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Deadlifts you dumbass. Also lol @ curls max
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:16 PM
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33 though ⚰️
/r/askTRP08/04/20 05:36 PM
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How does Canada compare to USA? Would like to try Toronto or something.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:47 PM
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Glad to hear your opinion mate.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:46 PM
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Yeah but besides business US isn't a country I'd like to live in.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 03:44 PM
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You should get females to tell you what haircut/beard looks best on you. Men have different taste, what could look kickass from a male standpoint be unattractive for a female.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:09 AM
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Step 1: be white Step 2: profit
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:20 PM
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How do you even get hard with a fat girl? Just looking at them disgust me, let alone looking at them naked.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 04:19 PM
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I don't disagree with you, but I'm not in the US, I'm in Europe and it's already great to actually be on TRT, I'm taking it slow. I'll do blood work at the end of the 3 weeks and talk with my doc then.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:56 PM
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Not on roids, but started TRT a week ago, 250mg test E per 3 weeks. It's low, but my doc wanna see how I react first before going all guns blazing at 200 a week like most guys on TRT. 33yo, just been diagnosed with hypogonadism. No wonder why it was so hard for me to build fucking muscle. No effects so far, besides being angry at the universe, but I think that's just because of the virus.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:30 PM
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Oh I didn't know that. Guess I should go easier on all the death metal I'm listening to then.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:50 AM
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The hell is wrong with music?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:28 AM
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It's "Be royal in your own fashion: act like a king to be treated like a king" - Law 34.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 08:04 AM
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Set boundaries?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:04 PM
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Oh it sounds amazing! Can I DM you for a few questions?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 08:45 AM
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That 3 part post is a game changer. How come I did not see it in the sidebar? I will implement changes in my routine thanks to the advices in this post. Really excited. Thanks for the time and effort you put in that reply, it certainly did not go to waste.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:43 PM
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Agreed. I'm starting drumming.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:41 PM
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Cool man. I'm a software developer as well. Starting out a new project at work in Golang. What kind of coding do you do?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:41 PM
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I'm a software engineer, I work remote.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:40 PM
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Thank you Sherlock Holmes.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 03:49 PM
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I love lifting. Only started reading and meditation less than a month ago, so I assume it will get enjoyable eventually. I certainly hope so anyway.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 02:05 PM
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How long have you been meditating? I do 35min every day, and while not being unpleasant, it's not really pleasant either.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 01:20 PM
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I have an electronic kit at home but I never learned properly and now at 33 it seems way too old to begin now.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:05 AM
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I don't know man.... I spent thousands upon thousands of hours on online gaming in my 20s, what I waste. Had I invested that time on, say drumming, I'd be a professional by now.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:58 AM
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Been there done that.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:12 AM
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I'd go as far as saying most guys are lower in status
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:42 AM
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They're on roids
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:28 AM
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How about using your brain.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:23 PM
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How are you a 7-8 and pull hb9 models from tinder? Abs or something?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 08:23 PM
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You can if you're a beginner. After a year or more training, you won't really be able to. You have to eat at maintenance or slightly above maintenance (read +50/100kcal) in order to do so. Or use roids.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:49 PM
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Law 9. Useless to argue with him. The best you can do is be there for him when everything turns to shit.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:48 PM
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Yeah whynot
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:15 AM
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Thank god. My eyes are bleeding from all the garbage questions asked lately. "who the fuck cares" comes to mind 90% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/20 08:21 PM
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Run. It is not your responsibility. You're not responsible for her mental issues (and that comes from someone who has been through a lot of mental health issues). Avoid her like plague, she will bring only despair and suffering to you. Cut all contacts, with her, her family, her friends, everyone.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:18 PM
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Yeah that's the one. Good lord, first time I saw the video I was like "yeah that shit is easy". Never been more wrong in my life. I manage approx 35sec effort 25sec rest so far, but I love how difficult this is and the progression margin I have. Even when I'm back on the gym, I think I'll probably continue doing it low-key.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:32 PM
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I'm missing the gym too. Damn I'd kill for a barbell right now. But you don't have to let the situation fuck up your routine. Find a real bodyweight home workout. Not just 3 exercices put together. I suggest athlean x bodyweight, it's really hard and I doubt you'll be able to do it properly. Of course, your PR won't improve. But you can use this opportunity to become a better man. I always trained strength until now. Athlean x workout made me realise how weak I am. I dread the workout. But at th…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 08:53 AM
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It's not weird. I lift religiously as well, but I'm struggling to achieve my desired physique (because fuck low T right? finally got diagnosed at 33), and if I see a man with a great body I will absolutely stare. No homo, I can appreciate a good looking body and find it inspiring and motivating.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:59 AM
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Dude use the search button, it's asked like 5 times a day.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:54 AM
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I don't know man. Video games are like porn, they feed upon your dopamine. Nothing in real life is as exciting as a video game. I'd cut that shit out. I've wasted thousands of hours on video games, I wish I had that time back, and an intact reward system.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:02 PM
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Don't take your dick out... You can guide her hand on your dick, as in, either over your pants or inside, but don't take it out. Also remember this. The first piece of clothing is the hardest to come off.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 11:12 AM
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Weed / porn / video games. Simultaneously. Add crying to the mix if you can.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 10:24 AM
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Not American, but I think one of the biggest regret of my life is never been to the army (that and not having my parents force me to learn piano). Of course when I was 18 the simple thought made me shiver, but now at 33 I really wish I had been through the experience. It must really transform you as a person. Not to take away any of the hardship and horror of war.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 09:36 AM
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Pretend you don't remember her and proceed as usual
/r/askTRP29/03/20 08:37 PM
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Have been considering doing the same. Is it hard to learn? Where did you start? I'm interested purely in photography.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:55 PM
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You don't care e ough to block her but you care enough to make a post on reddit asking for interpretation of what she's saying.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:30 PM
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Good. It will weed out the weak ones. Strong ones will get stronger. May this confinement last as long as possible.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 12:06 PM
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Law 2 - Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 11:26 AM
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Fuck, that just be really hard. You should ask on lifting subreddits. With the arm gone, a lot of lifts won't be available to you but you can probably still do some in a few months. I'd suggest to keep the body fat as low as you can. Yes, you're going to lose a lot of strength and muscle mass, but if you stay lean, at least you can build from a clean foundation when you resume. Hang in there mate! A year must seem an enormous time, but 10years from now it will just be a distant memory.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 09:26 AM
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Fear of success. You either let it crush you, or you crush it and become successful. Do you want to be successful, or do you want to be a weed-smoking loser? Btw: if you need a tech wiz in the team, drop me a PM.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:52 AM
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Why do you necessarily want to watch "Red pill stuff"? You can take any movie and see all the blue pill shit that's going on. That in itself is an exercice in red pill. I'm currently reading 48LOP, when I watch a movie I state out loud all the observation or transgression of the laws when I see them, it's interesting and allows me to memorise them better.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 07:49 AM
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Good for you man. Godspeed.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 06:46 PM
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Please elaborate
/r/askTRP28/03/20 05:52 PM
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The goal isn't to stay like that forever. It is to stop being obsessed, addicted to pussy. Nothing is balanced right now for me, so I have to take the other extreme. Then, and only then, will I be able to reach balance.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 01:48 PM
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And you reached that point at 25. Good for you mate. I'm 33 and I still need the validation. But I'm done with this shit. Deleted tinder and every number I had. No more putting girls first. No more masturbation, no more porn, no more dates, no more effort put in women. If one comes along, why not, but no more effort on my part.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 11:22 AM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:15 AM
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The fuck has that to do with anything. You come and ask a question, I give you an answer. If you're not happy with the answer, it's your choice. You can choose to dwell on yourself, or you can choose to put in the work. It's your life, it's up to you to die with regrets or not. “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.” – Jim Rohn
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:01 AM
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You find it offensive, so what? You were dealt a hand, it's up to you how you play it. Guess what, even if you're a dwarf, if you radiate confidence and are the life of the party wherever you go, girls will be like "holy shit that small dude is soooo funny, I wonder what sleeping with his tiny cock would be like?". Yes, you're gonna have it harder than most. Yes, it sucks. Does it make you angry? Good, use that anger. Fuel your progression with that anger. You ended up on this sub, so you have t…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:41 AM
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5'qp?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:38 AM
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How long have you been doing that for? If everything is perfect, diet, training, rest, and you don't see progress, get your T levels checked.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:36 AM
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Yeah let's hope. But I'm definitely going bald though, gonna have to deal with that shit.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:22 AM
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Steroids?
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:29 PM
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Just got the results back and a talk with my endocrinologist. Exact same T as 4 years ago. But my free T is non-existent. Apparently my thyroid is secreting some hormones that should stimulate testosterone production, fsh and lh, but in my case its not working. Doc agreed that something is wrong and is putting me on TRT. We also suspect hyperthyroidism but will need another blood test in 2 months to know fore sure. I'm so fucking happy I'm almost weeping tears of joy. 33 years of living like a z…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 01:53 PM
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Ah yeah that's pretty bland imo.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:35 PM
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What's your out of curiosity? The fake one.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:22 PM
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You missed my point. People will judge you on features you have no control over. Being ugly, being a midget, being born with a deformity. People WILL judge you. There is no denying that. It's not fair, but the world is not a fair place.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:22 PM
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I thought about that one a long time ago. There are exceptions to the rules, just like that badass dude who's name is Sandy. But overall I agree with you. My name can be given to both gender, hence isn't really manly, but when I go out and introduce myself as John, I instantly make a better first impression. My "John" persona is more confident and more idgaf than my real name persona.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:09 PM
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Sure, just like your face. No its not.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 12:06 PM
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Rule of 3. At least 10 on her side. Why do you even care? Asking her that and getting mad is you entering her frame.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 09:53 AM
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I'd rather be the beta of an all stars group than the alpha of a loser group. Precisely why I stopped hanging out with them.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:49 PM
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I'm one of the strongest people in the gym. Doesn't account for much because it's a commercial gym and I'm at 1/2/3/4 which isn't a lot (and not quite there yet with my deadlift). But yeah I guess I'll try.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:12 PM
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I'm 33. I've been without friends almost all my life. I had few here and there, but they were dragging me down, bringing me no value. I don't want to play "I'm above people", because really I'm flawed and weak. But everytime I go and meet someone, they're weaker. They have no drive, they play video games, they're not in shape, they're doing a job they ate, they suck with women, they're beta, etc etc etc. I don't seem to be able to find men of value, and if I do, they don't want to associate with…
/r/askTRP26/03/20 05:59 PM
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I'm at law 7 right now :)
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:52 PM
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Thanks but I'm a cat person. I'm not really into dogs.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:46 PM
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It's okay. I'm the same. When I get the hot girl I become complacent. Takes pain, anger and frustration to motivates me. Use it. "You want to know my secret? I'm always angry."
/r/askTRP26/03/20 01:20 PM
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Sure, but I had ton of lays from tinder with hb6-7 girls
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:21 PM
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I can see it on tinder. In the US, tinder is for hookups. In my country (Europe), tinder girls all want ltrs and abhorres hook-ups. Or so they say.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:04 PM
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Happy cake day!
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:32 PM
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Well I entered monk mode a week before the confinement so.....
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:32 PM
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Software engineer here. Its not that easy. You don't need to be a genius to learn how to code, but it takes time and discipline, just like everything else. There are probably better ways to make money in a short time than learning how to code, especially considering all the nocode solutions available.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:07 PM
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Good luck mate.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:25 PM
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Depends on if you're a natural beta or a natural alpha. Most readers here are naturally beta. So am I. I give plenty of comfort without even trying, so I just need to work on my alpha vibe. You probably do too.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:05 AM
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Same. So far I've read: married man sex life primer no more Mr nice guy the rationale male (even though I knew most of it) how to make anyone fall in love with you. Not that good, plus the author is female so... Some tips are worth knowing though. Only read half of it so far. I'm currently reading 48 laws of power. That's a lot of rp material. Next is letting go the pathway to surrender, and the power of now to work on inner game.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:01 AM
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Yeah and these girls in Amsterdam are smoking hot. I'm moving to Amsterdam.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:59 PM
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She didn't show high interest, she showed low interest by using excuses to not see you. Watch her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:58 PM
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Basically, you can NEVER get complacent. 99% of guys will take it easy when they're with a girl, ie stop lifting, stop eating healthy, stop going out, play video games etc etc... You HAVE to maintain (at the very least) your frame, forever. You need to keep working on your mission. You need to keep improving. The second you let your guard go, attraction will begin to diminish, until the moment your woman, no matter how much you love her, or she you, just isn't that much into you anymore. Guys wa…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 12:33 PM
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No sorry no omg oh no don't come I'm a sperg no please rush mid lolol
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:25 PM
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That's what I've been doing for the past 8 years, but I fail everytime. First time I moved to the UK, failed. A year later moved to Vietnam, failed. A year later back to my hometown, failed. Then Poland. Then back in my country's capital. Etc etc. Its never ending. I'm not getting any younger, and it's getting harder and harder to connect with people. Every new reset the loneliness is more prevalent and harder to accept. At this point frankly I'm that close to just offing myself for real.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:41 PM
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She's not. She's making me feel like shit. That's why I'm heading to her house to dump her when I'm done with work today. But deep down, I'm not sure I can do better. I've been with around 50 girls, about 10 were ltr. All these ltr were bpd. I don't think I've ever successfully seduced a girl whose self esteem wasn't in the shitter. And it makes perfect sense, mine is as well. Bpd or not, my life is boring, there is just emptiness and no fun. I'm not going to attract anyone normal with this stat…
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:06 PM
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I'm not sure man.. I do a lot of self improvement. A lot. Meditation, lifting, my career is in order, reading, I try to socialise, cardio, healthy diet, fasting.... Spent my twenties in therapy and with almost every medication there is. I don't think there is anything that can help me anymore. I don't get bouts of depression or suicidal tendencies anymore. Except with this relationship. I was quite okay in my head when I met her, and now I feel like a human piece of garbage...
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:51 PM
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Yes I stumbled on the post, which is precisely why I realised the whole ordeal...
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:48 PM
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I am BPD, but afaik there aren't women in my families that are (alive anyway)
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:42 PM
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Took me 33 years to realize my tastes in women are shit. At least I know now.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:41 PM
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Does my gf qualifies? She's heavy on hard drugs, had a lot of casual sex, tattoos, piercings. Lot of guy friends, almost no female friends. Fucked up family, orphan at 10. List goes on. At the same time, she's a bit jealous but not controlling, she never snoops in my business, always encourage me to do my own thing and better myself, spend time on my activities...
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:32 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:00 PM
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It's ==, otherwise you're assigning the value...
/r/askTRP22/03/20 06:27 PM
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The fuck man. Get a grip.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:46 PM
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Read my post, started mind just before the coronavirus epidemic.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:45 PM
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Fap + video games + pizza
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:44 PM
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Watch her actions, not her words. She told you the sex was great but didn't want to sleep with you the next time. You're in her frame, you're done. Next.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:04 PM
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Focus on the physical sensation.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:27 PM
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How disciplined are you in other areas of your life? If you're disciplined already (lifting consistently, eating properly, meditating), then it won't be that hard, just stop doing it. If you're not disciplined, get your life in order, and ditch porn first. You can jerk off, but do it without porn, and try to keep your eyes open to not fantasize. Gradually limit masturbation, then ditch it. There's no answer besides: discipline.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:42 AM
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I mean, if you can financially afford it and you don't strictly rely on it for sex, I see no problem in using escorts. Done so myself a few times here and there. "Sex is a commodity, why shouldn't there be a market for it", Sherlock Holmes
/r/askTRP22/03/20 10:59 AM
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"Depends if you can cook. Otherwise I won't call you period."
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:30 AM
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Only girls giving me signals are uglies and fatties. Which I don't fuck because standards.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 08:25 AM
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The fuck are you complaining for. Get your ass to work.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:37 PM
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Using this time to workout at higher intensity, I have a lot of body fat to get rid of. Look at athlean x coronavirus bodyweight circuit, super solid. 10 days in and I look much leaner already. This confinement is an opportunity.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 08:35 PM
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Lucky you. I'm horny as hell after a workout
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:52 PM
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You'll fail. It doesn't matter. Learn from your mistakes, try again, and fail again. Fail until you succeed.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:04 PM
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Same here mate, let me know if you get any helpful tips.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 03:30 PM
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Thanks dear sir, I'm already well familiar with your articles ;)
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:22 PM
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So you're around 55 banging a 23yo. Mad respect to you. Dear sir, would you share, amongst all the books on sex in the sidebar, the one you found improved the most your sex game?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 07:50 PM
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Hi mate. I tried to look at your video and listen to what you have to say. I can't focus on your content, because I feel like you can't either. Sure sometimes you stutter a bit, but nobody cares. My issue is that you keep saying stuff, but I can practically see in your mind that you have 1000 things competing for your attention. You don't feel engaged by your content, so I, a viewer, can't be engaged either.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 07:47 PM
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Dread. My gf is the same, at first I tried, successfully for a while, to get her to come train with me. But slowly she stopped. I've applied a lot of dread recently, and stopped giving her attention. At one point during a argument she started crying and told me "I know you have a new girlfriend anyway!". Ahah, that was fun. Anyway. I was telling her this morning about all these home workouts I'm doing, and she told me she really missed training with me and once the confinement is over she'd resu…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:34 PM
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Ahahahahahah I'm a 7. Dude you're a 4. If you want honest rating, go to truerateme, not rate me. Put in the work and you can be a 6. Which is more than enough to get anything you want in life.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:13 PM
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This. I'm almost at 1/2/3/4 and I can't last 120seconds of high intensity. Not good.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:21 PM
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Never did any cardio my whole life, sticked with weights. Until about 3 weeks ago when I started CrossFit and I realised what a slob I was. Now with the virus I'm doing bodyweight workouts + CrossFit at home. Jesus these workouts are hard. And I feel amazing after sweating the weakness out of me for 45minutes.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 03:20 PM
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Stopped reading after the second sentence, I could feel my oestrogen levels rise.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 12:20 PM
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Love it. No sugarcoating, just the truth. Day 3 of quarantine. I've kept my diet in check, did my CrossFit workout (and god do I hate these) and 30min meditation everyday. No video games, just reading. On the downside, couldn't resist jacking off this morning, I need to stop that shit. A bit too much time spent on reddit. Overall, keeping myself healthy, in check, and accountable. Godspeed to all of you people.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 08:21 AM
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I'll add one thing. Don't do everything at once, you'll never be able to stick with it. Start with one or two improvements, and when they become so natural that you couldn't live without doing them, move on to the next. Same with foods, don't go from junk food diet to counting calories and eating only lean meat + green. First, get rid of sodas, junk food and sugar. Then, improve the diet, then count macros, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 05:44 PM
2

