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If you do honestly update us because I don't know if it would even do anything
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 01:15 PM
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Gdamn the length alone made me pull my hair out. When she asked why her, I would have just said "you know u are right. I have so many chicks pm'ing me why waste any more time talking to you since you don't feel worth I'm worth your time"
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:52 PM
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"My husband told me he was having an affair!". Mrs Jane, did you leave him? " no, I fucked him". "Why?" I thought he might leave me.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 05:07 PM
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If she has sex with him without him asking...how is that rape?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:47 PM
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She isn't represented as the typical woman at all in her reaction
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:21 PM
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Divorce rape? Elaborate please
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 04:18 PM
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Its not a personal question though
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 03:47 PM
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If you had good enough relationship with an HR rep, you could probably get away with jokingly saying "yea, but then you would gag on my cock and cum" but if you are hot, she likes you and you said it in a certain way...she would laugh her ass off...and no pink slip would ensue.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 07:06 PM
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which honestly sounds like the absolute best idea. From how you have made it sound, she is financially OK, or would be if she has a lot of family money, right?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:41 PM
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I remember following your other posts in adultery. On a serious note, would you come back to this thread and/or make a new one "IF" she does choose to walk OR she chooses to have an affair. Seriously, because I know you have stated multiple times in this thread you "know" her and you "know" she will never cheat on you. I personally think the rules just changed, but I do hope you are willing to update us here if you find you are actually wrong, because I am genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:20 PM
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If the girl goes in for a hug, seems natural to hug back...versus being cold and not hugging. Or are you saying it only is when guys initiate the hugs
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:31 PM
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It is possible you are giving off a 'chip on your shoulder' vibe, which I think a lot of people new to RP (myself included) might get. It comes with the 'don't care' attitude, but maybe you seem less approachable then before, hence no hugs.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:30 PM
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agree and amplify I assume is the recommended course of action. Problem is, I am too dumb to think of a good A&A tatic in this scenario.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 03:07 PM
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When you find the God Mode cheat, please...PM me. Thanks!
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:42 PM
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Yea, but why stick your dick in crazy?
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:09 PM
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"nice date", I guess in my eyes doesn't equal the date being drunk while out. Also using the word "irrational" on a female, at any point, is like dropping a nuke. I am surprised you didn't get punched. I am a hypocrite though since I use that word on my wife.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:09 PM
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well, on top of coming up with phrases / words that you never said. Mine has done that shit before, I look at her like she grew a 3rd eye...
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:03 PM
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Isn't giving in to have sex with her, 'just because she initiated' giving in to her and going into her frame, even if he didn't want it...or is TRP all about doesn't matter, had sex
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:01 PM
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I can't read that anymore....I am WAY too fucking depressed now.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 07:31 PM
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Not only did she fuck up his entire experience to the point where he may never come back, she complained about me asking her to do it to her boss. So it sounds like she did try to help, but did it poorly, and in doing it poorly, made herself look bad, which resulted in her trying to protect herself by complaining to her boss. Now, had she given the guy a good experience, and he wanted to come back...would you have written this post? Just because you did something nice for someone, doesn't mean w…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 05:46 PM
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Dude, you dodged a bullet. This girl seems like more trouble then she is worth. Beta mode or not, don't worry about her...move on.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:22 AM
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Personally, I think "being exclusive" prior to being physical is kind of dumb. Back to the typical car analogy, you are agreeing to purchase a vehicle before truly seeing how it performs.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 02:51 AM
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Honestly, all 24 men and her deserve STD's in and around her mouth, and in and around their dicks. Seriously, what man in his right mind lets a stranger suck his dick unprotected at a goddamn bar of all places.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:27 PM
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fucking new this was coming. KNEW IT
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:26 PM
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Holyshit balls on fire. She had some balls. Ok, story time..how did you react and then what was her reaction? then what happened between them?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 03:12 AM
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GTFO...seriously bro. christ your annoying
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 01:11 AM
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brb, selling kids, wife...buying plane ticket to Venezuela.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 01:10 AM
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shave down below...gain an extra inch or so in there.... oh wait, what...wrong thread! ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 01:09 AM
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It sounds like it would be quite expensive and they want to live a high lifestyle, especially since many of them apparently want breast implants by the time they are 15-18. the picture the post was about is this: http://i.imgur.com/zKSmKvF.jpg (that is what mannequins in Venezuela look like) (though apparently Miami ones looks similar)
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:14 PM
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Agreed. 5ft 11, ripped. Not good enough...getting the knife now! /s
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:05 PM
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what in the ever loving fuck? wrong...just wrong.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:55 PM
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god damn...I cringed...then looked at my hands :( I have calluses from deadlifts, if that counts, but 5ft 11.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 07:55 PM
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We also assume he isn't getting tail on the side.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:51 PM
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I love this particular scene...shows TRUE FRIENDS - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nukRk0WMspo Also shows HAMSTERING AT FULL BLAST!
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 06:13 PM
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great writeup. One thing I want to comment specifically on...and this is also assuming a respectful relationship He wants sex every other day, minimum. His girlfriend only wants sex once every two weeks. He tells her, honestly, what he wants, then, having the confidence and self-respect to know that he can find a woman more sexually compatible with him elsewhere, he wishes her luck and heads for the door. In your example, I am not sure if our imaginary characters actually had a talk about their …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 06:11 PM
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Ah OK thanks for the clarification
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 05:24 PM
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The word cuckold is used a lot in this sub, but I feel inappropriately. A cuckold is a man who knowingly allows his wife to sleep with other men, sometimes even in front of him. A man who is in a relationship where his wife may or may not be sleeping with other men that he has no knowledge or insight into is NOT a cuckold, he is simply being cheated on.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 02:49 PM
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man, people say in here all the time "don't respond, you look beta". Now any response you give her she probably doesn't care about. She might be thinking "what is he going to say back". Maybe she is expecting you not to respond. I would respond with something that should make her feel bad as a person. "Thanks for wasting my time" or "you honestly think I'd ever give you a 2nd chance after that, good luck" and leave it. or silence.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 10:25 PM
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Oh god my wife has done this. She isn't a smoker, but when she is drunk and at a party and someone offers her a cig, she does it. We are talking MAYBE 5 cigerettes in like 3 years, but still she knows I hate, HATE cigs. On top of me hating her drinking...she does both of those in front of me without a fucking care in the world. I have done what you said in your OP, called her out on it...in one ear and out the other.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 10:19 PM
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I cut out porn for 60 days once. At that same time, I also wasn't having sex with my wife. I can honestly tell you, I didn't get hornier. I wasn't scratching the walls. My erection quality diminished. I was less horny, etc.. I hated it. I am back to jerking it every so often.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 10:17 PM
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I voluntarily took the guest room a week ago as to not deal with conflict. I am going to tell her tonight I am taking the master bedroom bed for the next week and she can be in the guest room. 1 week each is fair.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 10:16 PM
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well...fwiw, we are dealing with an inhouse separation at the moment. Things haven't been going well. a week ago, we were both drunk but she was in bed already. I thought "fuck it..if she rejects me, oh well" and I went up and long story short, was eating her out and fingering her...she gave me the 'kind of fighting it but not really and giving in' type of thing and came several times. Asked me to stick my dick in, but I didn't..partially cause I wasn't hard, and partially cause I just wanted to…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:48 PM
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I envy you OP...wish I could say the same for my situation :(
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 08:44 PM
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I don't know why this popped in my head...but I wonder what would have happened if after she slapped you, and said "See, I told you he wouldn't do nothing" you got up close to her, grabbed the back of her head, and pulled her in for a kiss". Smiled, and said "bet you weren't expecting that" and then kept walking past her. Fat or not, I bet that would have mentally fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 04:09 AM
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Exploit the weak not going to lie, I first read that as "Exploit of the week" LMAO. that would be a good column.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 04:00 AM
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Download menu off internet, print 20 copies, fold..BOOM done.
/r/trpGAME29/06/14 03:23 PM
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I would leave off that other shit, just say "I found someone else to spend my time with". boom, done.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 04:20 AM
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Oh, 10000% agree. Was just pointing out that I hope he doesn't feel like he is "done" he has some good years left in him.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 03:31 AM
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was this your suggestion to him, to sever ALL contact?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 03:20 AM
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well and the fact she had the balls to contact him demanding an apology....lol what the fuck kind of mindset is that?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 03:18 AM
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First off, I think it is awesome you go to those meetings, you stick to your anniversaries, and try to help others in need. You are trying to help a 55 year old man, who as you said isn't dead yet, is decent looking, and can probably still pull some ass. You hopefully have set him on a path so he isn't making the same mistakes at 56. He might have 15 years left of still snagging some tail. But I am glad to read this story, it was uplifting and awesome.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 03:17 AM
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coming across a catchy headline isn't worshipping
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:16 AM
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She is the sister of Kim Kardashian who only became famous because she took some dick in a "stolen home video" which vaulted their entire family into a TV series that has earned them a MASSIVE amount of money for being complete nobodys
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 10:33 PM
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Yes this is true...still after a few months of dating, that would be like me spending $500-1000 on a girl I am "dating".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 10:32 PM
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LMAO....wasn't expecting that
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 09:41 PM
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jesus christ....is this real life???
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 07:02 PM
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exactly...the ones with faces are either cam models or batshit crazy. "oh look, I am 22, I haven't hit the wall yet, let me show the world my pussy and clit taking an 8" dildo with a butt plug"....hits the wall at 28 "oh god, why did I do that? My boss found the pics, I lost my job! That guy I was dating had a friend fwd him the pics, he left me!"
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:03 PM
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I actually got disappointed with my wife last night over dishes..not sure if I overreacted. She is a SAHM, I am sole income provider at a full time job (and do more work on the side). I got home and dishes are filled both sinks. I was already bothered by her withholding something from me with our kids, but I just started washing the dishes. I wanted them cleaned and made a sly comment about working 9-6 and doing this..she got pissed (of course) because she has a neighborhood responsibility she h…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:25 PM
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posting naked pics of yourself online isn't counter dread game (plus she has a post history of previous pics). Who knows if the BF is even aware of it. She shows her face, so I assume he does.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:19 PM
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I sincerely don't know what flair to use here, lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 03:36 PM
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maybe he was calm enough to not hurt her?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:02 AM
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Was in line at wdoba today. A smoking 8 was in front of me. I had just got done working out. She looked back at me when I came in the door (line was huge so I had to wait by the door). Unfortunately she never looked back again (interest) or I would have started small talk.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 02:03 AM
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Some here will claim you were bp for arguing etc.. I don't
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 01:56 AM
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I have tried mucana pruiens or whatever. I think you need like 50% ldopa for it to be worth a damn.
/r/askTRP28/06/14 12:31 AM
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Gotcha. Well like I said I am good for one solid round. I bought some liquid Viagra online but I have never timed it correctly with a second round...plus refractory has more to do with desire which mine drops after orgasm.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 06:15 PM
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Performance isn't a problem for me. I mean, I have gone 3 min before, but I have gone 1+ hrs. Sometimes I outlast her, sometimes she outlasts me (and of course these times, she wants a round #2...but my dick ain't having it). But most of the time, my one and only round lasts a good time.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 05:25 PM
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Which is why the contract she would sign at the door would say "By entering this home, you acknowledge and consent that anything that happens in this home is under video surveillance..."
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:24 PM
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That is a GREAT point...we have this nation of teenagers and tweens who live in a completely different technological age then we or our parents had to (I say we, because I am already in my 30's)...at the same time, people have access to SO much in terms of health, beauty, fitness, information, etc... to keep themselves looking youthful and younger despite their age. Part of that is staying away from the hard partying, no drinking, no smoking, etc.. I am lucky as I have chosen to stray from that …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:59 PM
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If you are having sex in YOUR home, and you have cameras rolling throughout the house, do people who enter YOUR home need to be aware you have cameras, especially if you have sex? From a legal perspective?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:56 PM
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Can u elaborate on why? I need to reverse me.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 03:16 PM
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I am not following. I would think women would be jumping on the marriage train FASTER then they do now...but at the same time, if that was 'the law', men would be saying NO faster then ever.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:31 PM
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holy fucking shit... I am slightly hypocritical because I think my wife, to a degree, is an intimate terrorist, but that guy needs to fucking LEAVE HER ASS.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:30 PM
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Dude eats super clean too (if I had a personal chef, I would too)...I remember an article once where he considered a Kobe beef burger or something 'dirty' HAHA.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:22 PM
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Her: Lets go out this weekend. Me: Nope, I have to study, but I can make plans for the weekend afterwards. Her: We should head over to the theme park. Me: I don't like that Idea, we are going to have some family fun and have a picnic at the park and then maybe head over to the mall afterwards. Her: oh ok. (her smiling) Just curious, was it you really didn't want to go to the theme park, or you wanted to set an example that you wanted to drive the conversation? I am only asking because I am curio…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:46 PM
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why the fuck do you have -9 points? You posted an opinion that isn't inaccurate. I agree...some pics she looks great, other pics I am like "wtf".
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:40 PM
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Forgot he has videos throughout his home
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 11:35 AM
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just on the gym piece, focus on long term. If you go into every workout session thinking "go harder then before" you are going to burn yourself the fuck out. I do a periodization plan where I don't end my day feeling exhausted. I do enough sets/reps and the fact it grows as the weeks go on, that it gives my body still the chance to recover properly but the biggest problem newbs get in the gym is feeling like they need to burn themselves out on every rep and set in order to maximize gains..and th…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:08 AM
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Delirious and Raw are by far 2 of the best comedy shows that have ever existed.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:02 AM
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50-Cent makes every woman who enters his home sign a contract, lol. Alpha as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:41 AM
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Fuck that is right on the money. Even the most beta boy wants to feel he is worthy of his SO's affection, attention, and desire.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:20 AM
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I have a question. How do women KNOW how and when to do this shit. I realize most of it is on a subsconscious level..but at no point in my day am I thinking "how can I ruin my wifes day", "how can I give her some shit she doesn't deserve", "how can I make her feel like a piece of shit today". ?????
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:16 AM
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UGH. See, I want the validation from her, but I don't give a fuck if I get it or not in terms of my personal goals. I want to get myself to the point where girls eyeball fuck me in front of her and she notices. I want her to know other girls find me attractive and want me. Whether she ultimately wants me or not...oh well, but her insecurities won't change my goals.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 03:39 AM
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When you got with her, was your physique more or less established? In my case, I have gone from skinny fat to 'ripped' I guess, literally replaced the weight I was then, and I am the same weight now with a completely different physique. What always frustrated the fuck out of me, was 1. Not often getting validating compliments. I got the occasional, "your arms look nice" but that is it. 2. I was hoping if I was naked, she would want to jump me..I mean I am not a troll LOL, but that never happened…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:56 AM
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My back is my strong point as well. I excel in deadlifts, approaching 440lbs. My bench blows donkey nuts and my squat is alright.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:50 AM
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dude, you got some serious fucking mental issues. You have something shitty to say to every post I have. I am not a fucking troll. That is just how I talk online. And no, I have been lifting for 3+ years and very happy with my physique.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:49 AM
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So you get a bunch of positive, reinforcing, and eyebrow raising comments from your LTR chick?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:48 AM
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This is what girls these days wants...LMAO http://assets.nydailynews.com/polopoly_fs/1.1730655!/img/httpImage/image.jpg_gen/derivatives/article_970/bieber23n-5-web.jpg
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:45 AM
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To answer both you and /u/leodoestheopposite, I am quite fit several years into lifting, great looking physique, strong for my size...I am married to a long term girl so take that for what its worth...she has rarely complimented me. I have been involved in conversations with a couple anonymous women who saw my pics and said I was "hot and sexy as hell" and "you are gorgeous", but rarely have I gotten those compliments from the one person I pretty much care for it...so I was curious if it was a g…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 02:43 AM
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Is this mostly from plates?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 01:47 AM
2

My wife gives me this shit test all the time. "No wonder no body wants to hang around you" or "no wonder u don't have any friends". Which are both untrue and I get along great with most people. I admit I don't have close friends I chill with, as a married dude with kids that is actually quite difficult anyways...but she doesn't hang out with her friends either...mostly neighborhood moms who are well well well past the fucking wall.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:07 AM
1

Just to clarify OP, are you saying you raise to alpha and defer to beta as a form of manipulation? So deferring to beta and explaining wonderful interacts with kids is how you really feel and you are seriously pushing that feeling on her, or you are telling her what you think she wants to hear?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:04 PM
0

some will claim Eminem isn't alpha...but people will be listening to him into their 80's as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:03 PM
2

I have heard of people crying after a massage or seeing the chiropractor for exact same reasons.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 08:53 PM
2

I read high doses of b6 might help, but I have noticed headaches if I take too much of that.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 08:34 PM
6

for some women, the pleasure, etc... causes them an emotional release which can come through in the way of tears. Good you asked, doesn't necessarily always mean pain etc...
/r/askTRP26/06/14 07:40 PM
3

If you have low testosterone, changing your diet, getting fit, etc... "WILL" increase it, but only marginally. Most of those test boosters in a bottle are bullshit. If you have legit low test, first try to balance it out naturally with diet and exercise, but get a prescription if it is legit low.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 07:29 PM
9

I need to read this everyday for the next 2 years.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 01:57 PM
1

Oh I agree...they aren't going anywhere. I have a folder of save text screenshots I have taken if one day....
/r/askTRP26/06/14 01:32 PM
1

I agree...and here is some more to make sure this comment sticks :)
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:31 PM
2

whenever I leave a short comment in TRP, I get a notice from the TRP bot saying it was removed because it was too short
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:50 AM
2

why do you get to post short comments without them being removed :)
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:08 AM
-2

what? I am being serious, christ check my post history.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:49 AM
2

I did read an article recently how sex robots aren't too far off
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:49 AM
1

AH ok, that makes sense. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 12:52 AM
1

I mean we are on decent terms right now.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 12:01 AM
1

Yea, end well this may not..since it would be local to my area, right? So I don't really feel like explaining to potential people who know me why I am on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 11:57 PM
0

Its possible but my gut tells me no. Not being cocky but I don't see myself as an unattractive male. Chiseled face, strong lean physique, good smile, etc. But who knows.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 10:39 PM
1

Haha details man...details ;)
/r/askTRP25/06/14 09:55 PM
0

I could be more aloof then I think but I also think I subconciously made myself unavailable. I am attractive.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:59 PM
1

I chose the guest room. I voluntarily preferred it.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 08:58 PM
1

for us newbs, can you elaborate on why his reaction was a shit test?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:48 PM
2

How do you handle communication with someone (not a plate or random girl, but actual GF, wife, etc...) where you say "k" or "fine" and they rant "what, you won't give me an actual response? wtf?!?". And you respond with "its cool" and they keep going. Do you just stop or keep giving 1 word responses?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:45 PM
2

Funny, my wife has been giving me the "K" or "okay" or "fine" text responses in last few days.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:43 PM
19

No, she doesn't deserve that much of a response.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:42 PM
1

Yea, um married for 15 years..good looking dude, confident, I can count on 1 hand, minus 3 fingers, the amount of times I have been hit on in public. Maybe if I was going into situations with the intent to get hit on (alone at a bar, etc...) but I subconsciously have never put myself in situations where that might happen or I have intended for that to happen. Just pointing out wearing a fucking wedding ring doesn't dampen the pussies.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:39 PM
15

fwiw, the guy tried to kill himself before, had low libido and was fucking around with hormone replacement therapy, was depressed and dealing with financial stuff, and they had been split for 8 months. So yea, details are always left out or come out later apart of the sensationalized headline dragging A+ stars like Leo into the spotlight.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:37 PM
-5

I just posted this yesterday.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 07:35 PM
1

She likely got the text. I would say ignore and wait to see if she contacts you.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 07:16 PM
1

Lol. That won't happen.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:27 PM
1

don't ask a question you think you have the answer for. Does she have other FB activity going on, meaning she is just ignoring you and you know it? I would leave her alone, don't chat with her at all.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:14 PM
5

don't text her. If she reaches out, fine...otherwise if she asks why you aren't texting her, tell her you are fucking 2 other girls.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:13 PM
0

yup...like I have ever posted REAL info in this group about myself, haha.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:06 PM
2

haha, that was pretty funny.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:06 PM
-1

Nothing I said above was false or warped. I didn't state statistics nor say everyone does. I stated that people cheat on each other. Being alpha doesn't mean you won't get cheated on...and being beta doesn't mean you won't get cheated on...just as being beta doesn't mean you WILL get cheated on and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:48 PM
5

that is bullshit. That is over generalizing it. Stimulation of any kind can cause someone to get aroused or have an orgasm despite they don't want it. If a guy is tied up, and someone starts jerking him off...after enough time, even if he is limp for 30 min and hates it, he will eventually get off. You could jack him off with sandpaper...and he will eventually have an orgasm. Women who are legitimately being raped have stated they have received unwanted orgasms and they felt disgusted by it. You…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:46 PM
4

Hey Bro, let's look at this logically. I have read your other responses below about how "you" are the one who pushed "her" to cheat on your and how any women would have cheated on you. No, just no. A real women would have left you telling you she was no longer in love with you, THEN pursue other dick. But let's step back and look at this from your POV. Fine, you caused it...she fucked someone because of you. You aren't a real man. She didn't respect you. You weren't good enough for her because y…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 04:41 PM
-9

