I've been on TRP for a couple years now and have read the sidebar and various books. I've had experiences firsthand so i know female nature enough to realize the reality of it all.

I've been talking to this chick for about 8 months now and as I've been getting to know her I've noticed that she has a lot of green flags and almost no red flags. She was a virgin when imet her Has good parents and upbringing, Good head on shoulder, embraces her femininity, doesn't have social media, healthy friend group and is smart about certain things.

From the beginning she(like most women) always complained about wanting to be the only girl I'm talking to and she never was. But a month ago i discovered through a game of russian chatroulette that she was planning on seeing her ex to practice kissing him and even brought my name up.

I honestly don't mind at all cause she was my plate, but the 1.hypocrisy was wayy too real. She apologized and wanted to "earn" my trust back. Yesterday she told me that she was talking to her guy friend again who she used to be close to. And also innocently flirting with a friend of hers. Telling me to assure me nothing was happening and proving herself lol.

She then told me that "the compliments and the attention sometimes gets the best of her and she likes it" AKA i like receiving attention from beta orbiters, I'm guessing.

Now as a guy who's never been in a LTR, am i wrong to see these as red flags:

  1. Still friends with ex
  2. Has a guy brother type of friend
  3. Was being a hypocrite
  4. A bit untrustworthy
  5. Admits to avoiding certain situations cause she's not sure she'll be able to control herself

I'm not tripping off of her talking to other guys, but are these warning signs?

She'd make a good LTR no lie, but i would be lying if i said that my gut feeling keeps going up. Am i overthinking this and being weird, or is my gut right in warning me about being with her and avoiding cheating?

I will admit that being the sidenigga for too many times has made me too cautious.