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[–]Azediae 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Correct me if I'm wrong, you are:
So, back to your question of "how to move on":
How to prevent this from happening again:
The side bar. Read it. Memorize it. Internalize It. Nothing helps you swallow TRP like a slap from life - make the best of it.
Get the majority of your social interaction from places other than your romantic / sexual partner(s) or their respective social circles. The romantic idiotic "blending of lives" shit will only blunt your edge as a man.
To borrow Graham Bell's saying, "When one hole closes, 3.5 billion open; we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed hole that we do not see the ones whcih have opened all around us"
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit.. I'm aware you extrapolated my background based on the previous posts I've had... but that took some time on your part.... which I appreciate.... I appreciate the time you took to respond to me with such thought... you are completely fucking 100% right... I need to take time for myself
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You became what you bent to, not the guy she fell in love with.
"The way back is not the way home"
[–]pleasedontknowme30 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
she has been cheating on you, as much as it sucks to say that...it's not like a light switch just clicked off. She likely has someone on the side. Sorry bro.
[–]10CrookedToes 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"bent to her every whim and desire..."
[–]eccentricrealist 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should have done whatever the fuck you wanted, not what she wanted.
[–]FortunateBum 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Almost all relationships end. Usually because the woman dumps the guy. You are not alone. Many times, guys never see it coming.
There is an evo-psych theory that women are only "in love" long enough to raise a child to autonomy. That's 3-8 years or so.
With women, the question is never if it'll end, but when it'll end.
No matter what you do, she will eventually dump you.
I agree with your theory, however, she is unable to have children and has never truly wanted to have them in the first place.... regardless... I believe she was just using me to gain stability in her life... not necessarily an evolutionary advantage (i.e. progeny)... thank for you though for responding to me... sometimes I really think I would be better off being gay with a dude just like me.... to bad I love the vag way too much.. I'm not that fond of the penis (sexually)... the penis is still awesome though
[–]mysterioussydney 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
"I gave her absolutely everything. I moved to another state for her. Bent to her every whim and desire... because I whole heartedly loved her. Best boyfriend of the year award multiple times."
I think you did these things to manipulate the situation (by pleasing her) in order to get praise not because you genuinely wanted to do it, that is the problem. Try being more honest and genuine with yourself. You have let her take the lead. When a woman sees that her man is not leading she disgruntledly has to do it herself, it is very unattractive behaviour to her.
Take the initiative from now on.......don't be a passenger in your own life.
wow that hits home man... i've been a passenger in my life... just bending to the desires of women specifically... i think it would pay off just being myself... asserting what I want and not bending at all... that will probably make me more attractive to the right type of woman I want to attract... I'm a fucking catch bro.. good physique, great job as a biochemist at a great hospital, amazing musical talent... what woman wouldn't want me
[–]Sturmgeist781 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trickle truth: She's been sucking someone else's dick. Thats how she fell out of love with you.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
holy shit man i never thought of it as 66 months... jesus christ.. (and i'm an atheist so that means a lot for me to even say that).... you're right I should have ended it at 30 months when she obviously wasn't into that settling down mentality.... however I gave her the benefit of the doubt because we started dating at age 19... so i thought by 22 "we're still too young to be thinking of that shit... of course she doesn't want marriage and kids" should have seen it coming
[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea man.... so much pussy unexplored... I fucked around 15 chicks my freshman year and it rocked.... extrapolating I could have clocked 60 by the end of my senior year and perhaps ended with the right one
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