What are your thoughts on tomboys vs girly girls for LTRs?

Archwinger · 2017-02-09T17:42:03+00:00

There's no such thing as either.

Women don't really have "personalities" in the traditional sense. They have masks they wear, dances they perform, and strategies they execute.

Tomboys, girly-girls, whatever. They're all women. Whatever a particular woman is acting like, this is what she believes will be successful at getting her sex from hot guys, time/attention/resources from successful guys, and validation from everyone around her.

Because those are the things that make her happy. The actual act of being a tomboy or girly-girl doesn't give her happiness, only the rewards she reaps from her behaviors.

So in summary, neither role a girl is playing is inherently superior than the other role. You treat them all like women.

beachbloke · 2017-02-09T17:43:23+00:00

Same thing. Count the red flags not their personal preferences. If the tomboy does only "guy things" and has only guy friends, big red flag. If she likes being outside and is utilitarian, not a red flag.

savagedealer · 2017-02-09T17:57:42+00:00

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Title	What are your thoughts on tomboys vs girly girls for LTRs?
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Date	February 9, 2017 5:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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