SO and I are going to a nightclub, which we haven't done in years! One of his friends is probably joining us so there will be limited privacy, but I want to think of some ways to instill that single guy rush of adrenaline that a single guy might get when picking up a girl for the first time...I hope you guys know what I'm referring to!

He has refused to go along with the stranger role-play stuff in the past, so that's out, but basically I want him to feel like he is pursuing me again...sort of make it excitig for him so we don't wind up going home early and falling asleep lol. Any thoughts? NO public sex though, I don't feel like getting arrested :P

Also, note that he generally doesn't like really raunchy chat outside of the bedroom.