Fact: Girls will cheat on their beta husbands or bf's with an Alpha male. Fact: Girls will cheat on their alpha husbands or bf's with a beta male. Fact: Guys will cheat on their women. Fact: Guys and girls will cheat, be deceptive, lie, steal, etc... because they are selfish and human. Fact: The point of bettering yourself, creating better social circles, and being 'alpha' is to simply cast a wider net, that is it. You will statistically be at an advantage in society being an alpha male from a c…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:26 PM
1

genetics play a role...but shit takes time man....it has taken me several years and my arms and legs are JUST NOW starting to fill out better.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:15 PM
1

ugh...those kinds of descriptions make me sad...so sad. and how this girl was even attracted to him in the first place....
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:00 PM
-9

Like I said, I was making a general statement about rape, not this particular women's situation.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:53 PM
1

My wife and I who have been together since HS are each others first and only. I remember we had sex for the first time when we were 17. A couple weeks later I turned 18. According to the courts I pretty much raped her for several months i bet, despite every single encounter has always been consensual. Yea, there is 'rape' and then there is "RAPE". Then, you have rape fantasies where it is rape, but not really and you basically need a safe word in place to get around the whole thing, and even the…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:51 PM
4

that is an impressive analysis! So...in groups like what you described, is it better to leave and form a different pack...where YOU are the alpha of the group? I am curious if OP thinks he is alpha of this group?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:47 PM
5

Was this show on tv? Oh it was...then it was 99.9% fake / scripted :) That show is entertaining to watch, because of how fucking fake it is. I want to punch Patti in the face she is beyond annoying. The simple fact she has a business to match up hypergamous girls directly with someone who can provide them a better financial life is mind blowing. It should be called Hypergamous Matchmaker.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:43 PM
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The one thing about 'rape' that IS confusing, as a man....is it is possible for women to not want sex, to be disgusted, and still cum from it. Having an orgasm from the act doesn't necessarily mean consent (I am talking in general, not this womans actually story). Just wanted to point it out, I do understand and I agree with some guys pushing things too far with a woman, and just because she doesn't fight back and has an orgasm doesn't mean it was ok and she consented. Just my 2 cents.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:37 PM
5

her mental wheels are spinning (hamster) and validating / rationalizing her behavior by making sense of it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:34 PM
1

thanks for the clarification. why guys enjoy being cuckolded is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:25 PM
0

In her head, she is having some 'fun' without really 'cheating' but you keep finding ways to break her wall down and get her to 'cheat'. I would say back off unless you get off on taking girls from their boyfriends...if so, have at it. I know I am new to TRP , Seduction, etc... hell I am married and have been with 1 girl my whole life, but there is something 'strange' (I am just not used to it) to this idea that people are taken, but they want to keep taking a hammer to a concrete wall hoping to…
/r/trpGAME25/06/14 01:48 PM
2

women want a guy who is confident and is comfortable in his own skin. Even if you went out with brad pitt, if you can hold your own frame and be in your own world..it would work just fine.
/r/askTRP25/06/14 04:54 AM
1

Ok I am 99% sure. It's a marriage with issues, and have had ongoing issues for a while now, so this 'separation' wasn't out of the clear blue sky. At this point, I almost wished there was a guy...so I could clear conscious just cut it off lol
/r/askTRP25/06/14 03:53 AM
1

see my response above. Don't worry about weight right now...get used to the motions, feeling the tension, feeling the balance, and getting over this pain period. Also, don't do 2 upper body workouts back to back. If you workout tomorrow, do legs / lower body.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:58 AM
3

Eh...you "started" yesterday...you simply overdid it. If there was one piece of advice I would give ANYONE new to lifting..it would be spend 2-4 weeks lifting moderate / light weights, working on form, etc.. and forget particular sets / rep ranges. Get your body and muscles USED to the motion, to filling with blood, to getting used. Even a light workout on day #1 will cause pain the next day. Worry about higher intensity after like a month of just going to the gym a few days a week, focused on a…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:57 AM
10

Yea, I don't like people in here calling beta's out who are clearly not knowledgable of the different mindset they COULD be taking. I was the same way at one point. Making the guy feel like a loser (like OP did) isn't the right tatic IMHO...it should be something most of us can relate too. It's like being abused as a child, growing up and having your own children..going to the grocery store and seeing some parent wacking away on their kid...a deep seeded anger builds up and you want to tell that…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:26 AM
0

Just saw this: http://www.tmz.com/videos/0_vtbg2hpx yea, he is clearly beta material compared to that other guy
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:23 PM
1

like he is going to tell him though. I doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:17 PM
6

that was the crux of my deadbedroom situation (still is)...if I push for sex, I will get it, but I was tired of initiating. I wanted her to come to me. Initiate with me. WANT to do stuff TO ME. Have a DESIRE to want to pleasure ME.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 10:10 PM
3

Or his own family, etc.. suicide is often a very selfish act. I undertand why..I have been close to it myself, but how my family would react/feel keeps me from doing it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:34 PM
2

you don't and you won't. I guess the point is...if your confidence is shaky at this point, you don't trust her. Not every girl who goes out with her friends is in the bathroom taking it up the ass and deep throating 10 cocks one after another. Some girls really do go out dancing with their friends (sometimes maybe they feel pressured to go) and go back home to their husbands or boyfriends. Not every girl is a royal cum dumpster slut like TRP makes them out to be. And others have said, girls are …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:33 PM
1

Ask her if "she wants the D?". If she says "yes" and knows what you are talking about then boom, free sex. If she says no, hand her a menu to Dennys and tell her that is the D.
/r/trpGAME24/06/14 09:02 PM
1

I lost it at that phrase myself
/r/trpGAME24/06/14 09:00 PM
1

Yea dude...it's over. Let her go, move on...keep hitting the gym, and bettering yourself.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 08:56 PM
1

What do they say...fake it till u make it?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 08:41 PM
2

What he meant was, act cool...but if any of those things above happened, CYA! By acting cool, you are showing you don't give a fuck (to a degree) of her going out...and if you disagree with her even wanting to, you can make a brief mention of that behavior is uncool given she is taken, and if she still wants to go out..you start your plans of an exit..AND if she follows through with anything stupid, you are out.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 08:07 PM
3

Dude....is there zero loyalty to this guy who you got her hooked up with? Basically calling her out on her shit, then going right ahead and sticking your middle finger to this guy while you plow his gf. Dafuq dude.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 08:05 PM
1

I do intermittent fasting /r/leangains - I eat my first meal at 1pm everyday, workout before. I am getting bigger and stronger. Most of what is in fitness today, nutrition wise, is complete bullshit...no carbs at night, must have breakfast, blah blah blah. Figure out your macros (protein, carbs, fats), hit those numbers based on your goals, and you will do fine. I do IIFYM...allows one to enjoy fun foods without restricting themselves too hard.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 07:53 PM
0

I know it is far and few between...but if you are beta and give a girl some $10k bracelet...I imagine crotch is pretty fucking damp.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:45 PM
3

It is the same reason people are not willing to believe that our world, solar system, stars, planets, galaxies, etc.. have been around for billions of years...that they were all created in 7 days by a mythological invisible being 6000 years ago...despite all the science and evidence that is simply was not possible. People are blinded by their faith. Men are blinded by the idea you can treat a female like shit, and get MORE out of her, then if you are nice. People can't wrap their head around the…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:20 PM
0

Yea, I would say just cause you make a girls pussy drip doesn't mean you are alpha.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:16 PM
1

I deleted the post anyways.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:49 PM
1

looks like he made the vid private. That being said, SHE is the one leaving HIS house, so who is the loser in this?
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:28 PM
3

I have seen this in my own wife. I am not a partier, never have been so I don't feel like I "missed out" on much in my younger years in college. Not much of a drinker. A part of me does somewhat regret not trying out other women in my younger years, but I found a hot girl in HS, we stayed together, made a life together, had kids together, and are still together (for now), but several years ago when she was in her upper 20's, she and some of her girlfriends (some single, some married) were going …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:21 PM
2

I think for a lot of women it might not be intentional or its done on a subconscious level but they " have their mate now " so they don't have to try as hard. I am not sure most women upon getting married have a rational thought of "well time to stick it to him" I think it just happens because of evolution.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 01:10 PM
5

Haha I deserve that. Been drinking. Sorry.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 05:45 AM
0

Wife had a meeting at our house today. Her friend who has 4 kids was over...this chick looks BANGING for 4 kids. Not saying I would ever date her if she was single...but for 4 kids, you can't ask for a woman to have a more decent body and be in her early 30's. Anyways, she had on these yoga pants and looked pretty fucking hot. I am sure there is celluite going on behind the scenes...but her ass looked good. I could see myself saying "your friends ass looked hot" but that would have been the wron…
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:50 AM
1

HAHAHHAHAHAHA I just watched this fucking video. I don't know the context, but it's weird he is filming this shit, and she is cool with it. The guy used to do gay 4 pay.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 04:47 AM
-1

"gather intel on us". Wow. I mean this sub isn't exactly like private, so any info they want to gather wouldn't be "detrimental" to the cause given they can find what they need for "damage" across the several related groups.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:12 AM
-1

It just seemed nice to have a single thread of HYPOTHETICAL scenarios and how people might handle them. If you don't want to participate, don't.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 03:55 AM
1

I suspect there are a lot more guys who have red pill qualities or show red bill behavior in their relationships that they don't realize because they have no clue about red pill in general or it is masked for some reason. Most men have a dominant side, it lays dormant in so.e people though or only comes through in glimpses.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:05 AM
1

This makes sense. Lucky for me she is a multi summer and comes quick, but there are times she just wants to fuck / quickie knowing she might only get 1. And yes, to her getting 1 is probably barely satisfying as an avg girl who gets no orgasm. Too bad we barely fuck anymore though. And yes..hair pulling is a big deal. And fuck that "make love" bullshit...dominate the fuck out of her..doesnt have to be bdsm style but firm, controlled, u own her body type of way
/r/askTRP24/06/14 02:01 AM
0

The title is I can't fucking type on my mobile phone rated pg-13 ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:12 AM
1

I have always used logic in my discussions and arguments. Doesn't mean it always matters or works, but as a rational human being it blows my mind how people can succumb to group thing and just believe what they hear. Its one reason in recent years I have stopped believing in religion the way the bible or other organized religions explain it. I have become a big believer in science, the universe, etc because logically it all makes sense. People are going to suck and fuck each other, have affairs,…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:11 AM
1

I am not "big" but for my size and weight, I consider myself strong. 170lbs bodyweight but almost in the 1000 club after 3 years of training. I don't want to be "big" I like being strong, flexible, and functional. I have what I consider a healthy lean muscular beach body which IMHO casts the widest net for girls versus the skinny emo phaggot (no hate) or the bulky meat head.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:52 PM
-2

I downloaded don't Jon but haven't watched it yet. Maybe tonight!. Obviously fight club is one but curious myself of others.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:46 PM
2

Isn't asking her to not do x a beta request?
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:13 PM
1

My strength vs hers isn't even a question on the table. So not sure a similar threat would even make a dent (as I have said something similar in the past including the most recent (u lay a hand on me again I am filing charges)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:09 PM
1

HA NSFW, will watch later. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:50 PM
2

too much to get into...alcohol is usually involved.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:37 PM
12

in all honesty, he probably was a closet homosexual. It is what it is, but to make several gay references, to be submissive the way he is, etc.. You could have tested that theory..looked him dead in the eye and say "I will give you $50 to suck my dick in the bathroom" he probably would have said yes. I am kidding of course
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:33 PM
2

Dude, yes. It's only been over a month, but whether it's my wife, mother in law, girls in the office, etc.. I am recognizing the BS that spits out of their mouths. Wife and I got into an argument last night. I keep failing this goddamn shit test, by arguing, but there are points I HAVE to make, and I try to be as logical about it as possible. But even today, I wrote a text message re-explaining my position. She drinks too much, and I told her I will be done talking to her the rest of the night i…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:27 PM
1

I need to read said Models book. Thanks. Also, A LOT of the girls in their field reports seem drunk, at least that is my opinion. But, I will give RSD this...they know their shit, and it's not that they necessarily manipulate women, the women end up making their own decisions...and shows how easily they can be seduced. Sure, maybe they will steal girlfriends and wives, but you know what...those women CHOSE to do it. They weren't raped or forced. They can say no no no, but they don't...they let h…
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:22 PM
2

our arguments have gotten physical...moreso in she comes at me, and I defend myself and/or I have to grab and hold her. I have left bruises, from the holding, and I feel like shit..yet I am like goddamn superman and despite being hit, never have marks on me or bruises. what the fuck. Now, I just keep my distance and get behind furniture if I "think" she might escalate an argument where I can even envision her wanting to hit me. I will just say "keep your distance" because it is so fucked up in o…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:20 PM
1

Watching his FREE TOUR videos, he sometimes reiterates the same story across different videos. He is a blunt guy, and I like that, but I feel he was burned in his younger years by some girls he really liked and that probably forged his attitude toward them going forward. I am a Red Pill guy (only recently) and much of what I have read...I am finding I agree with, so how I view women now is in a much more negative light then I used to...going off personal experiences and realizing I have been tak…
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:04 PM
1

wonder how often THAT happens...some foreign tourist comes in..swoops a thai girl off her feet and back into America. If that is there thought process...probably happens more then people think I guess.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:08 PM
1

OP, please be safe. OP please don't be Stu! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aaMOC35DXYg
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:05 PM
1

Do they go crazy for YOU, or crazy for your MONEY????
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:03 PM
1

check for adams apples....mmmkay.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:02 PM
8

First...forget about her being the fucking holy grail bro. That is beta and developing oneitus before even getting with her. You might "get" with her and realize behind the scenes, she is a different person. From everything I gather in these groups, you have to get her to come to you...not the other way around, or you are giving her the validation which if she is as pretty as she is...she gets it CONSTANTLY from guys. Others will have better advice, but DO NOT go into this looking at her as a fu…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 04:53 PM
15

what are the chances all 3 kids are by 3 different fathers? Though she could be recently divorced or something.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:08 PM
2

there are times I would love to put my SO through a god damn wall, but obviously wouldn't do it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:06 PM
1

Jesus.H.Fucking.Christ. is right. Wow dude..glad you are able to move on. That kind of trauma would have sent many a man to the suicide desk.
/r/seduction23/06/14 03:23 AM
1

make sure you don't have a deviated septum. Serious.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:19 AM
2

For the most part, 6 packs are made in the kitchen. It's all about a low enough bodyfat. If you are low bodyfat, and still don't have a 6 pack looking good, it's because your core isn't strong enough or you haven't thickened up the abdominal muscles. In all honesty, hit some heavy weights. Squats and deadlifts alone, over time, force your core to get strong. But hell, I am 170lbs, 5ft 11, doing over 400 on a deadlift and 330 on a squat, and I will follow it up with 15 reps of decline situps with…
/r/becomeaman23/06/14 03:17 AM
1

Get out of bed 7:30. Shower if I didnt the night before. Hair, deodorant, cologne..pack my lunch, pack my preworkout for my noon lifting session, paxk my 50g protein powder for post lifting. Leave for work 8:30. Keep it simple :)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 12:34 AM
2

Just read a good article. Does sound like u increase your risk for heart attack or storms due to higher blood pressure.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 08:07 PM
1

I don't get much validation from the wife, so yes validation from others "is" helpful and helps my confidence...if not simply and indicator I am doing something right.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 08:00 PM
1

This. Stage ready bros are 4-6% at 200lbs and are not common.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 07:54 PM
2

Can u elaborate how u implement your eca stack?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 07:52 PM
1

Peacocking as in following my kids around so they don't get lost or leave my field of vision? OK.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:10 PM
2

Oh I hear you. I workout for me fwiw, bettering myself.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:08 PM
2

If you are 180 with low body fat and muscle...you aren't skinny ;) I bet you have an awesome physique. 50lb gain I bet is nice. Graduated HS at 150lbs, was around 160-165 in college, ballooned to 180 in 2006 while working, then took lifting seriously a few years ago and more or less replaced 173lbs skinny fat with where I am now. Unfortunately if I go above 175lbs I look soft and gross (in my eyes) and below 165 I look tiny. Without drugs at my age (and hormonal levels) its hard to gain good mas…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:07 PM
1

God damn...I need a good filet. Haven't had one in a while!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 04:31 AM
1

what is her reasoning? Did she give one?
/r/askTRP22/06/14 04:30 AM
5

So this huge guy who had his hand down her ass pocket...was completely cool with you wisking this girl off and him "being her ride" was cool with her going off to suck and fuck you sideways in a car? /r/thathappened
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 04:08 AM
4

LMAO. Touche sir...touche. I completely pulled the numbers out of my ass, but you hopefully got my point that for someone who has a nice physique, it is easy to look around and realize most of the 20-40 year old men don't look that great (especially ones that are dads). I saw some teenagers with low bf%, but not big in the muscle department. Maybe 3 guys who were "built" muscle wise, but out of my wall of text..just look good, look well above avg (even if you have the face of someone who had a l…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 03:22 AM
2

Have you gotten with this chick yet?
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:51 AM
2

This sounds like so much fucking fun. The idea of being a "boy toy" for even one night, assuming you have goods and women actually want you, sounds fucking exciting. And sorry, I can't help but think about this scene from White Chicks..fucking hilarious https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUoQKDmq52c
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:49 AM
3

Dude, that is GREAT to hear. Keep up the amazing efforts! That is the frustrating part even in a relationship..I always expected my wife to be like "wow, you look amazing, so much better then before" but she has literally watched me everyday, so each new day is the new "me" so she doesn't get to appreciate the old vs the new, unless she sees a pic. I get more compliments from guys at work then anything...which btw is a BIG FUCKING DEAL IMHO, because when you are looked at as "the fit guy" or "th…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:44 AM
2

It's the shit man. Blows my mind when you hear someone say "well my macros are "X,Y,Z" and I hit them all, but I have 400 more calories left. Like...what? That is the problem with some online calorie calculators like Myfitnesspal, some user entered data is screwed up, so just cause you enter the macros, they still let you enter your own calories I believe.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:40 AM
3

HAHAHAH. Well I just watched Bad Neighbors last night (good movie btw) but just saying he and I have similar body structures.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 02:08 AM
1

Ha well this was for my kids..and I agree been told I have nice delta. I am genetically blessed to have a good "shape" just a matter of packing on that muscle and lowering the body fat to reveal it all.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:02 AM
1

The bench is almost an isolation exercise though. Squat and deadlifts recruit so many major muscles so progress is easier on those.
/r/askTRP21/06/14 07:51 PM
1

I've been with my girlfriend for 9 years. We agreed from the start we'll never marry, not even live together. So she is a plate? I don't understand the rationale behind choosing to spend so many years with someone with almost zero commitment. Do you two still pay dutch when on dates?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 03:49 PM
1

Well for me, I make the 100k she makes nothing because she takes care of our kids. Its an agreement we mutually accepted because the cost of daycare would have wiped our her salary alone. I am not bitter she is t working...she is doing a difficult job that pays $0. I choose to handle the bills and expenses not make her suffer just cause she brings no money to the table...she is doing a job "I do not" want to do everyday single day.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 02:58 PM
1

Wow your deadlift is sick compared to your other lifts. We have similar deadlifts, similar squat but my bench is 235. I am 170lbs.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 10:58 PM
5

as much as I bitch about my marriage with my wife, I do feel very fortunate at least many of our decisions in life, for our kids, our home, etc.. have been mutually agreed upon, and she isn't milking our checking account for her own selfish needs. I keep a very close eye on our budget and we don't make a ton of frivolous purchases. She buys shit with her allowance (as I have one as well) and can spend it how she chooses. Everything else is meant for bills, utilities, etc... and because we have c…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:45 PM
3

Well in my case, it doesn't matter. I am in my 30's and have been married for almost 15 years, so I have already run the gamut in terms of buying a home, having kids, etc... I am just saying some guys WANT similar things for their future as a woman, and that it is not always a woman yanking the strings. I know plenty of guys, who even single, do a lot of things to their home (furniture, painting, decorations, etc... that you normally would expect a woman to do but they do it because they own the…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 08:42 PM
0

How many men are really out there picking out furniture for a room that's not for a "man cave"? How many men are buying 2+ bedroom houses on their own accord? Eh, if you have a family, those things are ok. But if it is just 2 people who are "thinking" about a family, minimal is perfectly acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:57 PM
1

In my particular case, I did it because I thought it's what families did, but I wanted to further my family unit, not just her. But I agree, if you aren't married, yea, why invest that much unless YOU want to. If she recommends it, and you think its a good idea, then it is a mutual decision.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 07:13 PM
5

You have a combined income of 100-150k. Your wife wants to buy a house in a nice neighborhood, furnish that house, have cable TV, nice cell phones, go out to eat once a week, go out for drinks with the girls once a month, and when you finally come up for air to do the math, you realize that you’re supporting your wife. Just want to point out, for MANY couples, these are mutual decisions, not just HER wanting shit. WE bought a house together. WE furnished it. WE got cable tv, cell phones, etc... …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:31 PM
12

Since you have never lifted, you need to build a foundation first. At your height and weight, you are a bean pole. Go download the PDF "Starting Strength", you should be able to find it if you look hard enough (maybe use a torrent..or hell, I have it I can always throw it up somewhere). But it will start you off on a program of squats, deadlifts, and bench. It is considered a 5 x 5 program. 5 sets of 5 reps, usually at a specific weight that you will slowly increment as weeks go by. Your first 1…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:24 PM
7

care to share said "nutella" line?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:50 PM
10

Another reason why we need a married / LTR flair or. RedpillLTR sub
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:55 PM
1

I had never seen that before. Mind blown.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:51 AM
12