Ordered a pull up bar and jump rope that I'll get on Monday. In the meantime, here is my CrossFit hiit workout every other day. Emom: 1 - 10 burpees 2 - 45sec plank 3 - 20 jump squats 4 - 15 pushups 5 - 10 burpees Repeat 7 cycles (28min) If I'm not doing this, regular bodyweight training, vertical push ups, push ups, Bulgarian split squat, hip thrust.... Really waiting for the pull up bar for this one.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 12:42 PM
47

Easy. Delete all social media apps. Done.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 09:33 AM
1

Just go into investment banking. I'm a software engineer, I make good money and work is fun, but I'd rather do investment banking and make buckets of cash. Of course entrepreneurship works too.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:49 PM
1

Wrong sub
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:33 PM
8

Chill bro. Everyone's first is shit. I don't think there's any dude on the planet that went more than 60sec first time his dick was in a vagina. My first time I couldn't cum, the condom made me soft, and the girl was bored, stopped and went to watch TV. And now I fuck like a pro. Its like everything, practice makes perfect. Just stop playing fucking world of warcraft.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:42 PM
5

It doesn't have to. Cook for your family and eat the same, but eat less of what they eat (if its bad carbs) and just add either protein powder you order from amazon, or canned fish. When there's a will there's a way. You can do this.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:24 AM
8

Just monk mode. Started mine a week before everything went to shit.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 12:29 PM
2

Tldr
/r/askTRP16/03/20 07:42 AM
1

Meditation. Check my post history, I posted about my recent monk mode. Started meditation a few days ago, I already feel the benefits.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:02 PM
21

I had a few female therapists. Two of them really helped me deal with a lot of my struggles. I didn't know about the red pill back then, and now I'd never go see a female therapist anymore. But nothing is ever black or white. You should be cautious around a female boss, but she won't necessarily be able to bring you good things.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:42 PM
1

Hypergamy
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:39 PM
4

I had 4 hottes lined up to go out. My country is in stade 3 so I'm royaly fucked. I'm a bit annoyed about the no date, but what really pisses me off is no lifting. Dude I'd fucking KILL to lift a barbell rn
/r/askTRP15/03/20 07:08 PM
6

I'm guilty of that shit. Basically my life so boring that having a gf tops almost anything I'm doing pleasure wise. I've entered monk mode and began working on myself to get rid of that necessity.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 01:27 PM
4

It's called standards. I'm a dude, I'm doing fine with women but far from being a player, still working on myself, and I don't sleep with women less than 6. Except this one time where I banged a 4.5 because fuck dry spell.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 09:30 AM
2

Yeah you fucked up. I wouldn't agree for a second night out, that would be offering your time for virtually nothing, but next time she offers, offer her to come to your place directly for a drink, then escalate quickly. Either you smash, or she leaves in the first 10min. Win-win
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:43 AM
7

Ignore this.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:23 PM
5

It's retarded, and screams no confidence. You can just say "it's okay, I'll take this one and you'll buy me a drink / take me to dinner next time", with a gentle / coy smile.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 05:52 PM
3

I was a super loser until 20-22. I'm 33 now. I still have a long way to go (you can check my post history), but I'm way more accomplished than I was before. I have focus, discipline, work ethic, morals. Put in the work, and you'll reap the rewards. There are no excuses.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 05:48 PM
1

This comes from my experience. I eat twice a day, 2pm and 9pm. Because I only eat twice, I spend less time cooking. I also spend less time digesting (which is a major incentive in feeling more energetic). I eat the same calories that I would eating three times a day, so the weight loss isn't what in looking for. Of course, I you cut one meal entirely and don't make up for it, you eat less calories, which could result in weight loss. My body is also used to eat only at 2pm and 9pm. Grehlin produc…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 07:11 PM
2

"only if they make me Sushis"
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:15 PM
1

If you're always hungry, try intermittent fasting and/or keto diet. I was like you before, hungry ALL THE TIME. I started intermittent fasting and keto 3 years ago. I only stayed in keto for 6 months because it didn't suit me, but I'm now fasting every day, and will do till the day I die. No longer hungry all the time. Changed my life.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:11 PM
-1

The you should demote. Don't lie, tell your gf. Own your shit, you'll respect yourself more for doing so. You don't have to be a dick doing so, ie 'I enjoy the time we spend together, but considering the situation I'm going to have to meet other people'.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:56 AM
3

