benefit and self-serving purposes! He doesn't need nudes, it's about power and control! Don't set up yourself for failure! You can't trust men with such personal and sensitive information! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:43 PM |
| 24 | Porn Related Sex VS Healthy SexA clear and concise guide for sex! Porn-related sex and the examples given here are a result of a "sex positive" culture where as the healthy sex is a result of "positive sex" culture! People need to know the difference, reject the former and support the latter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:20 PM |
| 56 | For Abused Women, a Pandemic Lockdown Holds Dangers of Its Own. “He said if I started coughing, he was throwing me out in the street”The pandemic is causing so many troubles for women the world over! They have increased workload, household, and child rearing responsibilities and are in many occasions trapped in inescapable lockdowns with LVM that pose a serious threat to her safety and physical and mental health and wellbeing! The length of the lockdown and the unpredictability of the situation, coupled with the increased time spent with men in confined spaces increase the likelihood of abuse of any kind exponentially! It can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:28 PM |
| 41 | Scrotes gonna Scrote : "Sister[19f] in law hitting on me[30m]." Turns out the OP is enjoying the attention and fantasizes about having sex with her. Then claims "to want to understand her psychology" #scrotelogicVictim card and rationalisation are spot on! He's looking for validation from other pervs, too! He wants to be told he's right and he should "go for it"! A pat on the shoulder really! Did you notice the guy saying that you it's not his fault as youcan't be responsible for women's actions? The other one saying "she's a legal adult, calm down" so in his eyes that's game? That's denial coupled with victim blaming and complete lack of claiming any individual responsibility or accountability on his p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:18 PM |
| 42 | If your boyfriend/husband is uncomfortable with one of your guy friends because he "knows their intentions," 90% of the time your husband/boyfriend has those same intentions toward someone else, and that's why he's suspicious of your male friends.In many cases, men know men for what they truly are! They can tell those that are sexual predators of the highest order! Hense fathers and brothers going crazy when daughter/sister enters puberty, then starts dating and spending time with boys! They know how men operate and their tactics and they don't want their daughter to go through that! That's why they are strict with them, have curfews, only allow female friends over, are highly controlled and checked upon etc. Men know the game other men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:11 PM |
| 107 | Scrotes gonna Scrote : "Sister[19f] in law hitting on me[30m]." Turns out the OP is enjoying the attention and fantasizes about having sex with her. Then claims "to want to understand her psychology" #scrotelogicu KnOw...jUsT aSkiNg 4 a fRiEnD 😏😏😏 The male depravity and entitlement are over the roof! The mental gymnastics he went into to sexualise her behaviour are beyond the pale! He is delusional and pathetic! I feel sorry for his sister in law and his wife! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:57 PM |
| 9 | What’s some red flags when dealing with soft spoken, more feminine menNothing but the cold harsh truth sister! Nothing but the truth! Gay and bisexual men are still men and enjoy every privilege straight men do! They only have different and/or additional ways of getting what they want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:27 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)I'm happy to hear that you have support and people there for you! FDS is a community! A sisterhood the members of which are there for each other! Stay strong sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:31 AM |
| 37 | The Term “Codependent” Was Invented to Blame Women For Their Own AbuseKekekeke...Can you please combine your 3 comments into a single one so that all the info is gathered in one place and not lost when other people comment on you post? :-) Just copy paste in this one as an edit and delete the others. It's a great post and message on how science and language are used to develop, support and maintain male privilege, patiarchy and victim blaming in our society! All this detracts from what really matters and does not allow for personal or collective responsibility and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:07 AM |
| 21 | Men always get credit for women’s inventions—and there’s a term for thatwHaT dO u mEaN i aCtuaLLy hAvE 2 wOrK??? 🤔🤔🤔 😱😱😱 i Am a MaN! i eXiSt! i dO! i aM! i cReAtE! 😡😡😡 hAvE u sEEn mY LegOs LadY??? 😭😭😭 I am sorry you went through that! I hope you're never again in the same group with those guys and that you have much better luck next time/semester! It's well documented that men tend to overestimate their appearance, contribution, chore and housework labour, childcare labour, intelligence, cognitive and logical skills, parking skills, navigating skills...etc etc etc a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 05:42 AM |
| 1 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!Glad you liked it! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:08 AM |
| 2 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!You're welcome :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!Thanks! Hope it helps! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!Your welcome! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!No problem! :-) Hope they can be of use! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | RESOURCES! How to go about surviving the Coronavirus self-isolation period! Do it like a Pro!No problem! :-) What about small pots for some kitchen herbs then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Come watch me waste my time explaining to a Scrote that "Divorce Rape" is nowhere near the equivalent of Child RapeThe statistics don't lie! Men do! All their "issues" are like that! They see the tree but not the forest! They selectively focus on what serves their narrative and privilege and completely ignore the bigger picture or truth! They even go as far as to say that us women created these situations due to gynocentric society (doesn't exist, this is a men's world), divorce rape (doesn't exist; downplays rape and sexual assault victims; support goes to the one with custody and no/less income) and women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:04 AM |
| 57 | Men always get credit for women’s inventions—and there’s a term for thatOn top of stealing women's inventions or getting credit for them, men also completely and conveniently ignore the fact that even when it comes to men's inventions, the only reason they were able to make them in the first place is because of women supporting them and their family and household while they were "inventing"! Or the fact that women, for the biggest part in history and even today in many parts of the world, were not even able to get an education, vote or even leave the house or the ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:55 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)I'm so sorry for your loss sister! Sending positive thoughts your way! ❤ DM me if you need someone to talk to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Beware of peacockingShare the details already sister! 🤣🤣🤣 Sharing is caring after all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 03:21 AM |
| 51 | Over two-thirds of men under 40 have slapped, choked, gagged or spat on partner during sex, BBC Scotland doc findspAiN = pLeAsUrE muh dEaR 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ EsPeCiaLLy 4 mUhhh DiCk 😎😎😎 DoN'T bE a PrUdE! jUsT cOmE 2 pApA! 😏😏😏 🤮🤮🤮 BDSM and paraphilic disorders and sexual deviants are on the rise and So CoOL these days! Consent, own volition, willingness, before and after care, clearly distinguised roles etc. are all buzz words associated with it in the mass efforts to increase validity and credibility of the movement. In this way, there's "science", "psychology" behind it and even "clear, step by step instructions… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:09 AM |
| 32 | What’s some red flags when dealing with soft spoken, more feminine menA huge topic! 🤯🤯🤯 Where do I start??? Sometimes men with more feminine characteristics can be closeted homosexuals or bisexuals that are looking for a relationship for safety reasons or because it will allow them to explore their sexuality on the side or because they want to have kids and that's the only way to have them. Others can adopt the soft, quiet persona to lure women in, thinking it's a great way to attract friends with the possibility of turning them into partners later on because they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 01:07 AM |
| 15 | What Is Sexual Narcissism? (Narcissism And Sexuality)Great video and topic Medusa! It's important to learn about such issues! Prevention and education are the first line of defence! Like other disorders and illnesses, Sexual Narcissism is not recognised in DSM5; there are however a number of studies on this subject area. Specifically, they have developed a Sexual Narcissism Scale which is used to measure this type of narcissistic behaviour. The following for traits are identified: Sexual exploitation Sexual entitlement Low sexual empathy Inflated … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 9 | A man that will cheat with you CAN AND WILL cheat on you, No matter the $$$.Cheaters gonna cheat! No matter what! Once a cheater, always a cheater! If you are or get in a relationship or an affair with a committed man (whether married, engaged, in LTR, or has a girlfriend)...he will cheat on you, too, the way he cheated on his previous partner with you! Don't fall for excuses and justifications! He didn't choose you! You're not special! His wife/fiancée/girlfriend is not a bitch/monster/gold digger/there to get him! He's most probably not "separated"! Or almost "divorce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Existential dread and fear. How do you manage it?No problem! :-) Click on my post for more! Good luck! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:47 PM |
| 20 | Existential dread and fear. How do you manage it?Your fears and concerns are valid! Generally speaking and especially during the pandemic! You are not alone in these feelings and experiences and they are not irrational! Everything and everyone is in limbo! :-) It's important to focus on your physical and mental health care and wellbeing during these difficult times! Self-care is therefore of the utmost importance! Mindfulness, CBT, ACT and DBT all work quite well in such cases! You need to consciously work on your mental health and stress mana… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Beware of peacockingi dO iT 4 tHeM, nOt mE! u wOuLdN't uNdeRstAnD aNyWaY... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Beware of peacocking🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You have me rolling!!! They are such clowns!!! The lengths they go into to manipulate as have no end really! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)A number of things could have happened! We can't know and there isn't much info to go about anyway! It's not important! What matters is that he's no longer in your life, you've got self-awareness about what happened and are in the process of moving on! More thorough vetting and measuring him up in various settings and occasions ensures you weed out the LVMs! Having said that, there's always those men that are seasoned pros and can fool women and even therapists for prolonged periods of time! It'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Hi there! And welcome! :-) Please don't fall into the trap of texting him or ask/demand for a reason when or if he shows up himself! Don't do any chasing up! That's on them! Don't fall in the trap of providing excuses and justifications for his actions or lack of actions! His disappearance without a word shows he is not a HVM! No matter what you might tell yourself! Don't listen to what your friends say on this, either! When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time! If he care… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 48 | Never be like the third girlYou can do it!!! I have faith in you Greg!!! I'll help you with it all!!! You have the power!!! I'll hold down the fort for you!!! I'll be your slave so you can ascend!!! 🤮🤮🤮 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 10:00 PM |
| 5 | A guy who “ghosted” me just messaged me but I have no feelings towards him . Did I do alright ?BLOCK DELETE, NEVER REPEAT Don't entertain him and the likes of him in any way, form or manner! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 152 | HaVe yoU TrIEd COMmunICAtINg???DiD u TaLk 2 HiM??? mOsT mEn aRen'T gOOd WiTh wOrDs bEcAuSe wE aRe iNtRovErtS aNd sToiCs bY nAtUrE! hE pRobAbLy wAntEd 2 GiVe u sOmE sPaCe aNd LeT u ResT! haViNg sAiD tHaT, iF iT doEsN't wOrK oUt u KnOw wHerE 2 FiNd mE LuV!!! 😏😏😏 i aM DTF WitH pEriOds 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ aNd i LoVe cUddLeS!!! 🥺🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:52 PM |
| 7 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!I'm with you on this! Reminds me of couples therapy, you usually know deep down it'll end up in divorce but you keep going thinking he will change, or see the light, or the error of his ways, and get help from a professional! All the while he's biding his time, baiting you, getting more out of you before you finally give up and call it quits or he runs away with his side cick. Recovery is impossible in most cases! It will only work if the mistakes are made in the beginning and then corrected, or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:44 PM |
| 22 | Beware of peacocking🤣🤣🤣 I know, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 25 | I know we need a little positivity. Can you post examples of how a man is behaving in an HV way during this global crisis?The fact that he's thinking of the collective good, he's future proofing, he's sending a message to other men by being a role model himself and reaches out to people who can help with his cause make him prime example of HVM! I wish more people were like him in general! He even stressed that he's only looking for men and not women and why so that I don't reach to women. I'm glad men like him exist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:27 PM |
| 20 | Beware of peacockingA wolf can change it's coat but not its character! Great post Necesarycook! Thanks for the detailed information and examples! It's important to spread the message! Appearance and looks can be manipulated to various degrees to achieve increased levels of credibility, desirability, social status, standing and power! Peacocking at its best indeed! Because it's conscious, elaborate and calculated it qualifies as manipulation rather than your usual "dress up" for a job interview or a date or networki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:19 PM |
| 55 | I know we need a little positivity. Can you post examples of how a man is behaving in an HV way during this global crisis?A guy friend of mine called a few days ago me to tell me he has organised to go to the hospital for blood donation with some friends and family members of him during the weekend and wanted to know if I could think of any other guy he can reach out to due to my extended networking and connections. It made a really good impression on me given how desperate everyone is for blood during the pandemic and that there's been almost 50% drop in blood donation due to it! It's important to get the message … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 08:45 PM |
| 12 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!This quarantine will bring about a spike in births, break ups and divorces at the end of it all! I'm glad you're out! I understand it's not easy since you share a child but I hope you're doing better and healing at the moment! People like him never stop in my experience! You are the one that has to change because they won't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 07:30 AM |
| 22 | Come watch me waste my time explaining to a Scrote that "Divorce Rape" is nowhere near the equivalent of Child Rape🤣🤣🤣 They couldn't care less about the probability of pregnancy as it doesn't affect them first and foremost! And this is a men's world at the end of the day! I gave similar examples in my comment regarding male suicide rates etc...where for instance they cry about it without seeing that women have much higher suicide attempt rates and even higher depression rates! The only distinction is in suicide success really! Their attempts are more successful than that of home, hense the higher suicide rat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 07:26 AM |
| 36 | Come watch me waste my time explaining to a Scrote that "Divorce Rape" is nowhere near the equivalent of Child RapeYou underestimate the power of male ego, selfishness and the limit of their cognitive abilities 🤣🤣🤣🤯🤯🤯 They believe they are the centre of the universe for some reason! You can't reason with them in most cases! I just present the facts, state the truth and remove myself from the equation after 2-3 comments! I always thank them for their response and personal opinion however! It sends a clear message about their "contribution" and that I won't engage in further discussions as the issue has been c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 07:18 AM |
| 31 | Come watch me waste my time explaining to a Scrote that "Divorce Rape" is nowhere near the equivalent of Child RapebUt mUhhh DiCk 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭 ShOw sOmE mErCy wOmAn!!! This "wHaT aBoUt mEn" movement and mentality has gone too far! They have an excuse, justification, "fact", counter argument and so on and so forth for everything these days! If it's not divorce rape, it's male suicide victims, or male rape vctims or male disposability or male homelessness or male domestic violence victims! Like with cockroaches, they're everywhere and multiply fast! There's always a "but" coming out of their mouth and they equate an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 07:11 AM |
| 13 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!What matters is that you know and implement it now sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 06:33 AM |
| 32 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!They know what they are doing and why and how it hurts others! See how he says "I am so proud of her, because I was kind of screaming at her to do this for a long time" to justify his actions? He "did it for her", "to teach her a lesson", "to help her evolve or grow" or what have you as a means of removing accountability and responsibility from the picture while glorifying their behaviours, displaying grandiose and divine-like traits like foreshadowing, master planning, seeing deep into the futu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 06:30 AM |
| 68 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!A tale as old as time! For men everything is about control, domination, power and sex! You're damned if you do and damned if you don't with them! They don't appreciate anything good, they only respond to consequences and when you treat them the way they treat you and turn the tables on you! You give them an inch, they take a mile! Don't let them walk over you and show them how you want and deserve to be treated from Day 1! Take no hostages and don't engage in negotiations! They're for the weak! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 06:05 AM |
| 325 | Too Much Emotional Labor For A Little Scroty Ego Stroke—Rihanna Gives Her Attention to What MattersThey do need attention indeed! In all levels and aspects of life, sucking the life force out of you in every way they can if you let them! They say "a man needs a full stomach and empty balls" to be content for a reason! They need a caretaker 24/7! Why stroke their egos and d*cks instead of investing that time and energy into you and your goals??? Most men are like that! Ladies, Don't feed what doesn't feed you! In other words, don't invest your time, energy, effort, money and resources in what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 05:54 AM |
| 8 | Man wants to know how to teach his daughter how to masturbateThe report feature is way underutilised! I wouldn't bet on him rethinking his whole life though! You're assuming cognitive and critical thinking abilities and skills being present sis! 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:39 PM |
| 88 | My Observation: M*n who glorify low maintenance women are always the first to leave you for the same women they claim to hate. Being called high maintenance is always a compliment to me, like yes, I enjoy taking care of myself. You should too 🌸"High maintenance" (as seen or accused to be by men) = high standards, high quality, high self-esteem, high self-respect, in other words, High Value Woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Help with dating!!There's nothing to be confused about! It's pretty clear that our boyfriend is LVM! The other guy is irrelevant at this stage and you shouldn't use him as your "way out" of your current relationship! You clearly need to work on yourself before getting into a relationship with anyone in the future! There are SO many red flags everywhere 🚩🚩🚩 Make sure you read the FDS Handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:18 PM |
| 115 | Find a man who gets off on your pleasure, not your pain.bUt pAiN IS pLeAsUrE mY dEaR 🧛♂️🧛♂️🧛♂️ This is a key point when it comes to sex and intimacy with men! It's therefore important for women to realise the difference between men getting off their pleasure as opposed to their pain! If you, your comfort and your orgasm are not a priority before, during and after sex, then there's no reason to be with that man! He doesn't care about you and sex is ONLY for him and his benefit! Don't fool yourself with excuses and justifications either! Don't settl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 11:11 PM |
