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Should I dump him?

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February 13, 2015
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Title Should I dump him?
Author

[deleted]
Upvotes 2
Comments 12
Date February 13, 2015 6:34 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2vshdd/should_i_dump_him/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/should-i-dump-him.166073
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[–]skunchers1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Dump him? It doesn't even sound like you're even in a relationship yet. Casually dating maybe.

Either way, you're creepy stalking him instead of talking to him, which is a red flag for you.

[–]marrymejulian 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, we're not in a relationship. I obviously don't know where this is going but it's weird knowing that he posts all this information under a pseudonym which was the same username as his okcupid.

[–]skunchers0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You're not in too deep, and you're not emotionally committed yet. I'd say just back off since you're already not feeling 100% comfortable with him.

[–]marrymejulian 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, this is kinda how I feel. I mean I don't want to end up as a flag. It sucks because he had great potential.

[–]skunchers0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

From the sounds of it, he had potential only if you take into account the stuff you knew about him without the snooping through the blogs n stuff.

This is just a personal opinion here, but I think that guys can compartmentalize how they feel and think when it comes to talking to buddies and exaggerating, compared to what they think and feel and desire/want from a relationship. Sure he was promiscuous and you found out in a kinda shady way, but the way a guy sees a plate and a potential GF is so different. They will hold both to different standards. And hold themselves to different standards when it comes to how they act and how they treat those two different people who have differing purposes in their life.

[–]marrymejulian 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

See, I'm trying to separate what I know from his online life to how he acts in person. It's pretty different. Like on the second date, he paid for a cake we ate together. And then he told me he wants to see me again.

And then on the blog, he does lie about his height (says he's 5'9 instead of actually like 5'5). Maybe, I'm taking the "now that i have a gf" thing at face value but I'm so on the fence.

[–][deleted] 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]marrymejulian 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I'm going to skype with him soonish and see what he wants out of this thing we have. I'm more than likely gonna end this after this weekend.

[–]homo_homini_lupus 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is some idiotic trolling

[–]marrymejulian -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I swear this is real. Not a troll.

[–]Reddthrown0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Ask him whether he is willing to commit to you exclusively. If not, get out.

[–]marrymejulian 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup, I'm going to this weekend.

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