If you're not attracted to her, let her go. No point in ruining your life of hers with regret and bitterness. Never settle for less than what you desire, otherwise you'll wake up with regrets at one point or the other. You do not want regrets.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:44 AM
14

I don't get where's the problem. If she wants to keep driving to come see you, let her do so. You can drive to her once for every 2-3 times she does you. Keep seeing other girls. LTR / plate status is irrelevant. You are seeing other girls right ?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:42 AM
9

Who cares. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 02:45 PM
1

Excellent advice, thank you.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:08 AM
1

I'm all too familiar with that pain. Been through it almost a dozen time. I'm going to consider your advice. Her birthday is in a week, I think I'll dump her after that.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 10:41 AM
2

I'm a bit harsh on myself when saying that, I do have social skills, just not as good as naturally extroverted people. I'm just a bit autistic with groups of strangers. But yes, I should do more social activities.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:10 AM
9

From what I'm reading, you probably need to build more comfort. They're being attracted to you, no question. But if you build 0 comfort, they'll feel like sluts, and seeing you making with other girls won't help. Preselection is a thing, but being the male slut of the pary isn't that attractive.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:50 PM
1

Read a theory somewhere that makes much sense to me. If we consider the IQ bell curve, with a standard deviation of 15 points, people are unable to communicate properly with people outside of 2 standard deviations of their IQ. If you're 100iq, you can communicate with people 70-130. Below and above that, you're going to have tremendous trouble. As someone with quite high IQ (and very moronic in a lot of ways), I can definitely relate with this theory.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 01:45 PM
8

Let it go. Think about what happened, let the feeling come. Don't rationalize it, don't try to explain it, don't try to picture what you could have done differently. Accept the feeling. It made you feel like shit ? Then feel like shit. Breathe. Cry if you must, punch a wall if you must. Accept the feeling, and let it pass on it's own, without judging the feeling or yourself. It's hard, but it's necessary. I suggest reading Letting go: the power of surrender. It was recommend to me 2 years ago by…
/r/askTRP10/03/20 10:01 AM
1

Although I've heard that after a week of abstinence T actually decreases?
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:20 AM
1

I haven't. I'm quite doubtful about it tbh. On one hand I can agree on porn fucking up your dopamine, but I don't really see the correlation with not fapping.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 10:53 PM
1

Same. I tried sativa and indica, but either way it just makes me really slow and lazy. I also tried mushrooms and had a very bad trip. As far as I'm concerned I don't think I react well with psychedelics.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:32 PM
1

That's great. I used to be on ssris until I tried to kill myself by swallowing my 3 months supply. It was two years ago and I've been off since. I'm considering going back to it though as it did reduce my anguish iirc.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:30 PM
1

I've seen several therapists, most of them were women (it was prior my awareness of TRP), and I used to be on a few ssris. I think some of them worked to an extent, as in I felt less miserable, but yeah it blunt my emotions a lot. However nowadays I just don't feel any pleasure in anything so that's why I'm considering it. Reducing negative feeling and reducing non-existent positive feeling sounds like a winwin to me.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:28 PM
4

I agree with you in the case of "a" triggering event. In the case of multiple traumatic events, spread over more than a decade, there is only so much you can do.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 02:10 PM
1

Appreciate your comment but it's not that easy when your very existence is just darkness and depression.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:12 PM
2

Well I don't feel any pleasure doing anything anyway so really can't get worse.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 12:02 PM
6

Hey trp, I want to do this because fuck you. Well fuck you too.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:21 AM
1

I can relate on the overthinking part. I used to think a lot like you à few years ago. I will branch out to possible answers in my head and find 2 replies you would say, and consider them all before actually speaking. Exhausting, and makes you look weird. If you work on it it will go away. Try to practice mindfulness and meditation. At first you consciously try to not think, after a while you will do it without even thinking about it
/r/askTRP16/12/17 12:04 AM
13

Bear in mind that a lot of it is water weight. Water binds with carbohydrates, which is why the first two weeks of keto induce a massive weight loss as the water is flushed out of your cells. Which is why you need to drink a lot when in ketosis to stay hydrated, because your body doesn't store water like it does with a regular diet.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 01:43 PM
1

It's not that hard. The beginning is hard, because of the keto flu and the cravings, but after a few weeks you'll adapt. I did 6 months of ketosis from December 2016 to June 2016, it was incredible. It killed all my cravings (I used to be hungry all the time, now I'm not, even if I'm back on carbs), made me lose a lot of fat, made me realise I control my hunger instead of my hunger controlling me.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 01:42 PM
1

Agreed, but with a grain of salt. For deeply traumatic events, like rape, abuse, fear for your life and so on that can give you ptsd, you should talk to a male professional. The guy that bench 3times his weight needs spotter in case shit goes wrong. It doesn't make him weak, it makes him human.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 01:38 PM
-7

This. One of my friend is the most alpha dude I know. He's 31, greasy, never lifted his whole life. His social skills are simply astonishing. Everywhere he goes he's the center of attention. He's smart, cultured, extremely outgoing and positive and fun. Girls are fighting for him. Confidence will always trump body fat.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:12 PM
5

I personally disagree. Of course being low fat is an asset, and nobody wants to be a fat fuck. But I'm currently bulking, I'm at around 21%bf, my lifts have dramatically increased in the past months and I feel way better than when I was 15% after keto. I'm stronger, I feel manlier, people respect me more and are more submissive around me (literally getting out of my way when I walk). Yes, ultimately I want these chisel features. But not before I can bench 2 times my weight.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:08 PM
1

Not that easy. I fit your description about the hard silent type. I don't talk much, but I'm not afraid to call people out on their bullshit, stand for myself and so on. I still have a tremendous amount of work I need to put in before all the hb pussy get wet.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:21 PM
10

Everyone agrees looks matter. What we don't agree with is people that aren't looking good throwing the towel because they'll never look good. OK, you were dealt à bad hand. But improve on what you can improve, and you'll be better off than if you surrender. There are plenty of ugly dudes that are banging hot girls. Maybe they have money. Maybe they have game. Maybe they have confidence. Any of these three you can work on.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:56 PM
1

Didn't it help with ptsd?
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:54 PM
3

Nothing to laugh about. It's just sad. These two were simply unaware of the real world and too entrenched in the blue pill. You couldn't even helped them if you wanted to.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 10:59 AM
4

Interesting, I tripped once in mushrooms. But it didn't make myself love more. Instead, I had all my inner demons crawl up, staring me in the face and I realised how a mess I was. It took me about a week to return to my normal self.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 08:37 AM
2

I'm INTJ, which is like the complete opposite of outgoing. Super logical, calculating, stuck in your head, etc.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:44 AM
1

Thanks, adding it to my list.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 11:42 AM
0

People at work are all betas and spend their time playing world of warcraft. Not really the kind of people that I want to spend time with.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:02 AM
2

Yeah. I think my neutral expression is very sad. I have people ask me if I'm okay. But frankly, I'm not sure how to correct that short of plastic surgery.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:36 PM
1

Yes, it's one thing I haven't implemented yet. Tbh I'm doubtful as how just meditating will help me get out of my head, sounds like it's more likely to do the opposite. But I will give it a try. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 09:35 PM
1

Sounds like a great book, thanks for the recommendation.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:38 PM
1

Yeah I'm exactly like you. I don't genuinely hate people, I genuinely hate the suffering my inability to connect with them make me feel. While not being asperger I still score high on the spectrum, maybe that's why I'm simply doomed to be sucking with people. It's also the reason I'm so good with programming. May I ask you what steps you took so far to try to resolve this issue?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:17 PM
1

Dude if you proved to me that in order to fix my situation I'd have to slice off my legs, I would do it on the spot. I simply can't make a clear road map out of your comments. I'm not so stupid as to ignore valid advices when they're given to me. Read the sidebar, OK. Internalise it, I guess that needs time, but yeah I'm working on it. Purge the blue pill, I think that goes hand in hand with internalising the sidebar. I have goals. I love programming, which is what I spend most of my time on. My…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:29 PM
1

How is that a mission? These are goals. I do have goals.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 05:38 PM
16

You don't need to ask her, she's fucking other dudes.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:19 PM
1

I apologise for not having answers to your topic, would you mind telling me how you started and what material you read? I'm always stuck in my head and negative thought patterns.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:51 PM
1

Well it shows as I don't have to conform to office schedules and stuff, I can do what I want if I feel like it. Party on Sunday night? I'll sleep in Monday morning. Trip on a Wednesday? Why not. Basically I never have obligations that would prevent me from experiencing stuff. I also lived in different countries and usually bring that in the conversation. What does it bring to others? I have no idea.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:48 PM
1

Meditation didn't help?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:37 PM
1

Freedom. Freedom of doing what I want when I want it. In this particular case, I want to get along with people, but I don't know why I'm not succeeding.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 03:25 PM
1

Tinder, and like I said, for every 99 who looks away, one will be dtf.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:55 PM
1

My frame is "I do what I want". I don't want to take orders. So I started a business. I don't need a job. I eat the way I want. I do what I want. If I want to move to Japan tomorrow, I can. If I want to go out tonight and not work for a week, I can. That's my frame.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:52 PM
1

I don't have a mission yet. It doesn't come that easily. At the moment I'm working on improving myself. What's yours? You ask what do I do for these people. What do people do for others? Other than talking and having a good time, what else is there to do?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:43 PM
1

And yet, these people that only care for themselves, they have friends. I only care for myself but I don't have friends. So what's the difference? What am I good at? I'm a good listener, I actually studied psychology. I'm good in my field, which is programming. Other than that, not much really.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:08 PM
1

Great, but you offer no constructive advice.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:08 PM
1

178cm, 83kg. I bench 120kg, deadlift 150kg and squat 110kg. I estimate my bf at 21%. My game isn't the issue. My issue is about people in general, not girls.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:06 PM
-6

I hear you bro, but it's like saying to someone without money, hey bro, don't bother about money, it comes easy when you don't need it. It would be more helpful to teach that person how to make money instead. And I'm not asking about how to get pussy, I'm asking about how to not care so much. Because I've tried every trick in the book and none worked.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:04 PM
1

Not many. Programming, music, TV shows and movies, motorcycles, gym. All these are solo activities though.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:03 PM
1

Let go of the need, but how? My point about programming wasn't to brag about being good at something, but to illustrate my lack of understanding of how to control these feelings.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:26 PM
2

How do I get out of my own head then?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:15 PM
-1

I get what you're saying bro, but it's like having someone die of thirst, and to tell him to act too cool for school and not ask for water.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:12 PM
3

Well first of all thanks for taking the time to address my concern. However, as much as I'm trying to understand what you're saying, I simply do not know how to switch that inner polarity. Im good at programming because programming is logical and easy. When something doesn't work, it's easy to find out what with some tests and address the issue. But with people, it's obscure. Even when I'm trying to implement changes and work on solutions, I get no feedback, or I cannot interpret the feedback I'…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 12:17 PM
1

Brain day? How do I stop with external validation then? Don't give me the "find your mission", because that's just obscure and not helpful.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:59 AM
0

Am I though? I'm in the exact same spot that I was 10 years ago, the only thing that improved is my looks. How do you stop being the taker? How do you give? What do you give? I've read how to make friends and influence people. But you know what, I fucking hate people. I genuinely wish they would all die. Why wouldn't I? They're the reason for my suffering. They're giving to others, but not me. Nobody ever gave me shit. Why the fuck would I give to them when they've been treating me like shit all…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:56 AM
-11

No. I don't want a marriage, I don't want kids, I don't want a girlfriend. Yes, my self-esteem depends on pussy, which is bad. But it's not my mission.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:49 AM
1

