I have a huge favor to ask RPW about my sister

lisfb · 2015-06-29T11:28:43+00:00

I'm not really close to her, we have serious fights sometimes (…) it seems it will be awkward for me to personally explain all of this to her, and I also have no idea where to start.

If you haven’t been doing so already, my proposal is that you first make an effort to better your relationship with her. When the inevitable ‘boy problems’ crop up, she’s going to want to vent/talk it out with someone. If your relationship is a good one, she may come to you for a man’s viewpoint and because you’re her brother who is trying to look out for her - if she knows/believes to be true, then she’s more likely to let you know what’s going on in her life and take your advice (at the very least, listen to your input when trying to figure out life).

If she feels she can’t trust or rely on you, preemptively sending her a link to this sub (which she may immediately write off if she does a quick scroll through TRP and stamps anything associated to it with a big “NO”) or emailing her miscellaneous posts from a group of virtual strangers may not hold that much weight with her.

I am collecting posts from the sub to forward to her (…)

A suggestion: Use the ‘top’ tab and pull from there. If there are members whose posts you enjoy reading , click around their back history and see if you can gather material from there. Imo, PhantomDream09, StingrayVC, and Camille11325, amongst others, make very solid posts in the sub and I remember them being some of the first names I ‘locked’ into when I started browsing this forum in earnest.

Also, in addition to or in place of the postings you send from here, give your sister a list of websites that have a similar idea/approach to topics discussed in the sub that you think she may find interesting and useful – do a search, I know there have been a few threads devoted to it!

belindiesq · 2015-06-29T08:29:33+00:00

If you can't think of a way to do something without it being creepy and awkward, it might be because it's fundamentally a bit inappropriate.

I don't think you should say anything for two reasons 1) TRP for men or women is about self improvement and self improvement is something you have to come to on your own; and 2) if she goes through college playing by someone else's rules, not following her heart can easily become a bigger regret that can be damaging later in life.

It sounds like she's a good, sweet girl with a head on her shoulders. That's enough to get a long way RP or no.

capt-next-a-hoe · 2015-06-29T07:02:44+00:00

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Title	I have a huge favor to ask RPW about my sister
Author	capt-next-a-hoe
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	June 29, 2015 5:30 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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