An oldie but a goodie. : TheRedPill

2014-03-12T05:08:48+00:00

Excellent post. Respect has to be maintained and guarded. We have discussed the importance of being respectful of our men (both when we're in their presence and when we are away from them) on this sub in the past. Guarding against outsiders that try to get us to bad mouth our SO's is extremely important. When everyone else is trying to tear down their relationship (or undermine the integrity of yours) it's essential to speak up and set the record straight. The ladies on this sub know how important it is to speak well of their SO's to outsiders. Women love an equal playing field - when they're unhappy in their relationship (or discontent with being single) they will do everything they can to get you to commiserate and gripe alongside them.

2014-03-11T23:05:53+00:00

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alphabetmod · 2014-03-12T12:28:45+00:00

This shows an example of the terrible hypocrisy that feminism has caused within the church.

I'm prone to preaching about religion, so I'll try to be concise. A Christian Woman is called to be bride to her bridegroom, just as the church body is supposed to be to Christ. Theologically, she is supposed to submit to her husband as a measure of her faithfulness.

Put succinctly, her devotion to her husband should be comparable to her devotion to God. The epistles are quite clear on this.

That Pam was so easily swayed is disgusting. However, the fact that the church condoned her faithlessness sickens me with moral indignation. His ostracism in spite of the fact that she continued her relationship with the bastard-sire is beyond ludicrous.

I've got a lot to say of the religious implications of the situation, but as this is an agnostic space I'll hold my tongue. Secularly, it's disappointing that feminism can erode a firm, long-standing cultural tradition of respectful reverence towards good men.

[deleted] · 2014-03-12T20:16:23+00:00

As a non-Christian woman, I often notice this kind of hypocrisy in the Church(es). This post shows it fully but also shows how bad non-Christians can be too, because the same things often happen whether you're religious or not.

Here, we understand that respecting your husband and making him the happiest you can is most important. I never badmouth my SO around him or others and am careful about even "playfully" bad mouthing him (e.g. "You're so silly," or "You're such a dork!"). Even if we're having problems, I don't bring them up around other people. I work it out between us. If they are brought up, if someone tries to only he was in the wrong, I remind them I screwed up too (most often more so than he ever could) and that we're both human beings. Then I work to steer the conversation away from the topic.

Title	An oldie but a goodie. : TheRedPill
Author	Pornography_saves_li
Upvotes	3
Comments	26
Date	March 11, 2014 11:04 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/206ido/an_oldie_but_a_goodie_theredpill/
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