Hello AskTRP,

First time posting here.

My case is as follows, I went to hang out with a girl in a club, we went there just the 2 of us. I didn't really want her (She is semi-lesbian and I rather think of her as my little brother) but she was doing something I've never faced before which made me wonder what is the "Correct" response for such a case if I actually went to a woman that is doing that.

In the beginning we danced together somewhere far from the DJ stand while drinking our drinks. We didn't really progress anywhere (I didn't want to or look into that anyways). At a certain point she found a dude, not far from where we are standing and started dancing really close to him.

At a certain point while she was dancing and she was clearly looking at my direction in a way that is obvious that she was looking to see my response I obviously played around with that (disappeared and saw her searching for me, clearly ignoring her while talking with some dude etc.), but that made it clear to me that it was a shit test.

I sincerely didn't really care because I wasn't looking for anything with her. I though that it's a shit thing to do since she left me alone and we walked in together but the music was pretty fucking good and I like to just lose myself to dance/music and I didn't want to discourage her from having sex (at least before I realized that it was a shit test and she wasn't going to sleep with him anyways).

We all moved around a few times, at a certain point I was standing just before the DJ stand just listening to the music being pretty drunk and looking at the cool lights they had at the bar. While I was doing that she was also moving to my area with the dude. We kept being there for a little bit of time and then I got a little tired of dancing and being that drunk so I sat down on a couch that where we were dancing earlier (which is also where all of our stuff was) and layed my head back.

After a minute or two she came rushing to me she leaned over the sofa (Supposedly to check up on me) and that dude was following her all the way until he saw she was leaning over me which is when he vanished into the crowd (which made me laugh and he noticed my laugh and I think that was the point he realized what was going on)

Now, I'm not very concerned about that specific woman but I'm wondering, if I were to try and have sex with her that night.

What would be my action plan?