Yea, fuck the boyfriend/husband feelings...you know a guy wanting to spend time with his woman who is never home from what it sounds. There is always 2 sides to every story, doesn't make him a beta..makes him a human being. Also, where in that conversation did she offer you sex? What context is this conversation taking place? Facebook? Text messaging? Tinder? OK Cupid? what?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 05:45 AM
-1

not really, sex has always been great when we did it. She cums multiple times, sex lasts, we are both kinky..so I have no complaints. I wished she did a few extra things, but I have never been unhappy. Just marriage has its downs..and during the downs, we don't have sex.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:39 AM
-1

Exactly. I tried all the jelqing, etc.. in the past. I am sure it might add a little size, but I never stuck with it. I am happy with what I got and have been told my several ladies (online) that its huge...take it for what its worth. I believe 5" girth is slightly above average, but 8" length is definitely well above.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 02:38 AM
-1

Don't let porn ruin your expectations. 6x5 is still a good size. I am close to 2" across, its just not vertically deep/tall if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 01:25 AM
1

This is where you put overtime in to find a solution for the client and save face for the company. Bosses tend to realize mistakes happen and if you recognize your mistake and do "whatever it takes" to get a solution, that means more
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:24 AM
-2

To answer the OP's question honestly...I think I am a 7-8/10. Naked, maybe an 8-9 because I am hung too (8x5), lean muscular physique, I am charming, confident, get along with tons of people...but u know what...been married for 15 years, been with 1 person my whole life (and she is an 8/10 though after a couple of kids she has smaller tits and some loose lower belly skin and some stretch marks but still very hot to me), and she barely fucks me...so honestly looks don't fucking matter. Do I think…
/r/askTRP20/06/14 12:12 AM
3

ACTUALLY, turns out they did that lol https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ve46peMWU5w
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:44 PM
1

This was him trying to get a gold digger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iyeUcFKRv4
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:42 PM
0

actually, he is quite popular...especially if he lives in that area I am sure people recognize him.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:40 PM
2

HAHA, every comment on FB has some brazzers logo, or a screenshot of when he struggled in that van. hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 07:01 PM
23

I just love how every response is "I don't know you...I'm not getting in your car......you seriously want me to get in your car........I shouldn't be doing this..........gets in". hamstering
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 07:00 PM
4

Um, how do you know she ONLY fucked this girl? It could very well have been a threesome, and she is able to use this "HOT" girl as a front to actually cheating on you, which she likely did. That or she is looking for your approval to do something she wants to do anyways...a get out of jail free card. Have other girls been in her life, in a sexual way, while you two have been together before? If not, and she is some other country away...she is doing it anyways, so if I were you I would dump her..…
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:49 PM
2

I would get such a raging hardon if my SO and I could go to cosplay together. That would be so much fucking fun.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:46 PM
2

Get over it. This was something she did before she met you, continued to do it while she was with you (so you basically were cool with it from the get go), and as long as you are shagging that pussy and making her realize what you have at home, you should have no worries, and if she fucks up and sucks/fucks a beta orbiter...well you at least you know she was willing to do that and you can let her go.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:45 PM
1

To your first example, absolutely not. Sounds like a typical couple who want to raise a family and provide the best they can for that family. A man, and a reasonable female, should always want to keep pushing forward in their lives and make it better, whether that is making more money, trying to save / live comfortably, etc.. So just because a couple is pushing to make more income doesn't make the woman in this case an auto-gold digger.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:37 PM
1

There is a solid reason why I got a vasectomy after 2 kids. Never, and I mean ever, will I bring a 3rd child into this world.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:34 PM
16

Is there any truth to the lesser attractive women are more open to sexual things which might gain the interest of an attractive man. Example, a hot guy might be with an 8/10, but she sucks horrible dick, doesn't do anal, etc... and he somehow, someway gets talking to a 5, who not only sucks dick, but deep throats, requests anal, swallows, etc... and so the guy settles for the lesser because she is more open and isn't as "locked down" sexually...as the 8/10 might have a mindset of "I am hot, I do…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:25 PM
1

holy shit that is a nice writeup...in fact it kind of goes against the typical PUA mentality of "just open open open open". I can see the open stuff maybe being necessary for someone who doesn't have "it all" going on for them, in terms of looks, body structure/style/physique, attractiveness, confidence, etc... but what you described seems to work for the guy who looks the part, who can set back and get noticed, as opposed to trying to get noticed. I have been with 1 woman my whole life, and the…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:16 PM
0

I have an older picture of me (pre working out, face is chubbier, etc..) and I think I look like a complete loser/dork. A friend of mine said I looked "intense" and someone he wouldn't want to fuck with...but now that I am stronger, ripped, and bigger, he really wouldn't want to fuck with me...LOL, despite I have never been in a fight my entire life.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:19 PM
3

No not that...but I notice when I am at the gym I am very focused and when I see my face in the mirror I don't look very approachable but I also am intense with my workouts and lifting...so conversation is the last thing on my mind.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:14 AM
0

Same boat and after all expenses are covered she gets x to spend freely how she wants, and I get x to do the same. They are similar amounts.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:05 AM
2

Yea but she is famous herself and doesn't need his money. Plus he embarrassed her on a national level. He knows he fucked up and was dropping essentially the emotional nuclear bomb in an effort to not lose her...but he probably would have been better off just leaving her alone.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:01 AM
2

God I feel so stupid but I am not understandng that chart. Can someone summarize.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:56 AM
0

So if I am grabbing my crotch during an entire conversation....????
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:53 AM
3

OP, just curious but do you feel girls tend to go for any particular race of guys at this particular club?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:06 AM
4

White guy here...when I don't smile I look intimidating as fuck..but not sure if in a great way.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:02 AM
1

Look at the RSD guys..they dress like slobs sometimes and get so much pussy
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:01 AM
1

I really do wonder if there are girls who seriously like to just dance with their girls and not deal with guys. Probably far and few between.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 01:47 AM
-1

never heard of sigma, but now that you say that....I am similar to this.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 04:58 PM
2

That last part, for me, is quite accurate. Being married, I don't have 'female friends', in the sense of hanging out with a female friend. I have female acquitenances whom I work with or my wife and I both know, or are friends of my wife. It would be quite the unique dynamic, IMHO, to have a woman 'friends' with me that I meet for coffee, shoot the shit, etc... and it is completely platonic with no sexual interest.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 04:57 PM
6

That last part, for me, is quite accurate. Being married, I don't have 'female friends', in the sense of hanging out with a female friend. I have female acquitenances whom I work with or my wife and I both know, or are friends of my wife. It would be quite the unique dynamic, IMHO, to have a woman 'friends' with me that I meet for coffee, shoot the shit, etc... and it is completely platonic with no sexual interest.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 04:57 PM
0

I 100% agree with you on the STD thing...though I made a post a while back and basically was told "STFU, contracting STD's at high rates is the media blowing shit out of proportion". But it honestly makes me wonder how many guys and girls out there really do have one. I wonder how many of the RP dudes in here, or the guys on /r/seduction have an STD.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 03:37 PM
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Not going to lie...I was taken into your story...it was a good read. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 03:25 PM
2

tell that to all the guys whose best friends fucked their girl
/r/askTRP18/06/14 01:19 AM
1

right now, the most important part for me, right now, is determining if I am going to be happier alone or with her (per another thread I had). The budget thing is the budget...finances are important and for our future.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 01:11 AM
1

No I didn't tell her that, but I can tell from her responses to me that its still in the back of her mind, but I never told her I "wasn't" doing it.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 11:13 PM
2

she is just computer illiterate. still baffles me...but she is a bit paranoid because she had some some shady shit in the past, so I put a keylogger on her computer and confirmed a few things. This was a while back, but I have tried to tell her I am not doing that kind of stuff anymore.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 09:53 PM
3

it was like pulling fucking teeth though.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 09:43 PM
3

Yea, as a MAN...you have got to learn how to use tools. Learn how to do your own shit. I have done some home repair stuff, change my own oil, etc... saves so much money.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:49 PM
0

I have tried to be sensitive about the topic and be soft, as well as other times more direct. I am attempting to get her using the same software so I don't have to ask.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 08:15 PM
1

I don't want to pinpoint but one of these 5 states (illinois, michigan, ohio, indiana, kentucky) :) The midwest in general really is a great place to live for a family. It might not be as "fun" as New York, Chicago, LA, Atlanta, etc.. but it is SO much more affordable to live.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:46 PM
1

Yea, but there are men who also, due to health, stress, etc... who are low libido themselves and don't fuck their wives, even their HOT wives who WANT sex. Coming from /r/deadbedrooms I have seen the story play out plenty of times..and just like men will find sex elsewhere if their wives aren't giving it up...wives will do the exact same thing.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:38 PM
3

Yea, I have heard women are just as kinky, or even moreso then men...they just are able to keep it on lock or FROM the men in her life. But yes, there ARE women who simply aren't very sexual, or do lose their sexual mojo after having kids.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:27 PM
7

I am on a 2.5% 5/1 arm and pay $950 / month, which I can do until 2018 when the arm ends. What sq ft do you get for $1000-1400? But, family of 4, even with that mortgage, a low 6 figure salary, and various expenses, utilities, etc... there isn't much to save as you would think.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:14 PM
9

fuck that shit. How much is an apartment?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:06 PM
3

Yea, she has things she needs to work on...same here, so hopefully we meet at a good point and can feel great about each other again.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:59 PM
12

what in the flying fuck? How do people acquire that much money IN SAVINGS???? what kind of home are you trying to puchase? Where I live, $175k got me a 2400 sq ft home in a beautiful safe neighorhood in the midwest. Spend $200k and you add 800-1000 sq feet in a basement.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:53 PM
2

Uh, yeah there's a reason for that. Actually, can you elaborate on why you said that?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:52 PM
3

yea...#5 is something I am working on. I have been quite bitter in recent months, and it seeps from me the moment I get home..because I know I am running into a deadbedroom, a wife that isn't passionate about me, etc.. despite, in my mind, I am doing good things for the family, my fitness/physique, etc.. but I need to just be a happier person and start being grateful for what I have in my life, and start focusing on more positive aspects in my marriage to help rebuilt it. Bitching, moaning, bein…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:51 PM
57

Yea, it really is fucking retarded one has to download ebooks, read all the links on sidebar Reddit pages, visit 10 blogs, etc.. to get some idea of how to approach the modern woman in different venues, and realize calling her a "slut whore cunt bitch" to her face, makes her giggle and lets you fuck her in the bathroom stall. I am sure doing that in the 60's didn't fly very well.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:48 PM
23

jesus christ. My first home was $135k, and my second home was $174k. Fuck having a 500k+ home..fuck that shit right in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:45 PM
3

maybe he leads a RP lifestyle. Who knows.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:42 PM
0

19 and made it clear that she will have no sexual contact of any kind until marriage Let's see how that plays out when she is graduating from college at 23, after taking on several gangbangs and her sexual count is near 20+. But...her beta bux BF turned fiance will only hear how she has had sex with 3 guys in her life.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:12 PM
2

All Brad Pitt would have to fucking do, is walk into a club/bar, etc.. and without saying a fucking word, look at a girl, pull his glasses off, point at her, give a "come hither motion" turn around and walk out of the place and she would follow him straight into his hotel room. I bet Brad Pitt could fuck 10 women in 5 days without even saying a word to them.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 05:59 PM
4

there have been a few times my wife will start getting upset and even crying (this was years ago) about some of the dumbest shit...like shit a human being shouldn't be upset about...and after a while I would just start laughing, and she would get PISSED that I was laughing at her. And I would tell her "I am not laughing AT YOU, I am laughing at the fact you are reacting to xyz the way you are". That never ended well for me, lol.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 05:57 PM
0

yea but was he at the time of this taping?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:15 PM
2

That being said..."some" women really do struggle hormonally after child birth..guess it depends if the lack of sex is 6 months after or 2 years.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:34 PM
2

yea, but friends "shouldn't" hit on other friends that are in relationships.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 02:12 PM
3

hmmm....keep your spidey senses up if I were you.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 02:11 PM
2

Here is a screenshot of some comments that I thought was interesting, especially from 'Christin', sounds like a RP woman - http://imgur.com/x8PCVUI I don't think the suggestions are 'bad' but they do seem to drive down the 'typical' BP type responses. I also love the comments of "OR...she is cheating on you", lol
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 02:03 PM
8

That is awesome. Glad you have made a change within a year...gives me hope :) I laughed at this part Adjusted into a style that was very James Dean. Neat hair, stubble at times, leather jackets, and black tees. I dress like the terminator at times, but it makes me personally feel badass. So that 90's look still works, huh? :)
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 01:53 PM
4

I call bullshit. If someone goes into the ER with their head looking liking that, no doctor or nurse is going to laugh in your face. I know nurses, no fucking way is this story as accurate as the OP made it sound.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 01:46 PM
2

Thanks bro. Yea I have mentioned my fitness is for me, nobody else. Good advice.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:02 PM
1

yea that guy is a fucking beast!
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 05:21 AM
1

Oh I 100% agree. Like I have mentioned, I know I have things I Need to fix in myself..and that isn't because she is complaining about them. She has mentioned them, but I have independetly looked at that and have agreed as it is something I don't like in myself. And she knows she has things about her that have to change (aka, my conditions). As long as I can work on myself, and she can work on her self..and we are both 100% serious about it, I think we can resolve our issues. But I do want us on …
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:29 AM
1

It's a mutual decision. Based on the facts on the table, and the fact we are each others first, we have been together since HS, I have been close to her family for the same amount of time, we have children, and outside of our marriage specifically we have had a good life together, I trust this time isn't her planning her exit plan, getting lawyers (no money), etc.. plus we are splitting time with the kids right now. I know it is hard to understand, but I do understand everything going on right n…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 04:11 AM
1

it feels like sand!
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 04:00 AM
1

fwiw, not referring to anything going on in my life..was thinking about TRP and the question randomly popped into my head..and sure enough had to rush off and ask the internet :)
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 03:54 AM
1

let me make this crystal clear. She isn't cheating on me, and she isn't hooking up with any guys. She is staying the evenings at her parents, and the days with our kids. We are giving each other respective 'space' to give us a taste of what being single parents is likely going to be like should we go through with a divorce. This isn't an issue of her getting dick on the side, this is an issue of us repairing our marriage, and me determining how to proceed with RP principles during this circumsta…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:50 AM
1

she did...she had called her mom. Things are fine now, but it's a matter of what we want to do in 2-4 weeks depending on how the separation we go with is.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:12 AM
1

yes.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 03:11 AM
1

I am curious how guys in relationships feel if their SO is wanting them..I guess it matters on why. To boost self esteem / confidence, to get attraction from other people (aka, showing them off, etc..) or what. It seems like a fine line, the guy WITH the girl with smaller boobs might be eye fucking the girl he passes on the street with a larger chest, adding to the SO's insecurity..but then she gets them, and the guy gets protective thinking she might leave him, etc..
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 02:39 AM
1

that dudes brother died a few years ago, the wanna-be wrestler.
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 01:47 AM
1

I am of the opinion to go natty unless you have reached your natty limits and you are wanting to go further, and/or you are in competition. If you have low-t, then maybe get a prescription for that which will help strength, fat loss, etc... but you also have to be smart if you go with steroids as people cycle it, there is post-cycle you have to often do, and of course there are upsides and downsides to doing this.
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 01:47 AM
2

he needs to pick better friends. I know easier said then done, it sucks he doesn't have any good friends (neither do I), but sounds like if his "best" friend his willing to take a stab (no pun intended) at his best friends girl of a year...what is to stop him later, or even set you up for failure down the road Dude, your gf came onto me a year ago...I told her know but she was persistant..but I just didn't want to tell you. WTF, No hun, HE came onto me. This is bullshit, I would never do that to…
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:37 AM
1

Let me clarify. We had a huge blowout argument...it got physical. She went to her moms for the night, next day the 3 of us sat down to discuss out all the issues and put them on the table. All 3 of us agreed for a temporary timeout and worked out logistics. Her parents live close, and that is where she is..not out getting random dick on the side. I know that is the RP way of thinking, but in my case...I know where she is.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 01:26 AM
1

is that in response for me or just talking about yourself?
/r/TRPOffTopic17/06/14 01:23 AM
1

Trust me on this one. This was the result of a talk the 3 of us had.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 12:53 AM
1

HAHA, I am in my 30's, married 15 years to the girl I lost my virginity to (and I took hers)..I am just saying you are like living in a different world then me, that is all.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 11:07 PM
1

jesus christ I am a loser. You are 16, you randomly meet some girl in the lazy river and within an hour she was expecting to fuck? What am I doing with my life?????? I feel like that thought wouldn't even have crossed my mind...light flirting, etc.. and she up and leaves. mind blown.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:30 PM
0

maybe she is having a perverse lesbian encounter? I am joking.....or am I?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:07 PM
1

Today, I was lifting at the gym. There was this fit, semi-attractive girl in the squat rack next to me. Her squat form was impeccable. I always feel weird being next to a girl at the gym and simply "NOT" saying anything, especially if I am impressed with their lifting technique OR I think they are attractive OR both. After about 20 minutes, I pulled my earbuds out and made my way closer to her. I basically said "It's nice seeing someone actually using good form on their squat. Great job!". She g…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:05 PM
1

isn't the fucking point of Tinder to find people you want to fuck? HOw about, "isn't it inappropriate you are looking for random guys to fuck?"
/r/trpGAME16/06/14 09:00 PM
1

same. Damn that is awesome.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:09 PM
2

Julien is a lot "dirtier" in terms of his style I noticed. I love Tylers videos.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 08:08 PM
0

do you know for 100% fact the number IS the ex step daughter?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:56 PM
2

Bro, I discovered TRP a few weeks ago..and though some things were put into practice , etc.. I too realized how some of my behavior has been beta. On one hand, I was good enough to have a hot wife where the sex was amazing and gave me a couple wonderful children. We are the couple that people look up to, look great together, have known each other for 15 years, etc... but...we are seperated right now, and it sucks. Because if we go through with a divorce, almost all I have worked for, all WE have…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:52 PM
2

I whole heartedly agree with that. Thank you. I just want to become a better version of myself, and be so "great" she wants to be with and around me.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 07:13 PM
1

A girl I know once told me she HATES her ears kissed, anywhere she doesn't like it. My wife, though, loves it. If they say no ears...they might seriously hate it.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:45 PM
3

I know this is a sensitive topic for a lot of guys so I am not going to play the "get the fuck over it man, man up, blah blah blah". You said 4" erect. Girth? Girth makes up for length most of the time. But also...what is more important is stamina and other things you can do. Some women prefer a huge one, it is what it is...but the MAJORITY of women, if you are doing it right and making them cum, really don't give a shit. 4" is on the smaller side of the scale, but that doesn't mean useless eith…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 04:43 PM
1

Do you think she is fucking other guys too?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 02:47 PM
2

You don't need to learn how to fight if you know how to shoot a gun ;) just saying... ha If you asked her to leave him and be with you, do you think she would? And that being said, do you think she would cheat on you if you were the man she was going to marry?
/r/askTRP16/06/14 02:10 PM
1

My looks - I am a natural 6.5 with out make-up, and can pull it together to be an 8 with make-up and curling iron. I fall short of being a perfect 10 I don't have a ton to comment on about the rest of your post because other guys have commented with good info already, but I admit I laughed when I read that quote above. It is almost the equivalent of a girl asking a guy how big his dick is, and despite it being 5.75 inches, he tells her it is 6.5" when it is warm outside and he is really horny, a…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 02:08 PM
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Reading this shit just further solidifies that I am simply NOT a person who can plow someone who is already in a relationship, LET ALONE someone who is engaged. Let alone someone who IS married. Just a difficult mentality to wrap my head around. Plus the idea that each time you are together with that person, you are one step closer to the other person finding out and all hell breaking loose.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 01:58 PM
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Ok, I added a TLDR section.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 05:29 AM
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See an update: r/asktrp/comments/283wpe/chink_in_her_armor/
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:17 AM
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see an update r/asktrp/comments/283wpe/chink_in_her_armor/
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:16 AM
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See an update: r/asktrp/comments/283wpe/chink_in_her_armor/
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:16 AM
0

I intentionally don't friend random women. If they are friends, its because I likely know them in real life. I would think its weird if my wife had a ton of guys I didn't know (and neither did she) liking her shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:14 AM
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You would think....but nope. LOL.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:09 AM
1

Holy shit bro, I keep it super simple myself too. For 1, I am not a big drinker, so I think that helps with skin and face bloat. But 2. I used Cetaphil, and basic facial moisturizer. I have great skin.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:08 AM
1

Yea, I would have dropped her. Hopping on a guys lap, in front of you...wtf.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 05:02 AM
3

You know what scene I got teary eyed in? Man Of Steel when his father (SPOILERS!) dies in the tornado. Hit me hard. Then the end when he (SPOILERS) snaps Zods neck given the circumstances. I have got teary eyed in other movies too...shits ok man.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 03:20 AM
0

So just got a text from her (we haven't been talking, been staying out of each others business. She loves me, doesn't want a divorce, wants to grow old with me (bear in mind, we are each others first and high school sweethearts...15 years), but she gets mad..she knows I do and we are going through a hard time. I shouldn't have wrote back, but I said "love you to"...but not saying anything else. I still have trust issues, I kind of want to just go up to her and say "give me your phone" so I can s…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 03:15 AM
1

The threat of a divorce over a gdamn purse. Exit. Abort. Leave. Run. That is some mind blowing shit right there.
/r/askTRP14/06/14 01:38 AM
-1

