So... We cant always be in that zen like state where we feel like alpha, where we dont care about rejections, can go up to anygirl and almost pull any girl. And everyone have been there at least once.

My problem is I can get there and have no trouble getting there ... but only with alcohol. But obviously the alcohol is bad way and kind of a shortcut (and it fucks my lifting rutine up) and doesnt remove the real problem.

Those who have been there - in my shoes: how did you went from this seemingless harmless habit to real proogress? (I guess its a right question i wanted to ask.)