And just to be clear everything was investigated and I've been cleared and it's all been found to be in self defense and I definitely feel like it was in self defense and it was.

How can I manage this when it comes to game though? Even if I don't tell a girl straight up, it is still findable online so she could still maybe find out about it. I don't feel guilty about it or anything like that I'm just wondering how to play this because I feel like some girls will be scared off by something like this and then there are other girls that will be turned on by it.