We are both vehemently CF. HATE children. Can't stand them. From the comments. I always find it amusing when people say that...given THEY were a child at one point, lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 01:35 AM
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why would she post on the blue pill?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:03 PM
2

why do women (and men do it too) call these things "accidents". An Accident is fucking with a condom, pulling out and realizing it broke. An accident is driving down the highway, dodging an animal but hitting a car instead. An accident is working construction and having something break and having to repair it. VOLUNTARILY doing something and regretting the decision IS NOT AN ACCIDENT. FML.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 08:45 PM
0

Western culture is a game and they're playing with god mode on I am stealing this. Christ that is great!
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 08:24 PM
7

by a guy in Las Vegas who came in her mouth 3x Bro...you got it all wrong. She ran out of toothpaste, and upon going to the elevator, some guy was coming the opposite way and he had just used the bathroom and forgot to zip up his fly. He wasn't wearing underwear. Well...the girl just happened to trip on her robe, and clumsily stumbling. Unbeknownst to her, this guy had bent down to tie his shoe. Upon doing so, he semi erect penis had poked out between the fly. Before she knew it, she had fallen …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:59 PM
1

getting it out of their system is what they were doing until they find mr. beta bux. Just curious, ever follow up on them (FB, etc...) see how they look now?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:44 PM
1

Some men like that wall though. Some women, despite being 40, still look damn amazing (thank makeup). Saw this story today (granted it is gossip). http://imgur.com/DPQOSsU
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:30 PM
1

Yea I will definitely own it. Was freaking out for a while though.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:13 PM
1

the movie "This is 40" is quite telling to some of this.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:10 PM
1

what is fucking scary as hell, is for many people, 22 years old is there mid life. They are literally 50% through life before they die at 44. It's sad to think that, but it is reality. You don't care good care of yourself, your chances increase you will die in your 40's, 50's, 60's.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:09 PM
1

The older a woman is when she gets pregnant, yes the higher the risk of birth defects and/or health of the child, etc...
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:08 PM
4

please keep us updated OP...I thoroughly enjoyed reading your field report.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:06 PM
1

Now that I have opened my eyes and realized that my SMV will continue going up, and the women around me (my age) will continue going down...it gives me confidence actually should I move into the single realm at some point of being able to tell these women "no", in the sense "you aren't good enough for me, I can do better"...whereas my mentality a month ago would have been "jesus...I don't want to be single...I sure hope an attractive girl my age would actually be interested in me". It's a night …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:56 PM
1

The one aspect i hate already is i have some slight grey hairs in my facial hair and on the sides of my hair. They are trace amounts but annoy me. But my wife says she likes it and says i look more mature / distinguished. Not sure how girls in their 20s like it though?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:12 PM
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Can u elaborate on why she felt honored. My brain is slow today.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:57 PM
1

Oh i agree. Some people dont hit the genetic lottery. But i have had to bust my ass to improve myself. Not many men or women can just coast forever.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:56 PM
2

I don't regret getting married. Getting married for me to the person I love the most in this world (and I still do despite our crumbling empire) has brought me a lot of amazing things in my life, a couple wonderful children, has motivated / pushed me in my career to better myself, make a lot of money, provided my children an environment for her to be a stay at home mom and not let some other person raise them, etc... I think its poor to sometimes say "I regret this..I regret that" because you ca…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:30 PM
0

That makes perfect sense. Thanks for writing that out.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:12 PM
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Trust me man if I can save my marriage I will I still think my wife is hot as hell and then I am blessed 2 have been with her all these years and it and have the history that we do. Its very unique when I compare it to my peers. And my wife is a fucking 10 compare to any of the girls she hangs around with or knows. We are currently sleeping in different rooms.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:38 PM
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One day I hope to experience dread sex. I think however there are some women immune to it
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:01 PM
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What are most of the reasons a 20 something year old girl wants to have sex with a slightly older man? Is it because he ages well. Is it because they think he has more sexual experience therefore better in bed. More money and stability. Is there a slight daddy complex where the older man just simply turns her on more than someone her own age
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:56 PM
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Oh man almost all the guys and girls I knew from hs look like shit. Even girls that were smoking hot are now in their 30s and look nothing like their former selfs
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:49 PM
1

Wow. That is crazy..but good to know she thinks that. But even fat balding men going on business trips cheat all the time.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:47 PM
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I saw my co-workers wife tonight..and she isn't horrible looking a few years ago, but if I was a single guy, no way in fucking hell would I be hitting her up, even if I was shit faced...but tonight....holy shit. Granted, they are both in their 40's now, (I think). And one of her other friends, an asian chick used to be quite attractive (had a 'slight' thing for her, but the most recent pics...she is putting on weight, face is filling out) and I am just thinking "nope. nope. nope.". I know that s…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:11 AM
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I would respond with "Well, I like my job, I make good money, and I am not going to jeopardize my career because of your insecurity about this woman". Fuck I wish I would have said that to mine 10 years ago. Jesus christ.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 04:58 AM
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been together for 15 years, typical relationship...hardships and shit. shrugs. I've done some shit. She has done some shit (imho, I feel hers is worse). So trust is broken (has been for a while, just wasn't willing to really look at it). I don't want to lose the marriage..because I still love her, we are each others first, I know I have never cheated...I dont' "think" she has (physically at least) but we have built so much together, and the idea of tearing it all down, starting over, splitting, …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:13 AM
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Derp, I goofed and had the roles reversed when I wrote that.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:49 AM
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my point is, "picking" on anyone is a shitty and beta action to begin with. I don't name call anyone or try to intentionally point out things to damage their insecurities unless they truly deserve it. It's more of a stance I personally take, I just think it speaks poorly of my character to do such things.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 09:10 PM
2

People say stupid shit. You owned it and I will bet you $5000 you don't do it again.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:52 PM
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a guy bullied me in HS. about 5 years later I see him, and he willingly comes up and first thing he says is he is sorry for how he treated me. We became quite friendly after that (not friends though). He killed himself a couple years ago (unrelated to the bullying). Poor guy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:52 PM
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OWNING a mistake is a big big deal in life, especially in business. Too much finger pointing goes on, OR you are FORCED to apologize...which you see so often with celebrities or politicians. 3 days go by "I just want to say...I made some poor decisions and said some poor things, and I am deeply sorry for those I have offended", crowd cheers, people weep, all is forgiven. Fuck that. Own it the moment you realize it was a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:50 PM
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What you did wrong wasn't to pick on him, but to do so without proper calibration. You were not so much an attacker as you were the fanatical gym teacher who tries to make the fat wheezy kid run 5 miles the first day. You can lose weight, change your physique...if your face looks like you have downs, that is a feature of you and something you can't really change. Calling a girl out for small / big tits is fixable. Saying a guy has a small or big dick....they are who they are though you "could" d…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:47 PM
1

I have done the "turn her around, wrap arms around her and hold method hoping she tires out". I imagine doing that "shouldn't" leave marks/bruising but sometimes its better then putting your arms up to block something.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:25 PM
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I got punched in the jaw once by mine, closed fist...hurt like hell for 2 days, not one single bruise. I actually wanted there to be some evidence. Fwiw, I knew it was coming, I let it happen on purpose, and I never said one word. I finished what I was doing, got my keys and walked out of the house. Warned her later if she did it again, there would be charges.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:22 PM
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I marked this as blue pill example, but I don't necessarily feel that is accurate. We are all human beings, we have emotions, we care for our families, we care for our children whom we want to raise right, etc.. but I could see many in this group looking at every one of these examples as beta behavior. I think if you are a good father, you have done all of these.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:14 PM
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I applaud you for at least recognizing your drunken statement (sometimes the truth comes out when drunk, right?) was horribly timed and overall a dumb statement to begin with. The fact you feel guilt for it and want to apologize shows you have great character. The fact your friends and the girls thought he was a pussy and were GLAD you did is pretty pathetic. I agree, people need to man the fuck up and not be a sissy around other guys, despite what is said...but also, you don't know his history.…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:47 PM
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that makes sense. In my situation...I "know" without a doubt, I am the best thing for my wife, for our kids, hell we have built everything together, we are each others firsts, etc... sex is good (when we have it), I am sole income provider (sometimes 2 jobs) but make good money. We do have some trust issues, but big picture, I honestly don't think she would ever find someone "like" me (beta or not) or someone who could provide a more stable balanced household, especially for the kids. Unfortunat…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:36 PM
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My wife stays at home, watches our son, is pregnant with our next, and watches after our home. When I come home she's in heels, pearls, makeup, and a dress or skirt. She undoes my tie, sits on my lap, and we talk about our day. Every night a good dinner is on the table, and the house is clean. We have an active and regular sex life. I about shit myself when I read that part..then realized you were making an example (or maybe not...were you really describing your life?)..first thought I thought o…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:14 PM
1

That is fair. I was responding more from a relationship perspective I guess.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 05:53 PM
1

I am a guy who cares about 'feelings'. I am a guy who is an extrovert and enjoys talking..but I also know when to sit back, shut up, and just listen (especially in a professional environment). I will be out with friends and let people give their chance to talk, and then provide my 2 cents (which people often seem interested in hearing), but I sometimes like to use personal situations I have been in / experienced to get my points across. I have beta qualities (that I am working on removing some o…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 05:52 PM
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Exactly...I am not sure if it was RSD Tyler or someone else, but they used the analogy of stoneage days and the big strong motherfucker hunter who would bring back 2 huge furs and a bunch of meat, for the 7 hot women all huddled together having lesbian sex, and the other guy "steve" who killed a squirrel and his woman has to keep looking over at the other cave where the big strong guy and his 7 girls are eating meat, warm with fur, and how she wants to be a part of that. It's human nature / surv…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 05:10 PM
1

It was a joke, it was on fucking Jimmy Kimmel for christ sake. But, if there was any truth to it (in her mind) either Ashton will be a beta bitch, or their marriage will be over in a couple years.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 05:00 PM
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When I bought my car, I loved it..it was awesome...but I started seeing my car fucking EVERYWHERE! Even a friends car which is a Cube...unusual looking car, except I see it fucking everywhere now. When your eyes are open to something or you experience something new, you start seeing it everywhere. It's how the world and our brains work. It's probably an evolutionary / survival thing if we wanted to get down to it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 04:58 PM
0

I call bullshit on the comments...leader or not women are just as horny as guys and I hear / read all the time women "needing" sex from their man often and initiating it cause they are horny. RP or not I believe sex between 2 people who desire each other should just happen. If you are horny, show her/him attention and lead to it. Problem is in many LTRs the other gets complacent and initiating seems to be more one sided. Take away the initiation and suddenly you realize the other partner isn't a…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 04:30 PM
0

christ that was a depressing read. I know it's easy to paint all women with the same sized brush when reading something like that...but not all women are money hungry evil like that bitch.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:16 PM
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I love the Lonely Island. And I agree with the wife pussy part...jesus christ.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:08 PM
1

I am uncut. My kids were uncut when babies but due to a medical issue we had them cut. But wasn't our first choice.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 12:36 PM
3

have white knights come to her rescue yet? I haven't dug into this case very deep.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 12:07 AM
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Well the western "norm" is cut...so they might think going for the opposite of said question would be correct. Unless it was used as an additional question.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:27 PM
2

I am not even sure my SO was abused but your thread just described qualities of her. Grrr
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:23 PM
1

It was a phase her friends were into a few years ago. They have virtually all dispersed now so it doesn't happen. Last time my wife went out was more of a girls dinner thing.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 11:16 PM
0

A bj and sex are a bit different she can better describe a dick her mouth has been on
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:14 PM
2

or ask them to describe your erection. Some guys have a unique erection (veins, curve, size, etc...) so yea, would be awkward to prove that, but cheaper then a tattoo :)
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:50 PM
2

can you elaborate on dread game in this case, especially if he won't be there? Just like dealing with Girls Nights Out...don't text them, don't ask how they are, and when they get back don't even ask how their time was. Is that what you mean? Also, he is going to be gone at a party DJ'ing...that alone should put in HER head that he has opportunities himself.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 09:47 PM
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Or, they enjoy a bunch of Girls Nights Out when they are 30-35 because they have already had kids, but their 28 year old friends still haven't had kids and want to milk out as much fun before they jump into marriage and kids and your wife doesn't want to feel left out so she participates in said GNO's, participating in questionable behavior via bar hopping and clubs. Not that I have any personal experience dealing with that...or anything.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 09:35 PM
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Clubs are the worst place to meet women and the place to meet the worst women at their worst behavior. Just read that on ReturnOfKings in the comments. Hilarious and likely very true. Every video I see of RSD Tyler (or any of those guys) every women sounds shit faced. I would like to see some hidden DAY GAME footage of meeting girls in front of star bucks, a bistro, on the street, etc...
/r/askTRP11/06/14 09:33 PM
1

then continue to be a loser bro. good luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:31 PM
0

flush down toilet...OR add hot sauce inside them after coitus.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:29 PM
2

LOL. you are right. You would get called an asshole easily.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:37 PM
1

are the 20'something girls going to those patio bars? I assume so based on what you said..or maybe those particular 'types' of girls, less into the club / drunk scene, do.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 08:27 PM
1

I did no fap for 60 days. I hated it, because I got the opposiste results of what I thought. I found my erections decreased, to where morning wood didn't even happen. I rarely thought of sex, etc.. it felt like almost like self-chastity in a way and I said "fuck this" and returned to fapping 3-4x / week since sex wasn't happening. I am not a "multiple times" kind of guy..I need a recharge. Now that being said, I have heard when you are with someone new...that desire/passion is there and going a …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:10 PM
1

depends on context, but I disagree for the most part if a couple has built their life up "together" over a decade.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:03 PM
2

What has given me a glimmer of hope...was learning and understanding about "the wall". and how a guy who matures in a distinguished way, is fit and takes care of himself, stable, etc.. ULTIMATELY becomes a fucking babe magnet, whereas the women who matures, and her looks begin to fade may still rack in those with MILF fantasies, but certainly finds her pool of 'gems' much smaller. So given I do consider some qualities I have (despite not having all the RP ones yet) is "setting me up" for a poten…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 07:31 PM
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that makes sense. One woman in particular pointed out the TRP history in my profile and wouldn't provide me an answer. So I responded basically saying "By that logic, despite my question being completely legitimate, you would check a mans phone and his computer before considering going on a date with him". I got a LOL, k response.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 06:59 PM
3

DUDE, she did you a FUCKING FAVOR! I know that is a horrible way to possibily look at it, but what if you had found out 1 year further into the relationship? What if you had spent $5k more on her during that time. You know what you have going for you...YOU ARE YOUNG! You have so much time to not only improve yourself, but improve your outlook on life and relationships. Not all women are evil. Don't let a single woman ruin your life or cause you to be depressed. Do what /u/OneTouchHowMuch said, a…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 06:38 PM
2

It was because I was 'trying to start a brigade' by assuming their responses were not 'honest'. Whatever, I did no such thing. Same reason why TRP doesn't allow cross linking I assume.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 06:32 PM
2

your case...I would love to see a turn around. I really hope you post back here in 1 year or whatever and give us some great news. I am sorry things have gone shitty for you bro. Focus on yourself and your kids. Try to lose some weight (for your physical and mental health specifically)...take care of yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 06:31 PM
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Wow, I got banned from AskWomen. Why? Because I shared the comments that they gave me with this group. I asked a legit question, as a fit middle aged man with kids who may be getting divorced. And my title to THIS group was "bad news for guys with kids, especially a fit guy with kids. Comments suggest so" which was a true statement, probably 90% of the responses were "No, and I don't want kids" type of mentality. Oh well. In a nutshell, they have set a precedent...if you happen to be a member of…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:56 PM
6

I am still a grasshopper wise one. I have much to learn master.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:14 PM
1

In my short time on TRP, what I have learned is those in LTR's go to these places for attention. Why would a guy go to a CLUB who is in a relationship? For female attention..not to "hang with his boys". Why would a girl go to a CLUB who is in a relationship. For male attention, not just to "be with the girls". The advice I have heard when asking about "girls nights out" is "dude, let her go, don't be insecure, etc... and if its a continual thing, next her because she obviously is looking for val…
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:12 PM
3

why can't people use fucking proper english. damn.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:07 PM
2

that is a good writeup. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:58 PM
2

I posted over in askwomen, since I have kids and take care of myself and stay fit and in shape. I was curious if women would feel "more" or "less" attractiveness toward a hot dad, versus just a hot guy. Now granted, I don't know the typical age range of askwomen, but so far...the answers lean toward "no way" to "no fucking way". lol. That doesn't mean they are being honest though, but I just found it interesting. The thread is still actively going on, I don't know if redditlog continues updating…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:46 PM
0

Ok let me clarify something on the "afford it", lol. I make good money, but sole income provider and at the end of the month, there isn't a ton of free money..especially since I am paying off some debt, saving for retirement, etc...
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 04:40 PM
1

I hear you. Been there and recently went out after work and even when she asked where i was i never responded. It was more retaliation for something else though.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 04:02 PM
3

I disagree with the whole "just leave fuck her feelings" mentality. There is a line of respect and nothing wrong with a bit of info "hey i am going out with the guys, will be back in a few hours".
/r/askTRP11/06/14 03:35 PM
0

good job, good salary, respect - check keep fit - check know HQ people who respect me - check crazy/interesting stuff - meh, being married 15 years, my life consists of waking up, getting ready (been dressing much nicer fwiw), go to work, workout, come home, spend time with kids / dinner / activities, then more work in the evening (2nd job kind of), then no sex with wife. From a balanced / stability perspective, I am pretty rock solid. Adopted TRP I think too late to save my marriage (but we sha…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:47 PM
0

almost mid 30's myself...those first photos, the guys in montreal...maybe it's because I haven't had to worry about a dating scene or hooking up with other girls...ever (been with mine for 15 years), but what was it about their appearance that depressed you. They are in their 30's...(which they can't help), they are dressed nice, and are hanging out. Hell I am just now getting around to tidying up my wardrobe, but at times I am sure I don't look too much different then them.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 02:11 PM
1

He was abusive eh... if he was physically abusive, fuck that shit..she is allowed to NOPE the fuck out of there.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:57 PM
1

Its life man. Don't get upset because somebody is jealous of something you have. By go to a party at someone's house and that person has done well for themselves and I noticed they have a kickass deck and I don't I'm going to be envious and it might kickstart me to try and get a kick ass deck too.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 01:15 PM
1

The good news is that has not been an issue for a while now the bad news I have almost zero desire to go out places with her simply out of concern she'll have one too many and I won't have a good time at all
/r/askTRP11/06/14 01:07 PM
1

when I saw that post...first thing I thought of was "beta". Now, that being said, if it was done to improve a homes overall value and attractiveness..and ultimately resell value...that is another story.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 06:03 AM
1

I know I have started reading that kindle version
/r/askTRP11/06/14 02:40 AM
1

married for a long time, couple kids. Actually, really good mother, good provider to the community, etc... our marriage is the only thing that sucks, but otherwise she is great.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 02:17 AM
1

Right. Sometimes, the unfortunately part is a 170lb guy might bulk up to 200 in 6-8 months..pack on some decent muscle, maybe 10-12lbs, and the rest is fat...then spends 3 months trying to cut that 20+lbs of fat...and because of the expedited scheduled likely will look some muscle in the process...but in the end as long as the muscle you gained is > then before it's a win. I just prefer maintaining a lean yet strong/muscle physique year round because getting huge isn't my goal, but neither is be…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:49 PM
1

Yes, I used to follow /r/leangains so I try to not eat for 16 hours a day. Been doing it for a while now, and I prefer it. In fact, I workout on an empty stomach...notice with food, I get tired/groggy
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:23 PM
1

and you can message people without being their friends, in most cases.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:17 PM
1

dude, what the fuck are you doing. you don't friend / unfriend people on facebook on a fucking whim. It is one or the other unless she actually does something that deserves unfriending and even then..they likely shouldn't be friended. I remember snooping on my wifes computer years ago and she was bitching to a guy friend of hers who unfriended her and he never gave her a good reason but also said "it's not personal" and she was like "of course it's personal...please friend me" blah blah...and sh…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:16 PM
1

that stubborn fat is only going to leave with weight loss. It is VERY difficult to gain muscle/size AND lose fat at the same time..unless you are on some drugs, Clen, Tren, etc... or you are young. Middle aged men, the fat seems to come on at the same rate as muscle (at least for me) so I gain size, but fat comes with it, and when I lose fat, some muscle goes with it so that is why I try to go a slower route. I do intermittent fasting btw myself.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 09:01 PM
1

what was your starting numbers? How old are you? Getting sick will easily knock you off your pedestal. Happened to me, and lost quite a bitch of strength and looked smaller because of weight loss. You will always lose muscle quicker then you will put it on..especially if you take too much time off. That is why I try not to take entire weeks off. I will have normal rest days, but will transition to a deload week if I have been pushing hard in the gym for weeks at a time. Because those DOMS will c…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 08:59 PM
5

if the video wasn't shown as a parody, the guy would likely be called a pansy, fag, sissy, pussy, etc...
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 08:55 PM
13

At one point the victim appears to pin the alleged attacker's leg between his legs. just keep reading that
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 08:50 PM
3

Not sure if you were aware, but it isn't fair to a man or woman when their spouse cheats. We should teach people not to cheat on their spouses.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:53 PM
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or...could be the best timing. If I had to wait, now its her turn to wait.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 07:47 PM
2