| 9 | Man wants to know how to teach his daughter how to masturbateBecause it is! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:57 PM |
| 33 | Man wants to know how to teach his daughter how to masturbateMake depravity at its best!!! 🤮🤮🤮 As if there's no woman left in the planet that he can refer his daughter for any issues related to womanhood and being a woman and no therapist for the more serious ones!!! He's a man though and thus thinks he knows what's best for a teenage girl!!! And he's SO concerned and progressed and woke...What a joke!!! Yes, the link is working but his post got rightfully removed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:55 PM |
| 5 | My heart is breakingTry out the activity I recommended to unpack his traits and behaviour! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 8 | My heart is breakingThat's exactly what's happened here! He's a LVM and she needs to work on herself to see the bigger picture here! Everyone has been there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 46 | My heart is breakingYeah, he's definitely not HVM then! He's a LVM that lied to you and wanted to keep you down, trapped and with no options in your life! That's it someone being into domestic life at all! You need to work on disillusionment asap and all your distorted thinking! Give me a second to give you an activity! The best place to start is to make a list with all his positive and negative traits! Give details and examples! A visual picture of why and how he was LVM is the best place to start! And reaffirm wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 65 | My heart is breakingYou've romanticised him and put him in a pedestal from what you're describing and now you're experiencing FOMO (fear of missing out) along with a number of cognitive distortions like ruminating, catastrophising, magnifying, filtering, emotional reasoning etc. What are some of his negative traits? Give us more details about him being HVM! You need to see him for what he really is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Thank you FDS!No problem sis! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:04 PM |
| 18 | Is it too soon for both? 32m, 30fUncertainty and confusion and looking for a way out of an old love and past relationship are not a good foundation for a relationship! You both need to heal individually! And neither of you are ready to move on! That's a rebound situationship, not a relationship! You focus on yourself, becoming a better person and healing from your past relationship! Don't spend time with her, get your distance and don't use her friendliness and attention to fill your gaps! You're using each other as a crutch an… | /r/askFDS | 24/03/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!So true! It's an endless pit if you don't! It never ends! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 76 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdowni tHoUgHt mAsTerBaTioN wAs eXeRciSe tHouGh! 🤔🤔🤔 🤯🤯🤯🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ i cAn aLsO LiFt aT hOmE u KnOw! wHiLe gAmiNg 🎮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 22 | I just have to say it here....Enjoy yourself OP!!! They're generally not worth the time, energy, effort, money and resources! Don't waste it on them! Invest it on you! Sorry you went through that! But I'm so glad you came out the other side stronger! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Wanted to share a HVM during COViD-18It's great that you are adapting and staying indoors due to the pandemic! It's important to self-isolate and keep social distance measures at all times! :-) We don't have enough information for me to comment on the rest or whether he is a HVM! Why don't you share some information on how you know he is a HVM and how he is treating you? So that other women get some examples on what to look out for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:50 PM |
| 7 | LVMs during Coronavirus🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're killing me!!! I know MeN are having a difficult time during the isolation and women are even more burdened this period!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!Role models and other HVIndividuald are really important for everyone to have! It is all about attitude and mentality! Believing in ourselves and putting in effort and our Level best can work wonders! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!Exactly! In that way you get the best of both worlds! Good luck with your lock down! :-) How are you planning to glow up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 4 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!How did her advice help you? It's really important to realise that everything is a step-by-step process and we can't just jumb at the end result we desire! And if we can do something today, it will help our future self tomorrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!Both wisdom nuggets are gold! :-) Thanks for sharing! They remind me of some similar ones: 1. You are your own hero / saviour / master etc! 2. Rome wasn't build in a day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!Yes! A true aha moment and an eye opening experience! Empty apologies really! They must be accompanied by exchange! Theory + Practice, walk the talk vs talk the talk! I believe we women place too much emphasis on words, and "wanting" to change...see "He's genuine/so excited about it/so looking forward to it/trully sorry" etc! Does he really act on those feelings though? Nah sis, nah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!I've heard it as in "Find a man" not "Find someone" as a piece of advice given to women, not in general, due to the nature of most men! Why are you still thinking about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Don't forget to level up sisters! 👑👑👑 Let's use this time of social distance and isolation to improve ourselves, recharge and detox from negative people!So much wisdom right here!!! I couldn't agree more! The best things for me have happened in the intersection between responsibility and opportunity! You can indeed gain so much from something someond somewhere couldn't be f**ed to do or bother with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 12 | Thank you FDS!Great outlook and response sis! There's so many bro dudes coming out of the woodwork now with the Coronavirus! Of course he wouldn't reply because all he wanted was to use you! And if you happened to have some extra toilet paper and food, even better for him! r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy is the FDS sub for leveling up and working on becoming HVW! You'll find much help there on many topics! Don't even bother replying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Ended things with me and he’s already getting serious with someone new. Help please.In what ways is he HVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 09:08 AM |
| 11 | Ended things with me and he’s already getting serious with someone new. Help please.I think you'll like it! It's like FDS, only the focus is on how to be HVW instead of LVM! :-) Start with making a list with all his positive and negative traits! Give details and examples! A visual picture of why and how he was LVM is the best place to start! And reaffirm why you're better off broken up and without him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 09:02 AM |
| 20 | Ended things with me and he’s already getting serious with someone new. Help please.What do you mean by a lot? You need to do more to work on your self-esteem and validation so you don't have feelings of inadequacy! r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy is the FDS sub for leveling up! Join if you haven't already and get some ideas on ways to work on yourself! Nothing should shock you when it comes to men and LVM! Spend that mental energy on you and your future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:53 AM |
| 56 | Ended things with me and he’s already getting serious with someone new. Help please.Block him everywhere for starters so you don't have to worry about those moments! Focus on yourself instead of him and his new girlfriend! What they do is their business, not yours! That's not what it reinforces at all! You're experiencing cognitive distortions/ distorted thinking here! The fact that you know all these details about them, their relationship, her age, their age difference, their relationship's timeline etc etc etc and have reached a number of conclusions shows both that it's been… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:47 AM |
| 136 | Ended things with me and he’s already getting serious with someone new. Help please.MY EDIT: YOU SAID: She’s 9 years older than him and in her late 30s so I’m assuming she’s definitely on the fast track for things in terms of wanting kids ASAP and marriage. And on a previous comment rega"she likely needs to get going with it" STOP SHAMING WOMEN!!! For their age or anything else!!! It's not of your business!!! This post was not what you made it out to be after all! Your main issue is that he moved on with someone else and you're picking on her age and her future and reproductive… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:28 AM |
| 23 | What does FDS make of this guy?I'm getting clear predatory vibes here! "Assisting" in vulnerable times! Plus "talking" online for such a long time is a huge red flag on so many levels! Online personas are a real thing! Him "not being ready" is another red flag! The excuses and/or justifications! The huge lengtg of time! I can't see anything positive here really, only red flags throughout! 🚩🚩🚩 BUT such a GREAT post to underline the differences between online and/or fictional vs in real life dating / friendship / relationship e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:16 AM |
| 45 | Idris Elba’s Wife tests positive for COVID19 after choosing not to isolate herself from Idris’ after his diagnosis. Catching Your man’s diseases ON PURPOSE is EXTREME PICK ME behavior. If doctors & nurses are isolating from THEIR families, then this woman should have too!!bUt i'm A RiDe oR DiE wOmAn aS GoD iNtEnTeD!!! a fEmiNiNe fEmiNiSt fEmaLe!!! u Don'T dEsErvE a TrUe mAn LiKe MiNe!!! tHiSss iS rEaL LuV u kNoW!!! hE iS mY oNe aNd Only!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about Findom?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMG!!! How did I miss this comment sis!!!!???? You're killing me here!!!!! | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 12:27 PM |
| 27 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousim A NiCe gUy! cOffE dAtE bEfOre yOur pLacE??? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:13 AM |
| 13 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousbUt i'm A niCe gUy! i hAvE nO tAnTruMs LuV! wAnT 2 cOmE oVeR 4 mOviE aNd cUddLezzz??? 😎😎😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:10 AM |
| 4 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilarioustOO LoNg 4 mE 2 rEaD, OnLy hErE 4 a SeRioUsss wOmAn! u iT??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:07 AM |
| 14 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousaLL i rEaD wAs sEx LuV!!! u fRee tOniTe??? mcChiCkeN oN yOu iF u PiCk mE uP???!!! 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:06 AM |
| 4 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousaLL i hEaRd wAs sExxx!!! DTF mAyBe??? i m fRee tOniTe!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:04 AM |
| 7 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousu ReAd??? wOw!!! r U SiNgLe bY aNy cHanCe??? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:03 AM |
| 19 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousthAnkS LuV...cAn i bY aNy cHanCe hAvE yOuR nUmBeR tHeN??? 😏😏😏 aLsO, cAn u PiCk mE uP??? i dOn'T dRiVe atm!!! 🥺🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:01 AM |
| 15 | This sub is great and the hate it recieves is hilariousbbbUUUttt mmmuuuhhhh DiiicKkk wOmAn! mUh DiCk!!! hAvE sOmE mErCy! 🥺🥺🥺 btw, u FrEe tOniTe??? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 07:58 AM |
| 16 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.I'm taking back my previous comment! You're not worth our time and effort here! You need professional help! And an intensive on basic human rights urgently! As they're Both are, race, culture or religion dependent! This is his response to a post about a woman being hit and aatacked in Iran by a religious man who thought her hijab was lax! HIS RESPONSE escailer 10d This is just a part of their culture. We shouldn’t force our western ways and standards on their culture. It may look terrible to us,… | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 07:44 AM |
| 16 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.A lot of everything is self and other-imposed! The only "other" who has historically had the power and ability to impose that everything in society is men themselves. It's the privilege and skewed mentalities not allowing them to see it! So, yes, women don't think a man is a loser if he has a low body count. On the contrary, we avoid the ones with high body count as much generally speaking for SO many reasons! Toxic masculinity harms men first and through them the rest of society! Let's use this… | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 07:29 AM |
| 34 | I feel I missed out and will be shamed if I want the same things everyone else had.There's so much to unpack here to be honest with you! It's not your (insert perceived and/or true) "flaw" here that made you undatable! It's your mentality and way thinking! Your post is full of cognitive distortions, past trauma, low self-esteem, projection, repression, irrational thinking, rumination, labelling, generalisations, catastrophising, etc. which are all rather unhelpful in general, not just dating! You need to work on your mental health the same way you've worked on your physical or… | /r/askFDS | 22/03/20 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youA very challenging yet high reward activity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:19 AM |
| 53 | Scores being scrotescOmE oN nOw! nOt fAiR! i'm sUcH a NiCe gUy! waNNa sEE DicK piC??? 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 03:14 AM |
| 9 | Can I be a HVM if I have flaws?Yes, I think education is very important! It is an epidemic after all! I love Pornland by Gail Dines! 🙂 I read it when it first came out almost a decade ago. It's part of my Recommendations List for Feminism issues or Porn & Society. The above list is a Porn Addiction Recovery list. I find that focusing on the effects of porn from a personal perspective is usually more helpful to addicts rather than the ethical, moral effects and the impact on women and sex workers etc. Denial is real and they'l… | /r/askFDS | 21/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 45 | He Knows, Sis.Great post Fluffy Clouds! They definitely know! Great examples and resources provided! It's high time we stopped excusing, providing justifications; saying they have past trauma (so do women btw); removing their agency / cognition/ free will / accountability; saying poor men they have so much pressure by society (it's self-imposed and other male imposed, as they rule socuety); talking about male suicide rates (women have higher attempt rates, they just weren't as successful as men, women also ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 02:02 AM |
| 16 | I need to memorize thisTHIS right here! About starving! I live by "Don't feed what doesn't feed you!" whether friends, family, workplace etc! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 24 | Can I be a HVM if I have flaws?Hi there, I'll just copy and paste a previous post I've made on the issue that I think could be of assistance here. It has information on the matter and resources to assist you. I highly recommend therapy in your case. You are in a place where you need to work on your mental health before thinking of dating ANY woman! Previous Comment The best way to raise a son when it comes to women is by ensuring a Zero Tolerance and Access Policy when it comes to porn. As with any other addiction, it reduces… | /r/askFDS | 20/03/20 11:56 PM |
| 7 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youExtremely eye opening! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:13 PM |
| 15 | What kind of woman does this make me?Is it really worth it? Are you in any way, either consciously or subconsciously, setting yourself up for failure? By expending time, energy, money and resources on FWBs an LVMs? When you could be investing them in you and any potential HVM? Self-sabotage and self-neglect are the opposite of self-care is a principle I live by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youExactly! Plus you expend so much time, energy and resources when you want/try to please everyone that there's nothing left for you! I'm aim for diplomatic, too, harsh lines/boundaries/priorities stated in a polite or neutral way depending on context. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 11 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youI agree! That's how it worked for me, too! Fake it until you make it and then it becomes second nature! You'll be "it" before you notice it! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:09 PM |
| 53 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youApplying a female-and-personal-benefit analytical lens to everything when interacting with men and other people in general! Asking me thinking about: How does this help me? How does this (action, mentality etc) help women? Who truly benefits from it? And why? What's the motive here? What is he gaining out of this? Does that mean I'm losing? If yes, in what way? How can I change/ turn the tables on that/him? What message will my reply or response give/imply both for now and for future reference? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | male depravity postsAgreed that it's much more than the post themselves! The comment section, the interactions, the female camaraderie, the support, the humour, anything that results from it are extremely valuable for women, too. As you said, we control the narrative here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | male depravity postsThat's exactly it really! People being in different stages of their individual journeys...People appreciating different aspects like venting vs humour. There are so many variables here! A message is only reinforced when it's being repeated and that is needed if we are to change women's mentality! Plus, it bring the patriarchical cultural ideas, the ingrained misogyny, the socialisation from childhood notions you mentioned into light by making them relatable to women! It's no longer an abstract t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | male depravity postsi jUsT tHouGhT i sHouLd sAy hi! Dtf??? No??? oK u hAvE a NiCe dAy tHen LuV 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 4 | male depravity postsI will not elaborate on your post much, other than give a summary of points underlying the fact that you have free will and free choice to do as you please regarding the commen; advice against gate keeping; allow other women to have and employ their own agency; allow other women to be in a different stage in their journey; remind you that knowledge is wisdom and that knowledge is definitely being exchanged both in the posts and the comments and lastly, I urge you to reread the FDS sidebar for mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 38 | Girl’s “sweet and caring” bf of 2 mos stabs his roommate right after she leaves after they drink... she blocks his Snapchat but leaves him unblocked on her phone in case he needs to apologize 👀🙄😩🤬 SIS.iT wAs hEr fAuLt yOuR hOnOuR!!! i'm a NiCe gUy!!! sHe aSkEd 4 iT!!! NufF WiTh tHe KiNk sHamiNg!!! 😔😔😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 21 | LVM thinks being a man is so hard, is completely bothered and justifies his thinkingu hAd mE aT bOnDs LuV...TeLL mE mOrE 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:33 AM |
| 138 | LVM thinks being a man is so hard, is completely bothered and justifies his thinking🥺🥺🥺 wOmEn jUsT dOn'T gEt iT!!! aLL wE nEEd iS a ComPLimEnT oR tWo oR tEn aNd sOmE fEmaLe cOmpAnY aNd a ShOuLdeR aNd aN xBoX aNd a pEniS fRieNdLy eNvirOnmEnt aNd a BJ iN tHe MorNinG aNd sOmE pOrN aNd TisSuEs oF cOuRce (i nEvEr cArEd mUch 4 tOiLet pApEr mYseLf u sEe, i hAd 2 aDD tHaT 4 cOnTexT)! mEssAge mE iF u wAnT 2 kNoW mOrE! Btw, hAvE u sEEn tHe sUiciDe rAtEs???? nO wOnDer wE hAvE 2 sEttLe 4 a macChiCkeN sOmEtiMeS...😭😭😭 iT's tHe cLosEst sOmE oF uS cAn gEt 2 a cHiCk 😔😔😔 sO, aNy NicE LaDies fOr … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:30 AM |
| 15 | To all the FDS ladies during this challenging time.aSs aLwaYs i HaTe 2 iNteRRupT...bUt wHaT aBoUt mEn???? 🤔🤔🤔 P.S. sEriOuS rEpLieS ONLY!!! 🤣🤣🤣 Agree with the message! Everyone deserves that in their lives! My message to all women would be: you deserve this time alone, peace, happiness and being and far, far, far away from OLD, LVMs and abusers! Make sure you detox from them during this difficult times and work on yourselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 07:16 AM |
| 8 | Coronavirus Queens ✨✨I'm more than a little worried! She needs a reality check asap! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:45 AM |
| 14 | Coronavirus Queens ✨✨This post is extremely concerning!!! You cannot know if someone you haven't met even once in your life is HVM or not! It's too soon and there's been no real life experience or exposure to each other. Online relationships, which I'm guessing is what you have, are in no way comparable to real life / in person relationships and should not be treated as such! What you are describing is in theory only, including plans, meeting up, general agreement in everything in your lives, your future, his intent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:42 AM |
| 53 | When you have a HVM, you won't have to beg for anythingMmm...🧐🧐🧐 Is it an 👽👽👽 or a 🦄🦄🦄??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:04 AM |
