A red flag that popped up was that this weekend she asked for 'space'.

Now before all you tinfoilhat kids start galavanting about how she was sucking a hundred cocks a minute this weekend, hear this:

She was diagnosed with herpes on june first and has been emotionally traumatized since.

She thought I was cheating on her hardcore because I was seeming 'shady' as of late... I took down our relationship on facebook because i didnt want the attention of that and i didnt give her a straight reason as to why i did it.

I found out I had HPV warts and i didnt immediately tell her... Instead, i went to the doctor to confirm it was HPV and then I told her.

(reason i didnt immediately tell her and the reason why I went and got medical advice first was because i didnt want to have her MORE emotionally traumatized over something that may not have been a big deal).

Whenever she asks me "hey babe how are you holding up?" (during the last 2 weeks i could have had herpes as well since we were with each other) I would say Im fine and shit because honestly i didnt care, if i had it, i had it, if i didnt, i didnt: it didn't change much for me.

One of her issues with me was that I wasn't open with her in the relationship with my emotions... maybe i was too stoic and didnt talk much? I didnt really talk much about my feelings or anything of that matter. She felt disconnected with me and I did with her as well... This could be due to the fact that she thought I had cheated on her and gave her herpes...

TEST CAME BACK AND I DONT HAVE HERPES (:

I just need some help understanding what the fuck is going on lol.

Im thinking she's just on an emotional rollercoaster due to the herpes incident.

I was thinking I could have handled this whole situation a lot better...

She asked me over the phone after saying she had herpes "how many girls have you been with?" I stuttered and said that I didnt know... i honestly couldnt tell off the bat. I think her even beginning to question how many girls i had been with was the beginning of the end.

I also think that I was treating her more like a 'plate' rather than a 'girlfriend'... probably part of the reason why i was so stoic and not very emotional.

Honestly I don't think she cheated on me, but getting herpes randomly in a relationship doesn't fucking happen much...

What do you guys think went wrong? What would you have done?