But, that comes off as me "trying to control her"...<--- her exact words. She is in denial about her drinking problem and I have told her as such. She doesn't go out anymore anyways, but still drinks at home...sometimes too much.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 07:36 PM
6

Well, first off ... recognize you have a problem. That is step 1. Then, you must look inside yourself, look in a mirror, and ask yourself "am I really the type of person who should do this?". And the next time you are with a woman, just think "I can have a good time with her, and NOT rape her". See...the problem isn't her. She doesn't need to know defense to protect herself from all sorts of life problems, beyond just rape. The problem is YOU. You need to look inside yourself and realize what yo…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 07:23 PM
1

Unfortunately, ALL of that has been discussed, especially the embarassing myself and herself at important events. Honestly, goes in one ear and out the other...but at the time of talks, she will agree and realize how bad it was..but when the next opportunity presents itself (and I don't drink when we go out) despite me requesting she stays within limits..she will overdue it. And rinse, repeat. Luckily she doesn't go out very often now, but that isn't what I want...I want us to have fun and enjoy…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 07:20 PM
1

I have secretly wished I got a call from the cops one day or from her from jail saying she got a DUI.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 07:09 PM
2

Mine has had a noterious problem of over drinking, often, while we are out together..to the point where I am extremely annoyed and make it known. Many times I have actually considered just leaving and letting her find her own way home...but the whole "she is my wife, her safety means a lot to me..fuck I can't leave her". But I want to.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 07:01 PM
2

As a light drinker, and one who has never been drunk in a social setting...I don't know, going through with a fuck while both people are quite drunk, maybe even to the point where a blackout might occur just sounds like a bad idea..even if both of you are wanting it or asking for it. Those are where the stupid "rape" claims come from.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:50 PM
3

Women shouldn't need to learn to protect themselves against rape Well, as a man, I shouldn't have to learn to protect myself from a mugging, bar fight, gang violence, etc.. but you know what, it's not a bad thing to learn for survival reasons.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:40 PM
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'We shouldn't teach women self-defense so they can avoid being raped, rather we should only teach men it is bad to rape.' Guys...ok serious talk now. I mean, I don't know if you knew this...it's kind of a secret, but I feel like you should know. I am worried if this gets out, our cover is blown. I am not even sure if you can go into public after I talk about this, it's serious business. But here it goes. Sigh. You shouldn't rape women. It's bad. Mmmkay.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:37 PM
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when I have gone to halloween haunted houses with my wife...despite there being the simple fact you KNOW you are going to be startled, she clings to me for life as if someone is going to grab her, steal her, and rape her. Upon reflection...it's about the only time she really clings to me. Shit. brb going to a haunted out 365 days of the year
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:32 PM
3

I am sole income provider married, so I always pay regardless... but I have always followed a general rule that if YOU ask someone to lunch, for personal or business reasons, the expectation is you are paying for lunch. If a recruiter calls me up and wants to meet up, I go expecting to still pay, but they typically pick up the tab. If its coffee, etc.. with a girl, I don't see a big deal of picking up a $6 tab. If it's at a bar or something, I could see having some fun with it "you know what...y…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:58 PM
2

see that is the stance I want to take in the future.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:54 PM
3

OH GOD, can't stop laughing!
/r/askTRP10/06/14 05:48 PM
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Actually...this is kind of fucked up, but you could whip your dick out and say "since we are already late and you look hot as fuck, a few more minutes won't hurt...suck it" while lightly pushing her down to her knees. that might actually work, LOL.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:13 PM
1

Thanks for the tips. I am not saying I will be applying any of these since I am still in a relationship, but been reading up and watching tons of RSD videos..and trying to overall improve myself and how I would deal with people in general in social situations, but especially women.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:12 PM
1

just curious, is there anything wrong with walking up to a girl cold approach, or maybe even if there was initiatial eye contact, and literally putting your hand out (confident, good frame, etc..), looking them in the eyes and just saying "John, and you are?" or "John, who are you?" or "John, what's your name?"
/r/askTRP10/06/14 03:01 PM
1

Sure she is, just ask the last guy who stuck it in her ass and came in her mouth in a public bathroom. Shit...is there a pic of me on the internet or something? how did you know? damnit
/r/askTRP10/06/14 04:32 AM
0

have you done anything wrong? no? This is on her...but the way you described it...move....the....fuck.....on, especially if this is only 9 months in mang.
/r/askTRP10/06/14 02:47 AM
1

Listening to RSD Tyler talk about being high energy, etc.. I was left with the impression sometimes being passionate about something you want to talk about...WHATEVER IT IS...if you have the right attitude and energy, they will listen and be sucked into your zone. I also wonder, in terms of keeping them on their toes / off balance and keeping them focused on YOU if maintaining a steady pace of talking / interacting blows some dust into their mental circuits and might end up staying with you caus…
/r/seduction10/06/14 02:33 AM
1

If you really don't want kids, get a vasectomy. Also, are you looking to jump into another relationship? or do you want to run the 'singles' thing for a while? If you want the singles thing, maybe consider, despite their appearance...escalating things just so you can get into a habit of improving your social skills, your sex skills, etc... because as your confidence grows, you may start finding that you can pull some hotter girls and maybe even ones who have both looks and brains. And not contra…
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:07 PM
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AH ok, makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:34 PM
5

hmmmm...if a guy goes to a club and a girl is like, "lets fuck"...there is a high statistical chance he will take that. So I am not sure I follow how that is the 'same way'
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:23 PM
3

this gives me hope
/r/seduction09/06/14 06:13 PM
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how the fuck can buying a home cause a women to lose attraction. mind blown.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:02 PM
16

Damn...what an article. Game.Set.Match.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:46 PM
7

Yes. But that doesn't mean trying to salvage a 15 year marriage is a bad thing either.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:43 PM
3

I lift 4x a week. That is kind of my time.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:21 PM
1

Irrelevant? More partners = greater chance of STDs. Simple. But doesn't mean people shouldn't "not" give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:28 PM
1

There is A LOT of ignorance about STD's.... 1. Yes you can get STD's from oral, even from kissing (which blows me away how random people within seconds of meeting each other start tongue kissing at bars/clubs, etc...). I remember The Situation on Jersey Shore being like "nah you can't get STD's from a BJ. What a dumb fuck! 2. There are a shit ton of STD's that don't even show up for quite a while. Basically you are carrying that shit, no symptoms, passing it along, spreading it, and boom symptom…
/r/askTRP09/06/14 02:12 PM
3

some of the TRP stuff I will back off of a little...focus on my kids, be respectful to her, give her the space she may need, while still handling my responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:47 PM
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or in my case....going through a separation because I didn't find TRP quick enough :( though keeping fingers crossed it doesn't have to go through to a divorce. Too much to lose.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:35 AM
2

I scrolled..and scrolled, but saw a pretty fucking badass movie seen with Ben Affleck :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfIKzReNDF4&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/TRPOffTopic09/06/14 02:51 AM
1

Thanks. I am going to attempt this.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:41 PM
2

Freetours is awesome
/r/seduction08/06/14 06:24 PM
1

After watching this full video, ive realized i might be the type of guy and personality to do well. I talk...alot, but I am passionate and have good energy. In my personal and professional life, when I say something people listen because i show i care what i am talking about. I also wonder if it benefits a guy talking to girls where he is so into what he is saying and trying to bring them into your zone, they dont have much of a chance to provide much context,convo so they find they may agree wi…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 02:26 AM
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fwiw, my attitude in general has been on a much longer transition. Those items (pants, cologne, etc..) are short term changes, but me standing up for myself, being more stern, going my own way, etc.. has slowly been occuring over the course of a year.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:37 PM
1

I know. I am very bitter about some stuff unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:27 PM
3

Bottle of extra virgin olive oil will do the trick.
/r/TRPOffTopic07/06/14 07:12 PM
1

Ignoring is short term. Lot of good advice going on in here...but i am the only one here in the moment, the tension, the history, etc so i am using my gut at the moment until i decide my next course of action. I appreciate the advice
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:47 PM
1

Yea, this guy makes true RP men, or what the goal is, look really bad. He took the RP = asshole approach, which isn't true from what I am gathering.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 02:20 PM
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don't be that guy. Abort.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 02:18 PM
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I have noticed my wife has bluffed for years. And I have caved so many times, sigh.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:10 PM
1

.... I guess if she is happy, that is all that matters. Just don't mistake content (though inner miserable) with happy. I can't imagine (despite earning RP tendencies) of being that controlling as you have outlined. Different strokes, different folks.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:08 PM
1

what were some of the bad alpha traits as opposed to good ones? Yea, gotta start somewhere..need to finish MMSL, my time is restricted right now so trying.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:05 PM
2

calm down there Mortal Kombat ;) I will.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:58 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:56 PM
2

Thanks. I got up this morning, got the kids breakfast...she is still in bed (I know she is sad with our situation) and there is a part of me that just wants to get in bed and put my arms around her...but I don't, and I won't...because of how she has made me feel, it wouldn't be fair. She shouldn't be rewarded for what she has said to me.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:56 PM
2

boom. you nailed it. In that video, I think I represent the middle person...the guy who has no problem striking up conversation with complete strangers (men or women), brings humor to the table, holds eye contact, consider myself good looking / handsome, nice body, etc... BUT because I have been with 1 person my whole life, I don't have the concept of cold approaching a woman with the sole intent to get her number, woo her, let alone try and sleep with her in a single night. But that wouldn't be…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:54 PM
1

Ha i never said its working ;) i am thinking she is a hard case and may take longer to respond.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:26 PM
1

Fwiw i have gone the open homest route with shitty results. I am not treating her like shit right now, i am just ignoring her fornthe most part. I still talk to her about relevant things or decisions we have to mutually make.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:20 PM
2

jesus.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:56 AM
2

bravo
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:27 AM
3

hey, that is a 400% return ;)
/r/TRPOffTopic07/06/14 04:58 AM
1

^ gives me hope
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:37 AM
1

Yea I bought the book :) just haven't read through all of it yet
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:24 AM
1

I think women in general, but feminist have raised this nation that any man who sticks up for himself is an asshole. He could stand up for himself jokingly with a smile on his face..and still be considered an asshole because he didn't let himself get walked on. I get called an asshole every few days from my wife...all because I am choosing to not get disrespected anymore. Fun.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:11 AM
1

OP...6 hours ago. Please respond!!!!!
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:08 AM
1

OP...6 hours ago. Please respond!!!!!
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:08 AM
0

Yea, that is a clear case of 'shot the fuck down'
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:07 AM
2

So far, I am partially through MMSL, rationale male I read, and a couple others..plus this group, seduction, and watching RSD Tyler videos
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:04 AM
1

anonymously send him this sub reddit :)
/r/askTRP07/06/14 03:43 AM
8

sounds like "the wall"
/r/askTRP07/06/14 03:42 AM
3

I am addicted to all his videos, especially the freetour ones
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 03:39 AM
1

see, context always helps :)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 03:11 AM
1

Yea, I just want that lean STRONG beach type body. My traps are coming in...but slowly.
/r/TRPOffTopic07/06/14 02:56 AM
4

like I said, public gym..the guy was just curling a 45lb bar..no it didn't happen, LOL. That isn't being RP, that is being a psycho :)
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:44 AM
2

my chest sucks, HA. my quads are coming together though..I have long arms and long legs..not exactly idea for either of those two lifts. But my back is thick from what I have heard, probably why the dead is decent.
/r/TRPOffTopic07/06/14 02:34 AM
4

/r/thathappened
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:34 AM
3

I haven't worn jeans in over 10 years. So I bought some. It is something she has asked for in fact for years, but everytime I tried, they fit like shit. It is just 1 small step into me upgrading my wardrobe.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:22 AM
1

god damn!
/r/TRPOffTopic07/06/14 02:16 AM
1

Thanks man, that is a good post!!
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:12 AM
2

low 30's, married 11 years. (together 15). Kids are older then 5.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:10 AM
2

Where can I download fuck-slut program? Is there a torrent? Must find...now!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:26 AM
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they have some sort of messed up drive inside their brain that is all your post needed to say. Everything else was just filler
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:20 AM
2

damn...great writeup.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:05 AM
2

I posted in OffTopic already, but there is celebrity marriage counseling or some shit, and JWOWW and Roger are on it. Well in Jersey Shore, I always felt he was pretty RP and wouldn't take her shit. Now, he is on this show, talking how they need internet porn to even get in the mood, and how she doesn't give him any sex. TROLOLOLO
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:04 AM
1

5 11. I have a nice lean build. I find if i gain too much weight i look soft and feel fat..and if i cut too much i look to small. So i take the slow scenic route approach ;)
/r/TRPOffTopic06/06/14 10:56 PM
2

Nice
/r/TRPOffTopic06/06/14 09:53 PM
1

did you continue anything with her?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:19 PM
1

different fetishes for different people. Yes, there are demented people in this world who would be so evil they would secretely get impregnated in order to humiliate their husband in a hospital, but that is the exception, not the rule. but yea, you are overthinking this stuff. And men who WANT to be cuckolded...so be it, that is there choice. There are men who enjoy being weak and helpless and dominated. It's their choice.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 08:30 PM
1

So the LOGICAL part of my brain doesn't think most actions women take are conscious ones. They aren't thinking "I am going to set my purse down here, and just see how he reacts..then determine if he is fuckable or not based on his reaction"..but more their actions are simply pre-wired. That is where I am having a hard time with TRP, is trying to comprehend women making 'specific' decisions / actions with the sole intent to determine a mans response to that decision, then basing her next move on …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 07:50 PM
1

EH...ok I am going to go with my own insecurities. I have always dressed down, not really cared how I looked. Well, I am in a LTR and don't get any attention from my wife. So I am starting to dress up now, wearing nicer clothes, fitting clothes. The goal is for myself, but partially dread game if I can get other females showing interest in me. My point is, I may get to a point where I want to look halfway decent wherever I go. If a couple is comfortable and confident, I see no reason the man can…
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:47 PM
1

People like to be validated. People like compliments. Shit, I enjoy getting complimented and would LOVE to openly be complimented by girls, even in front of my SO (make her realize what she has...). Is she hot? yes? She is going to get hit on, guys are going to come on to her. Guys are goign to compliment her. How she deals with it is where you step in. If she smiles, says thanks, then fine..but if she is going out of her way to GET more compliments, I would consider that a low level red flag. I…
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:44 PM
1

Shit, I get called an asshole from my SO because my personality is changing more into a dominant one. Despite she is the reason I am turning into one
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:41 PM
1

You handled it properly with I fuck her properly / thread
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:37 PM
1

34 != couger :)
/r/askTRP06/06/14 07:34 PM
1

what is nice is I am filling my shirts out much better. I 'look' like I lift and get complimented (more-so by other guys). A buddy of mine referred to my physique like a "lean mma fighter". So from a RP perspective, I am very happy with this progress.
/r/TRPOffTopic06/06/14 06:57 PM
1

Any chance to sneak a peek at her phone when she gets back? Does she behave odd when she gets home? Is she unusually horny? Work functions happen and 1x a month doesn't seem bad but I would only worry if there were red flags associated.
/r/askTRP06/06/14 02:58 PM
1

re #1 - well, if you are married, it isn't uncommon to go workout together...though I workout 4x / week alone and she doesn't give a shit about my muscles.
/r/TRPOffTopic06/06/14 01:38 PM
4

she has been cheating on you, as much as it sucks to say that...it's not like a light switch just clicked off. She likely has someone on the side. Sorry bro.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:16 PM
6

I wanna do bad things to you Oh yea, like what? Murder your family LOLOLOL
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 10:08 PM
14

Even as a newbie to this sub, just scanning that page and reading what I could...I felt like none of it applied to the experience and conversations I have had with you guys.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:46 PM
2

big fan of legacy
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:37 PM
1

Good on u btw
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 09:00 PM
-1

When men are emasculated I want to falcon punch women in their cunts.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:55 PM
2

I love how u have 10 down votes for opening up about being a beta in a group that is focused on turning betas into alphas. Makes sense...not. I was having sex chats and email fun with this was chick I know, since I was having marriage problems and felt my wife was being shady. Started slow then escalated into what we would do to each other. I was a chatty beta fuck. I wasn't willing to go physical and though it felt like she was, verbally she would agree no physical. At some point I made comment…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:50 PM
1

Agreed. Please
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:55 PM
2

some think it's a fake story to promote this guys animation skills.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:09 PM
1

yup...GNO's. Has caused me more stress/panic then I care to share.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:06 PM
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Anyway, we were at a party. I have a few drinks and others have mostly left the party. I put the moves on this girl. She put several barriers "I have a boyfriend", "We're getting married", "I'm leaving town soon". Ok, this is where I find it interesting. Nobody is off limits, even if they put up the signs up front they aren't interesting. Clearly "We are getting married" is a sign she wasn't up for it. Now I completely get you broke her, and she caved..but is that what game is all about...chippi…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:06 PM
6

people might make fun of beta males...but I bet it's those beta males who fly off the handle, get their gun, and kills the wife / fiance and her lover. Shit happens. One depressing aspect of TRP that I am finding, is its a game. I get its a way of life, but along the lines of PUA, etc.. its a giant game. and when it is all said and done regarding dealing with someone who is in a relationship...it's simply fucking with peoples lives..despite whether they are beta or not. The "well she is a cheate…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:58 PM
4

jesus..both of those stories above make me sad. I get BF stuff...but engagements and marriages and knowingly doing this shit...makes me cringe. Especially when they reserve vanilla sex for their SO, yet porn star sex for you guys.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:53 PM
1

I would actually like to hear stories where alpha guys have no problem fucking a girl who is married/taken or has a bf, and the guy actually ends up feeling bad about it (maybe the beta husband hurts himself, or is dying of cancer, or some fact comes to light AFTER the sex that made you regret the decision. I know military people are just people like everyone else. We hold them to a higher status because they put their lives on the line..despite whether they are actually good or bad character (l…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:47 PM
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so she said she had a BF, then it was a husband...and then mad at you for fucking her. LOL, what a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:34 PM
2

Wife has read all 3. Nutshell...dude is super rich and has issues but his money and power allow him to do things. Trying putting that girl even with an alpha guy from Starbucks....story will be much different.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 05:16 PM
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sorry, you WERE that girl with me. You were into it for a reason
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:49 AM
1

I am into the song KIM, as demented as that is. When depressed or in a shitty mind set, it is actually quite comforting, LOL.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:47 AM
3

I am a big Eminem fan...especially some more of his hard angry music. I am not sure if he is much RP though, but his songs always energize me and give me confidence to stand up for myself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:22 AM
1

so do you even lift phaggot would be an inappropriate response to her ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:01 PM
1

So this actually came up with my wife a while back. She was like "and me and the girls need to schedule a vegas trip" and I was like "eh...how about you and I get a private vacation FIRST before anyone gets a "guys/girls weekend". Now, here is the thing...should she be ok if I want to go on a 3-4 day golfing trip across the country? Obviously vegas and golfing aren't the same thing..but there is nothing to say the 'guys' don't go visit a strip club at night, etc... Reading that article 'was' eye…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:59 PM
1

So...a chick says "oh hey mr big strong man, can you lift this 45lb plate off the bar so I can put on my 10lb ones?" So then...is it a shit test? :) haha
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:34 PM
1

well I am actually curious if guys with TRP characteristics tend to 'share' a particular personality.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:08 PM
1

gotcha!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:58 PM
2

Probably for the majority of my day, I am a laid back guy, focused on working while cracking jokes. I am a very sarcastic guy, but people seem to love that quality about me...I make people laugh and relaxed. However, I am emotional at times...with anger or lust. If I am pushed, and I crack, I explode like a volcano (which I am not a fan of)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:58 PM
1

how would you have handled the latter question?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:45 PM
1

Do you honestly feel it was a shit test though? Is it possible they nonchalantely did it, not for attention from you, but because they sincerely thought it wasn't an issue? I feel like a shit test would be her having an eye on you, wanting to see how YOU would react, and then proceeding.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:31 PM
2

off topic for this particular thread...but in America, do you find TRP principles apply to almost ALL women (of all ethnic backgrounds) as long as they have been raised in a western way / grown up in America? So Black, Asian, Hispanic, White, etc...all seem to react the same way, as long as they hold western values?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:51 PM
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Can't remember where I read it, but I thought I heard western men going to some countries (Bangkok maybe, or Japan, etc...) get a lot of attention /attraction because it's that simple rule of "he is different from what I am used to all the time". Kind of like in high school, you have that "new kid, who is kind of a badass and mysterious". Guess who gets all the fucking women?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:48 PM
2

I agree with that. Probably why people pay large amounts of money to meet people like RSD Tyler, etc... and have personal sessions HA
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:46 PM
3

thanks for clarification. My 2 cents, "most" men don't have these tendencies naturally, and those who do...they likely have behaved/lived that way due to their society upbringing. Maybe their parents acted different then other parents of BP men, etc... or for whatever reason, they were injected with RP from the moment they left the womb. "Natural" RP men, would not surprise me comprises of like < 5% of men on the planet, if that. The rest of us have to learn...but people contribute, write blogs,…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:40 PM
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No, people do that because of community and to share, so that other men can improve themselves.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:31 PM
12

I can't honestly say whether this was because of TRP, or just because I DGAF anymore about some things in my life. Marriage has been shitty, I have taken up drinking (I usually don't) in the evenings because I am sad/depressed. Been directly dodging my SO because of some issues, giving her her space, and just being ME and letting me have ME time. So I came home late from work..but before that, I went to a bar. I don't go to bars...EVER unless it is with a group. It wasn't busy, and the intent wa…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:27 PM
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(slide my phone over to her) god damn....that is smooth as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:21 PM
2

