Ive lurked in trp community for quite a bit and even applied a lot of the information and it worked, so i dont think i am speaking from ignorance, but why is this community so nihilistic and cynical about meaningful relationships?

Call me a faggot all you want and my immaturity might be showing here but how bleak and colorless is a life believing that you cant emotionally connect with a human that has a vagina? Im obviously making generalizations, but the vast majority of this community talks about how they will never get married or even attempt an LTR. Imo trp should stop at sexual strategy and should not be applied to anything else.

So i guess my question is, excluding oneitis, being an orbiter, seeking validation, sniper mentality, scarcity mindset, and being an insecure needy beta, is there any way to actually feel something towards a girl more than a slight amusement without falling into her frame or becoming a beta?