So this ex of mine resurfaces a year or two after I dumped her for no reason at all. She wants to co-parent with me. I am skeptical at first given she had told me she wanted a baby when we fucked for the first time, forcing me to strap it for the entire two years i was with her. She then says that she is not interested in co-parenting with me, that all she needs now is my seed, to which I agree but disappear for a year.

First forward, we go for the tests after which we decided to try. as you all know how hard it is to hit the bulls eye when you are trying. I start to feel the pressure on my swimmers after three failed attempts, and it starts to feel like the whole baby thing is kinda my idea. so I decide to skip two months just to reassure myself that it's her idea and that I don't need a kid. I'd be lying if I said I didn't want it to happen but I wanted her to continue thinking it was her idea.

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It has happened, so the question is: what are the pitfalls to look out for? Am I willingly playing the Russian roulette by agreeing to father her kid without a written agreement? she has stated that she is not the marrying type and knows my position on marriage (anti marriage too). she is 24 btw and I am 30. I am new to this subreddit but a keen follower of The Rational Male and would like to hear your thoughts on this. [pardon my english].