I was thinking about comfort. Closure. I wanted kids...I wanted a marriage. I disagree that is blue pill behavior. Even RSD Tyler said in a video I watched this morning...not all men are equal. Not all men are high energy and want to fuck fuck fuck fuck. Some are just different and like more mellow things. That is ok. What makes you BP is being walked on and not standing up for yourself. There is no "one alpha" from what I have gathered. Men want to have kids, we want to pass our seed on, have s…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:54 PM
4

Just going to leave this here: https://warosu.org/data/tg/img/0284/40/1385173899225.jpg
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:49 PM
1

what is funny is he has been with 1 girl for 10 years...and has 2 kids. I think its just an open relationship though.
/r/askTRP04/06/14 05:20 PM
1

How the fuck does rsd Tyler do it acting goofy and shit
/r/askTRP04/06/14 02:54 PM
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it was just a kiss, I didn't blow him. I love you it was just a blowjob, I didn't have fuck him. I love you! it was a fuck, I make love to you. I love you!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 02:07 PM
0

even if it was anon, word will get back to your gf and she will know it was you. I still think you should though, just saying anon might not help you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:59 PM
1

agreed.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:50 PM
2

415lb deadlift :) but yea I dress alright.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:27 AM
1

Finding the right balance of alpha but enough beta is the challenge, as there is nothing wrong with 'some' beta in a relationship as that is what brings the soft/romantic shit into play. Because as much as a woman will cheat on a beta male with an alpha...that same woman can likely cheat on an alpha male with a beta for opposite reasons. If LTR is the goal, a healthy balance of that is needed.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:26 AM
1

great post man....being in this situation myself currently, and questioning what the end result will be is hard to digest, despite all the great advice. It is always easier said then done.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:23 AM
12

this...feeling this, right fucking now. BAD.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:13 AM
8

As a blue-piller trying to convert...I won't lie, I have thought of suicide more then I care to admit because of being depressed in a sexless marriage and trying to get things back on track. The way she has talked to me, etc... and I am just now standing up for myself on many topics, and if anything, it makes the fights worse..but I try not to fight. I try not to raise my voice..but sometimes I can't help it because the topic at hand requires it. I would never kill myself though...2 wonderful ki…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:12 AM
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ha, then I am doing SO MUCH fucking wrong. fml. Hell I am just trying to not get divorced right now.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:00 AM
3

In life, you see a lot of "settling". You can look at two people on the street, in the bar, at a restaurant, etc.. and you can flat out tell, they settled with each other. Sure, maybe they are truly in love...but if they are both "meh" in terms of attractiveness...and some hottie came up to him wanting his attention, or his options started increasing...as well as hers, they very well likely might shift apart and pursue those other options...or at least the desire to do so would be there, despite…
/r/TRPOffTopic03/06/14 10:47 PM
2

I am getting pretty joocy, natty ;) http://imgur.com/gallery/jS4pO
/r/askTRP03/06/14 10:20 PM
2

do colognes, besides making you smell better, actually do anything to a womens hormones, chemistry, etc... in terms of attraction? I know about artificial phermones..but I have always thought that is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:17 PM
1

I agree. But as Chris Rock said "you can drive a car with your feet if you want to, that doesn't make it a good fucking idea" ;)
/r/askTRP03/06/14 10:11 PM
1

sounds good. The off topic only had 4 posts in it...that is the unfortunate part, is someone can ask there, and likely won't get a response since nobody frequents it. edit - DURRRRR...just realized it was newly created.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:51 PM
1

then remove the flair :)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:44 PM
2

actually...was going to ask in asktrp. but I need a new cologne, inexpensive but awesome. Recommendation?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:43 PM
8

I hear cum on your teeth whiteins them no? ;)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:21 PM
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gdamnit...feels. When my wife and I have sex, it is good...she just doesn't desire me or come on to me, ever. It is fucking depressing. People in TRP can say all they want "men are supposed to charge, lead, yada yada" but there is actually something that feels good, to the soul, when a woman is tingling and wants to put her hands all over you. Fucking depresses me.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:12 PM
4

How did she get your number? And when you said "I just go for it" after footsie, what does that mean "I just go for it"?
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:05 PM
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If you consider that me talking "down" to anyone in this group, well ok then. but I wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:02 PM
1

happy cake day.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:51 PM
1

Yea if your bloodwork legitimately shows you you have low testosterone, then you can go on TRT, etc.. but I feel like we are cultivating a society of young men who feel they have to do "x" in order to look like that magazine model.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 06:50 PM
2

most 20 year old men don't need to be going on gear to get "jacked". Fact.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:19 PM
3

I love the entire Bill Burr skit about plastic surgery..."you found a new age between 52 and 53. Do you want to be 52, or do you want to look like a 28 year old lizard" :) here you go https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pznB7WP4P1o
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:42 PM
1

the girl I have talked to in the past (never got physical with her, I was a beta phag anyways upon reflection) has been quite honest with me on some things, like the # of guys she has been with, and that its that number because of low self esteem earlier in her life (hs / college which is where the numbers rang up) and in recent years she was married, got divorced and dated a couple guys..but she says she always ends up with d-bags...and thinking about it, it would not surprise me in the least t…
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:26 PM
1

exactly!!! There is pre, post, guys might get sensitive breasts, gyno, etc... its fucking retarded for "most" men. Yes, it will make the avg gym rat excel quicker at muscle, strength, and fat loss..because the avg natty typically has to bulk for muscle, or cut for fat loss...doing both at the same time is very hard to do...but definitely easier for a teen or low 20's guy, then someone in their 30's. When I bulk and get stronger, I gain fat with it..and when I cut, I lose some strength/muscle. It…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:59 PM
1

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gear
/r/askTRP03/06/14 04:57 PM
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first off, don't fucking gear up until you hit your natural limits. Too many young kids these days think hopping on roids / trt, etc... is the answer. Focus on getting as far as your body allows FIRST, then if you are wanting to get even bigger, enter a competition, etc.. then worry about gear. But fuck...stay away from that shit until you 'need' it.
/r/askTRP03/06/14 04:45 PM
1

yes.
/r/seduction03/06/14 02:23 AM
1

ha, good one.
/r/seduction03/06/14 02:18 AM
1

I love hearing these stories of these women just calmly being offended, then going home and fucking their husbands for all they can. Blows my mind. Wish I had one that easy to convert.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 01:28 AM
2

smoooooooooooooth operator
/r/seduction03/06/14 01:23 AM
9

This is excellent. Thanks!
/r/seduction02/06/14 11:39 PM
1

That is the type of shit why young kids in school who have confidence problems end up committing suicide. Girls like that I hope get cancer and die.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:47 PM
2

Is the cough to make it look like u need support and when she grabs u go on your merry way, or is the cough intentional as a joke while sticking your arm out..kind of like someone coughing and saying "bullshit" at the same time...
/r/seduction02/06/14 09:13 PM
1

I don't think they have audio. I would have preferred that myself.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 08:53 PM
1

the next one I will get is No Mr Nice Guy I think.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:48 PM
2

brb, going into a bar and yelling cunt. Gotta be 1:50 in there ;) j/k
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:40 PM
1

happy cake day! Have an upvote ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 07:39 PM
1

great post man....and I feel you on the divorce part...as my wife and I have been near the brink of it for a while. A part of me is worried my new found RP freedom might cause me to do some things that would push her over...but at the same time, I am so drained by a bunch of bullshit, I am almost ok if we do, despite it will cause a world of hurt (emotionally and financially) for our family. I have pushed hard on a few things and remind myself to back off slightly..relationships require more sub…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 06:31 PM
1

I think you meant his, but he deleted it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 06:16 PM
2

if you are already RP'd, it might not affect you as much, but I have seen it recommended multiple times around these parts as a GO TO book. I am still BP in areas, so I am reading it. It is $10...it is not super expensive.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 06:08 PM
2

Married Man Sex Life - http://marriedmansexlife.com/books/primer/ it was $10, so I bought it on amazon and reading it currently.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 05:44 PM
1

Yea, I really want to give a nice pair of jeans a go. I am one of those guys in between sizes..so 32 x 33 is more ideal, but its hard to find a pair that fit just right. Either I sit down, and they pull up to my ankles :) or they are too long and touch the ground. FML. I prefer looser fitting pants, as opposed to tighter. This sounds like a bragging thing, but I have to adjust my crotch quite often (I am a shower, not a grower) if pants are too tight, its annoying. I just want some space/breathi…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 04:45 PM
1

mind blown. reminds me of Wedding Crashers and Will Ferrill banging chicks from funerals lol
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:28 PM
3

Aside from accidently killing your own child or someone u love, nobody on this planet should ever make u feel u aren't worth living. No guy and no girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 03:59 PM
1

I want to hear more detail on number 2 ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 03:49 PM
1

Use ynab bro for budget. Its amazing. I can write some of my story in a bit
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 03:17 PM
1

why did you send a text?
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:37 PM
3

I am being a hypocrite because I have had an emotional affair (not physical), but either end the marriage or talk to her about an open relationship. Don't go the cheating route.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:36 PM
1

This sounds like a typical case of her wanting to have more control over you like she did last year. You said it yourself...you would want to do things with her last year..and she wouldn't..now the roles are reversed because she has less control. Keep doing what you are doing. There seems to be this feeling in TRP where men don't need to be romantic. I think the key is when you do something romantic, it needs to be rare and mean something..as opposed to flowers all the time, buying her shit all …
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:34 PM
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unless that was her hamster wheel spinning justifying her decision :)..then goes back to her husband and they will still be married 5 years from now. I'm not judging, this is on her, I was just curious. Being married myself, concerns me just thinking some dude could easily pick up my wife if she is out with a friends and drinking. sigh.
/r/seduction02/06/14 02:08 PM
1

is this real life? some of the stories I read on here blow my fucking mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:02 PM
1

32
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:01 PM
1

interesting
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:00 PM
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dude.....won't lie, I cringe reading that. Ugh. How much have you changed since then?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:57 PM
3

what a great inspirational story bro! and FWIW, I do consider it cheating what she did...just cause in her mind you two were "split up", if you weren't in on that revelation I would consider it cheating.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:56 PM
-1

holy shit that sounds amazing LOL.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:50 PM
1

honestly, I would just defriend all of them. FB block them, cut contact, etc.. and see how the cards fall. If they would rather be better friends with your crazy ex then you, they aren't really your friends.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:49 PM
1

I am in your exact same boat bro...exact same. Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 01:47 PM
1

You said milf was she married?
/r/seduction02/06/14 01:05 PM
1

There are two reasons why I want to improve how I dress. First for myself. I am in a great paying job doing what I love but more less under dressing compared two others around me. Yes they give me a level of comfort because the work I do is not customer facing but at the same time sometimes I look in the mirror and realize I look like I'm in college as opposed to a married 30 something your old man did a stable job and big responsibilities. Secondly I am trying to do stuff for myself with the re…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:59 PM
1

This
/r/seduction02/06/14 12:53 PM
3

I just hear a bunch of assuming because she has a vag
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 12:23 PM
2

Thanks!
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:22 PM
1

Sole income provider for a family of 4, bills, etc so everyone is taken care of first before me.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:21 PM
3

good for you. One day at a time. One alpha step at a time! :)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 05:00 AM
3

Ok, can you elaborate on where you are "NOW"? Not going to lie, some of what you wrote..I could see a bit of myself in how I messaged this one chick and how I have behaved. It's scary. I am glad you took a screen capture..you should always look at that and say "NEVER AGAIN. Never A-Fucking-Gain.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:44 AM
1

Wait...you are still with her?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:42 AM
4

Holy Fucking Shit. Are you York?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:33 AM
5

HA
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:24 AM
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Yea, I think for the most part...if you are over 5" and under 8", you are probably in the green light for the majority of women. I won't lie, I am 8", but growing up with porn, etc.. I always thought I was small..now I have a better understanding that even 7" is quite large, and girth is a much bigger deal then length. But if you are under 5 or over 7, you are probably getting talked about.
/r/seduction02/06/14 04:24 AM
1

I feel like it would matter more to the teens and tweens these days, because they have literally grown up in a society of porn and "size matters" talk, as opposed to the 30 and 40 year olds of the world today. I could see those types of girls after encouters giggling to their friends "OMG it was SO big" or "Girl...he was so small".
/r/seduction02/06/14 04:15 AM
1

I am also reading MMSL right now..my mind is being blown out much I fall in line with mr. beta phaggot.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:09 AM
2

Thanks. We are working through issues. We have built everything together, and I certainly don't want either of us to lose it all or split the family up. My decision to do what I did was initiated because of something she did. I to, hope for the best :)
/r/askTRP02/06/14 03:31 AM
2

I am not looking for trim on the side. This has been a non-physical emotional affair and will remain that way. And the reason I have done it, is because of some shit that has happened in my marriage because of my wife. We are working through our shit, and my emotional affair hasn't even gone on for probably 2 months now, but me and the girl still chat about general stuff (not sexual) every so often. I was drunk, and sent her the text that I did...and the results sucked. I just ask you don't jump…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 03:18 AM
1

I gave up fapping for 60 days once. It didn't help my wife and I weren't having sex..but I kept thinking "man, I am going to start sporting major wood, get morning erections, etc...". Nope, in fact, my erection quality seemed to weaken, I wasn't feeling horny really ever, and my erections didn't even come up that often. It did the completely opposite of what I was expecting. I am much happier and content having a fairly regular fapping routine.
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:15 AM
1

think again
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:14 AM
6

or this bish is CRAY CRAY
/r/seduction02/06/14 03:13 AM
1

Isn't there some middle ground between Seduction, TRP, etc... where an 'alpha male' can be looked at as a real man, a stable / honorable lover, to be looked up to / worshipped without it ever looking/feeling like womanizing?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 03:07 AM
2

context... she has known about my wife the entire time (and everything we have done has been over email, not physical and won't go physical). But we have talked dirty plenty of times in the past. Anyways, doesn't matter now, the moment got ruined because she thought it was my wife and had "hacked" my account.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 03:01 AM
4

Just curious, how do you know your mother is going to rape him in court? I mean, is there evidence she is going after the jugular?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:25 AM
9

Since I am so new to TRP, I would have to say the one moment was posting one too many times in /r/deadbedrooms and knowing that I can't place all the blame on my wife..that there was an underlying reason to my sadness / depression. And upon reading all the stories in this group, asktrp, etc.. that I represented many of the qualities that I hate reading about on therationalmale, other blogs, and here. That is my one moment.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:20 AM
1

lol, I never saw it as a shit test..I just wanted to have a fun response to come back to her with. I am still getting used to A&A, dread stuff, etc.. so obviously this wasn't a scenario where A&A was needed because it wasn't a shit test.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:14 AM
1

Here is one of the videos - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kx3rkgqTWJ8
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:13 AM
2

what is weird for me, at least..I think I look younger then my age is. I think for the most part, I still appear in my 20's. If my hair is longer, I have a few greys peeking out, but I have a solid jaw line and lean face since I have been working out for 3 years, broad shoulders, v-shaped torso, nice biceps...shirt off (like today) I stood out among everyone else there..all the 30 to 50 year old men with guts, grey chest hair, and goofy looks on their faces. I felt closer (visually) to the young…
/r/askTRP02/06/14 02:10 AM
1

rest of the night, maybe even a few hours in the morning. Then maybe try again and if you get the same treatment, let her go.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:38 AM
2

yea most likely. dont' stress it.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:24 AM
1

I think a few hours, maybe 1 day at most...but after that they either forgot to respond or don't want to respond.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 12:15 AM
1

I don't hookup..and even this chick I have never hooked up with, it's been more emailing/texting for emotional bonding reasons since I've gone through some shit in my marriage and she in hers..and since we have had sexual convos before, figured I would give it a shot (plus I had been drinking, HA).
/r/askTRP01/06/14 11:56 PM
4

we unfortunately live in a "they should immediately respond' type of world. People have lives, they have shit they are doing, could be family stuff going on. Trust me I get ancy too, but sometimes patiently waiting is the best policy.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 11:55 PM
1

That is kind of what I did with this one chick I texted. We are more friends then anything though we both think each other is sexy and hot. It backfired on me today..because she thought the message I sent was slightly out of character and the time I sent it..so she thought maybe it was sent by my wife so I spent time having to convince it was really me, lol. Fail.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 09:36 PM
1

The whole thing got fucked anyways...there was a concern I wasn't who I said I was (too much to explain right now ) so I wasted time having to convince I wasn't another person
/r/askTRP01/06/14 09:33 PM
1

Ha...well she knows its me.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 04:20 PM
5

Your whole life, men are going to be attracted to girls you are dating. It's how they deal with and respond that should be your worry.
/r/askTRP01/06/14 02:47 PM
5

brb, going to get a fitted suit and booking a bunch of flights.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:32 AM
2

Derp commented on yours not op. Whoops
/r/seduction31/05/14 07:19 PM
3

Seinfeld lol
/r/seduction31/05/14 07:13 PM
1

Thanks. Well doesn't matter. No pic happened and large argument ensued later.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 02:55 PM
2

As a married-with-two-kid recent red-piller, it is also helping me more wholly form what is slowly becoming a new worldview. That and I stopped believing in the bible bullshit :) COSMOS!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 02:16 AM
3

It blows my mind this guy can just literally grab girls off the street , pick them up, and they are all like WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE let me suck your cock.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 01:54 AM
2

Yesterday did a 420lb dead lift. Today 330lb squat ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 12:01 AM
1

What if she says "sorry I didn't send a pic I was tired"
/r/askTRP30/05/14 11:51 PM
1

interesting. Being there together. Yes. Being there separate. No (well she can do what she wants, but I can choose to find her behavior unacceptable). Make myself attractive to other women. yes. Let other women show interest in me. Yes. Makes wifey want me more. Yes. If she steps out of line with another man. Dread game. ?
/r/askTRP30/05/14 10:01 PM
2

Dude, you asked a girl who was obviously sad about something if she was sexually frustrated. dafuq.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 09:34 PM
1

Well shit, it might not matter. No pic yet..and about to leave work. That was basically the purpose..to get a sexy pic while I was at work, not almost home. How should I respond? Don't respond? Don't even bring it up? What if she sends it right when I get home? Just tell her the purpose was for when i was at work?
/r/askTRP30/05/14 09:26 PM
1

nice writeup. Thanks! I would like to go back out and go dancing. I guess the question becomes is it completely normal and acceptable, in our case (married) to swap partners on the dance floor. Is it only a problem if we are by ourselves (out with the guys, or out with the girls)? If I was there with her, and I was dancing with girls, and she was dancing with guys...and it was a mutual understanding I could be ok with that, as long as she knew what she would miss if she fucked up, and vice versa…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 09:24 PM
2

Ah, why yes.....we have bed straps...they are fun
/r/askTRP30/05/14 08:00 PM
4

Yea, in Western culture, you always hear people "sowing their royal oats" or some shit...so its like a last hurrah of being single...even if you have been together and committed for 6 years. Pretty fucking dumb.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:55 PM
2

that makes sense. When you say "restricted to the bedroom" basically removing her access to sex WITH YOU? And my example was for me, since I am married and not out unicorn hunting. So really there is no punishment, just reward. She gets a reward for being good, otherwise nothing changes. and over time, she will realize when she does something nice, she may be rewarded..but she is never 'punished' unless to her, LOSING OUT on a potential reward or you withdrawing is a form of punishment for her.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 07:54 PM
2

Something else I am curious about...there are many times where the bride might "think" there will be a stripper, but not really sure..and times where she isn't planning on it at all, and they end up bringing a stripper anyways. So in those cases, she can be a party pooper and end the party, or just go with the flow, let the stripper do his thing to others, maybe give her " a lap dance" but make good decisions and let the night end. But...you will never know those details. It's easy to assume, "o…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:40 PM
1

christ! I have seen some videos, of supposedly the real things..these guys aren't always wearing condoms either. They could be those fake porn sites though meant to look real. CHFM or something?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:30 PM
1

For example, what if she sends a relatively 'safe' pic, maybe just trying to show some cleavage or something, but its not really too much of a "sexy" pic. I feel like the beta response is to accept what she sends and give her validation. But if I am not happy enough with what she sends, maybe follow it with "who are you sending these too, your sister? Turn your husband on!" Obviously don't want to be too harsh and scare her away from doing it again.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 07:29 PM
3

I would love to know (not that I ever will) what % of brides DO stuff with said stripper during their parties. I know there are some AMA's. Same goes for the men doing stuff with a female stripper, because you damn well know that goes on too.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:30 PM
1

I agree. I think it would be ok for the couple (pre or post marriage) to visit a strip club together...but this idea of a male stripper coming into someones home, and giving individual lap dances or do the hen party thing where girls get turns sucking the guy off..is bad news bears all around.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:29 PM
1

I have a lot to learn
/r/askTRP30/05/14 05:33 PM
1

I have seen videos online...no they aren't at full mast. Hell most of them are 60% at best.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:27 PM
-2

Yes. But there are times when u feel so awful...fuck alpha u need someone to help u.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:07 PM
1