What if therapy doesn't work? I have all these childhood traumas, low self-esteem and self-repulsion, and yet after more than a decade of therapy, dozens of therapists, none of them helped me. I still feel suicidal. What then? What to do when nothing works and you're stuck?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 11:09 AM
6

UK girls are gross, entitled and deluded.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 04:19 PM
2

No autism here but I score pretty high on the asperger spectrum. I'm far from being Chad, however I went from not being able to speak to a girl (literally, think Raj in the big bang theory) to spinning a few plates, being comfortable and teasing with them and so on. Numerous girls have fell in love with me. I still have much progress to make, as I'm not very social in general and this obviously affects my game, but to answer your question : if there's a will, there's a way.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 07:28 AM
1

I have a slow cooker recipe that I use every day I train. 400g of chicken, 100g of wild rice, 3 potatoes, bell peppers. Then I simply change the sauce I put in it, there are various ones that are low in fat and carbs and still taste good, like Jamie oliver.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 12:33 PM
4

If you had billions of dollars and no need to work, what would you be doing all day long? That's your passion. Edit: spending money doesn't qualify.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:43 AM
5

You can only get One-itis by lacking experience with women. So, get experience with women.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:46 PM
1

I like the world's greatest narcissistic. The rest is cringe though. Also arm veins pic wtf?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:44 PM
0

You don't really need to be dark triad to act like that. I score very high in machiavellianism, mild in narcissism and psychopathy, and yet I totally agree with you. Using your LTR as backup and spinning plates on the side is the way to go, for me anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 04:40 PM
4

Yes.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:54 PM
1

How do you train your jaw?
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:30 PM
1

Excuses. Get your ass in a gym, start working out, THEN worry about what stuff they don't have.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 08:03 AM
2

You're a lucky man.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:59 AM
3

Don't try to get laid, if you do, you won't. Go out, have fun, talk to everyone, guys, girls. The first interaction is the hardest, get it out of the way fast so you get the momentum going.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 07:57 AM
1

Do you have hobbies or friends?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:58 PM
2

I might be dense but I see you posting this reply on numerous topics, what's the message here?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:57 PM
2

One-itis. We've all been there. With abundance, time and experience, it will pass. Trust me in that, I was the guy that fell in love just looking at a girl, without even knowing her. Now I'm cured.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:54 PM
1

Sure. Enjoy Thailand mate. I had one of my best year in Vietnam, Thailand is kinda the same. It's a golden opportunity to try everything you've never tried, get out of your comfort zone and experience all you can.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:54 PM
1

Cold approach, girls in SEA are really easy. Asian dudes there are beta as fuck so any light teasing and a bit of aloofness will be super exotic. Plus skin color, easy peasy. When I was in Vietnam girls on tinder were 2-3 points lower than irl, so I frankly didn't bother. But hey if it strikes your fancy, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:23 PM
2

Are you white? If yes don't even bother with tinder in Thailand. Girls are so easy it's ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:50 PM
2

Self-terminate please.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 01:44 PM
1

Agreed, this annoys me too. However the expression "I could care less" meaning you couldn't care less is widely accepted. Gotta get used to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 07:39 AM
11

And yet your grammar is horrendous.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 07:18 AM
1

Damn, I'm the opposite. Was bullied like you, but I just suck in social situations. Work wise however, I'm super assertive, people look up to me because I have great ideas and I'm smart. I can't translate that into my personal life though.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 08:52 PM
1

Pot might be the case. Another thing that comes to mind might be reference points. You're a mid level manager so I'm going to assume you have achieved stuff in your career that you're proud of, and that's why you have the job that you have. Meaning, you do know for a fact that being aggressive will get you what you want. Why would you be anything other than will bring you success? Now, maybe you simply didn't have enough results with women that way. So you doubt yourself.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 08:50 PM
1

Masturbate before sex so you start about 75% into refractory period. Change the rhythm often. Don't contract your buttocks, that makes you come waaaay faster (maybe it's just me?). If you need a break go down on her. Also, fapping with a death grip helps.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 04:06 PM
6

You know you can fuck them when they have their period right?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:45 PM
2

Well I have been diagnosed by several professionals. PTSD, bipolar disorder, major melancholic depression, the list goes on. I spent all my twenties trying one antidepressant after the other with no result. I don't know the reason. There are dozens upon dozens of incidents. I try not to dwell too much on it anymore as there isn't anything I can do to cure myself, just make the best of my situation.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:39 PM
1

Constant. The thing I love the most is lifting. But even then, I rate the pleasure I get from it as 3/10. Everything is dulled. It's a really shitty thing. It's just the hand I've been dealt though, gotta play the game with it.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:40 PM
1

Are there? I don't have any friends of something else to do. Gotta live with anhedonia.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:19 PM
3

Not if the endgame was to marry her though.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:56 PM
1

I was thinking about trying to be my real self (ie. kind) without being a doormat. Not sure if kind entails being a doormat or not.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:47 PM
6

Who cares?
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:02 PM
3

Correct. You can be a 5 and date 10s. But you will have to compensate, be it either money (beta bux), game, social proof, whatever. You must bring something to the table. Your looks aren't that something, so you need to up your game and your social game.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 08:13 AM
8

Not a plus. They're not a detriment, but they won't earn you any bonus points. How is your game? Also is that your usual attire? It looks very standard.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:59 AM
4

You're not that attractive bro.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 06:39 AM
4

Send pic PM, hard to say without.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 07:06 PM
3

Demote to plate. I used to be a staff member of ESN (the association that basically organises the events, parties and stuff for Erasmus students). Everyone is fucking everyone. There's no way in hell your girl will go to Erasmus and not get fucked.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 02:15 PM
6

Game changer. I read your post this morning and I did it all day. Went to the gym (doesn't count because I never miss a workout, love lifting too much), did my bed, laundry and cleaned the house, worked on a project I didn't touch in weeks, going to an American football practice tonight.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:14 PM
4

I'd rather avoid screwing up my organism tbh. I would like to be on the higher end of the spectrum instead of being just normal. What else could I do to increase my T levels without roids?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:03 PM
1

Isn't that precisely the problem though? I lift, I supplement, I have a great diet, and yet I have the same T as fat corporate drones. It should be on the higher end instead of just normal.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 07:51 AM
3

I did a test a few weeks ago, I'm at 570ng/dl at 30. Isn't that low? Been lifting and dieting properly for almost a year now. Recently starting to supplement with vit D and ZMA. I live in Romania where TRT isn't readily available. Sure I could find some shady dude to sell me what I need, but I wouldn't have the experience and safety of a professional. Is there any natural way for me to increase my test besides trt? Or would you recommend going for light steroids use? (already talked with a juice…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 07:38 AM
2

Don't bottle up, it's unhealthy. Use it as fuel for gym, fighting sports, even game.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:57 PM
1

It's not. My first gf didn't give a shit about breaking my heart when she dumped me for a better version. Nor the one after that, or the one after. When I was feeling depressed and suicidal, my then-gf was more interested in going clubbing rather than spending time with me. Yeah, I was weak, no question. But they didn't give a shit. Why should I give a shit about what they go through? I have no time to spend on their feelings.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 11:23 AM
1

First time is shit for most people, it was for me ahah. It should become enjoyable pretty fast though, as you begin to feel comfortable being naked around someone else, work on your technique and stuff. You shouldn't be thinking about your homework when you fuck though. You should get in touch with your desires ans do what you want. Yesterday for the first time I fucked a girl in the ass without a condom, that's one experience I lacked so far so I'm please to be able to cross it off my list. Wha…
/r/askTRP06/11/17 10:16 AM
3

Make her clean your place and iron your clothes.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:54 AM
2

Why would you give a shit? You think women give a shit when they destroy families, marriages, lives even because they're branch swinging or just bored?
/r/askTRP06/11/17 09:53 AM
-5

Oh nooooooes muh feelings so hurt #metoo
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:56 PM
-4

No, but going on reddit asking what cologne you should wear does.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:25 PM
1

Overthinking by StopBeingaFaggot.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:50 PM
2

10 bucks you'll never put your pee-pee in her vag-vag.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:49 PM
1

A by-product really. I've spent my twenties depressed and suicidal. I decided to man the fuck up and deal with my shit instead of crying like a woman, and it's been working. My life is in order. However anhedonia is still there.... I just bought some Saint-John's Wort and will try to look a sports club, hopefully it will helps.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:44 PM
1

Do it. If you feel something is missing, you have to experience it. Here is a fun fact about when I was in the same situation as yourself. I had horrible twenties, was suicidal and so on. One thing I had never experience was being the popular guy in school and dating some hot freshman. Not having experienced that was really bothering me, like I missed something that most people had. I was 30. Bit old for that right? Well no. I went to uni (I was in France so it's almost free, not like the US wit…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:52 PM
1

Correct. I hate jobs and I've been avoiding being employed like the plague for most of my life. Three years ago I started a business in the video game industry and I made good money. I stashed most of it and stopped doing it because I was getting bored. At the moment I'm starting a degree in programming, which I enjoy very much, and I have enough money to not have to work for the next 3 years and be able to live comfy and pay for my degree. Ideally I would want to have fun with coding, create so…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:46 PM
3

Yes, it is an issue for a few reasons. First of all, I'm bored most of the time, which is an annoyance. I'd rather enjoy the time I spend on Earth instead of just waiting for it to go by. I'm not looking for the meaning of life (plus we all know it's 42 anyway). Second, and most important, I'm boring. Because I don't have hobbies and shit, I don't have a lot of things to talk about. I can still get laid because I'm hot and because I game chicks that are lower SMV than I am, but it takes effort t…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:42 PM
3

I think you meant to post on /r/AskFeminists or some shit.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 01:39 PM
1

Thank fucking God I live in Eastern Europe.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 12:29 PM
7

Your opening is weak. First you say who you are, which is already yourself qualifying to the girl. Then you ask what she's up to, which is you entering her frame. Try this : "I'm going to (whatever your date place is) for drinks/pool/whatever, join me".
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:46 AM
1

It's something I've been looking into as well. I live in Romania at the moment so there's much less available activities than elsewhere, but I'm looking into joining either a fight club or something physical like American football or rugby.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:44 AM
1

None. I stopped porn a few months ago. I don't smoke weed. I have zero social media with the exception of Facebook messenger that I use in place of texts. I only browse trp and asktrp on reddit. I used to play video games and binge watch tv shows but I stopped these as well. I enjoy the occasional good tv show (black mirror, ahs) a few hours a week but that's it.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 11:42 AM
1

Did you already fuck her? If not, tell her to go fuck herself. If yes, tell her to go fuck herself.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:34 PM
1

Just means your inner game is still weak.
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:32 PM
1

It is possible but it's playing life in Dante must die mode. I'm like you. People bore me, I'd rather code, watch a movie or read than spending time with dudes talking about cars or girls and getting shit faced. I don't care about their lives, I don't care about their problems, etc. I get laid because I'm very good looking and witty, but I'd have it ten times easier if I had a social circle. And it's not only about girls. Having connections is very important when it comes down to business, even …
/r/askTRP02/11/17 10:34 AM
0

I like it. I think a month is way too long, but I will limit myself to once a week. I also pledge to do my bed every morning. Good luck OP.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:12 AM
3

Sure mate, getting all defensive with someone on the Internet, you sound supremely confident.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 06:41 PM
7

I'm into metal mostly but I like some gayass songs like You spin me round, Maniac, and even the occasional Britney spears. I don't care, I enjoy them, I dance to them and I have a great time doing so. Own your shit.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:41 PM
5

Sperg lv98, keep going, almost there.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:35 PM
2

