Hello everyone,

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I'm new to this forum and need some red pill opinions. I am a 20 year old Computer Science Student. I work out and try to keep in peak physical shape and I would say I am so so with the ladies. As a single man, I gradually start focusing on myself looking better feeling better and I usually have decent options to choose from. The thing is once I find a girl I end up getting into a relationship and end up being the sheep in wolves clothing. One thing I do know is that I am attracting better and better women.

The girl I'm dating now is 23 finished school and graduated, she has her own place(which is conveniently (located near my school). Her place is cozy and close by. I was really never super attracted to her in the first place and she was coming on heavy to me. Things have actually be great so far, I'm not paying for all the dates or anything and the sex life hasn't taken a hit. I don't know if you guys know what I'm talking about but it's hard to breakup with a woman verbally. I want to kinda do it covertly I'm wondering how I should go about that while avoiding shaming tactics as well.

Before I met this girl I just finished the school year and was at my peak physical look, I was going to the clubs and I wouldn't have a doubt in my mind to pick up girls...I was killing it! I managed to get a pretty good summer intern technology job and I know she feels I'm a beta(bucks) kinda guy. It's almost like WE got the job sometimes. flash forward a couple months later, I don't have the same effect at the clubs, I don't have that same, I can get any girl feel. I was able to pick up at least 3 girls a night and now I don't get a glance. I know it's the relationship. I want to start spinning plates I've never tried and I want to before it's too late.

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TLDR

20 Years Old Male, Computer Science Student

1.How do I break up with a girl(and no not the verbal way cause girls whine too much, but the non-verbal way which they would better understand)?

2.I want to start spinning plates, i know I can do it and I want to try.

3.Any general advice for a 20 year old transitioning AFC?

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if you read the long post any opinions about it would help

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