I hear you
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:46 PM
1

I don't like revealing too much detail in my posts here, 'just in case'. I will likely delete this thread shortly anyways. I realize I made a mistake posting this here at all.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:32 PM
1

oh. my fault then. carry on :)
/r/seduction30/05/14 04:27 PM
1

I just looked up covert contract and now understand. We have always openly told each other about our kids accomplishments, and typically have followed a behavior of telling each other first, prior to other people (kind of like telling your parents you are having a baby, before friends and other relatives). One of the examples I read was "it is expected for men who take a woman to dinner she will have sex with him afterwards, that is a covert contract" and I disagree with that example unless that…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:24 PM
1

time will tell.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:19 PM
1

thanks. I guess I haven't fully grasped shit tests then. I kind of felt her throwing out multiple references to sleeping on the couch a shit test. I guess not. I am new to this 'change' so doing quick converts like that just aren't natural to me.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:19 PM
1

I was talking into my phone, not typing. It's in the past.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:19 PM
1

I saw it from a respect/disrespect perspective. I felt it was disrespectful she didn't tell me first given the nature of the accomplishment..and yes, I had a pre-assumption something like that would get told to me. No, this isn't a habit of hers..but she has done it before. So I said what I said to her, and I even got a second apology via text this morning and she realizes she should have told me. So my method of handling it worked.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 04:00 PM
1

is it really that confusing? seriously? I am father. She is wife. Him is son.. Wife/mother posts accomplishment about son on FB. I (husband / father) find out about it that way, not from talking. I felt it was disrespectful given the nature of his accomplishment.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:58 PM
1

And me going to her to discuss what she did was discussing it directly
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:11 PM
1

This wasn't education specific but as a parent it was a big deal and not something, IMHO, the other parent should hear about indirectly or after the fact. General good news I don't care if I learn about later.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 03:11 PM
1

you are welcome. In my case, we have built everything together...it would never be fair for me to ever claim more then 50% of our wealth in a situation..just like it wouldn't be fair for her to do the same. Our accounts are all joint (aside from my company 401k, etc..). She is a SAHM and does her role well, and I do my role well. But I am still working on improving and becoming the 'best version of me', regardless of my wife or anyone else in my life. I want to gain and earn respect with her and…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 02:18 PM
1

jesus christ...I just re-read the whole thing. I was driving in my car speaking into my phone, I didn't proof read it. I am sorry LOL. Maybe re-read it now ha
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:51 PM
1

what does she have to feel guilty about? Cheating on her husband?
/r/seduction30/05/14 01:20 PM
2

1) When my wife questions my actions, and after some consideration I realize she's right, how should I react? Being married, it's completely ok to realize she has made a valid point, and you need to concede. I follow the life philosophy...take ownership of your mistakes. If you are wrong, admit you were wrong and apologize. If that behavior is expected of her, it should be expected of you. That isn't a weakness. Asking her husband if he still loves her is a shit test. Also, I am starting to use …
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:18 PM
1

Regarding the direct reward...is there a reason you would "sometimes" give a kiss. Is it not to let on a pattern?
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:07 PM
1

If there is a single thread, or article that specifically talks about rewarding behaviors, punishing other...with specific examples..that would be wonderful. Like OP, I am in a situation where I really want to start integrating letting my wife know I appreciate the good things she does and am disappointed in the poor things. She saves up her money (we both set an allowance for each of us for budgetting reasons) so she can go buy clothes or whatever. So that is a good thing. Well, if she continue…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:06 PM
3

I just don't think a man should tell a woman what she can and cannot wear to a social event. I think by saying anything it shows and security which is probably the shit test not necessarily what she's wearing but if you'll react to it. But let her wear what she wears and take note of how she behaves. What a few where is it and you know she looks hot in it and she's all over your junk all night it doesn't appear to be flaunting trying to get other male attention. Is that a win for you? Conversely…
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:39 PM
1

Jesus that is scary.
/r/seduction30/05/14 04:53 AM
1

can you elaborate on day game? like malls, stores, and shit? How do you wear these women down when you get a shit test? Does she ever feel guilty afterwards?
/r/seduction30/05/14 03:35 AM
22

I regret not knowing some shit when I was in HS..now I am in my 30's and just learning. FML.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:59 AM
1

If you completely disregarded my meta-text, and stuck with the title question alone, how would you answer that.
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:32 AM
1

the scenario I have seen play out a few times, is when the only married people are her and one other girl, and the rest (maybe 3-4) are technically single. So its a matter of her making the decision to be part of the group and have a fun / good night, or not go simply because she is married. Obviously I would opt for her to not go out in that environment. I am just asking a lot of these questions trying to future proof myself down the road should the situation arise again. But in the past, when …
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:58 AM
3

make sure you tell her early on... sweetie, honestly don't even try..all the guys will give you what you want, just sleep with all of them, be a good slut and your future will be taken care of you
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 01:25 AM
1

50 shades, haven't even started HA.
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:24 AM
2

Actually makes me wonder if the father who was a pickup artist would be able to spot signs in a boyfriend that might also be at pickup artist and dating the daughter. And if so would you be involved in dealing with him appropriately
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 12:08 AM
1

Exactly so why would there not be a problem then by making a statement before hand even if it was a subtle comments like " I didn't realize married women needed a bunch of extra male attention at a place meant for women to get hit on"
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:03 AM
1

I know that's why I stated that
/r/askTRP30/05/14 12:02 AM
3

Oh, thank you for providing context. My fault.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 09:53 PM
7

or...let her wear something that shows of how hot she is, and that as long as she is with you, guys will know what YOU got, that she is WITH you. Now, if her actions tied to what she is wearing seems to indicate she just wants attention from other people, well plate her ass. If she is attractive, people are going to want to look at her whether she is in a bikini or some semi-attractive outfit. Should she be dressed in a nuns outfit? absolutely not. Would you be ok with her showing some skin, but…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 09:37 PM
1

you like calling a lot of guys on this sub losers I have noticed. I get you are being blunt and you are being honest, but gdamn
/r/askTRP29/05/14 09:33 PM
1

thank you for that.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 09:16 PM
1

that is a good point. So with that said, as a RP male (or I am attempting to be), say have a good time, let her be on her way, and if anything is amiss when she is back, and I feel I have been disrespected, send her on her way (aka, divorce) without trying to find out what exactly she did? No explanation, just say we are done?
/r/askTRP29/05/14 08:59 PM
1

everything is going. And yes, I am referring to my wife. The letter(s) I have written have happened throughout the years during ups and down periods.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 08:05 PM
1

ok change things up. You have a LTR or a marriage, the couple has a few kids, the guy might have his golfing weekends, the wife spends time with some other moms as a part of her group or whatever...doing mom shit, but she still has some friends (high 20's, low 30's) who want to get all the girls together (old friends) who haven't done anything together in a while..."hey I have an idea, lets go salsa dancing on Saturday night". So now you have maybe 2-3 moms, 2-3 girls in relationships and/or sin…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 07:38 PM
1

the test boost would be negligible anyways....hell even 'natural test boosters' purchased at Vitamin shoppe are bullshit. Want more test, you better be getting a gel or shot.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:31 PM
1

I know there is a joke I think by Chris Rock or Eddie Murphy, but something along the lines of "Girls that are friends with guys...are simply girls the guy hasn't fucked yet". With that said, is it common for a RP'er to have female friends, but only ones he has zero sexual interest in? Not saying that in OP's case, no need to waste the time with her..no need to be her friend since you DO have a sexual interest in her.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:29 PM
1

God I am an idiot...I just watched that and I simply can't read in her body language what the hell you talked about. But that is my lack of being good at reading subtle hints apparently.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 07:22 PM
2

I agree with not giving her the letter (because I have been in his shoes...except my letter was a hail mary at trying to repair/save things...but don't fault the guy for writing his thoughts down. That shit feels good to verbalize it. I have written so much shit on reddit in the past couple of months with shit I have been dealing with..and seeing people comment on it, it feels fucking good and has been therapy for me.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 06:52 PM
2

Was watching RSD here in this video... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM&list=UUD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g and just imagining my wife in any of those scenarios makes my skin crawl. If you are in an LTR, I just don't see any valid reason for someone to even put themselves in that situation unless the end goal is to dance with someone of the opposite sex, not just "have a girls night and dance with your girls".
/r/askTRP29/05/14 06:44 PM
1

I like your approach with story telling. Regarding alcohol...oh I dont care if they have fun...but being the non drinker u fortunately leaves me as an outlier in those scenarios. I have a difficult time relating. I can't stand people slurring their words, stumbling, being sloppy, or me putting their safety ahead of my enjoyment because I need to drive them home or prevent them from getting taken advantage of. My wife in particular would be the one that affects me the most because of how she drin…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 03:28 PM
1

thank you. Regarding the ask/answer question thing, I was also stating that in terms of general conversation in life, not just my work (IT). I think alot of times, people don't ask me about myself..so that is why I voluntarily offer up information because I want them to know about me, or why I feel how I do on a topic. If nobody asks, I could just stay quiet..and over time I might find I am simply not having as much conversation because why be the guy who is always asking questions and getting a…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 02:48 PM
1

ah ok. I never knew he was into RP, I will check out his other channel.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:57 PM
1

Elliott is mentioned quite a bit around here. I follow some fitness groups / forums on FB...and many aren't big fans of him and even feel he sometimes gives poor fitness advice. I am not one of those, just saying there are those who do.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:09 AM
2

actually, I am curious what the typical reaction to something like this is. Obviously you are wet and a mess, from a drink I imagine..unless it completely dodged you. You are likely at risk of being thrown out if a guy wants to fight you...or do you somehow stand your ground, and try to stick around and do your thing?
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:39 PM
3

because you swallow! is the only valid answer
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:37 PM
1

LOL.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:04 PM
4

why would a guy with those qualities be on fucking OKCupid anyways. Someone with that type of fucking profile has models swinging off his dick...why would he want some 50 year old hag.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:04 PM
10

I can't find the story, but someone once wrote up something called "The Man Store" where a woman could go up levels in the escalator and each floor was a man with certain qualities..and up she went as it got better, and better...till she could have stopped on the 2nd to last floor for an awesome guy, but felt it could get even better...and on the top floor was supposed to be perfection and there was a sign "This floor has no men". The game was, she couldn't go back down, only exit the building.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:56 PM
12

LOL, your profile is hilarious and obvious to any common sense logical human being it is faked...and you getting legit responses. FML.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:53 PM
1

the first video I saw of him 2 hours ago was him sitting with a fancy hat on, cigar, and drinking some scotch or some shit...I thought visually, what a phag :) but I am definitely going to see what he all has to say.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:12 PM
1

Will do
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 03:35 PM
1

I guess its more about finding voice topics I can listen to while working that discuss many of the things on this sub as well as RP related books. I did purchase the MMSL kindle book, but that requires sitting down and reading, so I have to set aside time for that. Yes I will read what I can read, but listening is also a good way to absorb info too. I am checking this one out at the moment - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6TJdRrZR_WacbxJWiRZ5_g
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 02:28 PM
2

Yea, I am really starting to see the light on this topic. Stand up for your values, don't get sucked into the vortex of stupidity, there are only rare events in life worth getting very angry about or showing that type of emotion, and petty arguments is not one of them. Thanks TRP!
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:00 PM
1

well you don't have to watch, most of them are talking, etc... and I can listen to them with headphones while working. I started listening to a couple 10-15 min videos this morning on my way to work in the car.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:53 PM
2

I like that
/r/askTRP28/05/14 12:26 PM
2

Standing ovation. Great job and overcoming those obstacles.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:06 PM
1

3x now ;)
/r/askTRP28/05/14 12:03 PM
1

LMAO
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:58 AM
1

Most married men complain that they're not having sex at all. You're claiming to be having frequent, awesome sex with a very horny wife, but you're complaining because she's not initiating enough, or the way you want? Clarification. No. We have had sex 2x in 5 months (granted, there was a medical condition involved there, but even under normal circumstances 1x every 2-3 weeks was closer to normal) and I think like 3 bj's in 3 months. And that was only because I stopped initiating...because my ad…
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:40 AM
2

yea you are definitely not a cuckold, she was just a royal whore.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:37 AM
2

well I am not asking for me personally because of anything specific, just more of a general rule of thumb..is there a situation where a RP man would get angry, pissed, or violent. I can see exceptions, like defending yourself, fighting another man, etc...
/r/askTRP28/05/14 02:36 AM
7

Dude...3x trying to kiss a girl who has said no twice and has a bf? Cmon.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 01:58 AM
1

Fwi, i didnt turn down sex, i just played a bit of a dominating role getting her to rephrase her request.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 01:50 AM
1

General question, and not knocking you at all. Do you get any enjoyment, at all, from being submissive to people, or women? You mentioned cuckolded...I have always understood that term where a man consents and accepts that his wife/gf is fucking other men and they are ok with it, and do not receive anything really in return. It sounds like you have lived a life of a submissive type nature and if you truly don't like it and want to break out of the mold, you really need to start doing the types o…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 08:37 PM
0

fuck why is he roommates with him then.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 08:27 PM
2

just let her vent, and don't engage?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 08:17 PM
-1

just to clarify. When I said toughest challenge, I meant running your RP game on a girl you wanted, and finding it a challenge..but eventually you succeeded.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 07:40 PM
1

and it isn't butthurt, it's trying to understand. I don't think the questions I just asked are invalid. I have only been on the RP forum for a week now, so really not enough time to run either of them.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:38 PM
4

don't be short with him
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:36 PM
0

couldn't your friend had warned you "Dude, this guy has a bit of a Napoleon complex. Friendly warning."
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:33 PM
-2

wtf. First off, if someone who I have never met asks if I am gay for the first time trying to introduce themselves, the last thing I am making is a fucking joke to them. I would call them out with "what the fuck did you say?" or "why, you got a problem with gay guys?". Showing someone they are homophobic in public I think is as humiliating as anything. The guy doesn't sound like alpha, he sounds like an asshole, and asshole != alpha.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:32 PM
1

You're asking your wife to come up and take you like a man. Don't ask, just tear your pants off, throw you on the bed, and go at you like a caveman. Of course she's resisting that. She's a woman. Sex can't be her idea. No, that isn't what I am asking. If she wants to come up to me, pull my pants down, and get on her knees and start blowing me...that isn't exactly the same thing now, is it? I take that has me still being more dominant. I am saying if she wants to have sex with me, come into my of…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:28 PM
1

Ok. Wish I could shut my mind off. Because even if I don't respond by grabbing my phone or typing out an email...my mind is asking all types of shit and it won't shut up...just want to drive a screwdriver into the middle :)
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:18 PM
1

yes, I care what people think. I care about people. I need to stop caring, TBH.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:09 PM
1

For women, the sex is better and the orgasms easier, more numerous, and more intense with a man she respects and admires. Well...based on that and she doesn't initiate, she doesn't respect me...yet when we fuck (like we did last night), she is as wet as the nile and has many orgasms. :) But passive-aggressively trying to test your woman's respect for you by withholding sex to try to condition her behavior is something women might do. Are you a woman? Of course not, but trying to modify her behav…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 07:02 PM
-2

I wear moisturizer on my face every day after a shower. I think I have nice skin, and being a non-drinker helps too IMHO. Luckily I have muscles and a low bf % and I agree with the facial structure..my jaw etc.. is much more chiseled now then it was when I was 18% bf. I love it. For example, I would rank myself 7.25. I could fuck a 5 in the ass with only taking her to mc donalds if I wanted. However, if another guy that was a 5 tried to pull that off he would be rejected. Girls rarely fuck "belo…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:55 PM
1

ok, so I just need to understand something. You don't argue with your wife..but if "YOU" approach her with a point that she needs to be aware of, how does that not come off like an argument toward her? serious question. There may be times she comes to me with a complete valid issue, but usually I don't argue with her, I say "you are right, I didn't think about that. I apologize and will fix that". I get that being said, those are the kind of responses men want when they bring up issues, lol.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:49 PM
1

ok, just for context...I have done most of the initiating in our marriage, and when those attempts start having small rejections...that add up, and add up, and eventually you realize your efforts are being shut down..you stop trying. So it got to the point where I just said, if you want to fuck, come fuck me. I know of plenty of women who come onto their husbands/boyfriends. Plenty of women who DESIRE to fuck their spouses. I hear about it on this sub, on /r/sex, etc.. I am tired of everyone who…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 06:41 PM
1

Damn. I tend to write long drawn out texts, because it allows me to frame my thoughts exactly how I want whereas in person...sometimes I slip on words, or phrases, or say the wrong thing and my point never gets delivered how I intend. FML.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 05:46 PM
1

I think I offer a mix of alpha / beta. I don't own either of them outright. I am dominant in the bedroom, like to be in control, like to focus on her pleasure before mine making her satisifed. But I am a talker, extrovert and tend to not take the lead in things, but kind of follow..depending on whatever it is. I reveal too much info about myself early on to people (beta) but will also tell it like it is and own my mistakes or give validation to someone who deserves it (consider that alpha). Noth…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 02:00 PM
3

married 15 years, together since HS. She is super hot 8/10. I consider myself attractive. Are each others first and only (sex), but sex between us is great (when we have it, bit of a deadbedroom situation for a while). With any relationship, it has ups and downs. We play our respective roles in the relationship well (sahm for her, sole provider for me), take good care of our kids, etc... That being said, men are men and women are women so people make dumb decisions. It's a matter of how much for…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:57 PM
1

I am saying "I have", not that I currently am..hence why I am here. My point being, I have given her tons of orgasms in the past, but not once did I ever feel like she was craving to have it again and again, jumping me every chance she got. We were each others first and only, so maybe that is part of it. Maybe if a girl has had dud after dud, then some guy rocks her world..she will do whatever it takes to keep that guy.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 03:11 AM
1

Don’t be too alpha or too soft. Be clever, charming, smooth, and cunning until you’ve given her the first orgasm of the evening. Then get the rubber gloves out and go to town until she surrenders to the rapture absolutely and completely, and don’t let her make you cum, at least not until you’ve been at it for 3-4 hours and she’s passed out a couple of times. If you are with her all weekend, hold it until Sunday and she has to use her mouth because her pussy is too sore (swallowing is another way…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 02:29 AM
1

I might need to give 50 shades of gray a read, honestly. My wife read all 3 books I think 2 years ago or whatever, and I know she masturbated to them, and I know she has had bisexual fantasies, or at least a woman on woman fantasy (that in fact I am considering her exploring)...but she has never mentioned a ton of the book so I am not sure what kinds of thoughts got dumped into her head.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:55 AM
1

Is there a link to a particular post on therationalmale.com that conveys TRP, or are you saying the entire blog in general?
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:50 AM
1

I think you have asked me about her limits, I thought I answered that privately not sure.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:48 AM
1

fwiw, these are often empty threats by her..this isn't really anything new. In the past, I would beg her to forgive me, plead, be a fucking beta bitch. I even cried a few times. In the past year, specifically, I have more of a chip on my shoulder, I don't run to her when she has made these empty childist threats. I have even referred to them as childish before. We do deeply still love each other, and as bad as things seem to get, we still don't see ourselves with out each other. But, I am still …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 11:29 PM
2

formally, 1 week. But realized I was doing semi-RP actions for the past year.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 11:22 PM
3

That host in the blue dress..her panties are soaked.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 08:23 PM
2

Thanks. 1) already on solid lifting program. Look good shirtless. Going to get bigger. (Funny side note, doing some deck work and her mom and moms sister (neither are attractive) kept staring at me and making "wifey u got yourself a hot hubby there. Big muscles blah blah" and I am just rolling my eyes because I am wanting to hear that shit from her, not them..lol. But focused on more size and strength. 2) surprisingly I am very open and good at talking to everyone especially females. I just neve…
/r/askTRP26/05/14 07:38 PM
1

I feel like the question is pretty self explanatory
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 06:43 PM
1

examples?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 03:56 PM
1

Please update us
/r/askTRP26/05/14 02:14 PM
3

Thank u so much!!!
/r/askTRP26/05/14 01:59 PM
2

She decided to get drunk today at a memorial day event..I basically ignored her all day. She threw at me over text some crap and divorce lingo. Didnt respond and right now I am sitting in a movie theater by myself because I want to do something fun for myself.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 01:31 AM
1

Only if u are legit low. I am sick of people pushing trt for guys who have normal levels.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:34 PM
1

You got age on your side too! Milk it I regret not lifting seriously at that age. Go testosterone! But in your 30s its harder. I put on fat as equal as muscle which sucks.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 10:58 PM
1

In my experience and with friends...if a guy flirts in front of his girl, she gets pissed. Vice versa if she flirts with another guy, he gets upset
/r/askTRP25/05/14 08:33 PM
1

SRS question. If a tactic men use is to mention attractive women that he associates with or sees which keeps the SO knowing he has options, can the lady also do the same with guys in a RP relationship?
/r/askTRP25/05/14 07:45 PM
1

Thanks that is good
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 07:42 PM
1

the kind of talk going on at a place of employment is unacceptable. Unless there is no HR department, one fuck up and your ass is being handed a pink slip and sexual misconduct charge.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 05:43 PM
1

I realize I am new to TRP, but some things just seem unnessary and not everything has to be a RP response. If someone makes a joke about KKK tattoos, I don't see myself making a running joke about that..I would nip it in the bud quickly. I would just say "Seriously...that's not right, cmon" and make her feel like shit for saying it. Also, stop doing this stuff at your job. My personality at home or socially isn't exactly the same at my place of employment that provides me a paycheck every 2 week…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 05:42 PM
1

and also, can someone lay out a decent example of how life between a RPM and a RPW would look like. Would it still maintain a Dominant / submissive type relationship?
/r/askTRP25/05/14 05:19 PM
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I realize I am new to TRP, but from reading this post, it sounds like all the stuff he is doing, is what is recommended all the time...the only difference is she doesn't fall for any of it, because she knows TRP game..whereas most of the women men use TRP tatics on are clueless that they are using them. So how is this guy any different from many men in here (in terms of 'saying' the RP types of things, dread game, etc...)..he just happens to have a woman who knows the game, likely, better then h…
/r/askTRP25/05/14 05:18 PM
2

in todays age with phones...when people start saying "I was so busy, I am sorry for not getting back to you" is 99.9% horseshit. We live in a "get your message instantly" world...for someone to be SO busy they aren't able to send a response that would take them 15-30 seconds is mind boggling, and also a lie.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 05:13 PM
2

