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[–]MisfitPL912 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Shes not yours, its only your turn... Remember this
[–]netorineko1246-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
all the wisdom
[–]htbf10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't matter, she's gonna dump your insecure ass sooner or later.
[–]Pizzasucks1234567890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Got any advice?
[–]moontripper1246-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Straight up
[–]NazoXIII2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No use thinking too much about guys she's fucked in the past, what happened before you two hooked up should be irrelevant. Do you really care who sat in the chair you're sitting in before you did? Doubt it.
The one thing I take issue with here is you saying
It was a one time thing and I don’t think it’s ever going to happen again because they barely know each other.
They knew each other well enough to fuck before, thinking it can't happen again because "They barely know each other" is stupid. I wouldn't stress it too much though just pointing that out.
[–]NewThrowaway1152 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Dude your friend will pull your leg HARD and you can be the joke of your group. I'd say keep her as a plate only. Monogamy is for losers anyways
[–]Pizzasucks1234567890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Everyone in my group has a girlfriend who has hooked up with someone we know. We're in college and have a large circle. So I'm definitely not the only one who's in this predicament
[–]moontripper12460 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do your friends say about it all?
[–]Pizzasucks1234567890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They joked about it, but I made a joke about my other friends girlfriend hooking up with another guy to point out the hypocrisy.
[–]moontripper12460 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hmmm. Yeah, doesn't look like you'll get much help there. I'll just say if it was me, I'd never make her my exclusive anything ever. I'd fuck her a few times and pass her back to some friends who haven't had her yet. but that's me and I'm cool with that.
[–]NewThrowaway1150 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You are going to give away commitment in college. Fucking idiot. Read the sidebar. Plus you have known her for one week. Jesus christ.
[–]Pizzasucks123456789-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I've know her for a while. We only starter officially dating a week ago
[–]NewThrowaway1150 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
ur dumb. don commit to her if one of ur good friends had an ONS with her. that would imply he is the alpha and u are the beta cuck. he pumped and dumped her and you picked up the leftovers. Also do you really want to "LTR" a whore who slept with your friend when she barely knew him?
[–]Pizzasucks123456789-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Well when I hooked up with her (back when I just met her) my friend got SUPER pissed and made a HUGE scene. I was crashing at his place and he threw my stuff everywhere and broke my water bottle. He was mad because I "cucked" him when he was trying to hook up with her again. He apologized the next morning when he sobered up. Idk if that changes the dynamic in anyway, but imo I think most people would laugh if anyone suggested he was the alpha of our group.
[–]NewThrowaway115-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
so she slept with the beta of the group for free and making you do the whole commitment bullshit?!?! shes looking for a cuck and you are the biggest of them all. Just pump and dump her. Plate her at best.
[–]Pizzasucks1234567890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That was the plan originally. But I kinda fell for her. And I was the one that suggested we be an item, so she isn't "making me" commit. Is it possible to still be the alpha and date a girl one of your boys got with?
[–]NewThrowaway1150 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
fell for her? The evidence suggests you "fell" for a whore. You have oneitis: get out NOW.
Is it possible to still be the alpha and date a girl one of your boys got with?
Focus on getting your dick wet and not being someone's backup option. Have some fucking self respect. Pump her and pass her on to one of your boys. Your boys will respect you more and you'll become the AMOG.
[–]Pizzasucks1234567890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think your right, I do feel like she's treating me like a backup. I feel like she's not reciprocating the effort I put into her. I would disagree with you if she was crazy about me, but she's not. Don't get me wrong she does like me, but just not as much as I like her.
[–]LordThunderbolt1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't commit to her, come on.
[–]mcr00sterdota0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It only matters as much as you let it matter. If it bothers you then demote to plate and look for another girlfriend.
[–]Pizzasucks1234567890 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
We've only been dating for like a week. Maybe I'll get over it after a while?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe I'll get over it after a while?
Are you gonna work to get over it? Making this better requires effort on your part.
Staying in the relationship and going through the motions usually only makes things worse as time passes.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's only been a week and she's already your "girlfriend"?? Don't give away commitment so fast.
We've been hooking up for a while but decided to be "exclusive" recently. What else would you call that if not a "girlfriend".
You shouldn't be committing to a girl your friend could fuck with zero commitment.
It makes you look beta.
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