Use that anger to fuel your drive to improve. Go lift, go game, work on your business (congrats on having a business btw!). The first few times being dumped are not easy but with time you won't even remember it. That's coming from a dude who's been dumped a dozen of times in his beta twenties.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:46 AM
1

If you want to appear more masculine clean shave and get a crew cut. Depending on your face it might not be the most suiting for you but it will make you look more serious.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:38 AM
3

How do you get over the fact that the sky is blue? It just is. You have no control over it, so you can either whine about how unfair it is, or make the rules work in your favour. Either way, rules won't change. But the outcome will be thousand times better with the latter.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:34 AM
3

Great read. And this is why inner game beats pua gambits any time of the day.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 07:52 AM
-1

Yes.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 07:47 AM
6

I'm exactly like you, and in fact I posted about the same thing a few weeks ago. Here is my take on it. Basically, you lack another great source of self-respect. I would bet that you don't have a mission that you live for. It is my case. At the moment I just moved to a new country two weeks ago and I have two plates currently, from tinder. Coming from someone who was depressed and suicidal in his twenties, and didn't know about trp until about six months ago, I'm quite satisfied. I do know howev…
/r/askTRP29/10/17 01:25 PM
1

Can't do a one-armed pull-up but I can do the helicopter with my dick. Wanna get some teabag bruh?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:40 PM
1

Step 3. Profit
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:05 PM
1

Duh
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:04 PM
2

I read the first chapter of how to win friends yesterday, and it did strike me as kinda blue pill. Don't condemn, judge or criticise others, even if they completely fuck up? I think in a position of leadership you can most likely use this advice to get the best out of your employees, but I wouldn't act this way in every domain of my life. What's your take on it?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:06 AM
3

I've read models by manson and just started how to win friends yesterday. Models is a dating advice book. It's okay but some of the concepts are somehow blue pill. Personally what holds me back in life isn't how to get laid but how to make friends, so I'll probably get more value out of Dale's book. The book of pook is like how to act with girls 101, no advanced concepts but the basic strategy. Models is an inner game book. Depends what your short term goal is, ultimately you should read both.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:02 AM
1

Weak. I wouldn't have granted such a nasty reply with an answer.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:06 PM
1

Isn't that the definition of a soft next?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:05 PM
2

I have no idea. I hope I'll die in my fifties when I'm really happy with my life.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 07:02 PM
7

1649.9days.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:41 PM
2

Quid pro quo. If I'm 70 and talking only to the mailman I'll simply put a bullet in my head.
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:32 PM
1

How do you become enjoyable company then?
/r/askTRP26/10/17 06:31 PM
87

No I have PTSD now, can't leave the house.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:51 PM
165

I ordered a double flat white at Starbucks today. The cashier was really fat. She wrote my name with a little heart next to it. #metoo
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:36 PM
0

The opposite of fear is courage. The opposite of love is apathy.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 06:57 AM
2

Tough one. To be honest I don't want kids now, but I think I'd like to have a son eventually. The older you are when you have one, the less time you'll have with him so....
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:03 PM
1

Stop being gay.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 07:22 AM
1

Not necessarily. I get laid quite easily as well but I don't have friends either. However it's not that I try to have friends and it fails, it's just that I don't care about people and would rather be on my own or gaming a girl than wasting time with some dudes.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 09:10 PM
12

Pathetic. I'm not hungry anymore. Read the sidebar. Read it again. Read it again. Read it again. Kill yourself, be reborn, lift, read the sidebar. Then read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:45 PM
1

Depends how packed the place is. If you can do a straight line without bumping in to many dudes, go for it. Otherwise, dance with people on your way to her. I personally go assassin's creed style, ie. pushing people out of my way and slipping past, but that's congruent with my energy.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:33 PM
2

Yeah don't worry bro it might be tough now but you'll have a blast in a few years. I'm 30, look 25 (22 if I shave), and I can pull early twenties or 30s girls if I feel like it. I'm hot. Just own it, confidence will make up for it.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:27 PM
1

It is enough. I do 5 but that works for me. Most people do 3 or 4.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 06:24 PM
162

Agreed, but there is a fourth option. Just acknowledge women for what they are, enjoy your time with them and the moment they start to rub off on you, ditch them.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 01:07 PM
2

Bench press? Squats? Deadlifts ? Pull-up? OHP?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 08:19 AM
1

She'll most likely re-engage if he soft next. Good sex is very powerful.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:58 AM
6

Good for you man. Like you I wasted my twenties, but for different reasons. It doesn't matter. In fact, it may in a way have been beneficial as otherwise I would have been married or divorced or a blue pilled cuck, etc. My life's never been better than it is now, at 30. Just moved to a new country, no social circle, nothing, already have two plates after less than 2 weeks of being here. Glad you found this sub. Work diligently and life will be great, having wasted a few years of your life is irr…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 07:54 AM
1

Motel / Hotel.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:47 AM
2

Intermittent fasting = good. Eating all you can without counting your macros = bad. Get that in order. Plus IF should be several meals in an eight hours period, not necessarily one meal a day. Train more, 3 times a week is a minimum, many people go 4 times, I personally go 5 times a week because I recover fast and I'm addicted. 2 times is not enough. How do you train? Do you use a program? Do you do compound lifts? Or gay ass weights? Do you increase weight / reps every week?
/r/askTRP23/10/17 07:46 AM
1

Yeah that's TMI bro.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:22 PM
1

Shy or keeping to himself, if you will.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 05:22 PM
1

Off, my bad.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:20 PM
1

Eight hours refractory period here. Tricky advice.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:17 PM
1

I would advice jacking up before. How long is up to you. How long do you need after masturbating before getting horny again? I would advise jacking off that long minus an hour before. So that you're not too horny nor too DGAF either.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:16 PM
1

I think it's best to tell her. Not because honesty and all that bullshit. Because your first time (and a few after that), you WILL be really shit. You can learn and read all you want about sex, doing it for the first time is awkward. You won't know what to do, you'll be in your head too much, you might come quickly. If you tell her it's your first time, she might actually be more understanding about why you're so bad. Godspeed bro.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:13 PM
1

Don't know bro, never been a girl's first. You obviously give a shit enough to come here and ask, so what don't you just tell her beforehand that you will never settle down for her, at least she knows what's coming. That's what I'd do if I were in your situation.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:09 PM
1

You're not a virgin, congrats. Now man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:07 PM
3

Hardly. Trying to explain my point of view and you do what every feminist do, you shift the blame without any argumentation. My time is better spend than trying to educate you so I'll let you have the last word, maybe it will help your ego.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 05:02 PM
6

Like I said, you simply don't know what introvert and extrovert mean. It's about how your energy is affected by other people. It has nothing to do with being inhibited, doing and saying things without worrying and so on. That's being socially comfortable. Being introverted is about having your energy depleted when interacting with other people, regardless of how skilled you are socially. You don't go from introvert to extrovert. Please use the correct word.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 04:58 PM
6

If you're going to get triggered at every reply you really should not come here....
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:55 PM
3

Who's bitching? You're the one coming up here bitching. My life has improved tenfold since I've embraced the redpill, and I have better things to do than arguing with feminazis. And you want to know a secret ? Redpillers love women. They love women so much that they're reading and debating and planning on how best to become real men to attract real women. If you're comfortable with yourself, you'll have no trouble finding a decent dude. If not, improve, or, like most women, get on the feminist b…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:53 PM
6

Agreed. I'm currently in Eastern Europe. Men aren't complete cavemen, but they do exert some decent dominance. Women are very feminine and family oriented. One certain Mediterranean country where I'm from, which is full on feminist blue pill garbage, makes for the most shallow, irritating, bitchy and brain-dead women I've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 04:45 PM
8

You don't go from introvert to extrovert (or ambivert). You go from socially awkward to socially comfortable (or even skilled). But you can't change how your energy is affected by other people. Don't mix up things.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 04:41 PM
3

That's cool. But there are several schools of feminism, on one hand women like you, who want to uplift men and themselves. I respect that. Then you have the Valérie Solanas way of thinking. If you go to the AskFeminists subs, that's the kind of women you'll find. These women are crazy. Batshit crazy. I read a post the other day about a guy who wanted advice on how to ask a woman permission to give her a massage. He explained he asked her, she said maybe, and he proceeded with the massage. They c…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:34 PM
2

No increase whatsoever. It's convenient if you have the money as you don't have to swipe anymore, you can just see who likes you and decide. I have around 10 matches à day but I changed my pictures recently and I'm quite handsome. Nothing related to tinder gold. Edit: thought you asked for tinder gold. Tinder plus is the same though.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:30 PM
5

I don't mind gender equality. But feminists don't want to be equal to men, they want men eradicated. They have ridiculous double standards, they're misandrists, they want men to be their disposable slaves. Make no mistake, feminists are not out there to help you or society, they're out there to kill you, or worse. You're a woman so I feel the need to elaborate. Go check on YouTube some videos about feminists. Like that cab driver who's been accused of molesting his customers (girls) because THEY…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 04:22 PM
2

14 dates no sex? Jesus fucking christ
/r/askTRP21/10/17 12:19 AM
1

That's keto bro. He doesn't necessarily need to be on ketosis. Protein are waaaaay to high though.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:09 PM
7

Don't eat cheetos you moron. Do you even lift?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:57 PM
1

Don't want to brag or anything but I have a three standard deviation IQ (99.8%) and struggled all my life to engage with people. I have to dumb myself down a lot and they still tell me I'm smart. How do you deal with this? Also, what hobbies do you have?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:51 PM
1

Frankly fuck shrinks. I've consulted dozens and been diagnosed with severe melancholic depression and bpd and they put me on ssris and other meds and shit and nothing helped. Just some feel good bullshit. I'm denying depression. Whether I have it or not is irrelevant. I don't want to attribute my lack of action to depression. It only gives it more power. I just have to fight harder every day and stay in a positive mood. I'm going to look into fighting clubs. No friends to talk to unfortunately.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:50 AM
1

I am. More than a decade of depression does that to you. It pisses me off because I fucking want excellence but it's like people can sense that I'm soulless and it's not making my life easier. But I wasted ten years whining and bitching about how life wasn't fair to me. I won't spend another day doing that. It's the way it is, cards have been dealt, I want to fight regardless of a shitty hand.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:33 AM
1

Rough trade? I'd rather avoid the escort route, I always feel dirty and soulless after one.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 06:13 AM
2

I don't care if it's easy or not. It's irrelevant. I have to do it, period.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 05:38 AM
1

Well yeah I have no confidence thanks to childhood abuse and blablabla. But there isn't much I can do about it. I fake it at the moment while also improving my life (lifting, reading, career), but I refuse to go through years of dry spell simply because I have no confidence. I have no self esteem and no self respect, it's a fact, it's something I need to work with while I build it.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 03:16 AM
3

French sexuality and dating is fucked, don't take advice from them. Also Chinese boys fucks their mom? What the hell?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 07:00 AM
1

Unless you're on roids, 3-5 days is best. If you just want to hang around in the gym (I know the feeling) you can go there for stretching, light treadmill / cycling with a book, pool or sauna if your gym have any....
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:53 AM
5

Few reasons, they can pay for your shit, be genuinely fun or have hot female friends. If none of these, no reason whatsoever. Also they will decrease your SMV by association so don't be seen too much with them.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 06:51 AM
11

This doesn't apply to milfs. I've slept with a fair share of hot moms, and everytime they viewed me kinda like their son (because baby face and all), paying for me, acting protective like a mother and all. Kinda incestuous. Geez I need to find myself a new milf.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 06:49 AM
1

You have good facial features mate, no homo. With lifting and confidence you can transform into Chad.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 06:21 PM
1