| 2 | STOLEN...Apparently it's Q&A time in popular sub and this bro dude is asking his fellas 🤯🤯🤯 "My fellow brothers, what makes you touch your balls and then immediately after smell your hand?"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You're killing me!!! I'd definitely get behind that campaign!!! But I'm afraid they've never seen a washcloth before in their lives! It's going to be tricky to say the least! 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Scrotes being scrotes Reddit men only started realizing porn as a problem when they looked down to see their softies wont go up. Women have been screaming it on Reddit for years and being silenced or shamed for it.You make some fair points here! When it comes to addiction however, in my experience, porn is viewed more like alcohol consumption rather than drugs, lets say cocaine for example. It's all about the amount and frequency to them, like with alcohol, you're not seen as an alcoholic / drunk if you only drink occasionally or partake on weekend drinking or social drinking. So, they extrapolate using that, that porn is ok if you do it once a day or a few times a week or month and you're in control, it'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:41 AM |
| 6 | STOLEN...Apparently it's Q&A time in popular sub and this bro dude is asking his fellas 🤯🤯🤯 "My fellow brothers, what makes you touch your balls and then immediately after smell your hand?"I HAD to confirm it wasn't a troll thing! Plus social research sis! I can't under neither the question not the answers now 🤯🤕🤮🥴😰🤒🥺🤢😫💀🧐😷😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | STOLEN...Apparently it's Q&A time in popular sub and this bro dude is asking his fellas 🤯🤯🤯 "My fellow brothers, what makes you touch your balls and then immediately after smell your hand?"I mean duh...and then they wonder why and how the Coronavirus has spread the way it has! 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:30 PM |
| 3 | STOLEN...Apparently it's Q&A time in popular sub and this bro dude is asking his fellas 🤯🤯🤯 "My fellow brothers, what makes you touch your balls and then immediately after smell your hand?"I know! I couldn't breath when I saw this! I just couldn't stop laughing! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | STOLEN...Apparently it's Q&A time in popular sub and this bro dude is asking his fellas 🤯🤯🤯 "My fellow brothers, what makes you touch your balls and then immediately after smell your hand?"So is the rest of the world 🤣🤣🤣 Except men, men actually replied to his post!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:27 PM |
| 10 | It has been one month since I broke up with my LVM ex bf!!! Couldn't be happier.❤ the energy sis!!! Great picture! I'm sure it will be appreciated in r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy, too, by other women leveling up! You look great! Glad you got rid of 200lb of dead weight! 🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 4 | LVM are not relationship material. FWB material at BEST. Don’t waste your time in a relationship with someone you can’t see a happy future wirh.On top of potential, I also see a door...Something big and great is in the horizon for you! Life has great things in store for you but you must choose wisely. You're currently at a crossroads... 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 14 | Scrotes being scrotes Reddit men only started realizing porn as a problem when they looked down to see their softies wont go up. Women have been screaming it on Reddit for years and being silenced or shamed for it.I get it...hence the comment about actors and seasoned pros. You literally have no way of really truly knowing someone. Some men can go on for ages before they slip and make a mistake or you accidentally find out something. Being duped in a relationship as opposed in a marriage is usually more manageable and less complicated. You can up and leave more easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 12:10 PM |
| 16 | Scrotes being scrotes Reddit men only started realizing porn as a problem when they looked down to see their softies wont go up. Women have been screaming it on Reddit for years and being silenced or shamed for it.U 2???? wHaT a CoinCiDEnSe!!! i aM a MaN, tOO!!! dUdE tHeSe ChiCKs aRe nUtZz!!! dOn'T gEt mE sTaRteD oN dA TiTTieS 😛😛😛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 11:30 AM |
| 14 | Scrotes being scrotes Reddit men only started realizing porn as a problem when they looked down to see their softies wont go up. Women have been screaming it on Reddit for years and being silenced or shamed for it.I agree! On both the escalation and uncertainty. There's no way of knowing 100% in my opinion. There are signs and red flags and hunches but there are also pros, seasoned men, true actors, master manipulators and fully able to fool people for years. A lovely guy and decent fella is what everybody else sees; that's their public, and quite often private, too, mask. That's why women need to be constantly on the look out, vetting, assessing, reevaluating and adapting in today's world. Which is hard … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 37 | Scrotes being scrotes Reddit men only started realizing porn as a problem when they looked down to see their softies wont go up. Women have been screaming it on Reddit for years and being silenced or shamed for it.Lol, I know, I'm still laughing! Once they're hooked on porn, and on videos of "young" or "small" or "step mum/sis" etc, they're only a Por*hub search away from "underage/teenage/student/painal/sodomised/raped/violently-made-to-cum-while-screaming-in-pleasure-from-being-fucked-by-three-plus-two-in-the-mouth" kind of xxx! It only gets worse and worse and worse! I hope you lose that 200lb of dead weight soon! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 125 | Scrotes being scrotes Reddit men only started realizing porn as a problem when they looked down to see their softies wont go up. Women have been screaming it on Reddit for years and being silenced or shamed for it.bbbbbuuuutttttt mmmmmuuuuhhhhh dickkkkk 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 jUsT LoVe mE pleazzzzzzz mY DiCkkkk hUrTs fRoM bLuE BaLLzzz NO jOkE!!!!! mAybE kiSS aNd sUcK 2 mAkE iT bEtteR???? btw, i jUsT gOt tEsTed, nO nEEd 2 wOrrY bOut iT!!!! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 Porn is ONLY an issue when it affects their feefees! And they take YEARS to come to that realisation! ANY other reason to be anti-porn falls in deaf ears, becomes a big debate, is a reason to break up with your girlfriend or wife as they're abusive, controlling, pathetic and extre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 02:26 AM |
| 5 | God 'using coronavirus for good' because women being 'pushed back into homes', Christian blogger says. Leave it to the religious nutjobs to ignore to tens of thousands of female doctors and nurses on the front lines fighting this outbreak.And that ladies is how the good old song "Losing my Religion" suddenly gets a new meaning! I've heard a lot of people saying the Corona is "God's work and a way to test our faith"! 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 01:26 AM |
| 17 | '...But First....You've got to get MAD!!' - please PEAK the pickmeisha's in your life! Women's anger has been MUTED and normalised, deliberately so, and when enough women are angry ENOUGH and DEMAND respect- you will start to see some widespread change across this planet.**All I know is that first you've got to get mad! You've got to say I'm a human being God damn it! My life has value! ...I want you all to yell I'M AS MAD AS HELL AND I'M NOT GOING TO TAKE THIS ANYMORE!** 👏👏👏 👏👏👏👏👏 Incredible message modernmedussa! Thanks for sharing! Women need to wake up and become enraged by their individual and collective state and situation and do what they have to do to take back control of their lives and bodies! Respect, dignity and decency are basic rights that are the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | JFC. Yes, reward him for bad behavior as well.OMG!!!!! R u ReaDin mY MiNd wOmAn???? fOr SUrE! wE aRe mEaNt 2 bE! sEnD mE nUdEs pleazzzzzzzz! NeEd soMetHinG uNtiL i sEe u!!! 🥺🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 135 | Remember ladies, it’s your fault bless you’re football...B...bbbb...bbbbbuuut m...mmm...mmmmuuuhhh dickkkk!!!!!! 🥺🥺🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 01:23 PM |
| 18 | JFC. Yes, reward him for bad behavior as well.tHaNksss bEautIfUL!!! qUitE cHarMin aRen'T I???? Soooooo...mY pLacE oR yOuRs???💏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 07:34 AM |
| 108 | JFC. Yes, reward him for bad behavior as well.pSycHoLogY and SciEncE hAvE aLL da AnswErz!!! mEn aRe VisUaL aNd nEEd 2 cOmE 2 pReVenT pRosTatE cAnCer!!! gAmiNg iS a hiGh eNd hoBBy aNd a ReLaxaTioN teChNiquE!!! LeT tHe pOOr mAn bE! aS tHey sAy, a bLowJob a dAy 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | I don’t see any liesaLwAyssss, i OnLy wAnT u 2 bE cOmFortAbLe bAbE! i hAvE sO mAnY pLaNsss 4 u mY dEaR 😈😈😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Anxiety of any sorts can be deleterious! It holds us back on so many levels and is used by LVM as a tactic to prey on anxious women with low self-esteem and use that against them. I'm glad you got rid of that 200lb of dead weight! The best thing you could do for yourself in 2020 really! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Your welcome :-) ❤ We need to put something together then, don't we? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:31 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020. ON BEING ASSERTIVE I'm just copying any pasting here part of a comment I made yesterday regarding being assertive as a reply to a poster who was being constantly interrupted and gaslighted by her boyfriend who was rude to her and belittled her opinions all of a sudden. I thought others could find it helpful: What you can do with all people who exhibit such behaviours is explain yourself assertively the first time, state your boundaries and how you don't care for such behaviour and thus won't b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 13 | I don’t see any liesjUsT TeLL mE wHeN aNd wHere LuV aNd LeAve da ReSt 2 mE 😎😎😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 01:28 PM |
| 23 | I don’t see any liesOhhhh, noooo...I kNoW a WaY tO HeLp WiTh tHaT iF u kNoW wHaT i mEaN 😏😏😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:35 AM |
| 36 | I have absolutely no wordsWow sister!!! This guy is clearly from another planet!!! 🤯🤯🤯 The level of deception and manipulation and malice he engaged in in order to get laid is beyond the pale!!! I wouldn't bet his parents are dead or that he got laid either! He was just trying to manipulate you further! He's such a joke! The mental gymnastics are unbelievable and there are so many red flags and narcissistic and sociopathic traits here that it'd take days to unpack! I'm really sorry you want through this! My two cents wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:22 AM |
| 164 | I don’t see any liesI mean duhhh...because obviously sex is not an intimate, personal and private act! Anyone can do it anytime, anywhere and with whomever! 😎😎😎 Being ready or wanting a relationship iS sErIoUsss sTuFF LaDy, what did you expect???? 🤔🤔🤔 Diz wOmEn iS nUtzzz fOr sUrE!!! 🤪🤪🤪 Meanwhile in Lalaland, all is COOL bro!!!! 🤠🤠🤠 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ On a more serious note however, the level of brainwashing and male narrative these bros perpetuate is mind boggl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 07:02 AM |
| 5 | How to confront a man on his mistakesI'm glad I was able to help, however small my contribution. :-) Everything should be done with you as the central point, your self-development and growing journey! That's at the core of FDS, doing things to improve yourself for you. Are you on the r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy sub? That's specifically for leveling up the FDS way, and I think you'll find it helpful. Keep us posted sis! :-))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Grading my boyfriend: Trying to figure out if my boyfriend is HVMThanks Fluffs :-) I think it's imperative to focus on polite but hard truth and honesty and empowerment in such cases! A PickMe forum would have hone the opposite direction! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:52 AM |
| 34 | How to confront a man on his mistakesJadedilla, thanks for asking this question! I believe it can generate a lot of discussion with positive outcomes for other women, too :-) Let's start by saying that you can't correct a man. Or anyone else for that matter. As most individuals over the age of 10, he should have been at a cognitive and emotional level of being able to "autocorrect". You don't owe it to him to correct, teach, train, explain, or "communicate" things to them in any way, sorts or manner. Other than once or the basics w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 39 | Grading my boyfriend: Trying to figure out if my boyfriend is HVMThank you for taking the time to write this and provide a picture of your current relationship and your boyfriend! It must have been hard putting it all out there for everyone to see and us, other FDS members, to comment on. I wish women would do this more often as it is a necessary, yet uncomfortable and difficult stage, step in moving on with their lives. It is an eye opening experience revolving around notions of disillusionment and cognitive distortions, minimising, assumed similarity, posit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Wtf happened to men?I thought this was missing from the porn discussion altogether. I'm always as much invested and interest in the WHY (something happens) and HOW (it can change) as in the WHAT (is actually happening, e.g. current porn situation). Let me know if people are interested in putting together a post based on this. | /r/askFDS | 13/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 27 | Wtf happened to men?PORN. Full stop. Others have done an excellent job on explaining the rationale behind porn and how it has affected men and society in general. I will therefore approach my input into this thread from a psycoeducation perspective and focus on resources that promote treatment, healing and recovery for all parties involved. Prevention should be the first line of defence. Recovery from this addiction is the second.The best way to achieve this is through education on the effects of porn in your brain… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 9 | A question from a short guyThank you for your question and taking the time to explain your experience. :-) Being short does not make a man a LVM! It's the being insecure, obsessed, angry and defensive about being short that indicates a LVM. These are traits that show an individual of low value. A woman with such traits would, too, be low value. FDS is clear about both and does not discriminate. We are talking about height preferences which in many occasions become hard-core standards due to both personal experience and co… | /r/askFDS | 12/03/20 10:54 AM |
| 1 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?This one is a must! https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fgiowz/a_list_of_liberal_feminisms_effect_on/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 12:28 AM |
| 86 | Describing Rough Sex and Alleged “Rape” Fantasies Through a Female Lens: An important part of reclaiming our sexuality from false male projections.Yeah, no, I’m a grown ass woman and I’m not calling a man who isn’t my father, daddy, neither am I going to tolerate being called a bitch or a whore. wHat aBoUt sLuT tHouGh??? U DiDn'T sAy anyfffing aBoUt sLuT!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:21 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, we've reached 60,000 members 🥳🥳🥳Multiply the fan mail we get x100 for each mod or something! The sisters at the headquarters are amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:14 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, we've reached 60,000 members 🥳🥳🥳❤❤❤ It's mutual ❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:11 AM |
| 24 | Are There Any Sex Columnists or Blogs That Aren’t LibFem Trash?👏👏👏 You're right about the script = You had an epiphany while giving a morning blow job that “i’m a FeMiNist aNd i aCtuALly LiKe bEiNg SuBmiSsiVe!”🙄 Don't forget that they ALL get an orgasm from giving said blowjob to the dude even though they themselves were still fully clothed or never touched by the guy! Talking about evolution! No jokes people! Why, I'd say it's pretty wild out there and us inorgasmic ladies can't compete with such cool girls! Taking notes ✍✍✍ 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 75 | Any man who thinks Aziz Ansari is a victim is a LVM, and this article explains why. As a gay man, he confirms that men are perfectly capable of reading a room and that they’re purposefully pretending to be obtuse to maintain plausible deniability on sexual assault.I'm SURE she must have misinterpreted things! He MUST have meant well! Perhaps she needed a place to rest her hand???!!! I don't know FeMaLeS aRe WEiRd!!! 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ 🤔🤔🤔 Nope, definitely the woman's fault. Misandry at its best. The game is completely rigged against men. Women are ruling society and abuse us on the daily. MGTOW was the best decision of my life after I was divorce raped! Aziz Anzari is a victim of toxic femininity and matriarchy! RIP legend! yOu rOcK mAn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Can't even stand in an elevator without a man throwing a temper tantrum.Allow me to skip the personal characterisations and attacks part, as well as the gate keeping and personal interrogation, and get straight to the point. First of all, FDS, as far as I know stands for Female Dating Strategy, not American Female Dating Strategy. But as it happens, I was writing with the Western society and thus the US in mind. Secondly, you're right, this isn't the 1960s, but the mentality has not changed much. Do not confuse your anecdotal or lived experience with empirical data,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Can't even stand in an elevator without a man throwing a temper tantrum.Whatever do you mean? What do you define as mum blaming here? There is no mum blaming; I'm merely stating the facts. Women are raised to cater to men, and to tend to their male offspring, husbands and male family members. It's been ingrained and socially accepted, expected and perpetuated for millennia. Boys are coddled and spoiled way more than girls, expected to do way less chores (if any), and in many occasions learn to treat their mothers and sisters horribly. This behaviour is learned, mimi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 07:30 AM |
| 8 | Looks like RedPillers days are numbered on Reddit. 🥳🥳🥳🥳I'd already seen that FDS post after all, I thought they'd have a new one but alas, no fun. They keep recycling the same arguments over and over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 5 | Looks like RedPillers days are numbered on Reddit. 🥳🥳🥳🥳Thanks, I will check the 🦠 out for a laugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Looks like RedPillers days are numbered on Reddit. 🥳🥳🥳🥳I haven't visited in a while to be honest. Are they still alive and kicking? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Haven’t even talked to this guy for a whole day and he constantly called me overbearing pet names. Asked him to tone it down but this “nice guy” couldn’t handle it. Tells me goodbye then gets mad when I don’t answer his spam calls or textsSensitive much Jammies dear??? I thought we were over this!!! Nuf with being emotional and over reacting!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I mean, the fella did thank you after all! Let's not jumb into conclusions here! You know what??? I'd say U nEEd 2 CoMMuniCaTe mOrE!!! There! That'll do it! Your welcome! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 What a sore, dump, crapy, full of himself, bottom of the barrel porn sick loser!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 27 | Looks like RedPillers days are numbered on Reddit. 🥳🥳🥳🥳Let's hope it's true and stays that way for good! It's 2020 after all, time to move on! 🥳🥳🥳🥳 Bless their hearts thought! Gotta love the "But we're not down and we're not out" delusion and all. 🤣🤣🤣 P.S. How did you unearth this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:25 AM |
| 48 | Can't even stand in an elevator without a man throwing a temper tantrum.Mmm 🤔🤔🤔 Ever heard of this weird condition called XY Chromosome🧬??? A tale📜 as old as time 🕰 itself has it that beings that carry the XY are ruled by their testosterone, hormones and feelings... These oh so mythical creatures🦄, raised 👶 with unconditional love ❤ and coddling by their female parents 👩, and negative or neutral male parents👨 as role models, are led to believe they are the centre of the world 🌍... These little creature-princes🤴grow up thinking the 🌍 owes them and that other people w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:18 AM |
| 15 | How to stay focused on myself if I have to live with my deadweight partner?A resource with Existential Psychotherapy principles I like to use a lot in therapy, and has been my favourite for many years is the poem ITHACA by C.P. Cavafy. It's quite famous, and this version is recited by Sean Connery and the music is written by Vangelis. https://youtu.be/1n3n2Ox4Yfk The poem borrows from Ancient Greek Mythos and Philosophy of Odysseus and his journey home. It's about our journey in life and our destination, the hurdles and difficulties we come across on our way there and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:57 AM |
| 110 | ShowerThought: Having a man is like owning a gun. In theory you have it for protection and to feel safe and confident, but statistically it’s actually more likely to kill you and someone you love than to be used against someone who is actually dangerous to you.What an analogy! Sadly true! At least with guns you know they are an object, and thus void of thought, reasoning, feelings, morality, empathy... Or wait? Was I in fact talking about guns here or (most) men? 🤔🤔🤔 Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:42 AM |
