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"Opening up"

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June 8, 2014
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Title "Opening up"
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[deleted]
Upvotes 4
Comments 6
Date June 8, 2014 6:23 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/27mts4/opening_up/
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Do yourself a huge favor and realize that women love talking about themselves. If you find you are talking about yourself a lot that is a mistake. In the event that she actually asks you a question about yourself, answer vaguely and then IMMEDIATELY redirect back to her. Think of her words in the conversation as the boat. Your job is not to add a bunch of planks to the vessel, only to steer it in the right direction.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"How does X make you feel, what do you think about Y, what are your emotions regarding Z...

Be careful with this. Like I said, you want to steer the conversation in a direction (hopefully getting you laid.) There is a line that you have to walk between being in control of the conversation through the asking of questions and you just listening to her emote (aka you are her emotional tampon).

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is. A little reading if you are interested.

http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/

[–]LibertarianLibertine 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just don't talk a lot. If she's interested she'll do the talking, plus it makes you mysterious.

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