Solid answer.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 07:16 PM
1

I want to shove my dick down your throat is too graphic. You can be dominant without dirty talk, which I recommend for the first lay (or especially before the first lay).
/r/askTRP11/10/17 07:16 PM
8

Dirty talk is great, but you need to have some good level of comfort. Don't use it the first time, unless you don't want to see the girl again. If you tell your girl she's a fucking cunt and not even worth your jizz and she doesn't have enough comfort with you, she'll feel like shit after the sex.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 07:07 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 06:25 PM
3

I'm by no mean a tinder boss but the best results I've had were when I ask very quick for number, then set up a date via text. As for the opener.... Still struggling, I think best results were with a short funny sentence about something in her profile. But then being aggressive works sometimes as well...
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:47 PM
1

That was two days ago but thanks for the input. T was just not attracted to me a single bit. She's not higher SMV than I am so I'm wondering if she's lesbian or something. Anyway, I just ended up smoking with M. First time I've ever been by myself gaming two girls at the same time so it was a good experience nonetheless.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:58 AM
1

Sounds like an awful lot of drama for a piece of vag.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 09:06 AM
4

The only reason I have Facebook is for messenger, which I find very convenient. Just completely clear your feed, don't follow anyone, and keep your profile void of anything.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 09:03 AM
7

Basically this. It's futile to look for signs and shit, just fucking touch her and watch her reaction.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 08:46 AM
2

Why an "awful" programming job?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:05 AM
2

Why do you want the opinion of TRP? Buddy you're asking the opinion of people from AskFeminists, the people that call us misogynists and rapists. How can you take their advice and at the same time pretend to take advice from the redpill? It's simply absurd.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:47 PM
-8

Go ask your feminist friends.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:38 PM
-4

Acting like a beta, being treated like one. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:30 PM
0

Yeah no shit.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:25 PM
3

Lol @ update
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:24 PM
1

If you're super ripped, less is more. Otherwise, anything that's uniform, police, military, firefighter, etc.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:02 PM
2

Yeah man, because being myself took me so far.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:00 PM
1

No, you're stuck being the guy on the right because you're complacent. I'm no chad. I have a baby face. I'm 30 and I look 18. But I slay because I picture myself as the guy on the left. Well and I lift too.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:35 PM
10

Keep telling yourself that, keep being mediocre, so I can be the guy on the left while you stay at home playing world of warcraft.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:12 PM
3

No.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:26 PM
6

Tinder is a numbers game, just send the first thing that pops in your mind. Don't spend more than 5 seconds on an opener. I matched a girl yesterday and said "Thursday 12, book your evening, you're mine". She replied with her number and she's coming Thursday to ride me. Then I had some really witty openers that led nowhere. It's completely random. Just play the numbers.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:25 PM
1

Blablabla I want to... But... Stop being a bitch. Nobody cares about your problems. If you want to be alpha, put in the work, stop whining about your issues and become who you want to be. Nobody will do the work for you. People don't care about your shortcoming and don't want to hear about them. Do you fucking lift? Do you read? Do you go out and socialise? If you do all three, good, keep at it. If you don't, then your time will be better spent actually doing shit instead of sobbing and trying t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 09:11 AM
13

Until you slide it into an asian. These cunts are fucking tight.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 08:41 AM
1

First group: men. Second group: boys.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 08:39 AM
2

The same way you stop sucking at lifting weights, you lift. In this case, you need to train talking to groups of people. Being social IS a muscle. I was like you 10 years ago. I was shitting myself just thinking about introducing myself in class and stuff like that. My father forced me to do theater. Best decision he ever made for me. It was terrifying and I hated it, but boy did it bring me out of my comfort zone. Depending on where you live you might be able to find meetups or groups of people…
/r/askTRP08/10/17 08:37 AM
6

Yeah you can be a girl's girlfriend. What's the point though? Some concept of TRP are a bit on the radical side and to take lightly, but saying the ideology is wrong, is wrong. Life IS a mind game. If you're not playing it, then you're just slaving for people who are. If that's what you fancy, good for you. I myself will keep exploiting people who think like you do for my own personal gains.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:21 AM
4

Although I agree with the title, in that ultimately people only care about themselves and what you can potentially bring them (and there's nothing wrong with that), I disagree with your arguments on conversation. When two people start talking, it can be a contest of who's got the biggest, as in your example with the cars salesman, or a coworker and so on, but not necessarily. Every conversation as a goal. If you don't know what the goal of your conversation is, then you'll have a shitty pointles…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:16 AM
7

Yeah, you messed up, your life is over.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:28 AM
2

Tinder is not only about being hot, it's about good pics. I'm hot in real life but my pictures sucks, so I have moderate results (2-3 matches a day). I need to up my pictures game.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:14 PM
2

My dick isn't long enough to go into my ass. So no.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 04:51 PM
1

When you start your business, you will work twice as much for half the money for the first few years. So I'd suggest you find something you're passionate about otherwise you won't go through.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:52 PM
-1

Is the book called The Title?
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:36 PM
0

Relevance with my issue? I'm far from being a nice guy.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 02:57 PM
1

Rachmaninov.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:17 PM
2

Keep calm and keto on.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 01:16 PM
1

Kinda like you. Have you heard about keto? Did a 6months keto diet and lost a tremendous amount of fat (and muscles, granted, but I got it back pretty quickly). At the moment I'm bulking but as soon as I'm too fat I will go into keto again to shred. Keto is my go-to when I need to lose fat.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 12:52 PM
32

Not surprising, 99% of men in IT are white knight bitches. Which is perfect for me as I can slay nerd vaginas without any hassle.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:26 PM
11

Very important. But lacking looks doesn't mean you're doomed, you'll just have it harder.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 12:24 PM
5

Posted about it but no reaction : https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/747y1p/trp_featured_on_ahscult_episode_5/
/r/askTRP05/10/17 09:59 PM
1

Girls always tell me my dick is huge and they come all the time from vaginal stimulation. Long story short, can't help you. Good luck with the small dick.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 02:09 PM
1

Solid advice, thanks.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:43 PM
1

Don't go to student parties.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:42 PM
1

For his defense milfs are hot and sex is usually great. I personally really enjoy fucking 30 something
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:41 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 07:40 PM
1

Been with one fake redhead, complete slut and squirter. Was fucking her in front of the window so the neighbours could see, and made her lick my jizz off the floor.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:46 PM
1

Nobody will bother to read your post. There is this one girl blablabla. Move on.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:45 PM
1

Maybe, I'm leaving this shithole in a week anyway.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:14 PM
1

Because it's full of beta cucks and you need tremendous SMV (I'm talking being an all rounded 9/10) to have boundaries, otherwise girls will shit on you. So I'm basically avoiding girls here otherwise it instantly turns into an insult contest.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:48 PM
2

SMV depends on the country, maybe the city. In my home country, I'm a 6, but being TRP is a disadvantage. In Asia, I'm a god (very white, which is a turn on for Asian girls, and handsome). I can hook-up with virtually any girl, rich girls, models, etc. Invest in yourself and you'll have better results no matter the location, obviously. But if you're really putting too much efforts and having marginal gains, consider changing location. I personally never stay more than 3 years in the same country…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:26 PM
1

If you don't want to cheat, then at least keep options available at all time. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 03:29 PM
1

Are you saying that they won't even submit to a super solid frame? Sounds like a shitty part of the world to live in.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 02:13 PM
3

You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Use them. Don't even treat them as human beings.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 01:04 PM
14

Insecure bitch. Abundance and dread is your answer.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:50 PM
4

Don't hangout with them, simple. I'm also studying programming, and the morons I'm with are so fucking pathetic, beta and lame that I use them when I need some help with a coding issue, but would never ever ever EVER fucking spend a minute with them talking about anything else than programming.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 12:49 PM
2

Step 1. Be popular. Step 2. Don't be unpopular.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:29 AM
5

When the average is people eating junk shit and not working out, that makes it fucking horrendous.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 11:07 AM
19

He's either uncomfortable with his sexuality, or he might be low T.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:42 AM
6

If you feel uneasy about this, it's simply your bluepill conditioning. Your gf won't hesitate to cheat on you if you become complacent. You better keep flirting and racking up numbers and seeding backup plans here and there. I also advise cheating once in a while.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:40 AM
6

Yes, it's more likely to happen with a career focused woman. Adjust your demographics accordingly.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:33 AM
2

I would personally go there and tell them about it. Unsure if this is BP behaviour or not.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:21 AM
1

That's overkill. Whole grain is better for carbs because it will get absorbed slower and not raise glycemy as fast as white bread or simple carbs for instance. Grass fed butter is better than non grass fed. Fuck anything gluten free. Organic is better if you have the money but don't sweat it. For now, whole grain carbs, eggs, chicken/turkey/tuna, cruciferous veggies, oat. These 5 should be the foundation of your diet. As you understand more about how to eat properly, you will adapt it to your ta…
/r/askTRP03/10/17 05:58 AM
3

Don't order meals from companies like this. Not that it's bad or anything, but it's overpriced. My diet is very simple, I eat a lot of eggs, ham, chicken and turkey, oatmeal, fruits, broccolis and quinoa. Go to your grocery store and check the prices for these. Cheaper than buying fast food garbage.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:41 PM
26

Either comfort her or leave her be for a while. Show some decency.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:36 PM
7

I can do many things into your hands.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 06:25 PM
1

The fuck is he? He looks like a turd.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:42 PM
18

I whip out my dick and slap him.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:33 PM
11

Next her. Actually no, go to her house, kill her cats and burn the whole place down. Jesus man. Reschedule, people are allowed to be ill. Stop over thinking everything.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 04:09 PM
47

I used to move out of the way of other people in the street. Now, with lifting and confidence and shit, I walk straight, with my head up and staring into the horizon, and 95% of people (save the ones beefier than I am) get the fuck out of my way. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 02:14 PM
3

My dad is the same. A fucking loser. Everytime we meet he just talks about how he failed his life, he's doing nothing of his day, etc. I just cut him off. I will give him 5min of my time every month to check if he's still alive but that's it.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:02 AM
1

Thanks, took a look and while providing useful advice, it doesn't answer my question. Your comment about China does though. I think culture make a big difference when it comes to gaming girls. What would be considered perfect game on an American chick inside the States might not be in Asia or Russia. I think I will adapt and try to smoothen the whole act when I get in Romania.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:21 PM
1

Dude wtf. Take advantage of it. Just tell some bullshit like you're doing part time modelling or selling fucking World of warcraft gold.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:16 PM
16

The wolf of wall street. Not only it is a great movie, there is some good social dynamics, guys that DGAF, and it will give you some momentum to get out there and get some shit done.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 02:09 PM
0

Black pill bullshit, fuck off.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 11:58 AM
8

I wish my dad was like yours.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 07:13 AM
13

Okay. Bye.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:24 PM
3

Tease girls.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:57 PM
4

Pump and dump. Move on.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 04:34 PM
1

You're fucking dense mate.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 04:21 PM
1

Yeah man, I'm rocking the Tony stark at the moment, total game changer.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:40 PM
8

9am : poop. 9.30am : one scoop of no-xplode. 9.31am : diarrhea. Typing this from the toilets, no idea when I'll be able to get back to my life.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:37 PM
6

I wish people would stop mixing up being educated and being intelligent. One does not necessarily imply the other.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 09:29 AM
1

Hoodie, sweating +2, douchebagness +5.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 08:40 AM
2

So did you buy that pantsuit?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 08:32 AM
2