| 35 | Wife receives job offer that could significantly improve finances for her family. LVM husband refuses to move and would rather keep his family one pay check away from homelessness.Classic example of LVM! Who not only doesn't step up to provide for his family himself, but doesn't allow his wife to get a better job and improve their circumstances! That's why we insist on vetting and seeing the signs early on! Being mindful of the red flags and not allowing any man to hold you back in your education, career and general progress in life! The notion of "The best gift you can give your children is their father" is underrated! We need to be thinking strategically and long term! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 85 | "Looksmatch" is just something angry men invented to manipulate attractive women to date men below their league. Never settle for a man in terms of looks either.THIS! Plus, you realistically cannot know if someone's HV, male or female, in a day or a couple of weeks. It takes way longer than that and a lot of effort. I've had similar experiences with yours and men not being able to elaborate further in the language or topic they claimed they were experts on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 11:21 PM |
| 68 | "Looksmatch" is just something angry men invented to manipulate attractive women to date men below their league. Never settle for a man in terms of looks either.Looksmatch, The Great Wall of Women, time running out, the scarcity mindset etc. are examples of classic myths men use to project, scare, falsely inflate their mostly low value and extremely limited options and perpetuate their patriarchical privilege, entitlement and misogyny. These are all part of the male narrative that's ruling society. The aim is to keep women oppressed, subjugated and under their thumb. Background noise really, completely irrelevant but we as women we are collectively rais… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 11:16 PM |
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| 9 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.Lol! I know, right??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Was good queens?Really mate?????? This is a FEMALE-only sub! It's literally named FEMALEDatingStrategy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:02 PM |
| 71 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.👏👏👏 Very good points Circescircus! Vetting, self-preservation and survival insticts, tactics and measures should not be mistaken for paranoia, over reacting, exerting control, being crazy and the like. Don't serve yourself in a platter to men! Don't put it all out there for them! Don't put yourself in a "Ask and it shall be delivered" mentality, because that's what they do, they "deliver" as per your requirements and/or order so they can get what they want. Don't fall into the "honesty or "trans… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 16 | Levelling up post break upConfectionary, I'll just copy and paste part of our private messages here so that others can benefit, too: "A resource with Existential Psychotherapy principles I like to use a lot in therapy, and has been my mantra for many years, is the poem ITHACA by C.P. Cavafy. It's quite famous, and this version is recited by Sean Connery and the music is written by Vangelis. https://youtu.be/1n3n2Ox4Yfk The poem borrows from Ancient Greek Mythos and Philosophy of Odysseus and his journey home. It's about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Reminder not do date mama boys.I'm really sorry you went through this! I am more than happy that you got away however and saved yourself from a lifetime of misery! I intentionally both gave general rules and used specific examples to make it more relatable and also lend 'experience' to women who might not have come across this. Your guy sounds like both a mum's boy and a workaholic! 2 (or more) in 1 deals are even worse! The truth of the matter is he could have made the time, space, energy etc if he wanted, just like he did w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 27 | When he tries to get back together after having his fun and thinks I’m taking him back.That's right! They always come crawling back🐍🦠🦗🦟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:24 AM |
| 33 | Reminder not do date mama boys.Great example of a red flag OP! A man's relationship with his mother can be a huge red or green flag. Dysfunctional and toxic relationships such as those with high levels or patterns of unhealthy attachment, enmeshment, codependency and lack of boundaries should be avoided at all costs. Having boundaries and setting your priorities straight are of the utmost importance here, especially when vetting for or considering marriage. Men with and unhealthy relationship with their mothers tend to put th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | An amazing FDS style response by Grant Cardone - have high standards for men in terms of emotional maturity and financial stability. Be a gold digger!! 💁🏻♀️💜Thank you :-) It's the truth sadly! That's exactly how it works! Yet everything is twisted to blame women in perpetuity and then some more! I wish more women wised up to this scheme! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:07 AM |
| 3 | An amazing FDS style response by Grant Cardone - have high standards for men in terms of emotional maturity and financial stability. Be a gold digger!! 💁🏻♀️💜Yes! :-) Animal Planet is the best in terms of educational material! For women, too, as we tend to believe men and the patriarchy myths and anecdotes! A true eye opener on roles and responsibilities! They only care about Mother Nature and 'The Natural Order of Things' if it serves their equipment, ego or privilige. A self-serving exercise where they've twisted everything to serve their narrative and interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:06 AM |
| 38 | Don't Ask To Split The Bill Says Tiffany HaddishTiffany gets it! You know the game, play the game, win the game! Because men definitely know the game and how it's played when they ask you to go Dutch for a date they invited you to! They're either cheap or testing your reaction and bs tolerance level or both! But two can play the game ladies! Win them at their own game! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:31 AM |
| 25 | Dumped LVM sent men wanting sex to ex's work after putting her on swingers' websitei DiD iT 4 hEr yOuR hOnOur!!! i sWeAr!!! Their entitlement and vindictiveness are out of this world! The sooner women wake up to their true nature the better! Protect yourselves!!! Don't disclose personal information, work and home addresses, family history, your ex's name or workplace, your accounts on XYZ social media until YOU HAVE VETTED THEM THOROUGHLY!!! Be extra careful with the info you provide them with as it can and will be used against you!!! This isn't a joke! We're talking about our… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:18 AM |
| 33 | Legendary B. Smith has passed away. Husband thought it was appropriate to move his new girlfriend into the house while she was sick.bUt mUhhh DiCkkkk!!! i nEEddd sUppOrT u KnOw!!! i'm sUffEriiiiNg!!! wHat dOn'T u uNdErsTanD??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:57 AM |
| 209 | When will this stop becoming more common? ENOUGH! Throw the whole man in the trashhAvE yOu TaLkEd 2 HiM??? cAuSe unLeSs u Do u DonT kNoW wHaT's GoInG oN!!!! yOu sEEm VERY jEaLoUs AnD cOnTroLLinG!!! tHaTs aBuSe u KnOw!!! i WoULd nOt kEEp sUcH a fEmaLe tbh!!! pOrN iS AbSoLutELy FiNe!!! On a more serious note..."You do know what's going on and how serious it is! We're talking about underage girls. Act accordingly!" should be the message here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 29 | He can cook for himself.👏👏👏 Would you like something else with that water honey? Perhaps a bit of nothing on the side? Go to r/JUSTNOMIL/ for more fun stuff regarding MILs (Mother/Monster in Law). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:43 AM |
| 64 | An amazing FDS style response by Grant Cardone - have high standards for men in terms of emotional maturity and financial stability. Be a gold digger!! 💁🏻♀️💜👏👏👏 How refreshing hearing this from a man that even thinks normalising and prioritising this attitude is OK! We should all realise that it's about the package at the end of the day! Truly, why would you want the leftovers? Why would you want someone who can't take care of a family? Especially given the physical and societal limitations that women have either by nature or imposed by society! Why is it so terrible to be a gold digger? But it's ok, socially acceptable, never frowned upon and alway… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:07 AM |
| 4 | One single voice can bring about change...Many single voices, brought together, can change the world! Become part of a tribe and support each other!I think it's important to notice that as you said she was not ready to talk. People work through things at their own pace and come in terms with the truth when they are ready. It's sad to hear she does not trust women and doesn't admit men make mistakes (all the time in my experience). I'm sorry that the conversation did not go well and you are disappointed with the outcome! Try not to see it as a mistake however, but as an opportunity to learn. You have nothing to be ashamed about! I think she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:21 AM |
| 29 | No, his weed habit isn’t harmless... Study shows father’s marijuana use could affect child brain development through sperm changes.bUT mUhhh wEEddd!!!! byTHewAY, i OnLy uSe dRuGs 2 EnHanCe wOmEn'S sExUaL eXpEriEncE! dOn'T jUdgE mEee!!! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?This one please: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f6dnrs/on_moving_in_with_a_boyfriend/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:47 PM |
| 11 | Let’s talk about HOBBIESGreat post OP!!! Although we must remain cautious about gate keeping, policing, censoring etc! The benefiting factor and meaningfulness you mentioned is very on point! Also, I believe there's the... "Actual hobbies: writing, reading, meditation, yoga, cooking, fitness (different than “gym rat”), learning a new language, rock climbing, hiking, botany/plant collecting, volunteering, singing, travel, etc." you mentioned VS the "cooking", "traveling", "singing" etc you might hear some LVMs saying or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:59 AM |
| 9 | Men who encourage prostitution are scumRendering sex transactional is one of the fastest ways to turn a woman off and dry! The other is mothering and raising a grown up man-child! NoMore2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:36 AM |
| 16 | Have you signed this petition to shut down pornhub?Thanks for the link! We must spread the petition as much as possible! 💪💪💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 38 | Pornhub is Traffickinghub - This girl has taken to twitter to share her story of being trafficked and having her child pornography online and on Pornhub, to raise awareness & try to get Pornhub shut downbUt Muhhh DiCkkkk said every porn abuser ever... sEE/tHey ToLd uS sHe wAs 18 said every producer/manager/website ever... ThrowThemOut IfTheyRubOneOut (To clarify: if they do it with pornographic material) . Edit 1: to add r/PornFreeRelationships sub Edit 2: to add this copied section from one of my previous comments on RESOURCES FOR SEX/AROUSAL ADDICTION . Some resources for those interested on learning more are: Gary Wilson, The Great Porn Experiment https://youtu.be/wSF82AwSDiU Maria Ahlin, Le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:24 AM |
| 32 | Meanwhile FDS just made it in the SocialJusticeAction for shaming hobosexual couch creature and exposing men's double standards!!! OMG THE HONOUR!!! 🤣The audacity!!! I'd say "the balls" but rumour has it he doesn't have any!!! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 08:00 AM |
| 33 | Meanwhile FDS just made it in the SocialJusticeAction for shaming hobosexual couch creature and exposing men's double standards!!! OMG THE HONOUR!!! 🤣bUt mUhhh DiCkkkk!!! 😭😭😭 Cry me a river dude!!! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 07:59 AM |
| 17 | It's been almost 4 months since breaking up with my narcissist LVM ex. My life has improved in every measurable way, and I'm the happiest I've been in a really long time.👏👏👏 Congrats on your successes sister! I'm always beyond happy to hear such stories! Look at how much you improved once you removed the trash out of your life! I do agree, LVMs are definitely a health hazard for women on so many levels! Keep up the good work and keep us posted! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 07:57 AM |
| 6 | Nothing ever screamed LVM like this guyR u 👽??? . Edit 1: me = offended by 👽's lack of reply Edit 2: 👽 has been "busy" having a tantrum about FDS on r/SocialJusticeInAction https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialJusticeInAction/comments/f5mxlw/rfemaledatingstrategy_banking_on_on_men_again_for/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 07:33 AM |
| 20 | Currently not working🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 👏👏👏👏👏👏 I'm rolling sis, rolling! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Never let a red flag pass by you again!Yes, it's all explained more thoroughly in the sources I provided above. Porn consumption has detrimental effects and leads to addiction, compulsion or other behavioural issues in many cases. Hence the need for education on the issue and preventative measures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | If You Want a Marriage of Equals, Then Date as EqualsHave you seen this u/theogjammies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 09:39 AM |
| 14 | Ladies, Change Your Focus. FDS is NOT About Getting the Guy.Seconding this! It's a message that needs to be heard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:27 AM |
| 19 | Never let a red flag pass by you again!👏👏👏 🤣🤣🤣 You had me rolling at "and often LIMP" sis! Porn and Porn/Arousal Addiction, although not officially recognised yet, is an epidemic in contemporary society. In spite of the many studies in the area and the well documented and researched evidence, the topic is still not considered true or credible by many, including health professionals. Sex education is scarce and laughable at best and does not touch on the issue of porn, the pornification of society and the animalification and objectifi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 07:27 AM |
| 7 | Reminder👎👎👎 Your comment's tone is NOT OK sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:51 AM |
| 2 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Yes, I think it would help immensely as it's a huge red flag! As you said, change has to be their choice, you can't force it! I even know of cases of fake domesticity/ cleanliness, too! They did it until they got a gf/married a woman and then slowly (or not) did a 180' on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | PickMe Anonymous, a.k.a. The FDS 12 Step ProgramJust did :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Loved this post! Imbalance in household chores and organising routines and daily life is quite common in most relationships. Women need to be extremely wary of such cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Seconding this! The 12 Steps can be adjusted to FDS! We are a support group after all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 4 | PickMe Anonymous, a.k.a. The FDS 12 Step ProgramStay strong sister! It is certainly a strong and supportive community, much like a meeting! It would be great if we did have it as an option. What kind of lapse was it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Let's play a game! ☆ Describe your exes in 10 words or fewer ☆I know...Having bad partners is so common with most women that it's become ridiculous. I'll focus on the worst guy then: lazy slob, master manipulator, immoral, abusive, narcissistic, misogynist, jealous, controlling and porn-addicted couch creature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 17 | Reminder that any posts or comments that show that you have NOT read the FDS handbook, OR reposting ideas that are already in the handbook AS YOUR OWN (for upvotes / karma), can lead to post deletion and your getting temporarily or permanently BANNED.Thanks for the post! This has been happening a lot lately as we've had a lot of new members! Can someone add it in the FDS rules' section? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | His past relationships are the best way for you to reliably determine his character.Lol! True! But then again, common sense is not so common anymore, so how could he know? He's always right after all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:24 PM |
| 31 | PickMe Anonymous, a.k.a. The FDS 12 Step Program👈 👏 What a great idea for a post OP! Thanks for taking the time! Ahhh...Where do we sign up? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 12 | Let's play a game! ☆ Describe your exes in 10 words or fewer ☆Me: keeps writing forever ✍✍✍ 10 words to describe a lunatic??? Nah sis...not possible, I'd need a book 👽👽👽 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 39 | Alabama lawmaker responds to abortion ban with mandatory vasectomy bill: 'It always takes two to tango'bUt mUhhh dikkk!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:09 AM |
| 32 | His past relationships are the best way for you to reliably determine his character.So true in so many ways, isn't it??? Great idea for a post OP! 👏 🙂 I'll comment on his mentality, words, attitude towards his ex partners. Short, sweet and concise examples of vetting them out. . Terrible his ex (or exes) was crazy/irrational/too emotional/psycho/annoying b@tch etc narrative that demonises women...Complete lack of responsibility and accountability on his part. Also, everything is seen through a misogynistic and patriarchical lens. Terrible his ex was one of those feminists...no … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 05:55 AM |
| 1 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesOMG! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I've sent you a DM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:53 AM |
| 2 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesI know what you mean sis! Been there, done that! I have SO many questions about this! It sounds very toxic to be honest with you! Jealousy, sharing private and confidential info, being passive aggressive, guilt tripping and trying to manipulate you etc...I swear there's a word for people like that! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesI think you're handling this pretty well; establishing your boundaries, weighing situations and putting you first. It's important to apply such principles in all our relationships. My question was about him, not her. I wanted to know whether he'd offered or she'd offered on his behalf to help out with the reno since it's considered a more "male" thing to do, like the cleaning is considered a "female". But your answer have me more details :-) I'll focus on your last sentence, and becoming their d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 30 | Why are women so heavily sexualized, but not men?Great comments at the thread OP! Thanks for reposting here! Can't stop laughing with the guy who mansplains it though! Such a prime example of a rational man who's not emotional and relies on verified sources to prove iTs MaLe nAtUrE aNd biOLogY! We just don't get it you see! A long standing history of male privilege, oppression, patriarchy, misogyny, female empowerment and toxic masculinity are at the very core of the issue of sexualisation and pornification of women...Obviously we're over reac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.Thanks for allowing it! We need to hear more comments like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:38 AM |
| 5 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesnO wAy!!! aRe u 4 rEaL??? dO u KnOw hOw dIffIcULt mEn hAvE iT tHeSe dAyS??? i m nOt goNNa dO aNyThInG sO u cAn LeAvE mE 4 a ChAd aNd DiVoRcE rApE mE! BeSiDeS i nEEd 2 rElaX (=fap frantically to incest and minor porn and cam girls while my kids are in the room next door till I choke the bird for good for the night and drag myself and my unwashed hands and d*ick to bed next to my wife whom I'll fart thoroughly just in case she tries anything with me...better safe than sorry, ya know and she says m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:30 AM |
| 3 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want Housewives👏👏👏 She should have done all the repairs herself of course! I work all day and need to rest! Can't be bothered man! Give me a break! On a more serious note...We never had and never will have TRULY equal rights other than in theory and written legislation I'm afraid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:20 AM |
| 9 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesLol! Yep...far-reaching indeed!🤣🤣🤣 We're learning so much all over the world because of this lazy entitled dude and his enabling brainwashed and brain dead wife! Talking about distance learning and social skills! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:16 AM |
| 7 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesOh dear! A true horror story! Makes you wonder so many things! The amount of excuses and justifications your friend produced is unbelievable! May I also assume that the reverse offer-courtesy was never extended to you as a woman doing a reno at home as part of the expectation that you wouldn't know your way around things? Why would you want to put that burden on yourself as a married woman to do everything because your husband is a man and doesn't know how? And on top expect friends and family t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 05:14 AM |
