I had some thoughts on this based on my accumulated experiences. Both my personal ones, or through second hand accounts through family and friends. None of this is meant to scold women or say that they are somehow bad. Just my observations and I think understanding this will help any man.

- A sense for romance (and honor) are male only feelings. Women don't have this. They can't and wont recognize or reciprocate this.

- The main three pillars of what women operate on psychologically are sex, security and validation. Sex essentially means her partner gets her off. Security means the man provides protection from physical harm and also financial (resource) security. Validation can come from her partner, friends and/or nowadays, the internet.

- Women don't love men. In a functioning world with functioning relationships, love flows down and respect flows up. God loves his creation (men, women, children), men love their wives and children, women love their children. This is reciprocated with respect. This dynamic fulfills both men's desire for romance, honor and sex, and women's desire for sex, security and validation.

- Women give no quarter and don't negotiate. They fight for everything that's on the table, always. She wants everything for her and her kids. Mature men learn the advantages of compromise. Women don't.

- Women are biologically hardwired for motherhood. Contrary to what I often read and see from men, some of the happiest women I know are mothers. Some of them even single mothers (sure this only works through daddy government but not getting into this here). Many men also want fatherhood, but for men it doesn't seem as much of a primary biological need as with women.