Hello, I recently saw a post on here with an average looking dude saying he's deformed, asking if he should follow sidebar etc.

Anyway, I thought it was a bit comical so I decided to write this post as I have a real deformity. Basically, my back is over the top curved, not freakishly so, could have been worse but still you see it.

Basically my SMW in summer+beach is 0 and I do not gain interest here. Funnily enough did god decide to make my face 8/10, 9/10 on a good day so I'm very good at gaining initial attraction since you can't really see it clothing wise.

Any tips how to go on and accept this bitter defeat? I lift btw.