| 22 | The Verge’s Erin Taylor Doubles Down on the “Choosy Choice Feminism”, completely missing the point of FDSImagine you have a sister who is just starting her dating life. Would you want her to enter this directionless marketplace full of noncommittal, porn-addicted, dominant and aggressive creeps who want to play the field while hinting at a future together, using sex-positivity and choice as an excuse for their horrifying habits? Sounds absolutely delectable dear! Sign me in of course! Or would you want her to be assured that she will be treated well and cherished by any man she opens her heart to, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:11 AM |
| 45 | The Verge’s Erin Taylor Doubles Down on the “Choosy Choice Feminism”, completely missing the point of FDSThe Verge...of social collapse...sounds about right! Isn't it time for "choice" feminism to be truly about choice? Rather than their selective and scripted choice that harms women? Isn't it time for the "sex positive" culture and paradigm to become "positive sex" culture? Because I assure you, we here at FDS are about positive sexual experiences. There's absolutely no need to be open to or have tried ALL possible sexual actions in order to have a positive sexual experience. Isn't it time for "se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 04:05 AM |
| 1 | THE TRUTH ABOUT PORN...TED Talk by Gary Wilson on Arousal/Sex Addiction through Porn... Learn how chronic consumption leads to a cycle of binging and craving due to dopamine increases and changes in the brain.Regarding "really"? Yes, in my experience. Especially with highly controversial topics. The rest? Agree. On everything. That's why I said it's quite common with TED Talks and elsewhere. It's a fact in such cases. Can you imagine the reaction from men??? 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | THE TRUTH ABOUT PORN...TED Talk by Gary Wilson on Arousal/Sex Addiction through Porn... Learn how chronic consumption leads to a cycle of binging and craving due to dopamine increases and changes in the brain.In what way? It's quite common with TED Talks and elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:51 PM |
| 13 | Okay homie, whatever you say 🤣👌👌👌 Wow! Nicely done mate! Is he a comedian? A story teller? Both??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 63 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesbUt i aM a fEmInIsT! i sWeAr! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 53 | The “Woke” Men Who Still Want HousewivesAh, yes, the good old ways, excuses and justifications...Pick your favourite ladies! . Yes...but... Women know how to do xyz better... We each have our strengths... I'm in charge of all the yard work (see I do the lawn every 4 weeks) and the rubbish... But I do the dishes every night... ALL = Talk the talk vs walk the talk gap...and double standards And those who simply don't get that we are in 2020... wHaT dO yOu mEaN i aCtUaLLy hAvE tO mOp? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 109 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.The sense of male depravity and entitlement is out of this world! They will say and do anything to defend their addiction and dismiss the well researched and documented evidence about porn and it's effects both on the human brain and relationships. It's an epidemic unlike no other! u/logician01 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 7 | I took out some piercings yesterday.That's great! Thank you! People won't have to ask you this way! 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 44 | “Because men want” vs “because women deserve” and why it made the difference for me.Hello sister! 😎 It's truly a game changer, isn't it? Once you wise up and change your attitude and perspective you can see clear. You're no longer blind in a sense. It should be about YOU not them! As women we're born into this mentality of sacrifice, catering to men, their needs and desires and compromising by lowering our standards and putting some water in our wine. Operating from a self-love and self-value perspective allows you to be you and live your life for you, not others. You have intr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 110 | I took out some piercings yesterday.Welcome sister! 🙂 Glad you joined us! I'm very proud of you, the self-awareness and recovery journey you initiated and the courage you found to go through it and take the piercings off, reclaiming your body, power and womanhood. FDS is a loving sisterhood where you can heal and grow with like minded people. We all support each other and share resources in an effort to better ourselves and find meaningful relationships when and if ready to do so. Take your time to heal and grow first. The nipple … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:33 PM |
| 8 | MALE LURKERS WILL IGNORE THIS POST: Woman forced to relive nightmare of her 12 hour abduction and gang rape by complete strangers at 14 yrs uploaded to PornHub as “teen crying and getting destroyed'. PORNHUB WAS REPEATEDLY NOTIFIED THAT THE GIRL WAS UNDERAGE AND DID NOT CONSENT BUT DID NOT REMOVE.Thought of you sis u/logician01! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 06:23 AM |
| 2 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinkles🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 3 | giorgio looks really young and radiant for 25yo with this gray beard and all those wrinkles🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 9 | A woman who has had men in her life constantly use porn to scar her yet she still sees herself as “intrusive” for wanting to put a mirror app on her husbands phone after HE WATCHED PORN WHILST SHE WAS IN LABOURThis reminded me of you sis u/logician01 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f2btjl/7_bad_reasons_youre_dating_lvm/ The reccomendations post is a great idea for inviting FDS members to tell what's important to them or what has been helpful or successful! Can we please make this into a routine of some sorts? :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Not a problem sis :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:22 AM |
| 2 | 7 Bad Reasons You're Dating LVM👏👏👏 Seconding this! Short, sweet and concise! Maybe add a couple of points and put it in the FDS Handbook please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:21 AM |
| 90 | When you post about dumping a guy for his porn use and it becomes "one of the most controversial posts of the day on all of Reddit." This speaks volumes. Not only about our pornsick culture...but "Similar numbers of *upvotes* to downvotes." I see you, sisters & lurkers 👀😱😱😱 OMG!!! The horror of speaking up against them and revealing the truth!!! What a controversy indeed!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Just came here to comment on porn! I just made a post about it with a great TED talk if you want to learn more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:31 AM |
| 31 | Especially #2. Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt. If they don’t reach out, put forth effort, or make you a priority, don’t keep hurting yourself by making excuses for their behavior.👏 When people show you who they are, believe them the first time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:25 AM |
| 61 | The TRUTH is coming out. Study finds male ageing affects outcomes of IVF and ICSI treatments in couples where there is unexplained infertility, regardless of the woman’s age.👏👏👏 Finally, some "equality" in studies and research revealing the truth about males' reproduction reality! I mean, who would have thought ladies??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:42 AM |
| 10 | THE TRUTH ABOUT PORN...TED Talk by Gary Wilson on Arousal/Sex Addiction through Porn... Learn how chronic consumption leads to a cycle of binging and craving due to dopamine increases and changes in the brain.. Book recommendation Gary Wilson - Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/099316160X/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8 His book is in plain language, user friendly, contains both theory and addict histories/ accounts. It explains the issue of sex and arousal addiction in depth and has helped many addicts in their journey to recovery. It is highly recommended by therapists for those in recovery, those wanting to learn more a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:33 AM |
| 20 | Remind the man in your lifeOh, sis...👏👏👏 🤣🤣🤣 It's all about getting on the right nerves then 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 12 | So disappointed.Stay strong sister! :-) You did the right thing! Removing yourself from the situation without offering any explanation was the best thing you could do! He does not deserve anything else from you! Don't waste your breath and don't make it easier for him to hook and manipulate his next victim! P.S. Check your DM for my message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 20 | I wonder why he didn’t get married 🤷♀️🙄🙄Yes... 👌👌👌👏👏👏 And no... *Scott is (not so secretly) into men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:27 AM |
| 15 | I wonder why he didn’t get married 🤷♀️🙄🙄If, if, if...so many conditionals here! NEXT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Any feel good books/podcasts?Give us some context sis 😎 Generally speaking/ mindfulness/ relationship-wise/ meditation? What exactly are you looking for? I get not wanting to delve into abuse/ narcissism/trauma recovery/philosophy etc at 12am! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:24 AM |
| 37 | EXPOSED: The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex. The world is waking up to the truth.I didn't expect any different! Classic addict behaviour. They are only forced to "deal" with anything sex-related when it affects erections/ ED. Otherwise it doesn't exist! The "happy medium"/"everything in moderation" rationale promoted by the health industry doesn't help either. We say "you can drink in moderation or recreationally" to most individuals as a general rule of thumb but you wouldn't use that line with an alcoholic, ever. The same should apply here, too. The fact that it's not trea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:12 AM |
| 51 | EXPOSED: The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex. The world is waking up to the truth.👏👏👏👌👌👌🤣🤣🤣 Sure they don't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 06:45 AM |
| 50 | EXPOSED: The new breed of sex addicts - who don't have sex. The world is waking up to the truth.That's what put the "sick" in "pornsick". At least WHO has recognise it for the disorder that it is. It's a shame we are waiting for the rest of the world to catch up on this when there's indisputable, well researched and documented evidence the body of which keeps increasing exponentially with time. We need to raise awareness to the younger generations and protect our sons, nephews and young boys in general. Sex education and society are failing us dramatically on an (inter)national level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 06:44 AM |
| 24 | To get a high value man do I have to settle on his appearance?👏👏👏 So true dear sister! The "let's not call each other names" kinda starts with actually not calling each other names... Replace "let's not call each other names" with what have you negative comment or characterisation or assumption etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 05:05 AM |
| 13 | A LVM troll encounter with happy ending."Divorce Rape" this, Divorce Rape that (for when getting divorced)...You don't really hear women say "Marriage Rape" though (for when getting married). Equating divorce with rape = probably not the best way to be taken seriously by at least half the world's population. Because language = meaning = belief and value system Edit: to add the ( ) explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:52 AM |
| 9 | Don't we all know the feeling???👌👌👌 No, you're not half the man you think that you are...And you can't fill the hole inside of you with money, drugs and cars...I'm so glad I never ever had a baby with you...'Cause you can't love nothin' unless there's somethin' in it for you...Full lyrics: I wanna start this out and say I gotta get it off my chest Got no anger, got no malice Just a little bit of regret Know nobody else will tell you So there's some things I gotta say Gonna jot it down and then get it out And then I'll be on my way . No, you're not half the man you think that you are And you can't fill the hole inside of you with money, drugs and cars I'm so glad I never ever had a baby with you 'Cause you can't love nothin' unless there's somethin' in it for you . Oh,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Moderator help!Seconded! 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Moderator help!Agreed! Small and private is the best place to start for so many reasons! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Moderator help!Seconding this! Totally agree with the mindset! Need to be extra vigilant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:23 AM |
| 8 | Why do so many men refuser to maintain basic hygiene?I don't know what to say... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Moderator help!Me too mate 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Welcome sister! 🙂 Good to know you've been implementing FDS in your life! Keep up the good work and join us in the discussions so we can all learn and support each other! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:20 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Welcome sister! 😎 Congrats on your son directing you here! I wish more sons cared for their mothers in such a meaningful way! Remember to return the favour as it's your turn to direct someone else in need here, too, when the time comes. Don't fall for the Karen myth mamitamac! It's a male construct! No question is silly here! Everyone's quite helpful and friendly 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:17 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)That doesn't sound as a great friend, or person for that matter to be honest. That mentality and lack of ethics bleed in all aspects of one's life. What they do is disgusting on so many levels. They call it hobosexual and it's an epidemic with men! I wish more women wised up to their tactis and saw them for what they really are! Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:13 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Thank you sis! Good to hear from you! 🙂 I was myself lurking for quite a while before actively contributing recently. I think it's important to participate in the discussion and a female focused forum even if you're not currently dating or looking to date. Even sharing experiences is helpful for women, especially the younger ones. Leveling up IS for us, not for men anyway and being happy single should be the default! The honesty is quite refreshing, isn't it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 08:09 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Welcome sister! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:57 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Lol! I thought the same thing! It keeps going strong for days, too! Girlzzz time 😉😉😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:57 AM |
| 6 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️Welcome sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:43 AM |
| 7 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️I couldn't agree more Snowlamp! Books, articles, videos, theories, therapy and what have you are all great resources and eye openers on so many levels. The information found there is almost infinite and enough to keep us all busy for ever. It's the fact that they are not as personal or interactive that sets FDS apart. It's the sense of belonging and community, of the shared history and experiences, the sense of long lost tribe that makes such a huge impact. You can discuss, debate, challenge, gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:41 AM |
| 5 | Ya love to see it 🗞 💁🏼♀️Couldn't agree more 😎 ❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:31 AM |
| 5 | A subreddit for f/f relationshipsGreat idea! 👏 Good luck sisters! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:27 AM |
| 15 | Is it really “MGTOW” if you lurk in a female only forum to send unsolicited messages to women you don’t know? Hmmm... you’re not really going your own way are you?'Computer says No' apparently 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:25 AM |
| 4 | Announcing! ASK FDS Weekly ColumnGreat idea Liz! 👏 As always, we encourage such initiatives while remaining cautiously optimistic. Good luck! 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:23 AM |
| 9 | And the hits keep coming! [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female dating strategy (+510 subscribers today; 201% trend score)Keep them coming! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 08:50 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I'm Down Under, too! The drink culture here is rather big, I agree. I think that drinks are for friends or colleagues after work for catching up or networking, not for people who want to know each other as a first date or early on. I do get where you're coming from. (P.S. I don't drink, so it's easy for me to say no straight away anyway) There are SO many options here however! Most cafés do brunches/lunches/ dinners/ desserts etc. so no need to go for a drink that early on. Or coffee for that ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Don't let him hun! Go at the main post and look at my comment about the 5 Stages of Change Model. It will help you with change, decision making and choices :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)The Transtheoretical Model also known as The 5 Stages of Change Model can help those struggling with change. It can help you understand change, choice, decision making and growing as a person. http://sphweb.bumc.bu.edu/otlt/MPH-Modules/SB/BehavioralChangeTheories/BehavioralChangeTheories6.html Check to see at which stage you are currently at! Edit: to reword the comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:40 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I understand the confusion, you've been operating under different principles for a long time. Try to not do anything that would compromise your new resolve, resolutions and goals. It's probably easier however now that you have FDS, use that as your guiding principle. It is your PickMe mindset playing tricks on you! Don't fall for it! We don't give the benefit of the doubt here! A message takes only a few seconds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Is there a reason vs an excuse for his disappearance? I'd focus on that. Do you want someone who acts like that from Date 2? What's next? Does that count as a good starting point and solid foundation? He sounds like he wants you to chase him. What do you feel is the best way forward deep down? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I know you didn't, I mentioned cause should only go into trouble/out of our way for a HVM that has endured the test of time! That's the spirit though! Cautiously optimistic! :-) Hope the examples make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I get why you feel confused! It feels like a Catch22 in your eyes! I like the idea of Oreos! Meaning, have them in your bag, see what he plans for the day and what gift he gives and act accordingly! Let him lead! If he does do something, then great, give him the cookies! If not, the more for you to enjoy when you get home or with a girlfriend! (I could also send you my address as I never turn down dessert 😜🤣) A gift that's not personal (e.g. a mug with his name or fave character, a shirt, his fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Yep! Mixed messages to hook you! More like baiting and switching! Waiting for her to dance at his rhythm and invest emotionally from Day 1! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:47 AM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Who knows??? He probably expected you to allow him certain liberties after love bombing you for the whole day. That's why it's important to take things slow at the beginning. 6 hours is not a first date, it's more like a day trip. You showed him you're impressionable, agreeable, easy to persuade and didn't have any other plans for the day, or had and decided to stay since you were having a good time. There's no need to expend time and energy to ask them to confirm plans; you're giving your power… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Congrats sister! That's the best way to show both support and solidarity for sisters/other women AND disapproval and contempt for men and their depraved behaviour! We need to call them out, ghost, isolate, drop, put them straight etc as much as possible! Enough is enough! Excommunication2020! Do it like the Pope! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:33 AM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)👏👏👏🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ wHy dO u aLwAySsss hAvE 2 nAg??? uR sO nEEdY!!! i wAnT aN oPeN ReLaTiOnShIp!!! 🤣🤣🤣 They are ridiculous! A big number of them is a lost cause and beyond reasoning! They are the crazy ones and projecting constantly. To me, it's the waste of (my) time and energy that bothers me. I have (very) high standards but extremely low expectations; there isn't much I haven't seen before or don't expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:27 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Remember: Make the best of what's in your power and take the rest as it happens! Epictitus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:20 AM |
| 5 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.Thanks for the reminder and all the mods do on a daily base! The message is especially for those at the back, trolls and newbies that haven't read the guidelines and sidebar! We don't need to waste our time any more than we already have in our lives! We're here to learn, grow and support each other, not engage in perpetual disagreements and debates! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:17 AM |
