I'm a 25 year old woman. I'm pursuing a career that makes me happy and pays the bills. I've had a couple of meaningful relationships and not a lot of regrets. I don't think I'm a perfect 10 by any means, but I'm aware of and comfortable with my current SMV and the fact that it will decline as I age. Right now I don't want marriage or kids.

I'm a nerd. I watch sci-fi and transcribe classical music and beta-test video games. I prefer nerdy guys, mostly because they talk to me like a person and not a girl. I met my last boyfriend at a concert- he was the pyrotechnician. He taught me about fireworks and we marathoned syfy shows while I taught him how to cook with something besides the microwave. We dated happily until he got a job with a touring rock band and left town, and we mutually agreed we didn't want a long distance relationship. We have no bitterness and are still friends.

My dad is a computer geek and my mom works for a charity, they're still married, and I was lucky enough to grow up with a really great example of a happy relationship with shared responsibility. Both parents work full time, and I was brought up with the idea that I would always do the same. Growing up, it never even occurred to me that some women rely on a man to pay for their lives.

Redpill, by your definition, what am I? Am I dumb for being happy to work for the rest of my life? Am I clueless for not needing a boyfriend to feel validated? Am I an idiot because I genuinely don't care how much money a guy makes or where he works or what he drives? I swear to Xenu I'm not a troll or a feminist or whatever, I'm genuinely curious.