What makes people TRP?

[deleted] · 2014-06-24T12:38:12+00:00

well, some people are natural at redpill, they grew up with strong male role models, and they just know how to do it from observations as they grew up/advice from their father/older brothers etc

the second group are the men who bought the romance lie spoon fed to us in the movies: write your girl a poem and be loving and kind and the panties will fly off. reality shows the opposite, and eventually we realise nice guys get no pussy, and if we are lucky enough we wind up here, and have our confusions confirmed. yep, we had it all wrong.

men that reject it are either still stuck in that place where they believe that by being nice they will one day find "the one", and they will live happily ever after, which is a pretty addictive dream. because we were fed it growing up, it becomes a part of our personality almost, and its hard to deal with the stuff that say "hey dude, all your beliefs are totally fucked up".

deep down most people want to be a nice person ... white knights want to be nice, because they are nice. they still believe the fairy tale that prince charming will find a nice girl one day and settle down.

boy gets girl, boy is nice to girl, girl leaves. boy is like, WTF i was so nice, i did no wrong, and can go two ways from here. 1) it her, she is an idiot, she doesnt know what she is missing, im not gonna change. 2) its me, there must be something wrong with me, maybe im just a loser after all, accept it.

both of these are dangerous labels, the second has surely led to many suicides.

to accept the red pill means that you have to accept your mistakes, my beliefs about women were wrong, my girl left because of my actions, and i need to change, and i cannot just be myself and be nice, i gotta be a bit of an asshole, which i dont really want to be.

and after all, sometimes bluepill behaviour does work, sometimes a girl is in the mood for a big soppy bastard, and the guy will get lucky, but it wont last, and she will be wearing the pants.

the other thing theredpill does is it splits men and women up into two distinct groups, and gives them roles. and oh my how feminists hate this, because they are busy telling everyone men and women are exactly the same, and its all a construct ... redpill goes against their worldview. and white knights are often these men that have bought into this stuff ...

sorry for the long post, but when you start typing sometimes, its hard to stop !

CocaineOnThaSink · 2014-06-24T13:38:16+00:00

So my question is, what did wake you?

All in all, I always sort of shared the views on life,self improvement, and relationships in general. TRP as metaphor simply confirmed other people believe the shit too. Growing up in Brooklyn I seen the shit play out daily. If you we're part of Xgang(group) you were hot shit to bitchs, if you were not, well you already know how that plays out. The same circle of girls get piped by the same couple of niggas. They all knew, but act like they didn't to each others faces. You know, just typical hoodrat shit. Sons who dressed nice and were likely going to do something with their life were labled Carlton. Again, typical if you're better than me and i can't drag you down, im gonna hate type shit. Call me smug, but I was above that, not then but I always knew I would be. So round about 16 and on I stoped being a lost-nigga.

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-06-24T18:20:52+00:00

It is the same reason people are not willing to believe that our world, solar system, stars, planets, galaxies, etc.. have been around for billions of years...that they were all created in 7 days by a mythological invisible being 6000 years ago...despite all the science and evidence that is simply was not possible. People are blinded by their faith. Men are blinded by the idea you can treat a female like shit, and get MORE out of her, then if you are nice. People can't wrap their head around the fact that religion was meant to control and push people in a certain direction, despite the dozens, if not hundreds of forms of religion on this planet all promoting "this is the right one and everyone else will burn" mentality.

I found TRP from /r/deadbedrooms and started realizing the man I have been for years.

kick6 · 2014-06-24T15:00:18+00:00

The common personality trait is a desire for unabashed truth instead of pleasant fiction.

Willybomber1 · 2014-06-24T12:03:35+00:00

A common personality trait?

... it boils down to an unsatisfied hunger for "more".

Willybomber

kingofpoplives · 2014-06-24T20:04:59+00:00

Red Pillers are natural knowledge seekers who are driven to seek knowledge of sexual dynamics, usually because of underachievement in the sexual marketplace.
They are heretics, unafraid to entertain and embrace politically unpalatable ideas, often risking social ostracism.
They are often emotionally wounded and frequently outsiders. They are not part of the establishment and are generally antagonistic towards it. They seek to hack the operating system of human sexual programming for their own benefit.
Red Pill goes far beyond understanding women. It is a radical new ideology, an operating system for thought, and there are red pill parallels in politics, economics, sociology, etc -- basically any field where the default social programming has drifted far enough from reality (due to pressure from the progressive zeitgeist) that an immense demand is created for "forbidden knowledge" that TRP arises to fill.
In the political sphere Red Pill often goes by the names of neoreaction and dark enlightenment.
Red pill is about moving beyond the Message and adding additional layers of analysis and contextualization through investigation of the Messenger. Red pill triangulates truth, by parsing the content of Messages with the motivations, tendencies, and lineage of Messengers.

Blake55 · 2014-06-24T14:05:27+00:00

Wanting to improve yourself, and using evidence instead of public opinion to do it.

Xero_hax · 2014-06-24T14:36:35+00:00

I think what drew a majority of us here is hitting rock bottom. At the time I was barely married for maybe 3-4 months and was sexually frustrated. I knew something was wrong but I had been going about correcting it the wrong way. Browsing dead bedrooms led me here and haven't looked back yet. Took some time to fix the damage, but much better marriage now.

RPModulator · 2014-06-24T14:36:23+00:00

The most curious group in my opinion are the beta white knights who furiously fight against everything TRP offers but at the same time suffer most from not not understanding it.

Witness the effects of inculcation from a young age with an idea, no matter how crazy it is . . .

So my question is, what did wake you? And do you think there are common personality traits shared by the TRPs?

For me, the awakening was a result of a long dry spell with women, which resulted in me thinking a lot about WTF was going on. This resulted in the recognition of patterns of cause and effect going back through my whole life. In particular, I noticed that the more shitty/aloof I acted, the more woman would go crazy. (Aside: I actually had a woman say to me once "if you tell me you love me, I will do anything you want." I happened to be both stressed out and flush with pussy at the time, so I told her to fuck off, and she came crawling back on her knees, and did pretty much anything anyway.). And, conversely, the more I opened up and talked about my feelings, the more things fell apart.

As for the personality traits, there are probably a few: a complete willingness to be open to the possibility that reality was not what one previously thought, and the self discipline necessary to make the changes to successfully adapt to that new reality.

AMouse3 · 2014-06-24T22:03:03+00:00

I would say you are all sef-involved narcissists who see women as objects to please you, and who try to manipulate you. And I think you believe there is a link to intelligence here because you all mistakenly claim to be geniuses who have got it all figured out. But in reality, you are just a group of immature boys circle jerking to the idea of women emasculating you because you could never man up for yourselves.

Title	What makes people TRP?
Author	Dexter77
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	June 24, 2014 11:54 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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