I stopped reading at prime. I'm 30 now. When I was 24 I was shit. I was the silent wimpy kid playing fucking dungeons and dragons when everybody else was partying. I had one pity fuck at that age thanks to my decent facial features and that was it. Woke up at 27 and started to sort my shit. You're nowhere near your prime. My life is SO much better right now than 6 years ago. It's not even the same life, it's like 24yo me was some past life and I'm a different incarnation. And I know 5 years from…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:57 AM
1

Date on Thursday, don't text until Monday or Tuesday. It's Friday, it's the weekend, you have friends, a life, other girls, ie. no time for her.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:45 AM
2

Useless question. You can't know (it almost always do though), so just assume it will, work on your game and stop finding excuses.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:41 AM
1

Your mum's friend. Dayum son.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:33 AM
4

That's settling for mediocrity. "you should be happy with your situation because I make minimum wage and I can't get girls to talk to me or even look at me blablabla.". This is TRP mate, there is no sugar coating. OP feels, rightfully so, that his life sucks and he's wasting his time in a dead-end job. Well damn sure he is. Hamstering himself into "well some people have it harder than I do" is not going to help him challenge himself.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:30 AM
0

Pm me
/r/askTRP30/09/17 07:22 AM
3

Wrong.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:12 PM
3

Browsing reddit is a complete waste of time anyway. Stick with TRP, everything else is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:05 PM
2

Dude someone close to you died. Maintaining frame isn't being a robot. You're allowed to show a bit of weakness in these situations. As long as you pull yourself together and maintain strong frame in your upcoming interactions, there won't be any issue. My condoleances, hang in there.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 06:49 AM
1

I've read some of your posts and found this: "Any problems with anxious thoughts / I'm worthless no matter what because pussy / I've got a great life EXCEPT / ... meditate mother fucker. Keep that shit separated. If you let your ego or your desperation bleed out into every other sector of your life, OF COURSE you are going to feel like a worthless piece of shit, because no matter what you do nothing is ever good enough." Any recommended reads on meditation? That's something that is alien to me a…
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:31 PM
1

Agreed. However it is working against my goals. I'm too much in my head. Being a tad more complacent will make things smoother and reduce my blood pressure.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:19 PM
3

Yes at the moment I depend on external validation, that's the main issue I have. I improved, a lot. I'm so much better than I was a few months ago. I'm a complete different person than I was two years ago. And yet I'm still deeply unsatisfied, like it's not enough. Thanks for the book, will read it.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 04:08 PM
1

Oh you poor thing, your story is so touching, it really moved me! Not. I'm amazed you actually managed to shag her. You have no frame, it's nauseating. Read the sidebar, go lift, get your shit together man.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 08:18 AM
1

How has no fap affected you? Is it beneficial?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 08:13 AM
1

Would you be willing to share your no fap experience and the benefits?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 08:12 AM
8

No, which was precisely my point. You say you go the gym and you get some ego boost. Do you think after years lifting you'll get ego boosts? No, you'll be massive, you'll know how much you can lift, you'll be confident. That doesn't happen overnight, it takes time. Real confidence comes from years of mastery. The only thing you can do right now is improve on as much things as you can, and keep improving everyday. One day you will not even think about what you're doing because you'll have absolut…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:10 AM
7

Give time time.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:39 AM
2

I can relate because I do have some "girl bros".... That being said, it's only girls I've had sex with in the past. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, EVER, be bro with a chick you haven't fucked. Last time I made the same mistake as you, I ended up in the ER after downing my three months supplies of anti depressants with alcohol. I would do the following : invite her home and game her just like any other. She might resist, she might not. I was able to finger the girl I was in the same situation wit…
/r/askTRP25/09/17 08:11 AM
3

Oh poor you, you want your advice spoon-fed? This is TRP, stop fucking whining and read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 04:08 PM
0

Law 1.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 03:28 PM
-4

Try a dick in your ass next time?
/r/askTRP24/09/17 02:35 PM
1

It's not about the culture, it's about you. You're lacking reference points in your new country. I have a similar problem except that it's the opposite of yours : I suck in my home country and I get laid easily abroad. Why? Because I lived my teenage years in my home country, I was a pussy, I never had a girlfriend and so on until I was 23. Then I spent the major part of my life abroad, and I worked and improved my game there. Right now, I did make some effort and I'm having more success home, b…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:54 PM
3

You need to stop finding excuses and learn how to be a man. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:23 PM
0

Only to tell her to come over suck your dick. Maybe throw in a random text once and then when she's been a good puppy for a while.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:24 PM
4

Wrong sub bruh.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:21 PM
2

Shy isn't necessarily dumb. Some girls are just intimidated. Mix attraction with some comfort early on so she can open up. 100% dumb and nothing to say girls..... No fucking clue here. I'm a man of few words so I like having a girl that can contribute to the conversation.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:17 PM
18

Don't invite 2 girls at the same time unless for a threesome.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:12 PM
0

Rhetorical question.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:10 PM
2

How is that even relevant? So you're saying something to make her have fun? I always answer things that make me laugh on tinder, do you think I care if some random chick (which at this point is basically a random combination of bits) on the opposite end has fun?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:09 PM
16

You're not getting attention because your game is awful. Your post was painful to read. Did you have any fun doing this? No need to answer, the answer is no. Clubs aren't for everyone. I don't go because I'm low energy, I don't like dancing and I don't like shitty mainstream music. Long story short, I don't go to clubs because I don't have fun. I go to parties, or I just tinder. If you go to a club, and it feels like a fucking homework, obviously you're going to have a shitty time and your frame…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 03:00 PM
1

Who said it wasn't humour?
/r/askTRP23/09/17 02:53 PM
3

Netflix and chill. So you can make me a sandwich. So you can give me a massage. List goes on.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:16 PM
3

You're just begging for doxxing aren't you?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:58 AM
1

RIP
/r/askTRP22/09/17 09:07 PM
3

Lift.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:12 PM
28

"I don't think I'm clinically depressed. But I just want to stay in my house all the time and I avoid people as hard as I can. I want to do this forever." How long have you been this way? If 2 weeks+, newsflash, you are clinically depressed. “Depression is the flaw in love. To be creatures who love, we must be creatures who can despair at what we lose, and depression is the mechanism of that despair.”. From The Noonday Demon by Andrew Solomon, it's an amazing book about depression and you should…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 10:08 AM
2

I'll let the others give you tips on escalation and logistics. One pro-tip though: don't expect sex to be amazing. First time is usually quite shitty, you will have no idea what to do, you might feel uncomfortable being naked around someone else, etc. So don't overthink things too much, just do what you want do to when you want to do it. Don't ask for permission or some shit. Good luck and post a FR when you're done :)
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:11 AM
3

So? Just don't whistle and ask for their facebook instead.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 08:06 AM
1

Oh go-karting, now I love this shit. Unfortunately I live in the middle of fucksville with nothing to do. In the end we just netflix and chilled at my place.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 08:05 AM
1

"I'd love to show a bro the city and have some real fun/laughs" I'd probably get even more bored tbh. I think something is wrong with me.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:26 PM
1

Only lifting.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:04 PM
2

I am boring, not gonna say otherwise. But I think being bored make people boring, not the other way around. How do you find adventure and fun in everything ?
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:53 PM
1

Hobbies include coding, reading, movies and hitting on new girls.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:41 PM
1

Would you consider blue pill though? We already fucked several times, and the gender doesn't matter, I would do the same for a dude.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:26 PM
5

Absolutely normal. I usually have sex raw because I don't feel anything with a condom, no matter how thin, and I lose erection super fast.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:14 PM
4

Imo glasses improve your looks if your style doesn't suck. My past gfs always told me I was much hotter with glasses on. Don't like wearing them outside of work though.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:10 PM
1

Or not.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:08 PM
3

You don't. It's working as intended.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:56 PM
0

Ended up fucking her in the end.... But it's cool, that got me a flat for the city I'll be living in super cheap ahahah
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:00 AM
0

Not for game nor social value. Not fucking either. I'm moving to Romania in a month and there is a girl from the city where I'll be living that wanted to meet (tinder match). So it might help bootstrapping my social circle there as I won't be knowing anybody. She's really not good looking though.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 08:01 PM
2

Yeah no I don't fuck 5s. Ever. I don't go lower than 6.5s, even if it means no sex for months. I meant solely as using them to get more opportunities.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 07:25 PM
1

Ah my bad.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 02:00 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:57 AM
1

By not feeling guilty. You can't save the world. You can't make everyone happy. You will make some people happy, you will hurt others. It is how it is. Put yourself first and foremost. If you enjoy your time together, by all means do it. If not, next her and don't give it second thoughts. You're not evil by doing so, only human.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:21 AM
8

I stopped reading at the first few lines. Sidebar. Lift. Welcome to the red pill.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:06 AM
0

Yes. Bye.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:04 AM
4

Blue pill advice. Don't listen to this shit. It's up to you op. I think 6 dates is fucking insane and imo most people here would agree. If you had abundance you wouldn't even post about this. Do you enjoy spending time with her expecting nothing in return? Or do you go out of your way to meet her expecting her to drop her panties at one point? That's the question you need to ask yourself.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:00 AM
130

"On the other hand, those who had less attractive husbands didn’t feel any pressure to diet and get fit, which makes a woman happier in the relationship." Yeah go eat and become a fucking hippo while your BB husband slaves away his life for you fat ass. Pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:46 AM
1

Never outshine the master.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 04:12 AM
2

Pretty cool, I'll try it.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:27 AM
1

Step 1: fuck her. Step 2: fuck her more. Step 3: ???? Step 4: PROFIT
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:23 AM
9

"I mean, a serious career consumes your damn life." Does it though? When I was running my business, I had no life at the beginning, but after less than a year I was making 10k per month with 15hours of work a week. Being a corporate drone will definitely consume your life, but I don't think that qualifies as a successful career. Just because you do fancy stuff for a fancy guy / a fancy corp doesn't make you less of a slave that if you were flipping burgers. If you don't spend your time how you w…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 03:22 AM
2

Grow balls. Stand by your decision. They don't like your decision? Tell them to fuck off and find better things to spend your time on.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 11:41 AM
2

In your runescape clan? Seriously?
/r/askTRP17/09/17 11:39 AM
3

Yeah basically the only thing you enjoy is "not living". It's depression mate, very little doubt about it. You need to see someone asap or it will spiral out of control. Depression feeds on itself. I've been there, it's extremely hard to get over on your own. What you need is physical activity + therapy + love (from family and friends) + maybe meds.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 10:50 PM
4

Depression. You need to see a therapist. If you don't take care of it, depression will FUCK UP your life. I had major depression from 15yo to a few years ago. Don't let it take control of your life. You need to lift, now more than ever. Lifting is a natural antidepressant. Spend time doing things you truly enjoy, even though depression might make them dull, it will come back eventually. Don't wait, don't procrastinate.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 10:36 PM
1

Ouch that's brutal.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 07:20 PM
1

Thanks mate, you too. Waiting for that FR :)
/r/askTRP16/09/17 12:41 PM
1

Then do it.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 12:35 PM
3

Isn't that a good thing to do though? Fake it till you make it? I mean from the reaction of OP, looks like it's working quite well.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:49 AM
1

Well. Like everything in life, balance is key. I do agree that being too intolerant (if the girl is 22minutes late to a date fuck that cunt and next! Yeah no) is not healthy. What I meant was, be lenient as far as you don't compromise your values and your ego. In your situation, I would be okay. Because I'm still light years away from being a Chad, because I don't have abundance yet, but mostly because if I make that extra effort of being tolerating and it happens that the girl will just treat m…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:41 AM
2

