lied to a girl about something pretty big to get out of something. she found out. what do?

Pork_Sword3 · 2017-12-14T03:23:22+00:00

”Takes her out on dates,”essentially my girlfriend but we are not exclusive”.

Fracking wut?

”we are at the point of telling each other we love each other”

Dude, you’re not fooling anyone, shes well beyond the point of a plate wether you want to admit it or not.

Now, with this whole lying scenario, you’re acting like an insecure beta and it’s killing the attraction. We know it, she knows it. You should have brushed it off if she found out or not. If you fuck up, you own that shit and move on with your life. You don’t “regret it”, you don’t apologize for it, you don’t allow it to have any leverage over you what so ever. You need to practice stoicism and idgaf attitude. See her Friday, or not. It doesn’t matter at this point. But the next time you see her, you can bet your ass you’re going to get shit tested hard and a lot from now on because of how insecure you’re acting just because she found about your lie. So you should have a think about wether you can even pull your shit back together now or if you’re willing to allow yourself to put up with her shit testing you for as long as this relationship goes on for until she jumps on chads dick and leaves you behind.

hotbabymama1920 · Thu Dec 14 3:26:08 2017 UTC

If she was finna suck u dry like a lil hoe I wouldn't have argured for Tuesday. You know that you don't HAVE to act super alpha all the time. Just don't be a bitch, also because you're giving importance to petty things, I would suggest to not give a fuck abt shit like this, your sanity will thank you

aguywholifts · Thu Dec 14 3:28:44 2017 UTC

You sound emotionally immature, especially if you think her saying Friday or nothing is an ultimatum and you feel surprised and mad at her about it. Even more so if you think you're submitting to her by going along with a Friday meetup. You are overthinking this way too much on so many different levels. Submissiveness is important in women, but you sound more concerned with being controlling, rather than being dominant.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-12-14T03:25:47+00:00

Why can't you just meet her on friday? What's the big fucking deal?

You really want to cut her off because she won't meet you when you want? Stop being such a diva. You sound worse than a fucking chick.

You apparently lied to her big time, and it seems like she's not even bothered by it. Yet here you are contemplating nexting because you're an insecure, little bitch.

Grow up.

Title	lied to a girl about something pretty big to get out of something. she found out. what do?
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Date	December 14, 2017 3:07 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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