So my tinder game is on point, can get numbers pretty quickly and texting is my comfort zone, I don't have to reply straight away, have time to think, yada yada yada

Cue Tinder dates: Loads of kino, nail shit tests and revert them back on them and false SMV is higher then theirs but then I sense the date is coming to a close and I revert back to blue pill nervous crap and can't get out of my head. It's like I give myself to big of a frame to deal with, leave my comfort zone and anything I'm not used to fucks up my frame and I lose any power I had over them, they sense it, I don't recover annnnnd they're gone. How do you guys just do whatever you do? And get out of your head?! This has happened on 4 dates now and can't shake it.