I used to live in India. back then I was confidence. I could easily approach girls. I Only problem is the culture is completely different in Inida. I Girls aren't DTF at all. Where I lived, girls are really traditional and would never fuck a guy who just approached them. Plus they were in high school so they were even more less dtf. But that didn't stop me from hooking up a couple times using re d pill theory . I didn't get laid but I'd often make out at clubs. I had a LTR who I'd fuck regularly.
Anyway I moved to a top tier school in California recently. I am 6ft 2 and really good looking so my physical body isn't a problem. My problem is that the culture is completely different. I have no idea what the social norm is here and as a result, my approach anxiety is completely off he charts. I can't even fucking approach a girl who is inviting me to fuck her.
Yesterday I was leaving a party and three other beautiful girls were leaving at the same time. I let them go ahead of me since I was kind of drunk and high. Two of the girls walked ahead while one kind of hung back walking slowly. Then it hit me. She wanted me to approach her. when I realized this my anxiety levels went through the roof. I just couldn't fucking do it. Even though the girl was literally inviting me to hit on her. I can't believe I'm such a pussy. This kind of shit never happened in India.
Stuff like this has happened way to many times now. It happens with hot girls in class. It happens with girls on the road. I can see them isolating themselves and basically inviting me to come and hit on them. But I pussy out like a little bitch.
I'm afraid of this new culture I'm in and it is killing my confidence. It is becoming a vicious circle. The less girls I approach, the less confidence I have, the less confidence I have, the less girls I approach. I hooked up with one random girl here but I didn't have sex or use redpill theory at all... I was just drunk and made out with someone.
I almost know that if I approach a girl she would definitely not reject me. But I can't fucking do it. My approach anxiety is too strong.
Please help me. I don't know what to do. I'm trying to lift more and read more Red pill theory. I'm on day 50 of my nofap streak.
This is really getting out of hand. I haven't gotten laid in months.
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