Cheated..? on my (kind of) girlfriend, not sure how to handle it.

SirAttackHelicopter · 2017-09-18T15:37:17+00:00

Seriously? You're gonna be that guy? There are only two reasons why a girl in this situation would suddenly breakup and then suddenly crawl back begging into your arms. This is TRP 101. She obviously doesn't respect you enough to treat you like a decent human being.

1) she was having an emotional affair with someone and decided to take it up a physical level, but needs to be 'technically single' in order to escape the guilt of cheating.

2) she was having an emotional affair with someone and decided to take it to the next level, but he turned her down.

BestSC86 · 2017-09-18T16:12:55+00:00

She broke up to fuck another dude but he was just interested in the pussy so she is back.

Hard next the slut.

max_peenor · 2017-09-18T15:50:48+00:00

After 2 weeks of not talking, she told me she regretted everything and loved me.

This means the new dick didn't work out. You need to be the cleanup crew until she finds a new dick. Do you want to be the guy with the mop?

I've just been very apologetic.

Which is why she acted out in the first place.

Next. More sidebar.

Rian_Stone · 2017-09-18T16:18:39+00:00

Funny story, there's a subreddit here for women who get off on being 'raped'. Not cosplay rape, but actively work at getting men to do it.

So this user, one of their main ones, constantly opened relationships with her husband. she got the good stuff, he, sorta... Finally, one day, on some kind of 'challenge' she had him rail another girl in front of her, while she called her useless, and how she is 'stealing her man'. And she gave the guy shit, because it just felt bad for the exact thing she was doing for years.

Anyways, it's a good read, if you can find what I'm talking about, I won't post it here because frankly, I don't trust the users here not to act like fucking retards and shit up their sub.

This all makes sense, her situation, and yours, when you accept the fact that she's solipsistic. You aren't a person, with your own desires. You, and Chad, are setpieces in her one woman play, and the rest is her screenwriting attempts at making it the greatest story she was ever told.

SirKolbath · 2017-09-18T15:25:50+00:00

What should I do here?

You should read the sidebar is what you should do.

DeepRedTomato · 2017-09-18T15:39:59+00:00

You should not talk to her unless in person and try to see other women in the meantime - you've entered her frame by being an apologetic bitch by not owning your business. Don't get seen if you want to keep things smooth, moron. Honestly you should just break up with her if she's not doing it for you.

Title	Cheated..? on my (kind of) girlfriend, not sure how to handle it.
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Date	September 18, 2017 3:22 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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