| 7 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.Welcome sister! Glad you joined us! Love the attitude! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 50 | If you’re wondering why this sub is female only, you’re most likely part of the reason why (irrelevantly found on a post asking about disturbing, NSFW subreddits)aS a MaN i AgReE wItH hIm! mEn aLwAySsss kNoW bEttEr! wE aRe tHe LoGiCaL oNeS! eNoUgH wItH tHiS sOcIeTy iMpOsEd mAtRiArChy! tOxIc FeMiNiNiTy iS eViL! mEn gEt rApEd mOrE i aLsO WaNNa sAy tHaT i sUppOrT tRaNsWoMeN aNd i dOn'T cArE iF tHeY hAvE a DiCk! i BeLiEvE aLL wOmEn sHoULD hAvE DiCk! iF u KnOw wHaT i MeAn 😉😉😉 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Edit: I just HAD to add the rape thing! It's all about the facts ladies, the facts! 🤣🤣🤣 Edit 2: Read a past post on The Rules of Misogyny https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:55 AM |
| 8 | To the men that call us ‘entitled princesses’ 👸👌👌👌 Seconded!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:03 AM |
| 25 | Anyone else experience this??? 🙋🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Yep! And also nah sister...More like... "Wanna fuck? It will make you feel better! They say make up sex is the best for a reason...😉😉😉" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:42 AM |
| -3 | The Imaginary “Wall” Seems To Have Missed Shakira Completely👌👌👌 Golden response! 👌👌👌 Thank you! I see SO many similar responses! That's how they should be treated! Enough with the hand waving, dismissal and internalized misogyny! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Know your priorities...That's what most normal people would think about the situation. The operative word being "normal" here. Life's for the living as they say, and with good reason. I have an identical twin sister, she would NEVER want me to do otherwise and vice versa. Especially as a woman to handwave a pregnancy like that? Minimise all the wife's experiences and demonize her? No way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Know your priorities...We all get the dilemma, not his behaviour or tunnel vision. Hint: I'm a twin, so I speak from personal experience. He even tries to signal virtue and say his sister and him had had a theiretical conversation as his guiding principld here. My sister would put ME first and vice versa. He keeps editing his post and comments when someone calls him out or questions or challenged him or question him in any way. So many things sound off and made up here I'm afraid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Know your priorities...He keeps editing his post and comments when he's being called out or question or challenged about something. Bed rest by doctor's orders became she has nausea. My "wife's birth" became he wrote it because his wife has told him to use it instead of "our child" etc as if the wife would be there to sensor him. He clearly twists everything to fit his narrative and end goal. Clearly one sided and an example of male victimhood. No one is mad at him at the dilemma. I should know, hint: I'm a twin!!! Bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 8 | I want a family, I want love, I want marriage, I want kids...but I would rather be alone if I can’t get them with a loving man who treats me well and who shares my values.Yeah because men make such excellent single fathers don’t they They're just single, not fathers really, just in paper! That’s why the majority of single parents in poverty are female They’ll abandon their offspring in a hot minute That's why we need to vet thoroughly and have our own independent income and resources. They simply don't care unless it's for themselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!That's their M.O. really! It's all about him being satisfied regardless of the impact on others and they move on to their next target as soon as they've destroyed the one they're currently with. I mean, that is if he isn't playing the field while being with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!I did the same the moment I saw the post. She's in a precontemplative stage probably so she doesn't seem ready to change yet. I hope she does soon! I try to message people when I see such dire situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!If only she could see it, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!It is true about everything really :-) That's why I wrote "the way he treats you when it comes to sex". It includes everything you said! And then more! From sex talk, sex attitude, sex positions, sexual jokes, sexuality issues, birth control and reproduction attitute and other. And yes, truly invaluable in weeding out certain people! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!And to imagine that it's one of the least documented and researched topics... When the full picture and scale of the problem comes into light it will be even harder to control it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!She's completely brainwashed and on blinkers. She's not in a position to see anything other than the rush and cycle of love and pain this toxic and volatile relationship gives her and her anxious attachment style. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!Yep! Indecent exposure on top of everything else. There's nothing healthy or normal about him. It's not a kink really, it's classified as fetish and he is wrong on so many levels. I feel sorry for the girlfriend and their social and work circle on his behalf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:49 AM |
| 111 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.Spot on! The bar is so terribly low you see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 72 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.LiEsss AnD aCCuSsaTIonS!!!! rEaD sOmE bOOkS FFS!!!! iT doSn'T mATteR!!!! wOmeNfolK WiLL bEE fInE!!!! iT iS mAlE iMpErAtIvE 2 spREad oUr sEEd aS mUcH As pOssIbLE!!! gOt 2 gO 2 mY oThEr fEmaLeS now!!! sEE ya b###es!!! /s A man has to do what a man has to do ya see! Can't be bothered with his wife/partner/gf and child! He's got "priorities" now! 🤢🤢🤢🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Empirical proof why dick pics are worthlessThank you dear :-) It is a sport for me! 🤣😜 wHeRe iSss MY gOLd aLreAdY???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Know your priorities...The post in case it gets deleted: "AITA for potentially missing my wife’s birth because of the funeral of my sibling? u/throwra__funeral5h Throwaway. About a week ago my twin sister passed away suddenly. I don’t want to go into the details but I am completely devastated by grief; I loved her more than anything else in this world. Even though I rarely got to see her in person we FT’d a few times a week and We were very very very close. On the other hand I am not close at all with my parents, who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 07:41 AM |
| 23 | I want a family, I want love, I want marriage, I want kids...but I would rather be alone if I can’t get them with a loving man who treats me well and who shares my values.themarbleslab...hAvE u LoSt uR mArBlEs fEmAle??? i MeaN hOw DARE u???? I...I...I...! iTs ALWAYS aBoUt u! wE DoN't hAvE wEiRd sExUaL pRActICeS! aNaL iS nAtUrE's bIrTh cOnTrOl! hOw cAn u bEe sO Thick??? u wOmeNfolK nEEd 2 kNoW uR Place! oF CoArsE u nEEd 2 TaKe cArE oF uS! iT iS gOd'S WiLL u EntItled $%$%@&! U dEsErVe LiCe aNd fInaNciAl aBorTioN aNd tHe WaLL! u ArE a 4.75 At mOsT aNywAY! wE aRe GoInG oUr wAy u KnOw! wItH TrUmP AnD aRtIfIciAl wOmBs nO oNe WiLL nEEd u sOOn! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 06:04 AM |
| 5 | Know your worth🤣🤣🤣👌👌👌👏👏👏😂😂😂 Ohhhh dear!!!! Terminal tuberculosis or something...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 21 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!I assure you they are definitely not. Do not be amazed as this is actually the norm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 45 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!I'll just copy a comment I made there: "It's sad that there are people here saying they're just incompatible and it's only a kink and it's not abuse. Not to mention engaging in a sexual act in public...involving other people without their consent...the potential legal and academic repercussions from this offending behaviour! The boyfriend is beyond entitled I'm afraid!" .......... And add to yours: I truly wouldn't put it past them to be in on it! See earlier post about girlfriend who cooked dai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:24 PM |
| 11 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!I know the feeling! I did sent a DM! I hope she reads it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:15 PM |
| 23 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!Spot on! She needs to leave yesterday! Urgency is the key word here! She's completely brainwashed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:37 PM |
| 31 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!My thoughts exactly...I mean, what's next? He's clearly in charge of the narrative here and she dances to his rhythm, completely out of touch with reality and his true motivations! That's no way to live! She's not an animal he can put a leash on and parade in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:36 PM |
| 33 | Her boyfriend wants her to USE A SEX TOY in front of their friends and classmates...IN PUBLIC! Last time he had her wear balls without underwear and they fell off her a she was walking down the street! NO GIRL, JUST NO!I missed it! Glad to see people are giving this the attention it deserves! I just saw it on the other sub and couldn't believe my eyes! Yes, she's entertaining the idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:32 PM |
| 40 | Empirical proof why dick pics are worthlessI OnLy DiD iT sO sHe cOuLd sEe wHaT sHe'D DoNe To Me YoUr HoNoUr! tHaT uNgrAteFuL bItcHHH! iT wAs MeAnT As A CoMpLiMeNt! sHe GaVe MEEEEE bLuE bALLssss! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 11:28 AM |
| 6 | RIP...MGTOW...It must have been love...but it's over now...It must have been good...but we lost THEM somehow... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sorry not sorry boys!!!That's great! I still can't believe it's real 🤩🤩🤩 I'm being downvoted to oblivion for my post 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:42 PM |
| 10 | RIP...MGTOW...It must have been love...but it's over now...It must have been good...but we lost THEM somehow... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sorry not sorry boys!!!Lol! I know, right? Was about time with MGTOW and TRP! Even their own, more evolved version, has had enough of them and they're currently having a huge war since MGTOW are trying to move their bs to the other sub! They're worse than 5 year olds! https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:30 PM |
| 8 | NEVER give a LVM fuckboy WIFE privileges. Anything that comes too easy is not valued.I'm exactly the same sis! I would want someone to reach out if it was me, so it's only fair to extent the invitation so to speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 05:18 AM |
| 159 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.bUt aNaL iS nAtUrE's bIrTh cOnTrOl!!!! We do it for women!!!! It has been practiced for thousands of years for a reason... Women also get more intense orgasms this way and there's no chance of pregnancy!!! And what's a guy to do when she's on her period, I ask you??? Did you know that it's considered the most intimate act between two people??? That it brings couples together, strengthens the relationship and decreases the chances of infidelity??? Anal training is fun for both parties!!! AnD AnYw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Becoming a HVW while having a dependent personality disorder.Lol! We were just having a similar conversation earlier today on the topic of Toxic Positivity, societal pressure and expectations and how it can come from the medical industry, too. See here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ew4u1p/comment/fg1788n?context=1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 05:21 AM |
| 19 | Very important for those that don't feel "good enough"Great simplified version of Trauma Bonding OP! Thanks for sharing! A. For more info on the subject, these are some good basic articles to use as a starting point in undwrstanding trauma bonding and how to work on your recovery: https://www.sbs.com.au/topics/voices/relationships/article/2019/02/05/why-trauma-bonding-makes-it-hard-leave-abusive-relationships https://thecentreforhealing.com.au/single-post/2019/9/9/trauma-bonding https://www.counsellingservicemelbourne.com.au/breaking-chains-trauma-… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | We all need a man like this.Did you? This only shows that you specifically researched something to use it as proof to support your claim. See my previous comment. In this reply, you once again seem to single out a specific part of someone's comment and only selectively reply to that / fuss over it. And you are both explaining and defending your behaviour. Anyway, your replies are interesting... May I ask why you felt the need to do so? Edit: Edit to add that you didn't have to look up 'Femaledatingstrategy manlets' on Goog… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:52 AM |
| 3 | We all need a man like this.Merry Meerkat...I couldn't agree more! It's the going out of her(?!) way that's the issue here. Actively trying to 'find proof', engage in a truth and fact finding expedition that will support her claims and viewpoint and cater to her agenda. Whilst disregarding the post these comments referred to, the female lived experiences of the women who wrote them, the context and pretty much everything tha that didn't suit her. Assigning meaning, singling out specific part(s) of a comment or issue to pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 2 | FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari WindowNot that meme! It cracks me up so bad! It's all about the flipping of perspective then 😜 Now that I think about it, men do resemble turtles flipped on their backs in a way...🤷♀️🤦♀️😱 P.S. Did you get my DM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari WindowYes, yes...Yes dear!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tell me more about it! What makes you so upset??? Here's a chill pill!!! I'd like you to work on your RBF (resting bitch face) and do some journaling for our next session. Let's do a SMART goals activity where you smile more and then discuss about how your life changed for the better next week! Oh, and do some breathing...You know for when you deal like cursing and looking mean! 🤣🤣🤣 I know some great grounding techniques! It's all about perspective dear! All about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 12:01 AM |
| 5 | MhmmWhen YOU have to deal with the injustice of the legal system, divorce rape, male's oppression by society, male-only draft, an educational system that ONLY works for women, and 'being the protector' just because...blah blah blah...tHeN yOu CaN TaLk!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Nuff said man...nuff said!!! Edit: Why am I being downvoted here for presenting their point of view and irrational claims? 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Who's more narcissistic: men or women? A new study finds men are more self-absorbed and entitled than women (Shocker)It's SUCH a huge topic aqua! What we see is in part a power struggle...they realise that women are becoming woke and claiming rights that have been denied to them for millennia and cannot deal with it. It's been evident through the history every time a class or group of people rises. So, their reaction is either through more oppression, violence and exhibition of power or through manipulation, becoming covert and finding passive ways...Both in the name of perpetuating the current and heavily ing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari WindowYes and no. You can do part of it yourself but you'll need to ask other's honest opinion about you for other parts but doesn't have to be in person. Can be over the phone or through an email if that's what you mean. Some people like taking some time to reflect on things before replying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 4 | FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari Window7_0f_9...I'm keeping the following from your comment: "It's just been my experience that the vast majority of society can't stand an unhappy (looking) person, but doesn't actually seem to care about why you are feeling or looking that way. What they want is for you to stop reminding them that reality is pretty damn awful." --> Quite true I'm afraid on so many levels...hence the existence of Toxic Positivity/Optimism and the unhealthy at times emphasis on Positivity Culture. Social media, self-he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari WindowA great idea to include the JW as a therapeutic tool liz_lemondrop! We actually use it a lot in therapy as part of increasing self awareness and recovery. It's a 'live' tool, meaning it keeps evolving alongside you and you can keep adding to it and revisiting periodically to measure your progress and learn more about yourself. It is usually worked both independently and in sessions and it pairs up greatly with journaling as a means of self development and recovery. I like the way you've included… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a HVW while having a dependent personality disorder.Also, try out this sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/Codep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Becoming a HVW while having a dependent personality disorder.OP, this is a very complex issue. It sounds like for starters you need to take this time apart to indeed to work on yourself and improve as a person. At the moment you're living in a chaos vs crisis situation. Crisis being the temporary breakup and the emotional turmoil it has brought upon you, which have put you in survival mode. Chaos being your DPD, anxiety, depression, panic disorder, isolation and being a victim of domestic abuse. You will not be able to work on the chaos in your life until… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:11 PM |
| 6 | Becoming a HVW while having a dependent personality disorder.MagpieMelon...I'm so sorry to hear what you went through! And for such a long time as well! Many people with celiac have similar stories unfortunately. It's part of the "everyone has dyslexia/ depression / anxiety/ ADHD/ anorexia" culture. When symptomatic, it's necessary to explore all possible avenues. Some people get SAD during winter and they're labeled as depressed straight away, treating the issue as chronic instead of seasonal (see SAD=winter blues in plain terms). Also, a great many issu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:56 AM |
| 44 | MhmmTragic truth... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 11:25 AM |
| 43 | Who's more narcissistic: men or women? A new study finds men are more self-absorbed and entitled than women (Shocker)Ohhhh dear! Here we go: nO wAy! yOu ArE jEaLoUs aNd MaKiNg ThIs uP! You would be nothing without us and society wouldn't exist! EVERYBODY knows that we men are rational and women are weak and emotional! Nuff with the divorce rate already! We pay for everything as it is! Women are gold diggers who only go for Chads! You f$#$ing bi$$h! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can't even begin to imagine their breakdown when the get the memo! Although this is old news really. https://www.google.com/amp/s/psmag.com/.amp/news/new-e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:09 AM |
| 4 | Filming Partner Without Their Consent During Sex Ruled A Criminal Offence.FINALLY catching up with the times! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Husband and FIL are convinced she will die in childbirth, stressing her out and making it an incredibly hostile environment to bring a little one into.Crippy story...Parhological, delusional and tragic on so many levels... What a story!? A guy who needs the trophy baby alive and the mum incubator dead in order to live his fetishised hero-victim fantasy of being THAT single dad who survived truimphically his wife's death and raised the child all alone...riding in the sunset with his dad as the master of all things macabre to mentor his apprentice son who is after all his life's masterpiece. No amounts of therapy and treatment can help the enmes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Husband and FIL are convinced she will die in childbirth, stressing her out and making it an incredibly hostile environment to bring a little one into.Nah Tippy dear...He needs the trophy baby alive and the mum incubator dead in order to live his fetishised hero-victim fantasy of being THAT single dad who survived truimphically his wife's death and raised the child all alone...riding in the sunset! Ya know, just like his dad did! ;-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:39 AM |
| 6 | This sub saved me from a dangerous manI'm so happy for you Prune! That you not only got away from him and are leveling up but for the fact that you reached out to your ex's ex! We do need to break the stereotype they've been pushing on us that women don't look out for other women and that we hate each other. We're brainwashed and socialised to believe we don't belong and don't have a 'tribe'. Regarding therapy now, that's why therapists insist that you should never go to therapy with your abuser! At least not unless there are safety… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:17 AM |
| 6 | What "Wife-y" things do you avoid doing?See these relevant posts, too, for more information! https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ev44zf/what_are_some_boyfriend_privileges_that_you/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ejvkmm/a_friendly_reminder/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 10:59 PM |
