Lurker for a long time,

it’s my time to say “Hi” as I just got auto banned from /r/offmychest for making a Remindme! comment on one of the posts here.

I am single, never go to a full blown relationship, never share my living space, early 30s, never married, fit and don’t have kids. So I guess I am super fucking lucky.

And, thank you for helping me understand the value of what I have, be grateful.

I am not against woman, nor have I have any resentment towards them.

I was lucky to meet amazing woman, still miss one of them sometimes but it really does not matter. What matters is how I can be a better version of myself, try to be a good, nurturing human and a rock for those around me.

And that is a good purpose, it does give my life meaning and I am happy.

I don’t think I will ever be able to find a woman that would not expect me to include her happiness as a purpose in my life. And I am fine with that, because it would already diminish what I can make of myself.

Random rant, tl;dr is thanks for the perspective. fuck /r/offmychest.