How can I as a 14 year old black highschool freshman improve myself?

I am the total opposite of a alpha,athletic,tall black guy.I'm no thug,I've a bad hairline,people say i look like Steve urkel (my glasses),I have a slightly recessed chin but my face is in no way horrid looking,My voice sound more like a white suburban skate douche more than a deep black guy,I go to gym as my last period,I weigh 126 pounds,and i'm 5:6.I'm socially inept (slight autism),and I have adhd.

I know it's not my race that holds me back because i see dark as fuck 4/10 black kids scoring 7-8/10 white passing mexican girls (im in arizona).How can I get my full potential?