| 3 | When an LVM is your therapistI know exactly what you mean :-) You've put it so nicely! You were very lucky to have such a therapist! They're really hard to come by! And difficult in terms of crossing some lines, but crying is a form or showing empathy, and that (empathy) almost never occurs with a male therapist. It is now well documented that the two parts of the brain are more interconnected and operating in synergy in the female brain. This does not apply to the male brain. We are indeed wired differently and it shows! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 6 | When an LVM is your therapistThat's why a number of male therapists are not able to move from theory (i.e. academia, books and knowledge) to practice (i.e. therapy, sessions with clients, supervision of other therapists) as easily as women. They come from a white male privilege position of power and authority and cannot relate to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 1 | When an LVM is your therapistThat's a 'yes and no' in terms of what you said. Yes, therapists are not there to tell people what to do. But, no, that does not mean that they cannot or should not tell people other things. I agree, it was not her place to say: “girl, he’s a selfish narcissist who treats you like shit, get out!” and that wouldn’t have been effective anyway. I would not want to have a therapist with such unprofessional and unethical behaviour. What you said, about being there to frame the issues is indeed key pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 7 | When an LVM is your therapistThis is a true issue and common occurrence when in therapy with an abusive partner, no matter their diagnosis (if any). Manipulative people always treat individuals external to the relationship (the therapist in this case) in a different manner to their partner in order to have the upper hand in the situation and be in charge of the narrative. That's why it's important to avoid going in therapy with your abuser or narcissistic partner or put safety nets in place if you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:35 AM |
| 6 | When an LVM is your therapistI'm very sorry for your experience. Going in therapy with a narcissist can be extremely damaging on so many levels. I agree to an extent with you, with therapists not being savvy when it comes to dealing with narcissists. I'd replace narcissists with 'xyz' personality disorder or issue though. In my experience, theory does not equal practice or reality. No matter how many degrees or training you have, that doesn't mean than when in practice or in reality (real life) you'll be able to relate/ und… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:15 AM |
| 15 | soo... Porn Conventions are a thing now and LVM love taking pics like this at them 🤢🤢🤢🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:56 AM |
| 47 | Are most older women suffering from internal misogyny?Toxic masculinity, misogyny and patriarchy at their best! Older women, and people in general, tend to perpetuate these patterns at the expense of the younger generations. For some, it's because of how they were born and bred, part of their upbringing and not knowing any better or any different, not having enough or any education and/or self-awareness. For others, it's because they have suffered themselves and feel that others should go through the same, too, 'just because' due to their narcissic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else notice how some guys whine about how women aren’t “traditional ladies” these days yet they expect women to pay at least half for everything and to take care of THEM?Oh dear...But I do think it had everything to do with the topic IN hand...his d*ick! Of course the topics connect! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 04:15 AM |
| 6 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...Meow, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:40 PM |
| 8 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...I'll take IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome) any day then! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | need support from women regarding scary ex boyfriends🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 12 | Squirtmeisha: Used on/off in FWB for four years, dumps LVM, lets him back in a year later.Oh sis!!! Such a big, wet topic!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 It's pretty simple dearie... I'd start with some good ol' fashioned squirting... Then I'd squirt some more for good measure... 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:15 PM |
| 13 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...They probably have their reasons! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 04:01 PM |
| 10 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...Lol!!! He thought you would GeT him! He also thought he was the Pope! I love the way she excommunicated his ass! Queen move! Yep, we're agreeing here..It's all about being the centre of the universe! It's been well researched about women getting pregnant and men losing it! Same when the child is am infant or toddler, men tend to digress, manipulate, control and abuse even more. That's why pregnancy is extremely dangerous for the physical and mental health and wellbeing of women when it comes to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 20 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...THE WALL!!!!!!! Are you making this up???? Misandry is real and feminism has ruined the world you know!!!! My scrotum is bigger than yours but this is not a competition!!!! ED is real and it's women's fault!!!! Society has failed men!!!! Edit: Spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:52 PM |
| 21 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...N-O W-A-Y!!!!!!!!!! Impossible!!!!!!! You just came up with all this because you're jealous and emotional!!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:48 PM |
| 30 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...Ah..those CAHs (Crimes Against Humanity) women commit on a daily basis! He was too busy to bother sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 16 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...Sis, 'I'm looking for tolerable'! I agree so much that the bar is no low that most women have resorted to 'tolerable', meaning the one that has the ability to be tolerated! The amount of projection and the assumptions are unbelievable! I don't believe they can go their own way at all! They're incapable! They just need a scapegoat for their failures and pathetic lives. Single mums tend to always be in the centre of it all for them. I think that they are so vile because the reverse is true, it's s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:44 PM |
| 68 | (Regarding women) ... Their naturally declining value is exarcebated by the miles they've been ridden...Their situation is a desperate one, even if they fail to recognise it...Women can assuage their fears and desperation by claiming to be queens...What he says: Men can generally offer a lot to women. We create. We invent. We build. We protect. We provide. And time increases our value, assuming we take care of our bodies and minds. . What he really means: Men can generally offer a lot to women('s downfall and oppression). We create (trouble, misery and cum stains everywhere we go, cause ya know, we can). We invent(ed misogyny, patriarchy and TRP). We build (weapons, turture devices and LEGO towers). We protect (our asses, d*cks and interes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Playings games bad or good ?Not a problem :-) Please keep us posted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Playings games bad or good ?If you search through the engine you'll find more. Also join any narcissist related sub for more info as it's psych related terminology for dealing with individuals with such personality disorders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:27 AM |
| 20 | Guy makes a post about his wife not thanking him for putting away groceries in front of her friends.Lol! I posted the same thing earlier today because I freaked out when I saw his post! I mean, is he for real??? The audacity and sense of entitlement alone for such a basic task is mind blowing!!!! To throw a mantrum on top of it and expect to be praised in front of an audience!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 10:57 AM |
| 7 | Safety.THIS comment 100%!!! In fact, studies show that gun ownership, whether by the female or the male perpetrator, leads to increased violence and likelihood of death for the female! As women, it's easier to be overpowered or have our own guns used against us! Gut instinct, self-preservation mode and superior intelligence coupled with self defense or martial arts have much higher success rates than any weapon! Listening to your instinct and observing how your body reacts subconsciously while engaging… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 10:35 AM |
| 13 | Arranged for a first date this weekend from OLD - red flags through conversation forced me to cancel it yesterday.Also...Men are nice, smiling and friendly to get women to do things, coerce, control and manipulate them while women do it to avoid abuse or attention or stalking or to deescalate/ diffuse a situation. We could go on for ages! Everything we say or do revolves around them unfortunately, not much agency or free will! We're following a script! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 7 | One month after IUD insertion, I'm still having horrible pain. Fuck the lack of male birth control purely for their convenience. You should NEVER have to be the only one who suffers and sacrifices. Fuck that.Lol! Where do I start? I'll just do a 'BEST OF perhapsbutnottoday' below as a summary of what you said: ...Men...act like stds are problems for people on mars or Neptune and will try to raw dog you. Comes from the assumption that women are on the pill. ...I also never want cum puddles from a man I’m not at least engaged to. ...Vaginal health comes at a premium. ...You can’t wash her with soap and trot off somewhere: probiotics - good ones with the minimum recommended vaginal health strains start… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:14 AM |
| 28 | HoW DaRe ShE dO tHiSSS tO mEEee??? WTF???Men are SO undervalued these days...so abused and not cared for... I mean, I wouldn't blame him if he just didn't feel loved or appreciated anymore by his wife and decided he needed someone like her friend in his life...or needed to teach his wife a lesson...or simply stop doing his own groceries...maybe not wipe his butt...Who knows! 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ I do use the eyebrow technique all the time, and not just with men! An eyebrow can take you a long way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 12:06 AM |
| 3 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?So many good points here circescircus! I completely agree with the before and after 25 years of age focus in life. You need to build up yourself, experience things, grow as a person and then commit to something serious. Charity begins at home in this case, too. As far as the advice given, it should definitely have been part of our upbringing rather than us getting a 20/20 hindsight once we realise that family and society have failed us miserably and conditioned us to have no self-respect, worth,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 6 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?THIS comment! Lack of experience and knowledge can be lethal for our physical and emotional wellbeing in so many ways! It's so limiting and short sighted, like wearing blinkers, you're not aware of the world around you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?That 'nagging sadness'...or nagging feeling...We should listen to our instincts more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Man (24M) dumps ex of 5 years 6 months ago. He misses her emotional labor during hard times.Did we just read the same post, I wonder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 14 | guys are learning astrology to try to get laidI think I just had a stroke or something... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 29 | Male empathy is fucked up and terrifyingExactly that! Toxic masculinity at its finest! Masquerading because for them 'empathy' is a mask they put on when it suits them and it's always expressed in an egocentric way, only serving phallic agendas and reinforcing male privilege. Empathy is the new narcissism for them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 21 | Male empathy is fucked up and terrifyingWhat empathy? What conscience? What emotional intelligence? (For most) In other news, pigs can fly after all! Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 02:04 PM |
| 5 | What’re you having? Non-alcoholic drinksNo alcohol for me either... I always go for Lemon Lime Bitters (my faveourite) or Lime Soda or alcohol free wine or juice or ice tea or whatever they have available. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:35 AM |
| 15 | Man Forced to Wait to Have Sex Until Wife Finishes Giving Birth (The Onion, nailing it as usual)Like those jokes guys tell, that aren't really jokes since they truly mean them but not really... So TRP and MGTOW that gives you the chills...Visit the dead bedroom sub for close enough stories... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:21 AM |
| 20 | Playings games bad or good ?You don't owe anyone anything ever sis! Reads like a very clingy and insecure behaviour from what you said. We can't be expected to be on our phones 24/7, especially with an occupation like yours. Set some boundaries and cut this behaviour while it's still early as it will get worse. Also, when someone shows you who they are, believe them! Actions speak louder than words! Employ your big attorney pants and have a conversation with him, ONLY if you deem it necessary. I wouldn't invest if I had su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 09:08 AM |
| 10 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?You had me at 'Stop dreaming like a girl' sis! That's a great example here about being sold air, empty promises, expectations, fairytale fantasies, real life hitting you in the face, landing on your bottom and finally waking up! Reality vs Fiction and brainwashing whole generations, whether through fairytales, media, policies, ads, movies or what have you is a true problem. The American Dream you see, like any other dream, gives you false hope for the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 08:06 AM |
| 19 | One piece of dating advice you'd give your younger self and why?Agree! The earlier the better! The beloved sunk cost fallacy everyone loves to use as a mean of avoiding issues, lying to themselves, 'protecting' their investment etc. The knowing early part is quite common with women, we tend to ignore the signs and red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 11 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Tottaly supporting this! Something like FDS 101 Teen Version would go a long way on how to help them go through puberty and come the other side strong and resilient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:30 PM |
| 20 | so over these low effort low value men!! If I wanted to make the first move I would be on bumble 🙄Keep rocking sis!!!!! The audacity though!!!! They have such fragile egos and get fake offended for nothing!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 4 | FDS-strategy helps women support eachother, while pickmeishas will put eachother downGotta love the projection!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:04 PM |
| 15 | Last year's attempt at OLD lmaoYou rock Ms_Tilly! Throw that nasty watermelon away! Can't believe this dude! What a loser! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:33 PM |
| 25 | Pickmeisha has to use BJs to get LVM to do his chores 🙄🙄🙄Comment by trentsh: 'As a dog trainer, I know dogs train people, better than people train dogs. In this scenario your boyfriend is training you to give head.' This guy is definitely into something! He's an expert after all! And it's not just the sexual aspect! LVMs 'train' or attempt to train us on so many levels while dating or in a relationship. From accepting behaviours, gaslighting, unreasonable expectations, lowering our standards etc. Pavlov in reverse in this case. Crazy thing is she thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:04 AM |
| 7 | Don’t let men guilt trip you into carrying a baby you’re not ready for: 99% of Women Say They Feel Relief 5 Years After Abortion. Exercise and protect your reproductive freedom!You're not alone sis! Hugs! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 4 | Don’t let men guilt trip you into carrying a baby you’re not ready for: 99% of Women Say They Feel Relief 5 Years After Abortion. Exercise and protect your reproductive freedom!❤❤❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 10:32 AM |
| 5 | This dick ain’t free booSorry, not sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 13 | This dick ain’t free booLolololol! Can't stop laughing! Should get a gofundme page for the dude or something...OR for a documentary on their specimen! You put it so nicely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:23 AM |
| 7 | This dick ain’t free booSorry, meant dude... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:21 AM |
| 9 | This dick ain’t free booThis girl is on fire 🤣🤣😜🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️😎😎😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:19 AM |
| 8 | God no....(btw he had an orange tree shirt on)I'd say yes sis! I mean, it's so hard to find a real gentleman these days! Wouldn't want to miss the opportunity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:00 AM |
| 15 | How long do you wait?This comment! Things happen! You can be proactive, as in your case since he knew about the errant, or at least be sincere in your efforts to make up for it! No need to blow up your phone, have a mantrum or become a stalker! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Still... On a serious note though, I hope you get better soon! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:52 AM |
| 11 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?Age is irrelevant here! Abuse is abuse is abuse! You can only 'handle' something until you can't! And then it will be too late! Remove yourself from any situation that involves physical or other violence. If that is not possible, call the police and let him try to explain to them how much shoving is shoving and his methods of qualifying and quantifying abuse! I'm sure the police will appreciate his input! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Is shoving your girlfriend physical abuse?No, of course not! It would be physical abuse if YOU shoved him though! That's how it works for them! Any form of unwanted physical contact is abuse. Don't let him gaslight you! You deserve better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.But you don't know what you're missing! Trust me! I KNOW BETTER! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:43 AM |
| 6 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Hot to LOVE the projection though! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.It's all about the randos though, isn't it? The usual lay person, acquaintance or stranger you see down the street or meet online. We need to cater to all populations you see. We need to let go of prudish beliefs and free ourselves for males. Just smile, open your legs and relax! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.And that's not even my highest record... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:30 AM |
| 7 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.People always laugh at what they can't have.............. Perhaps if you weren't such a prude dear! I mean, what do you get by being so vanilla! Free that bird girl! Hahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 15 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Lol! Love to see the double standard regarding high and low libido and the role of self-pleasure (masturbation) vs other pleasure (sex with partner). Pathologising our behaviours, standards and morality is indeed what is happening here. Along with the 'damned if you do, damned if you don't' mentality. Also, why only focus on the two sides of the (theoretical) spectrum? Why is it only, you either have it from day one or 232137 months later for them? What about, sufficient time for you, as an indi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 13 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.It screams man, but he/she claims to be a woman enjoying herself... You nailed it though! It's part and parcel of the vetting and weeding out process. Some people just can't stand those with standards and would or say anything to have it their way. Edit: The OP first says something about enjoying being a slut and f***ing like one and them further down that they've been with a woman for 20 years. So he's a male I guess?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.That I was SO into him that I insisted for anal? So I could feel it better? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Fell in love after him giving me multiples in under 5 minutes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:05 AM |
| 11 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Fainted from coming 9 times in a session? And 37 that night? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:04 AM |
| 9 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Orgasmed from sneezing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 18 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.Deary, didn't you know I just squirted from seeing a dick pic the other day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 34 | Woman shaming other women for waiting for sex with men due to having sexual dysfunctions and them painting their avoidance as principled stand instead of telling the truth and admitting they use sex as reward. Because ya know, ya have nothing better to do than play reward and punishment games.I feel SO much better after reading the following comment: 'But there are women who come from PIV just fine. Even anal. I honestly believe that having trouble coming is not normal and should be treated as a dysfunction, just like men who can't get it up. But instead women tell themselves and each other that everything is fine and that it's men with their porn and death grip who have a problem. Not women who have nerve damage from vibrators, who never figured out how to masturbate, or who have cr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 02:36 AM |