Yea the latter in your statement seems to be defacto around these parts.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 12:34 PM
0

Yes though we are currently on a thin line.. But I make sure in text messages etc to include that she said that and my response should she "ever" try to use that in court.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:53 AM
1

Fuck, that story is like the twilight zone to me. I can't imagine any of that shit working for me!
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:33 AM
3

k, then kill yourself if me telling you don't means nothing. (wasn't meaningless, I never want anyone to kill themselves especially when life is simply a series of moments that pass. 20 years from now, if you were able to go back in time you would kick yourself"
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:25 AM
15

if serious, don't. srs.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:21 AM
1

guess I meant I have earned it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:05 AM
0

explain?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:04 AM
2

during deep fights with my SO, in which I have never been violent with her (I have defended myself from smacks, slaps, punches etc...) and I admit I have put holes in the wall before, but she will throw out shit like "don't hurt our children". I look at her in utter amazement, like "where in the flying fuck would you ever get an idea like that", as if I have ever laid a hand on her, let alone our children. I am not sure if that is hamstering, or batshit cray cray.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:53 AM
1

I know...
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:36 AM
1

Yea, she was starting to say something, but I cut her off and kept going. She had a bit of a defeated look on her face, then walked away. We talked more tonight..she feels like she cant' do anything right around me anymore..that I am always bitching about something, complaining, wanting sex from her even if she is pissed off, etc... she is partially right I find myself complaining about things a lot easier..but that is a byproduct of all the other shit that has gone on. My patience level has bee…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:33 AM
0

I think the part of TRP I have trouble accepting or understanding is being still a legitimate 'nice guy' in terms of people actually liking me, yet being enough of an 'asshole' (though not really) where I am respected by my peers and my wife...aka looked up upon. Like I don't want to be 'cold' in my relationship...just circumstances have pushed me in that direction where "i don't give a fuck" on certain topics, but I admit...I am being a dickhead to her. I know I am. I don't like being that way …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:21 AM
1

a pickle is correct. Well the cards are on the table...is it a pair or a full house.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:16 AM
0

yea, the fucker is still caught on the side of my throat. I try to drink water...fucker won't go all the way :)
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:15 AM
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what the fuck
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:08 AM
-1

If she was married to a hypermasculine who didn't take shit from her, she'd be giving him morning blowjobs, cooking for him, etc. and she'd love it. ouch. Well I know I am in the beginning stages of trying to change for the better. cross fingers.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:01 AM
-1

yea, I hope this was a one and done convo. having it anymore goes against the point and probably gives me the answer.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 04:00 AM
-1

I hope she chooses door 1, not door 2
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:59 AM
1

who knows...we have been down this rodeo before (d-word discussions)
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:59 AM
0

thanks
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 03:53 AM
1

Regarding toddlers, I have instinctecly done this for years...not trying to be cruel..and I actually get yelled at because I am "acting like a dad". Infuriates me.
/r/askTRP25/05/14 01:38 AM
2

never trusted again ironic.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 07:15 PM
1

MILK IT!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:12 PM
1

Word
/r/askTRP24/05/14 05:14 PM
1

I'm trying.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 04:30 PM
1

well now, she asks for it, and that is when I do it. I don't offer. what I "want" from her is for her to give her body to me. want to have sex with me, want to get on her knees, etc.. I don't ask for sex anymore, haven't in a long while.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 03:55 PM
1

well I am trying to better myself. That is all I can do. I am just trying to be in the top 20% AND with some of that stuff, like you said.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 03:54 PM
1

I will never be 'happy' :) I will continue packing on muscle and getting stronger, but not looking to look like a meathead or anything. I want that awesome beach body, but the strength to match it!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:41 PM
2

why is it there are guys (unless they are boasting and blowing smoke up our asses) that are like "OMG, dude I am big and ripped, and woman damn near throw their panties at me, guys are always asking me questions, I get looks constantly, etc...." and there are other guys like you where you are big, you know you are noticed, but you really don't see or feel different reactions from women. So the former guys...I wonder if its true, there is something else at play. Maybe they are just really good lo…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:10 PM
1

Yea but there are ladies who think guys with muscle look stupid and prefer the hipster or gothic lean guys. I am sure I am hot to many, and ugly as shit to others.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:08 PM
1

Thanks for that. I have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 03:04 PM
2

that is a great response and I agree 100%. I am not 'trying' to tell her what to do, and I have flat out told her she makes her own decisions..but i have the right to feel a certain way about those decisions. But maybe the way I present myself it might come off as if I am telling her what she can and can't do. I have a few dealbreakers that I have flat out told her, things she sometimes continues to do and I am now at a point of when she says "fine I will change" I don't believe her. Show me act…
/r/askTRP24/05/14 03:02 PM
2

what a great story. Thanks bro. Yea, being in my low 30's, and looking at my peers...again I might not be a "big" guy, but I fill out my clothes pretty good and when next to my peers, I think I stand out as "the fit guy", and when I look at old school mates, most are lazy, overweight / pudgy, etc... and it makes me feel fantastic about some decisions I have made in my life..and dedicating myself to becoming better. But I am also huge on complimenting and encouraging others..because those same pe…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:59 PM
1

ha, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:54 PM
2

which is funny, I have told her to wear a bikini outside, lol
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:51 PM
1

Damn that is a good question with no 'right or wrong' answer. I am close to where you were. I have done what is considered more of a recomp...where my weight hasn't changed much, but I have slowly built muscle/shape while fat has dropped...but it is a much longer process versus the guy who puts on 30lbs in a year (which btw usually a good chunk is fat) then goes on a massive cut...and in the end, 'maybe' you gain some muscle..but the large bulk and large cut can be as counter-productive as anyth…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:31 PM
1

Jesus never phrase it like that. That sounds insecure as hell. I hope you're not regressing to placate to her feelings. Because she wins if you start placating. yea that is why I said I "haven't" been doing that.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 02:28 PM
1

good advice. I am just in a weird place personally. I am confident, good physique, good job, respect from friends, family, and co-workers, pay for everything (sole income provider, family of 4)...yet currently shitty marriage and it just sucks because I want it better..but I am still bitter about some things which makes me a cold person at home.
/r/askTRP24/05/14 02:26 PM
2

applause
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:24 PM
1

If you are a lean 190, you are a big guy IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:23 PM
1

I think if I could ever get just a passing by comment like that, something...anything that gave me an indication another female other then my wife found me attractive or found my physique hot..it I would probably smile for a month straight. Outside of 1 particular girl I got into conversations with a while back, she thought I was hot and looked fantastic (the kind of physique that really turns her on).
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:16 PM
1

whenever I hear someone say "I fucked a couple in one evening" I just think, "IS THIS REAL LIFE?????" Great job on your transformation bro! that is awesome and I am glad you now get the respect and admiration you deserve!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 02:11 PM
1

DT someone needs to update the glossary :) this is like the 4th acroynm that isn't on that page :) so dt? Lately I am getting alot of "why are you talking to me like that? I am your wife, not a co-worker or friend. You sound like a dictator!" You are communicating at the level of woman to woman, passive aggressive intimidation and expression of boundaries(roommate talk if you will). The level of communication between a man a woman is instinctive, you need to take her into a mindset where she wan…
/r/askTRP24/05/14 02:10 PM
1

christ!
/r/askTRP24/05/14 02:05 PM
1

15 year marriage here ;)
/r/askTRP24/05/14 12:58 PM
1

Lean 205 is rare for most of the population.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 12:57 PM
1

A&a'd?
/r/askTRP24/05/14 12:56 PM
1

Yea, I don't anymore...though I have some fitness friends who like seeing those things.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:38 AM
1

thanks :)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:31 AM
1

sorry Ronnie Coleman. It's all I got right now. Right now my total (squat, dl, bench) is 945lbs.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:16 AM
1

age and drugs do play a factor. And not everyone is built to be a power lifer. I have long arms and long skinny legs, despite my squat program my legs aren't getting huge and jacked. And just because you are "big" doesn't == super strong either. There is a phrase "I want to look like I lift a lot, not actually have to lift a lot". But being in my 30's, working two jobs (sole income provider), 6 hrs sleep a night, and working through an injury year 1 of the 3 years, I am quite happy with the prog…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:12 AM
-1

Yea I bet you were the fucker I had to watch pause bench 335 for 5 reps the other day. FUCKER! :)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:02 AM
1

I am sticking to natty. thx ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 03:02 AM
0

I know above 400lbs is not an impressive dead lift, but when I do it and look in the mirror, I see 5 faces and a woman or two looking in my direction during my setup and drop. Ego go boom ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:29 AM
1

Clarify 15lbs muscle in 3 months is unlikely for "most" people.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:06 AM
1

"Most likely" not even 50% of that was lbs of muscle. Could be if you are a newbie but I have put on a lot of weight before and in hindsight it was a good amount of fat. Guys who lost 30lbs and gain a bunch of muscle and size are usually on chemical assistance ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 01:06 AM
1

That said...this is a journey and I plan on continuing..one day 500lb pull, 300lb bench, 400lb squat. :)
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 12:45 AM
1

I am closer to a beach body build. I am not going or trying to be "big" like a bodybuilder. I can share a before/after privately. I think you underestimate 400lbs. I realize its nothing crazy, but I certainly don't see other guys in the gym deadlifting that weight..most are doing 250, maybe 315. Bear in mind, "for me" this has been pretty awesome. If I am comparing myself to the general population where I am, in terms of muscle and leaness, IMHO I am inside that top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 12:33 AM
1

Actually that particular time she wasn't feeling well anyways at that time to ask her to do it what's weird is there have been times or she's gotten some in her mouth and she tells me it doesn't taste bad but she doesn't look at it as something sexual she sees it have a gunk that is my DNA
/r/askTRP23/05/14 10:35 PM
2

I do think I get silent "props" at my job. I stand out among my peers, again not in sheer size, but just my build...I "look" like I have some nice shit under my t-shirt, and they all know how dedicated I am every day I choose to go to the gym, rather then go out to a social lunch. So I think I get silent respect in that way, plus in business if someone sees yo are dedicated to your health, and not a couch fat slob, they are going to respect you more because they can rely on you to get shit done.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:15 PM
3

jesus fucking christ. That is like a bad porn movie or some shit. I am sorry you had to deal with that crap. You would think shit would be more subtle..not point blank "hell yea we all getting fucked tonight!"
/r/askTRP23/05/14 10:13 PM
1

good for you! I unfortunately don't get those random compliments from females...but like you my arms look fucking awesome in a cut off. delts, shoulders, biceps. boom.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:11 PM
3

Thanks. Regarding that last part, "shallowly objectifying them" so an example would be like "damn, that girls tits are huge...i bet they are fake though, probably costs a ton"
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 10:10 PM
0

so what were you actively doing besides lifting that started getting their attention?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 08:54 PM
2

great. Keep it going!
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 08:48 PM
13

It sounds like you have approached and/or bedded a sizable amount of married women. Based on this, do you have any advice for a married man who doesn't want to ever see his woman fall into the arms of a man like you? I am already trying to swallow TRP for me and have it rub off positively in my marriage
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 08:17 PM
2

haha. Newbie choking on TRP, been using dat search bar tho
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 08:02 PM
1

just to add a "but" though, life is about sacrifice and not always getting what "you" want, but making decisions that bring value that isn't always immediately rewarded. I wonder if there is a percentage rule anybody who does RP follows, like hold frame 80% of the time, wiggle 20%.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 07:53 PM
1

I like this response. I am very approachable and tend to say yes to many things at work, because I 1.) know I can do the task and 2.) know that it shows I am competent and people can rely on me. Now, it does lead me down the "walk all over him" situation and sometimes I am good at saying no or knowing my boundaries, but I voluntarily roll over sometimes and deal with it because of the reward I may receive (financial, respect, etc...) as I am not in a managerial position (nor do I want to be). So…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 07:51 PM
8

I wanna us to have fun Remove just and change wanna to want :) I want us to have fun FTFY :)
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 07:42 PM
1

The original to this day is just as funny. The sequels were decent. Go torrent it, find it on Netflix..but go watch :)
/r/askTRP23/05/14 07:41 PM
1

Just got done watching this compilation gem https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpKMYGEzB7w
/r/askTRP23/05/14 07:02 PM
1

yea but at some point, you might be approaching rape territory
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:59 PM
1

American Pie
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:58 PM
1

"suck me beautiful"
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:47 PM
1

I keep coming across some acronyms that I never see on this page: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/17xmry/acronym_and_glossary_thread/ so I end up having to google them.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:44 PM
1

and if its a best friend?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:43 PM
1

still getting used to the terms. ILY? Been together a long time, all types of stuff have been tried. I just think the dominating aspect is likely my best approach versus the soft method.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:42 PM
9

evil? no. genius? yes ;)
/r/askTRP23/05/14 06:27 PM
1

what is that taste in my mouth "Oh you don't remember do you, that is my cum"
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:50 PM
1

she has read all 3 books. She likes to be dominated..maybe I just need to push it further.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:38 PM
1

she already drinks that. Can confirm, it has never leaned her toward doing it. She has said several times, while drunk and during sex, "oh god I want it up my ass" and then when I start to go that direction, she says "oh not tonight though...I can't right now"..I am like WTF.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:38 PM
2

a follow up question to OP. If someone enters into an affair knowing the other person is married...does that other person bear 'any' responsibility, or is it 100% on the married individual? As I know there are guys out there who get a high from going and seducing married women, as if it's a game. You hear stories of the girl who "would never cheat, is as faithful as they come" and all it takes is the 'right guy' charming her while she is out at a club, and 2 hours later she is being balled deep.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 05:35 PM
12

in front of her BF, you could say "sorry I haven't responded to your emails or texts, I have been busy". Keep it coy, but that itself puts her in a corner and now her new BF is questioning everything.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:25 PM
16

reminds me a bit of the Louis C.K. quote, along the lines of "a man could rip your arm off but leave you intact, as a man. A woman will shit in your heart"
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:20 PM
1

possessing both I think is the best. There are times where beta is completely acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:17 PM
1

It's almost like married and alpha is rarely considered a "positive" and a married woman is likely to get comfort, sex, etc.. from a beta, then from another alpha man. Case in point in another thread I am involved in, this woman wrote this: My husband is the "traditional" Alpha male, whereas my AP has often described himself as beta. I've pointed out that, in reality, he is the alpha using that paradigm, because he is the one I want and desire completely, and the only male I would ever willingly…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:42 PM
1

my SO has brought up shit that happened 6 years ago, to try and flip things around on me that she did to me in the last couple of years. And in hindsight, they aren't even comparable in terms of "severity".
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:46 PM
2

so the beta traits INITIALLY get you into their pants, but over time their legs start closing? I was under the impression most betas have trouble with initially getting in their pants, and it's the alphas that have a higher initial success rate.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:44 PM
2

that bitch deserves a falcon punch to the groin and her uterus set on fire. this kind of shit scares the bejesus out of me if I ever divorce and have to get back into the field. damn.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:40 PM
2

this story just highlighted exactly how opposite I would have acted. I probably would have sat there with them for a while, but ultimately I likely would have left. When I say opposite, I would have been the one responding to her text with all the things I considered she did wrong. I liked your version better...the constraint you show is impressive. I know I am still in beta-ville and trying to get out. I could see a middle ground where I don't explain much but just say "bringing an ex bf when i…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:35 PM
1

I am not sure if there is a term for it..only thing I can think is the "bar" is always moving. This particular girls bar has moved quite a bit, despite her regrets of leaving you, she has now experienced another guy who showers her with tons of gifts...and that has moved her bar where she likely will expect that with other men, unless they are compensating all of that with something else that blows her mind (mind blowing sex, maybe fullfilling another hole in her life, etc..) Take a girl who has…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 02:05 PM
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I like the positive reinforcement aspect. The other stuff (nicer panties, cuddling, etc..) she isn't doing and has been part of my complaints. I have wanted intimacy with her (when a man goes months with no affection, sex, desire, etc...) even intimacy as "girly" as that sounds actually means a fucking lot. A passionate kiss. A strong hug. Cuddling. etc... now where things sit right now with us, all the info is on the table about what I need from her. She has no clue I swallowed TRP and will hop…
/r/askTRP23/05/14 01:58 PM
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dat ad hominem Yea I know, shitty example.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 01:26 PM
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as cliche as it sounds, some people can't be "fixed" no matter how alpha, dominant, etc... you are. If someone has a pattern of cheating, they are going to cheat. It's in their DNA. So obviously it didn't matter how good you were to her, or in bed..obviously you were sexually superior..but it didn't matter, she wanted something different/new. That sucks bro. I am sorry. One of the questions I wanted to ask in TRP or asktrp was this. I get a strong indication from the stuff I have read that betas…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 01:23 PM
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Mrs. Ironwood's response to the amount of female attention is classic. She knows about preselection, and she also knows that I am deeply committed to our marriage. I've never cheated, even when it's been tempting and I could have gotten away with it - because every time I have a flirty encounter with a woman, or she sends me (uninvited) a flirty text, I tell her about it. I don't do it in a guilt-stricken, ashamed fashion, but I proudly boast of the attention, assure her I'm not interested, but …
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:17 AM
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if there is anything in MMSL you can point me to, specifically, please do so. Thanks!
/r/askTRP23/05/14 05:14 AM
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I need to find a torrent for MMSL, and that Red Pill Room..damn just reading the first post had me nailed.
/r/askTRP23/05/14 04:06 AM
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then do that!
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:34 AM
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Guess I haven't experienced enough sorry, defeat, cheating, etc... to feel any of those explanations. Generally speaking, I think most of what you said can easily be applied to men as well. My father is a perfect example of this... despite his money, power, connections, etc..I have never looked at him as "alpha".
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:30 AM
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Thanks bro. strong words!
/r/askTRP23/05/14 03:24 AM
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what a twist..alpha goes beta...stays alpha, but nobody knows ;) haha Also, what is the phrase, walk softly but carry a big stick. Being alpha is kind of like fight club, don't talk about it..just be it. Confidence being probably the biggest one.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:21 AM
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a sorry beat down bastard that seems a bit harsh, especially if he really is a solid guy, and his wife is just a whore.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 03:20 AM
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No, that actually makes a lot of sense. I have an epiphany today actually while coming home from work. She always gets what she wants from me...even if I complain..whether its something she bought or whatever. I am vocal about my complaints, but I ultimately just say "eh..fine whatever, I will transfer money to cover it" or something..and realized I have created a pattern of her being able to do XYZ, and knowing she will get grief for it..but also knowing with enough time, I will be ok with it. …
/r/askTRP23/05/14 02:54 AM
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the most important thing is that you respect her, she respects you, and you have a healthy sexual relationship. Happy for you!
/r/askTRP23/05/14 02:39 AM
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so in your personal life, do girls come to you for sex, or do you let them know "your ready" and they just open their legs?
/r/askTRP23/05/14 02:18 AM
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see, I have had conversations with a couple women who clearly were the higher libido individuals in the relationship..and their SO's weren't initiating, so they always were. Just cause your Alpha and "take what you want" doesn't mean a man shouldn't feel desired/wanted. I want to know if I don't make the move, that she knows to come onto me if she "wants the cock" so to speak. I am coming from a /r/deadbedrooms situation right now because I always initiated and have felt less then desired / want…
/r/askTRP23/05/14 01:49 AM
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that is fair, I will remove my post.
/r/seduction22/05/14 10:04 PM
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I am a fucking chatter box. I actually don't do well in complete silence, I often will just bring up any topic just so there isn't dead air. Now, I am not in a situation where I am picking anyone up, I just hate silence when there are two people who are supposed to be communicating. I crack jokes a lot, I am very sarcastic so I have used that to my advantage my whole life and I find most people legitimately laugh at what I have to say.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:46 PM
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yea, I was leaning toward that as the likely case. I don't often see smiles, but I have noticed some looks in mirrors, but then again you never know if they are looking "at you" or just in your direction.
/r/seduction22/05/14 09:40 PM
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this was years ago, I haven't done anything like that since.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:29 AM
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FUCK!!!! some of this really concerns me in my situation. I almost want to show my SO this entire post just so I can show her she has been giving me trickle truth.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 08:58 PM
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I might be attaching something to my home network to capture information being passed back and forth, to confirm any suspicions.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:53 PM
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literally just found this, lol. Thanks!
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:52 PM
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MMSL? sorry I am not caught up on the lingo.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:20 PM
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fwiw, she is a SAHM and he is 10000 miles away. and neither travel. this was purely emotional.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:19 PM
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so TRP is only for singles or those wanting more? I thought TRP is closer to being alpha vs beta, so being more alpha in my marriage is for the intent of improving the marriage.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:16 PM
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so being a bit more "nice" in a public setting, more eye contact, etc.. would be playing with fire?
/r/askTRP21/05/14 07:12 PM
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I can report...this isn't the case for me. Not sure why though, but getting attention elsewhere has done nothing for her desire for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:17 PM
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Damn...that described me WAY too well. makes me sad.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:47 PM
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