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So I fucked up last night and need to get this girl out of my life

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March 12, 2018

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Title	So I fucked up last night and need to get this girl out of my life
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	March 12, 2018 6:18 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/83x5lw/so_i_fucked_up_last_night_and_need_to_get_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/so-i-fucked-up-last-night-and-need-to-get-this.177529 https://theredarchive.com/post/177529

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[–]anal_coke3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Modbsutansalt2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]mortymight 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]anonanonetc1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Modbsutansalt0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll have to find the old post I made somewhere around 2014. I think I got a bit more specific.

edit: Found the thread in question.

THE EXIT STRATEGY

For guys who realize they're dating or married to crazy, how do you extradite yourself from the situation without all hell breaking loose? I've found going full beta is the safest method of all for getting out unscathed. At worst you'll have to swallow your pride and go without sex for a while when her pussy clamps shut, but in the long run you'll be much better off.

Why this is better is because going "full beta" makes her initiate the resolution phase as described in the videos above and it's much less severe than should you be the one rejecting her. The consequences of letting her do the rejection is much milder than the reverse.

This doesn't mean you be the beta provider or give her validation though. What I'm talking about is all of the negative beta traits such as being clingy, needy, and so on. (there are good beta traits that balance out good alpha traits -- read the Married Man Sex Life Primer for more info).

Anyway, it's THOSE negative beta traits you really want to go over the top with to initiate an low conflict break from a crazy chick.

The whole thread has some good info though, so definitely check it out.

[–]mrpthrowa0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]cl35370 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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