| 14 | The REAL clingy sexWTF???? 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️ 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:49 AM |
| 12 | Woman helps her husband “transition” & now he calls her “some d*ke" and filed for divorce. You don’t have to be a Pickmeisha in the name of gender equality. Abandon ship as soon as they start to put their needs far above yours. Trans scrotes are still scrotes and expect them to behave that way.For more on this issue have a look at r/GenderCritical/ It has some true horror stories, even little girls bring exposed to male genitalia in public locker rooms in pools etc Apparently under the new legislation in Canada all a man has to do to be in public change rooms is self-identify as a female. Lots of pervs and paedos have been abusing the system and women explain how they can't even report them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Use FDS quietly, men don’t need to be told what you expect from them, men don’t need a chance to explain themselvesThirded! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Man realizing what the majority of women go through everyday😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Man realizing what the majority of women go through everydayTHIS comment! Ahhh...finally! Someone said it!!! I agree yungthub! In spite of the superior bodily strength and stamina, women are still expected to do most of the housework. Even sweeping and moping while moving around furniture, tables, turning the chairs upside down on the table, lifting bed mattresses to change the sheets etc! On the other hand, since it's easier for them to do such heavy lifting etc, on the rare (or not for some) occasions they do it, they don't get why we can't as easily o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Forever-gf of 8 years is shocked to find out her fiance cheats on her and doesn't see her as the oneRole model sister! She clearly cared a lot about her sister to take on such a mission and risk their relationship. The truth hurts however and not everyone is ready for it! Thanks for the post Necessary Cook :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 10 | Book suggestionsExcellent idea darling89! We can expand the resources section if we try :-) Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You by Susan Forward (The FOG Triangle for those knowing about narcissistic people) Should I Stay or Should I Go? by Lundy Bancroft & JAC Patrissi Gaslighting: Recognise Manipulativd and Emotionally Abusivd People and Break Free by Stephanie Sarkis Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare: How to Devalue the Narcissist While Supply… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:13 AM |
| 31 | LVM hit me up after I posted a new pic to remind me that I used to be ugly.Neeeeeext! ;-) Don't waste your time with such low lives! He's so appalling your breakouts left the chat... Level up sis! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:10 AM |
| 15 | I feel so defeatedWhere to begin Scooby dear??? From your 'date'??? Or your cousin's husband??? Both of them out of line!!! Completely and utterly out of line! Even if the husband was low key and meant well and and and is a nice guy! Date: no effort; when you ask someone out, you pay; went for a sneak attack kids in spite everything; kept pasting, pressuring and harassing you to see him again, at YOUR home, which is supposed to be a safe heaven from harassment and abuse; the inability to accept no; the verbal abu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 07:03 AM |
| 1 | The truth about men...Where do I start with this one??? Lol!!! Hahaha!!! They admit the 99% part in terms of effort, only it's reversed! Only to claim that as usual it's women's fault! The make porn worse/less or women better/more dichotomy! Does this remind anyone of the whore/Madonna dichotomy??? Of course it's jumbing through hoops for them! Everything is an effort and a bother yadda yadda yadda! No common sense and no basic decency! Let's go back to the era of monkeys and be done with it cause it's too much for t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | The truth about men...Lol!!! Hahaha!!! Laughing on so many levels here!!! What heart??? And I only saw the confusion part, nothing philosophical or argumentative in the least! You're too generous my friend! ;-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:14 AM |
| 5 | The truth about men...They are out of their minds! For such supposedly well educated people, you'd have thought they could have googled something so sun pp is, right??? I mean, since they don't get it and all... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:13 AM |
| 4 | The truth about men...Preach sister! They do need to lose their egos, privilege and entitlement for sure! My only issue with some/most? of them is that you need to lay low when interacting with them as they are volatile, unpredictable, dangerous and possibly lethal to women even with the smallest comment or act. They're full or rage! I mean, look at how they treat us in comments and posts to get a glimpse... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:11 AM |
| 5 | The truth about men...You have me at stitches though! Can't stop laughing! They started the 'Fuck out of here' from their first reply to me! I'm like, kudos for the manners from home etc and good luck with the monologue! Why do they always have to resort to name calling???? And if it was face to face, then bullying and most probably violence, too! Why do they have to beat everyone up??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:06 AM |
| 1 | The truth about men...Of course he's in good company dear! What else did you expect from them? The 'free sex' thing again! It must have been quoted as much as 'cAuSe EvE' when talking about 'Paradise Lost! It's always EvE (the women)! You'd think they'd remember something from school! Or uni, as most claim to be educated! But then again they still believe that 'a woman should give me sons'! It's HER fault she had a daughter! Whaaaast bout muh naaaame???? In laws, MGTOW etc: Divorce her asap! This woman promised you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:03 AM |
| 3 | The truth about men...No, no, I insist me lady! YOU are insecure! Trust me, I know better! I'm the man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 05:51 AM |
| 2 | The truth about men...Preach! Say no more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 6 | The truth about men...Have you ever heard of mass delusions??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Signs of LVM!Makes you wish she knew about his Reddit exploits, doesn't it! Imagine getting caught red handed twice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Signs of LVM!OMG!!!! Those comments in his post are obnoxious! Truly! At this point, I'm sure your Typewriter Feels more 😛 As you said, dumb as duck! I'm not even sure if his IQ is traceable at this stage. 'Computer says no' for sure (Little Britain)! Love how everyone tries to pin it on her though! They're persistent, I'll give them that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 9 | Signs of LVM!For a moment there he had me worried with the porn! But no, he does not do or watch weird stuff, only consensual and passionate because he is not into aggressive things! And he does want the PUSSY, just without the baby in the way! He cannot 'suck it up and just do it' as he had done that in the past as a teenager and felt like (wait for it ladies!!!) a sex doll!!!! A guy admitting that having sex without wanting it and just going through the motions and being pressured...actually makes people f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:48 AM |
| 12 | Signs of LVM!Why do they always do that??? This is a pretty good summary though! She caught him masturbating to porn in the living room in broad daylight, while not touching her due to being pregnant and 'feeling uncomfortable with having sex with her because of the baby'. She called him out on his bs and had a fight with him because it was not the first time. She was suspicious of online messages in the past, too, and is now not talking to him or replying to his texts or calls. What should he do ladies??? H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:22 AM |
| 102 | Don’t date men who watch porn, Exhibit 754Naaaahhhh.... You're just no fun! And booooooriiiiiiiiiing! Just cause you're vanilla doesn't mean we all have to be like you! Enough with the kink shaming! I mean, obviously she's having the time of her life! It was feminists at the end of the day that promoted this through female empowerment, reclaiming your sexuality and f***ing patriarchy! Yay to sexual revolution! /s Reverse the roles and all you'd get is...poor men, being tortured, men's rights, men's domestic violence, or they are cuckold… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 7 | The truth about men...I know!!! And when she told him they survived by eating from the dumpsters cause her father dumped her mother with 4 kids??? And he said that her father did his best and if her mother couldn't handle it she could have gotten a divorce??? Damned if you do, damned if you don't! Message of the post: it's women's fault as always! Didn't you know they are oppressed by feminazis that are out there to get them??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Anti-pornography and anti-prostitution are anti-male pushbacks.This comment! Well researched and documented that porn is targeted at men while erotica at women. Erotica has no silent or otherwise victims, much unlike porn and prostitution. Also, the fact that men are the ones usually exhibiting controlling and jealous behaviours towards their partners due to insecurities and male antagonism. Finally some common sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/20 07:03 PM |
| 35 | The truth about men...Welcome ladies 🤣😎😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:27 PM |
| 28 | The truth about men...Their IQ is so dangerously low that they don't even realise that they cockblock themselves! Plus, everything is anti-male for them! AND we women apparently are against porn and prostitution because we are insecure and want to control them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:26 PM |
| 9 | The truth about men...It's testerical indeed! Sad thing is they truly mean all that rubbish though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 17 | The truth about men...Course not! He seems to know everything! Lol! And don't you love how he pretends to not understand when people present valid or lived-experience arguments to him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:22 PM |
| 29 | The truth about men...Yes! It shows how prevalent these views are among men these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 04:59 PM |
| 26 | Is this even real???Yep! A tale as old as time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:22 AM |
| 29 | Is this even real???Why not???? I mean, don't women have multiple orgasms??? EVERYBODY knows that the pay gap and the orgasm gap are not real.....Do some homework! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Is this even real???I think that's what the lady thought, too, before running! Edit: lady | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:20 AM |
| 45 | Chads are LVMs and that’s it. If you have one in your life now he needs to goLVMs are LVMs no matter their looks!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:49 AM |
| 11 | Is this even real???Shame on you dear! Rubbing things like that in your friends' nose! Not fair! 😝🤣😎 We don't need a Plan B here, we need a Plan Z!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:11 AM |
| 29 | Is this even real???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hahahaha!!! Biohazard semen???? You have me laughing SO hard here!!!! I mean, if you insist on a pearl necklace mate, at least make it a real one! Don't be cheap! What about him raging and saying he wants to smash things??? A man child having a total breakdown!!! Up and leave ladies! Just up and leave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:10 AM |
| 20 | Is this even real???Whatever do you mean dear? Didn't YOU know THEY know better? They invalidate our whole existence, so a 'No' is NO big deal to them I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:06 AM |
| 8 | Is this even real???I know, I know... thought the same at first! But then I read it again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 12 | Is this even real???I'm inclined to agree my dear! Hahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:04 AM |
| 6 | TW: domestic violence / abuse. This is what happens when you think of women as property that can be discarded as you please.Completely speechless... Toxic masculinity and patriarchy at its best. Burnt, violated, deformed, ruined for life just because they rejected men, wanted to finish school, were involuntary part of family dispute, wanted to divorce their abusive husbands or simply because their father did not want another woman in the family! Toys in the hands of men! Not property; because most individuals are highly protective of their property and assets. They are seen as toys and rubbish to discard once a manch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacyLol! OMG! The audacity! What a nerve! Just so he can have you under his thumb for at least an hour a day! Monopolising your time like that! What did he do for a living? What time was he calling/wanted to call? Do you know what he was doing while on the phone? E.g. was on his lunch break or what have you? I think that with men, in most cases anyway, even the 'between XYZ' that you mentioned is too much and draining. And creates certain expectations (in their eyes mind you), if you for example don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacyThat's what they do sis! But now you know better! 😎 This is merely one of many ways in which they manipulate, monopolise and leech off your life, time and energy. Plus, when he calls you daily in the morning for example, he sets a routine and an expectation WHILE ensuring that you cannot use that time for yourself or to socialise and connect with family, friends, colleagues or other men/prospects/suitors. Basically a win win win win win for them! Did he display any other signs??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 03:28 AM |
| 4 | LVM struggling with newborn and wife dying of cancer...What about the rest of my comment and recommendations though? I used him as an example for vetting and being vigilant when dealing with men. You seem to only focus on my opinion of him, not the bigger picture I was trying to point to. Let's not go into the person's value being marked by their actions, not their feelings as people could counter that with paedophiles who have not acted on their feelings yet etc. I simply got the impression that he's seeking validation of a predetermined course of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:14 AM |
| 19 | LVM struggling with newborn and wife dying of cancer...That's correct! He certainly does. It's the only thing that will help him deal with the current situation and later grief and loss. He simply does not need to drag his wife into this for his own comfort. She needs individual counselling of a dufferent nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:01 AM |
| 13 | LVM struggling with newborn and wife dying of cancer...I see where you are coming from, Bright_Itempas, I really do. But I do not agree with his behaviour. That is all. What about the woman who has her newborn in the NICU and learned that she'll probably die soon though? They are the victims here. Doesn't she love the love of her love and the product of their love? Please do read my other comments to see where I am coming from. You see my conduct, a complete stranger's, as monstrous and trashy. While I see HIS (potentially) being monstrous and trash… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:59 AM |
| 19 | LVM struggling with newborn and wife dying of cancer...That was may reaction, too! Exactly what I described in my other comment! The focus is and should not be the husband's emotional discomfort. He is not the patient. He is not dying. He is not vulnerable (see newborn and mother) but in a position of health and strength. I see the males got to work downvoting my post though! Sorry not sorry guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:45 AM |
| 11 | LVM struggling with newborn and wife dying of cancer...That was indeed the point of my post MissDywel 🙂 To use it as an example of the need to vet, vet, vet and weed, weed, weed out men to the best of our abilities. Using a dying person and recommending therapy, not for their mental health and wellbeing, but for that of the spouse, especially when contemplating abandonment is unheard of in the health community and should not be encouraged. I do not know any practitioner who would accept such a case anyway. There is no need for retraumatisation or ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:42 AM |
| 21 | LVM struggling with newborn and wife dying of cancer...I could ask what is wrong with you, too, but what would be the point in engaging in such a manner? So, I am going to thank your for your comment and contribution to my post 🙂 I understand and support his need and right to grieve and be terrified. Who wouldn't? But going from that to the need for abandonment, thoughts about it and external validation, it's simply a very long way. It has been widely researched and established that males will abandon or check out of relationships and marriages in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:28 AM |
| 15 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20THIS COMMENT!!! It's SO easy to be a HVM a few times a week! Or even every day! Some people can put on an act for months or years and transition so slowly you don't know what hit you! It's SO easy to gauge someone and tailor yourself to their expectations, lifestyle, way of speech, way of dressing to make it look like you have SO much in common! Ask the right questions, spend some time with them, meet a couple of friends and you have your 'How to get and keep your victim. All you need to know to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 07:54 AM |
| 19 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacyCouldn't agree more! It's one of their main manipulation tactics! Can happen with calling however, too! So don't fall for it either! A number of profes actions or situations exist where men that have ample time during their shifts or while commuting to work use women as 'fillers' to 'pass their time'. Graveyard shifts are one example. Professions that require a lot of driving is another. People working in cleaning/or should I say as 'cleaning supervisors/managers', people doing security or room … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 01:17 AM |
| 20 | Millions of sperm to one egg...Evolution and nature at its finest! Survival of the fittest! They resort to manipulation because they have nothing to offer! The sense of entitlement however, their misogynistic and self-centred, nice guy, victimised by all, predator principles shine through. Sometimes a simple look will tell you all you need to know! Weed them out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 18 | LVM Alert...............So true unfortunately! Added your tip in my post as a pointer for visibility 😎 Any other advice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 28 | LVM Alert...............Lol! What a joke! Uniforms are a class of their own sis! Glad you're done with him! No man worth his salt or the title 'man' treats his wife and kids like that! Pure entitlement and egocentric behaviour! You had to force him to 'help' you parent. Full stop. That's where the problem lies. It is NOT called 'helping' your wife, it's called being a parent and shouldering YOUR responsibility towards YOUR offspring(s). They did not come from the sky or grow on trees. YOU made them. That's the bare min… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:30 PM |
| 16 | The Rules Of MisogynyThe 17 Rules of Misogyny is a useful tool for women wanting to assess men's behaviours through the lens of misogyny, patriarchy and toxic masculinity. It can be particularly helpful both in the dating scene as well as for women in relationships with men and an easy way to discern LVM from HVM. LVMs behaviours, actions, mannerisms, thought patterns and interactions are fraught with examples of these misogyny rules. Ladies, based on your experience with men, do you have any other rules to add? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 08:14 AM |
| 3 | What are your biggest pet peeves from men’s OLD profiles?Can definitely agree with that. Also, certain jobs with DOJ/justice system etc. can also be highly problematic, too, for other reasons. A lot of LVM and/or even people in general can get in touch with you this way. Lanyards/Security passes do not have your photo and details quite often for the same reason. It is amazing what lengths some people will go to to harm others. No need to explain that 95% of the time the targets are women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Please share your favorite FDS-approved media below! (IG, books, Youtube) We are expanding the wikiSo true dackaroo! So much to learn from it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Please share your favorite FDS-approved media below! (IG, books, Youtube) We are expanding the wikiThe Art Of Seduction by Robert Greene I know for some it may sound very LOL or cringe worthy or even the opposite of what we are supposed to add here...but I truthfully believe that knowledge is power! Apparently a number of males have read it and use that and other books/speeches from Greene etc. as a way of learning manipulation strategies and tactics to use on women. For me this book was an eye opener on so many levels for both genders! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:51 AM |
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