Hey guys, I'm in a LTR for 10 years and wanted to pass something by you. For the past couple months, my wife has been doing what she can to get me to come into her place of work, a gym, and meet her coworker. She has been randomly talking about this guy for the past couple months, and will often become giddy while doing so.

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I've been working out for the past 5 years at a different gym because I feel obliged to talk with everyone who knows us and end up wasting time. I find it a lot easier to focus on my workout when I don't use the gym as a social club.

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Normally I pick up on her subtle manipulations and don't do whatever she is trying to push me to do but wanted to swing this out there to see what you guys think. She is obviously sizing us up, but what is the best course of action?

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