Irrelevant. Your frame / game was just not strong enough on this particular moment to escalate further. What are you okay with? What will you tolerate from her? Will you let it slide if you go out next week and she makes you pay for a meal? Refuses to kiss you? Refuses to fuck? Only you know what you're okay with and what you aren't.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:27 AM
3

Don't be okay with that. Strive to improve.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:24 AM
6

I think you have it backwards. Every woman will orgasm one way or the other. Some will require penetration, some will require being eaten, some can't resist being touched on specific body area (my last plate couldn't resist being touched on her left collarbone, go figure), or any/all combination of the above. What's important here is that every woman is different and every woman have some specific buttons to press. You just have to find them. If you don't, ask her. People here might disagree wit…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 11:23 AM
1

Don't be rude with aspies bro, aspies are awesome :)
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 08:57 AM
1

Is she a plate yet? I don't mind talking about past hook-up after sex, but before? Hell noes.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:34 AM
3

Typical coder type? That's a cliché. I'm a one myself, and, yes I'm borderline asperger and intj (so I'm quite nerdy when it comes to the work), but in a social situation people don't believe me when I say I'm a developer because I look more like a frat guy. Whatever. Piece of advice though. Don't do it if it's only for the money. You'll be fucking miserable. Coding is hard (unless you're a framework dev, but that's pathetic) and it takes an enormous amount of time.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:29 AM
1

It might be depression. You sound like you're quite satisfied with your life. Do you still have challenges to tackle? A lack of challenge will make any man worth his salt lethargic.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:24 AM
2

Nothing changes. Do it, props to you for learning about trp at your age. Don't ever talk about it though, especially not to other guys (they will rat out) or you're screwed.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 08:22 AM
1

See man that's your problem right there. "been an hour and she hasn't responded." Move on with your life! You should already be chatting with other girls. And if that one happen to send you a message and wants to come over, fine, if not, you won't even think about it because you'll be busy doing something more interesting.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:47 PM
2

You already shagged. I would let it slip once and reschedule. If she flakes again, next. Honestly though, why even be bothered by this. Maybe her excuse is trash, maybe not. Who gives a shit?
/r/askTRP15/09/17 05:28 PM
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Take a shit, take a picture of the shit, send it to her with tb following message: "just pooped out this guy."
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:05 PM
3

I was like you with my first girlfriend (pathetic story really). I was empty, had no substance, no goal, nothing. Every time I remember it I can't help but think how fucking hilarious a girl like her (8, funny, popular) fucked a sad sack of shit like me. I expected her to give my life a meaning. Well, she didn't, duh. You expect women to give your life a meaning, to fill the void inside you. They won't. No woman ever will. What do you do now? You give your life a meaning. You find your mission. …
/r/askTRP15/09/17 11:38 AM
11

I feel like the BP mentality is strong within you. Apply dread.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:34 AM
9

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not fucking her, you're her girlfriend. You did everything wrong with her. She saw you as her girlfriend. Move on. It will take you an incredible amount of energy, strategy, and game to get her to fuck you, and at your level its quite unlikely for it to happen. Lift hard, read the sidebar, stop acting like a weakling, go out and have fun. Build self-esteem, build your frame. If you bump into her, don't give a fuck. Don't act like you don't give a …
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:31 AM
9

Easy. Drop by her place, go full caveman and shag her brains out. I wouldn't hesitate nor regret it.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:21 PM
1

It's therapy.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:05 AM
1

Have you heard of EMDR? I've heard numerous cases of successful remission of ptsd with it.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 10:17 PM
1

Well I won't speak for ADHD as I don't have it, but I have a great deal of experience with anxiety as well. It first started in school, when getting shit grades and had to tell my parents about it. Then when I was in uni and skipping classes to play video games, my parents knew about it and would drop by randomly to see if I was at uni or slacking off. I was anxious all the time. It followed me around until a few years ago. What I realized though, is that I get anxious every time I do something …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 10:03 PM
3

As someone who's been on antidepressants for almost a decade, I strongly suggest against toying with these. First of all, depression is far from being understood, despite what doctors say, and antidepressants are kind of a gamble when it comes to relieving symptoms, and side effects. The same dosage on two individuals with the same pathology can have wildly different effects. Some antidepressants can cause extremely unwanted side effects, like lack of energy, overeating, getting more depressed (…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 09:45 PM
2

Look mate, height is one thing you can (virtually) do nothing about. So you can either let go of your insecurity and work on things you can actually improve, or just spend your energy thinking about something you can do NOTHING about. Neither of those will make you taller, but the former has the potential to make you attractive. I'm barely taller than you are, I have protruding ears, hell I'm actually borderline asperger. I don't give a shit about any of these facts (I even enjoy being aspi), an…
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:43 PM
3

Amen.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:36 PM
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Just milk her for whatever you need for as long as you can. Money, sex, whatever.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:34 PM
17

Being autistic doesn't necessarily make you unable to get in bed with women. I'm borderline aspi, and while it DOES provide me with a challenge when it comes to socialising and dating, I've still shagged north of a hundred different girls (none of them being landwhales). I'm in no way an alpha nor is my game exceptional, and while not being aspi would make my life easier, it's not a curse either.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 06:28 PM
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"How to show her that i have options in life etc?" <- By actually having options. My 2 cents. Keep it simple, don't give it much thoughts. If she denies sex, go seek it somewhere else. For real. Don't pretend, just see girls on the side. Either you do get sex and on the side and she will work harder on pleasing you, or she won't and you'll just dodge a bullet. No matter what you choose to do, stand up for what you think is right, and don't settle for less than you deserve. Good luck.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:13 PM
1

Yet another read ahah :) Thanks!
/r/askTRP11/09/17 09:20 PM
28

What a trash human being she is. Your frame is weak though: "she FORCED me to meet her", "I would prefer blablabla", "I like you but this way too early and we need to be smart". You should really avoid her. Even if you do manage to fuck her with a condom, and flushing it afterwards, she sounds crazy enough to pull out rape accusations.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 07:39 AM
12

7+ have personalities as well, it's just more uncommon. I'd never EVER fuck a 2-5, even with a stolen dick.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 07:36 AM
2

I doubt this would work though. I mean, if you offer to rub her clit, she will probably associate you with that poor bob who's rubbing her clit at her "meditation" (sigh) sessions and is treated like a sad sack of shit, it's unlikely that she will feel any need for you to stick your cock inside. My 2 cents.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:29 AM
0

I think it's pretty damn dangerous, but whatever mate. If you want to know more, go browse silk road and darknet markets.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 08:18 PM
1

That's good. I've never considered it that way. I will meditate on that, thank you. ♂
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:43 PM
1

I'm not using it as an excuse. My character is to think too much about everything. And trust me when I say I used to overthink, maybe 10 times more than I do now. I used to try to predict what would my answer lead to in any given conversation. I was literally branching in my mind with multiple possible answers and exploring the resulting possibilities before actually speaking an answer out loud. Can you imagine how fucking exhausting that was, not mentioning unnatural and unsettling. So I worked…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:15 PM
1

I'm an INTJ bro. Overcomplicating simple things is what I do. Why solve a rubik's cube with two hands if I can solve one in each hand at the same time?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:54 PM
1

Thanks, good luck to you too! I feel like being introverted is harder in today's society, but we have many qualities that most people don't have, so let's make good use of them.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:45 PM
1

Ah funny that you mention Sisyphus, I just watched Triangle (2009) which is based on that. I recommend it if you like weird movies like Cube and stuff. About business, I was botting into MMOrpgs and selling stuff. But basic principles apply no matter what you're doing. These are the key things I learned during these 2 and half years: you need to find something people want, or need, or create that want/need. For me, it was that people with money and no time wanted quick progression (powerful weap…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 05:42 PM
1

I must admit that's not something I would have considered, but I will try it and see what happens.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:47 PM
1

Is that so? Wouldn't it make me smell more desperate or something?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:25 PM
1

How did it help you?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:25 PM
1

Will do.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:23 PM
2

That is one of my goal. Unfortunately, at the moment, I can't help but feel I do need it.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:22 PM
1

Cheers, will give that book a try.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:22 PM
1

Well, I just lift as hard as I can and always add weight / one rep from one workout to the other. I just go for moderate bulking (+15%) until I feel I'm too fat, then cut down for a while till I don't feel fat anymore.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 04:21 PM
1

I was simply botting on various MMOrpgs and selling stuff I gathered for profit. It was very lucrative, although time-consuming, and I got bored after 2 years. At first it did occupy my mind a lot, but then I would only do it for the cash, and it wasn't satisfying anymore. That's why I stopped.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 03:55 PM
1

So if I get your point right, keep working on improving myself, and give time time ?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:16 PM
1

Could you elaborate?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 01:14 PM
1

I don't tolerate shit, that doesn't mean I'm impervious to blows to my self-esteem. But fair enough, I get your point. What would you suggest then?
/r/askTRP09/09/17 01:13 PM
1

I am unsure myself. I think I avoid social interactions because I suck at them, and brainwashed myself into thinking I don't need them because I can't manage to succeed in creating a social circle. That's why I posted in TRP in the first place. I don't want to lie to myself. I genuinely enjoy spending time (and a lot of it) on my own, but not 100% of my time.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:42 PM
1

Well I've always struggled to find like-minded people. People where I live have very different tastes than I do.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:37 PM
2

I need woman validation to keep my self-esteem high, that I agree. I also agree that it is not a good thing. However, I am not a nice guy in the weak sense of the word. I tolerate no shit from anyone, be it male or female. I think the most representative example of this is that I wasn't tolerating the shit employers put me through, I told them to fuck themselves, quit, started my business, and lived of it. The few relationships I was in (from Vietnam on, because before that, yes, I was a patheti…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:36 PM
0

I've never been to any music festival actually. I don't have friends like I said and I don't really want to go their on my own, it's depressing. Thing is, I'm not really interesting in meeting other people. I don't know if I was born like that or all these years of bullying and ostracizing made me like that, but I just don't care about people. I've always had more fun on my own than with people, so it's very hard to even consider that I will not be wasting my time hanging out with people....
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:57 AM
3

Thanks for your reply♂, I completely rely with your MMA experience. Coding was new for me as well and in July as I was taking the entrance exam I met some cool guys which I was able to have an interesting conversation with, about coding obviously. I have nobody to share my passions with and it is alienating, that's why I'm moving to Romania to study there, as people are more tolerant to nerdy people like me than where I live (where they're incredibly shallow and ostracizing of anyone not conform…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:43 AM
0

Technically I'm not brit but I spent 2 years there so I speak like them, my accent is british as well, and apparently I look brit (never figured out that one). I'll just keep my mind busy with working out and coding for now I guess :) ♂
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:29 AM
2

No sugar is good :) I did a 6-months keto myself and it was amazing. Back on carbs for the gym though. I wouldn't say I'm failing, because I was a real loser in my twenties, and I improved. So even if I haven't reached my goals yet, I'm working on them, and that's what matters. However I usually always find a way to make things go my way, but I haven't been able to with girls. If we were out somewhere and you were pointing out a girl and telling me to go seduce her, I could not. I would only be …
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:25 AM
0

My favorite genre is melodic death, but I also listen to softer stuff like Prog or Heavy, or more extreme with bands like The Dillinger Escape Plan and Meshuggah. I'd say my all-time favorite albums are: New World Shadows (Omnium Gatherum) Pitch Black Progress (Scar Symmetry) Obzen (Meshuggah) Altered States (Tesseract) Visions (Haken) The Days of Grays (Sonata Arctica) The Living Infinite (Soilwork) Portal of I (Ne Obliviscaris) Nightfall in Middle-Earth (Blind Guardian) Powerslave (Iron Maiden…
/r/askTRP09/09/17 11:19 AM
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