Both me and my sister have been independently excluded from cliques within organizations we’ve joined. I only mention my sister because I find it interesting that where I’m dealing with guy cliques she’s dealing with female ones. I wonder if it has something to do with how we were raised.

We’ve both been excluded from parties and other friend groups within groups. I have come to grips with it and especially now that workplaces are remote I’m hoping it won’t be too impactful on careers. She is destroyed by this. There was a birthday party at her sorority she wasn’t invited to and no one seems to sympathize.

She’s in college I’m recently graduated.

I wonder if anyone here has tips for being in the in crowd.