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[–]ashleyshafer271 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Only if you are a STEM major and it is top ranked in that major. And if so start applying for scholarships.
[–]sumethreuaweiei0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, I'm in STEM (CS+Business). Any scholarship recommendations besides r/scholarships and Scholly?
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[–]Certifiedfamilylaw0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Depends on what you want to do. What major? Grad school? Near by? In an environment conducive to success?
[–]sumethreuaweiei points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Want to go into finance as an engineer
Major: CS + Business, will attempt math minor and finance concentration
Grad school: No, may consider if I get paid for MBA
Nearby: State school is <1 hour, other school is out-of-state about 20 hours. However, I'd like to get away from home.
Environment: State school is in small city and countryside, other school is massive city
[–]Googoots[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know it sounds great to get away, and everyone has their reasons. But be sure you are really prepared to be AWAY if you are 20 hours away. I mean socially, and practically (self sufficient). My son is at a school about 6 hrs away and he's doing ok, but it's a pain in the ass logistically.
[–]Certifiedfamilylaw0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
DO IT!
Why?
[–]Certifiedfamilylaw0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I made a similar decision and it made all the difference
Can you please elaborate on your experiences?
[–]Certifiedfamilylaw0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can send you something later, dont want to right now.
You know what you want to do. You know the pro's and cons.
Is >$70k the cost from the school's web site? Is it a state school?
If it's a private school and you have decent grades, parents are lower or lower-middle class (or are in a politically protected class), almost no one pays the cost shown on the web site.
You have to apply to find out what their offer is though, and you can bargain to some extent (they have all your parents financial info so you can't cry poor).
My daughter is at a private school (web site says >$40k) and she got like $10k in grants right off the bat and her grades were mediocre and my income is higher middle class.
[–]Googoots[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The house and real estate does not factor into your FAFSA. Only income and cash and investments.
Apply and see what they offer. It usually only costs like $50 or so to apply. You don't have to accept their offer.
It almost certainly won't be $70k. My son, with mediocre grades, applied to a school that had web site cost of $67k and his cost would have been $45k. And my income is over $100k.
You won't have to cook - except in a microwave maybe...
I mean practical stuff like cleaning a bathroom, laundry, shopping, public transportation, budgeting money, budgeting time, waking up on time, getting to class, doing homework... all the stuff being on your own entails.
Some kids get experience with that before they head off. Others have mom & dad deal with that stuff and it's a total shock to them when they get dropped off at school. Some figure it out, others have a hard time adapting.
Some who don't go home every weekend. But if you are many hours away, that's not an option.
Socially - there is lots of dead time in college. Some isolate themselves and don't adapt. Others make friends and have a great time.
My son had two roommates and one spent all his free time in his dorm playing games, and never adapted. He dropped out after the first semester.
[–]sumethreuaweiei0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do I improve socially? I feel like I'm actually autistic
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