My very, very long-term relationship (10 years on May 21st) does pretty well in every day life. Today, I got my grades in my classses (4.0), the whole entire house is cleaned, I made dinner, and then I wanted to spice things up. I wore lingerie and "posed" on the couch after he came home. His thoughts, "You look pretty trashy and I can see your panties."

I've always known that he loved women in lingerie, panties, garters, the whole nine yards. Yet, when I do I, it is "trashy." Help me? I am kinda humiliated.

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