Got caught red handed, is there a way to recover this situation?

[deleted] · 2017-09-10T10:33:29+00:00

Did you have the "We're exclusive' talk?

Yes? Then you cheated. Own it. She'll either stay or go. The decision is hers. Strangely, sometimes owning your shit and being unapologetic about being a man, plus the preselection of knowing other girls want you will create the condition in which a girl will stay. They'd often rather share an alpha than pityfuck a beta.

No? Then she has no right to place her unspoken expectations on you. Tell her so. It's called a covert contract. Again, own your shit and be unapologetic.

It's a big shit test. Don't cave.

t_jones730 · 2017-09-10T08:59:05+00:00

It's lost, do not try to recover. Be as stoic as you can and agree with her decision without a thought. Be as removed as you can, almost to the point of ghosting.

The lack of attention and care towards her reaction to you cheating could drive her nuts and make her want you. Who knows. Test some shit out.

kiekrzanin · 2017-09-10T10:37:33+00:00

No, we didn't have this talk yet. We only kissed during the last date and I haven't even been to her place yet.

Title	Got caught red handed, is there a way to recover this situation?
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Date	September 10, 2017 8:32 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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